Miami Trips Ruin Friendships | What Are Friendships in 2024 

This is why I don’t drink I know how I get and I refuse to let my guard down around random men or women

She’s blaming her “friends “ because she made the decision to get drunk and hang out with a pack of dudes she didn’t know ? 🙄. Okay.

Girl I’m like you. I’ll be so boring on a girl’s trip. And it’s scary to be so drunk around strangers. It’s a huge fear of mine.

All this tells me is that if you truly wanna test your friendship go on a Miami trip cause baby damn, friendships implode as soon as they board the plane😬😬😬😬

And big ups for that lady from going from needing 200 to having her own house! Love that for her

She didn’t take the broke Becky, but still took the broke dudes.

Fist girl has no accountability. It’s your fault you got sloppy blackout drunk. I actually think it’s more fathomable to believe one of the girls went into her room and took her stuff. The second woman was so beautiful! You can tell she has a great personality and is a good friend. Ladies be responsible. As an adult getting blackout drunk in public is dangerous!!

I’m sorry this girl does not take any accountability. She invited them dudes on the boat. One of her friends was literally trying to leave them and go. As she said in the story. And she decided to stay and wait, even though it made them late. She got to the point where she was incapacitated. I agree that her friends should not have allowed those guys to come into the Airbnb while she was drunk off her rockers. But what I don’t agree with is her thinking that they should’ve stayed there and babysit her. All they needed to do is make sure that she got to where she needed to get to safely. And make sure they locked the doors behind them. But that doesn’t mean they need to end their night. Because she doesn’t have any self-control.

The First Lady , you threw up cause you drank and smoked , worst thing to do is smoke when drunk ! Automatically get the spins

Girlie number one needs to accept accountability for her behavior as well. That wasnt solely her friends fault. She was lucky he only picked her lock and took her money and didn't take or leave her with something else. Ladies, we gotta be careful, hell, men too! You gotta be careful out here. I hope she learned from that. Girlie number 2... I like her. She was down to earth and kept it real.

Yesss girl!! I’m the same way bout that arrival time!! I don’t play!! I rather be hours early than to be late!!

1st girl has 0 accountability for her poor judgement

This is why for me personally, holidays are relaxation breaks. Lets go to bakeries, cafes, the beach, museums, historical sights, art galleries, spa days, markets, beaches and resturant dinners. Thats it.

I lost my son a yr ago, my mom 3 yrs ago, totally rebuilding my life. I see I didn’t miss anything, while caring for my son. Im grateful to have this worldly knowledge and inner wisdom to avoid troublesome ppl, especially bad situations. I love the African girl, she needs to hang out with her family. Seems she is higher opulent type personality and need to avoid broke ppl. That’s how broke minded and hateful ppl act. They work hard to embarrass and pull your value down.

i strongly believe Miami is a portal. it’s got an energy of splitting up relationships & given its history with slavery & so many families being torn apart, it makes sense. this is a place where you can vacation, but yall have to understand the energy you’re walking into, set intentions to stay protected & grounded so none of that penetrates yall, & constantly check in spiritually with one another throughout the trip. that’s gonna require a deeper level of understanding between ppl, like sister friends. honor every feeling so if one friend feels off, LISTEN. i’ve heard stories of couples going down for trips w no issues & all of a sudden start arguing, friends all of a sudden switching up bc energies will take over especially when you’re intoxicated with spirits!! that allow actual spirits to come into play. don’t let it!

“Why would I at 38 want it to seem like I have never laughed” yaaasss girl!

57:29 the second womans break down of beauty standards and insecurities breeding consumerism hits harder every time I hear it. This video is a few years old but the truth stands firm no matter how much time has passed.

Lol went on a trip with my bestie, came back closer🤞🏾 these people had bad friendships before they boarded the plane 🙃

I love storytimes. It helps me clean up and do work while I’m home lol

I’m literally braiding my hair as we speak. I couldn’t finish it last night so this is perfect timing 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

When you drink on water, it is not the same as drinking on land. Your body is not grounded and there is continuous motion through your chakras. You will definitely be more drunk on the boat then you would on land with the same amount of drinks and when you get to the land and step a few steps onto the ground, you’re gonna get an additional wave of drunkenness. I learned that the hard way.

This is why you don't invite strangers back to your hotel or place you're staying. Its so dangerous.

Remember you're grown your friends are not responsible for you. 1. No accountability 2. Giving money that you don't have and going on a trip you can't afford. 3. Meeting up with people you met on social media. All of these women have red flags with them.

If you want to know if your friendship is real and solid, go on a trip with them to Miami lol .. Miami will definitely expose your friendships lol

I used to live in Miami, and she is dead on about what is catered to down there. I was a strong Miami 2/10 😂😂😂

that first girl is..... something

As tore up as the first one was, they could’ve pick pocketed her on the boat .

The first lady was way too loose. It was her who invited them, and it was her that got robbed. Isn't that ironic, don't you think 💬.

Sorry he cleaned her purse out on the boat. Remember you didnt know were your purse was at getting off the boat. Your purse was empty when you locked the door and went to sleep.

I Donna what kinda friends y’all have. EVERY trip to Miami with any of my friends was epic. EPIC.

I'm not giving nobody my last two grand! Wtf I'm sorry friend but you're irresponsible and going to have us both homeless!

The problem is when folk showing up on trips with NO MONEY!!!! This why I travel with my man or just solo!!!

Absolutely do not mess with boarding times

That Second Lady dropping gems

I aint making no friends on a holiday.

Love ur videos These ladies dodge some bullets some friends aren’t meant for a lifetime

girl, hold your liquor better, youre no hero in this story. God Bless!

As wierd as it is to come on a trip with no money. I wasn’t raised to sit infront of people I claim to care about, KNOW they are hungry and have food and not share. Like yall really be treating your friends like that? Yea she shoulda brought money but… you couldn’t give your friend some fries?

That second video really got me how you going to be going through an eviction you know you didn't pay your rent and didn't have the nerve to go travel... What I don't understand how somebody can even do that. That's crazy people priorities these days I don't understand that. You know you didn't pay your rent.... And then got the nerve to take the money that you should be giving your landlord to pay that rent in them extra late fees and have Courtney and everything else or either get taken that money and preparing to move you had a nerve to go travel. I can't with society in 2024

I understand how she feel but she gotta take some accountability too. You don’t get drunk like that period. Especially outside of your home. I don’t care who you are with, your safety is your responsibility. You can’t get blackout drunk.

Jess, thank you for sharing this video...Miss Caroline, is definitely a friend I would love in my life...No I don't know her but the way she told the story, and responded to ig'nant 😂 comments were so graceful and classy.... Might be the reason I don't have many friends now bc it seems women like her are hard to find or meet.❤❤❤

Ladies always have your own money! Even if it’s a $20 have some money. ❤

If I'm On Vacation I'm NOT DRINKING!!! I Will Be That Sober Lame A## Because Best Believe I'm Not About To Get Robbed, In A Fight, Etc!!!

I’m cleaning up, decluttering and taking out my braids to put a new braid style in now

2nd comment also - The way in which all good people of all types survive in this world is by doing the opposite of what out nature may dicern - sympathy empathy ... and even love - it dosent pay off in the end 9/10 ur going to regret it - only mirror what people give to u - in energy in soul in material - use ur life wisely 🎉

I never understood why people get drunk at fun events. I thought people get drunk to forget their problems. How are you enjoying the moment and creating an epic memory when you're out of it? Makes no sense to me.

The blk girl friends with white girl, seemed like she tried to pull a fast one. Why would she add her friend last minute with no money. Girl you right too, don’t be getting wild bc someone spending money. That’s rule and those dudes looking for the easiest girl, who won’t challenge them. It doesn’t matter if you in town or out. I saw this frequently in my city and out of town in my 20s. I would never, especially the way these dudes gossip like women.

I would of asked sis for my money soon as we got to the register and I saw she had it too. Tf she know whats going on

The only person I have been on holiday with is my best friend because she is a Taurus and I am a Scorpio so we the same person. I hate going out with ppl that work but are broke.😂😂😂😂

Second girl was irresponsible 😂

You gushing over these women were the best part of the video. They seem like some nice, chill girls, and so do you. You dont seem boring, but reasonable!

It’s not her fault she was drunk???? Yeah that’s all on you.

The second girl made some really dumb decisions. She shouldn’t have went in that Miami trip, she shouldn’t have loaned that money!! Don’t ever loan anything that you need!! They should’ve postponed it to the next year if money was that damn tight. Glad to see she’s in a better place now in her life. Probably a result from her big heart. ❤

1st time here .... damn i get GOOG ENERGY here fr all love - new subbie 🎉❤

31:47 i’m the same way. When I tell people I wanna get there a couple hours early they look at me like I’m crazy. But me too I wanna sip some wine. I wanna eat little food look around chill out and just relax. that’s why I like to get there early. I totally get you Jess 😇😇😇😘😘

I love your channel content commentary I can't wait till you get more subs because you definitely deserve it keep grinding ❤❤❤❤you are going to make it ❤❤❤

This is exactly why i don't smoke or drink! i need to be fully alert and coherent at ALL TIMES!

Imma need a playlist now for the next time I braid my hair, I needed this weeks ago 😂

im trying to figure out why she thought the other girls was supposed to know that he was using their money. On a lot of this it sounds like she is mad at herself that wasn't on her P's and Q's. If they were all drunk, why would think they were more aware than she was? she the dummy for drinking around a group of strangers

I didn’t even get past the first story and I’m like the girl staying inside is broke 😭😭 I never been but I’ve heard from some ppl I know these friendships fall apart bc these girls are broke half the time bc they think these men they meet out there will pay for them orBut I’m like you, I’m not doing nothing strange for some change 😂 no judgment but I can’t do it lol

So I think she had a swimsuit on so that could be why she left her pants.

The first girl…bad decisions all the way around. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m happy she lived to tell the story.

I don’t understand why do ppl care how much money others bring with them. I travel in groups all the time and I don’t care if you choose to stay and not participate due to money. Long as you don’t ask me for anything enjoy the pool, go on walks by yourself, sit in the room, whatever we’ll vibe when I get back from my activities. Im not pocket shaming anyone. For some just being in Miami is enough (not me) but to each their own. Someone else not having money does not stop my vacation 🤷🏽‍♀️

The so called friends knew everything 😢 that's what I think

You can NOT do Miami with 200. We spent 60 each breakfast lunch and dinner.

Those 'friendships' are transactional and toxic, i.e. NOT friendships at all!!

Me and my bestfrann 🙄 she wore me out lol

When she was talking about the pretty privilege that’s true.. you might be the shit in your city but you go somewhere else it’s not the same.. I’m on the heavy side an in my city I can turn a head or two but when I went on vacation them ladies was built different and the guys was on it I was like oh naw I need to go home I get no love out here lol..

With that second girl it’s crazy people are

1:14:45 The weird friend had a crush on the last lady. We Cancers are known for our dryness and sarcasm when we can’t have what we want.

I’m lost and i think this may be the case of someone thinking they’re the victim when it’s their fault. Listening to HER tell the story she was THE MAIN ONE WORRIED ABT THE DUDES no one else was concerned abt the dudes but her. Even the “broke” friend that was actually feeling one of the guys stayed tf home she wasn’t worried abt em. She was the one saying it would be impossible to have fun without the men around. She the one that forced it and waited til the point that her friend was begging to leave the dudes. So late the driver was LIVID…. then when they came and said they didn’t have the money or all the money she still let them come on and vibe even though she said they was BROKE meaning they wasn’t going to magically have the rest after. Yet she’s talking all this shit abt how no one was or should have paid for the broke friend or let her slide. (Which i agree) but my point is she was willing to let the broke ass dudes (3 of them combined were all broke might i add) slide and have fun while being broke but not ole girl it was a big deal abt ole girl being broke but it was water off a dunks back when 3 grown dudes couldn’t pay $50? Ok lol. You as an adult got pissy sloppy drunk around strange men that were already broke bums. Yet you’re claiming your so street smart soley bc you’re black and they wasn’t yet black ppl most times don’t move like that with random men especially in miami. You didn’t move smart then when it back fired you blamed it all on the friends as if it was their job to baby sit you while also saying you didn’t want to be a party popper like huh? Not being a party popper & being SMART is not getting pissy drunk on the first activity of the day around randos that’s broke. The friends shouldn’t have allowed the dudes in the bnb but any and everything else was on her and her failing to realize that shows me the friends dodged a bullet.

Okay, this is why I don't have in town friends all my friends are in other states. And we all have our own Money. I don't babysit, loan money, and if you call me after midnight, I am not answering the phone. If you cannot afford Forever 21 you need to take your ass home. I am confused.. okay.. Take Notes kids.

That second video really got me how you going to be going through an eviction you know you didn't pay your rent and have the nerve to go travel... What I don't understand is how somebody can even do that. That's crazy people priorities these days I don't understand that. You know you didn't pay your rent.... And then got the nerve to take the money that you should be giving your landlord to pay that rent in them extra late fees and have Court cost and everything else or either get take that money and preparing to move you had a nerve to go travel. I can't with society in 2024

“Who said that” ~ Porsha 😂😂😂😂

Second story sounds like they both broke

That girl was never her friend 😮 how do ppl go out of town with ppl they’re not close with? That’s crazy to me, I go with a man or not at all. Watching these traveling stories is enough to use caution. Even families experiencing ppl breaking into their rooms or bnb. It’s crazy, and glad I partied in Miami before the world got crazy.

1:02:31 that Nigerian sass coming out. I love her. She is soooo classy baby!

I’d love to go out with this girl!!! She sounds like so much fun her personality is fantastic!!!!

It’s also weird that she was willing to let broke Billy mooch but not broke Becky.

I’m not braiding my hair but I’m laying my edges so guess I’ll tune in lol 😂

I’m pretty sure when she got on the boat she had regular clothes and a bathing suit. So when she said she couldn’t find her pants she wasn’t just ass out- she was in her bathing suit.

Funny thing .... Im in the bathroom doing 2 strands twists. Lmaoo

She still white 😂

I had a friend, well we still speak, but i noticed that she just wasn't the type of person i could take everywhere. Very sloppy drunk. Now i get down but i know when its time to wrap it up.

if i hear “tore up” one more ghatdamn time ?!

why are you so funny hommie🤣🤣🤣😭😭making me want to come to the states man fuckkk🤣🤣

Nah i feel where she coming from because why tf would you just let that ninja just walk around in their air b and b like that and not watch him . Those so called best friends would've got their ass kicked 😅 And I've been robbed by pookies before kinda the same situation and I cant stand a broke stealing ass man

I can’t even fathom planning to go on a trip somewhere without money unless it’s with my mom lol. That sounds so dangerous no matter how pretty you are but i’m also terrified of being trafficked so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

I just washed my hair and am watching as I braid. It’s a perfect day for self care! ❤❤❤

This doesn’t add up no way this man picked the lock and went in her room and NOBODY wondered what he was doing or where he was? Then why would he steal and spend it on the same chicks he stole from smh someone who knew her well enough to think they could guess her PIN number is who was in on it. I think that best friend was really a jealous friend.

2nd story was so awkward to watch because someone else told this same exact story, I wish I could remember the name.

You can NOT do Miami with 200. We spent 60 each breakfast lunch and dinner. that didn’t include Ubers, drinks $20 each and excursions Chile you need about 250 a day or more depending on how you partying

Naked w no wig on 😭😭😭😭

Jess u going to the wrong club lol me and my sister go to them white clubs 😂 with them disco beats lol 😅 it be fun though

I don’t think he broke in her room, I think he took it when he was rubbin up all on her and already had it in his presence before she ever went in her room 😵‍💫

Why go on vacation when you know you have rent coming up. Never do that. I save for one year just for my vacations and I go solo so I don't have these problems

I’m taking out my braids it’s too hot 😭

First Lady in the video is a vibe 😂❤

I live down here they treat you different

i was retwisting hair and this popped on lol thank you. 🥳