Mian Biwi Aur Bachay | The 11th Hour | Ep. 19 | Tuaha Ibn Jalil feat. Ali E. & Minhaj ud Din 

Ali e k bina lecture bejaan hai 🌷...he always puts some tadka in the conversation ...Allah hu Akbar

Minhaaj sahab sirf apni ideal situations ki baat krty hain which is not the same for eveyone, Ali E and Tauha bhai logical and practical baat kr rhy hain.

Minhaj Uddin is really beautiful, rarely do acknowledge the points he is acknowledging with regard to wife and her dignity

Minhaj bhai ko Joint family System se kuch zaida hi Pyaar hai!.. Apni Paradise se niklen bhai yaha Sabki baat kare Sari society ki sirf apni family ki nahi! Dekhe aaj kal soiciety me ho kiya raha hai joint families me!!!

Minhaj bhai cannot keep quiet about his ideal marriage life, plus if Islam proposes a different set up for every family unit that should be taken literally. Man should learn to love and respect his parents as well as maintain a separate family system with wife and children. Grandma and grandpa should leave parenting to parents alone

Everyone needs to understand their responsibilities and the way of good tarbiaa...Ali e always talks about the things currently going in our minds and wrote our hearts🦋jazakALLAJ

Tuaha bhai said after every session we shall teach a new dua related to the topic .. he forgot today.. uncommon duas learning opportunity is great here .. please continue

Asalamualaikum Tauha Sir, I was remembering that day when I was in sujood and I make dua ..Ya Allah guide me then Alhamdulillah after that Allah has opened a lot of doors for me including youth club...plzz mention duas at the end the session jazakallah khair..the duas you have mentioned before had a very big impact on my life...

I would recommend that you guys make a podcast on pre-wedding issues. I think a lot of parents and a lot of young boys and girls need to know the real meaning of marriage. In our society, wedding is shrouded in clouds of irrelevant and horrendous practices that hinder marriage. Also, please discuss socio-economic practices that surround marriage and how they have a role to play in defining the concept of marriage.

Tuaha bhai or ali bhai ap k Jesa behavior ksi ka b ni o skta ap best hen ever ap kis tra manage krne ka btate hen sb kuch bot acha hota hai ap bot ache hen dill se ap lgo ki respect krti u.

Assalamualaikum exactly Ehtisham Bhai ne Sahi baat kahi joint family system mein sabse bada masla pardah ka hai !!!

Brother much thanks for bringing up this amazing podcast together. I and my husband follow this show on continuous manner and catching up with the missing episodes from Ramadan. But unfortunately your guest was center to promote his approach of life based on his home. In 30 minutes of video i could not cling on to it and moved away. I hope you do this episode again as the topic requires in depth discussion. Lots of well wishes and prayers for all your brothers.

AoA Minhj bhai apka bht bht bht shukria. am not married yet but me khud ko behter bna rhi hn just for my kids. but aj apne mjhy ahsaas dilwaya k agr me unhy khud Quran ni sikha skti tu me kesi maa bno gi. Inshallah Allah g mjhy mere is irade me meri madad farmai me zror khud tajweed seekh kr proper aik practising mother bnny ki koshsish krn gi . Thnq So much all my brothers. Allah g apk liye asaaniya kre. Ameen

It was amazing.... I wish ki har walidaan iss ko daikhai... Woh b janai ki bachoon ko kay zaroorat ... Education is not everything it is something else they want from u.. And u will know it when u will spend time with them

Masha allah brother tuaha and brother ali ehtesham explained the concept beautifully..but please be careful next time whom you are inviting on the show.this brother seems off track and focuses more on the cultural concept.jazakallah khair

This was great lecture mashaAllah mashaAllah Allah pak bless u guys..Ppl commenting about minhaj sir but he was giving us practical examples so we can relate ourselves too n learn how can we create beautiful bond with our spouse n one more thing topic was husband wife n children not just relationship bw husband n wife...

Masha Allah! Allahumma barik Lakum! Amazing talk and I think this is one of the most amazing talks I have listened to on this topic! Ameen to all the duas.

Wallahay...kisi nay apni marital life start krni ha to khud b inn k lectures or apny partner ko b sunn nay ko kahay...IN SHAA ALLAH They will live a life...

Asalamualykum sir's,lots of lov & duaa from mir family of kashmir.Ap ky show ko rooz sehri ky baad deakhti hmm .MashaAllah boht achy hy for we people.Allah pak ap ko ajer azeem aata kery sir.

Ameen for tuah bhai duas and minhaj uddin bhai itne Innocent aur tameezdar hai tou unko sab log waise he nazar aarahe hai. Unki samajh ye hai k unke rules regulations ghar pe chalgayi tou sabki chaljayegi sab itne he samjhdaar hotey hai. I am indian & i live in saudi with family my mom is in india and she says if u want to send ur kids to me then be prepared k tum husbnd wife kuch na bolna bacho ko mere saamne mai tou bigaadungi chaahe wo kuch b kare...😑 This becomes difficult agar bolo kuch toh maa ko lagta hai wife ne sikhaya hai aur fir bacho ko sudharna bahot mushkil hojata hai. U wer sharing ur personal experience & we wer glad to hear. Alhumdulillah jazakallah..

السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاتة ماشاءالله احسنتم جميعاً باركم الله تقبل الله جهودكم واموركم جزاكم الله خيرا واحسن الجزء في الدارين

I have married to my cousin... But mere khala ne nikkah k baad hi apna rawaiya boht badal dia tha... Like bachpan se unhn ne boht pyar dia mjhy but jese nikah hua.. she was completely opposite.. mjhy apny shohar k sath kahi b nhi janay dete... Shadi k baad boht zehni aziyat mai rhi hn mai..uski wja se mera baby bhi boht weak tha by birth... Shadi k baad beton ki maain boht badal jati hai... pta nhi insecure ku hoti hai... aisi maoon ko chahye k beton ki shadiyan hi naa kry Agli anay wali ka sakoon tw barbaad na krain But thanks to Allah mere husband achy hain❤

Now this is how u discuss things with emotional intelligence. Unfortunately some people lack that and are also showing that in the comment section using foul language. May Allah bless us all with taqwa, emotional intelligence and empathy.

Aj es session ne mje bot rulya kash k hm b ese maa baap bne Allah Pak hmri madat kren bot se family problems ote a jin ki wja se hm apne relationship ko sai ni kr pate or khud ko b sai sabit ni kr pate Allah Pak he hmri madat kren🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻😰😰😰😓😓😓😓😓😓😓💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

Whoever is saying that minhaj bhai's words are worthless... Just see his children you will get know how good his ways of tarbeeyah are

You guys covered such an amazing topic MashaAllah ❤

Salam from India. Nice to see these aspects being discussed there. So much to learn for all of us.

Really Informative. JZAK ALLAH khair

I want an ideal time table, daily routine of kids, what they do their whole day, when to wake up, when to sleep. Please make a video.

Tuaha Bhai jb ap Nabi (S. A. W) ki batain btaty hain during session to bahoooooot Acha lgta hy, Aj thori c kmi lgi.. Allah ap sbko apni hifazat main rekhy ameen

Masha Allah Mustafa really is a beautiful child. May Allah bless him.

Wao beautiful topic, I need this really JazakALLAH

jazakallaahu khair for the awesome lecture..it was worth listening....

Jazak Allah Bht acha lecture Kash her ghr is per amal kry or ghr janat ban jay

Maa Sha Allah Minhaj ud din bhai ny buhat achi baaty ki 👍🏻

I am Watching you daily from Dubai and I am waiting for next session of the next day but today is the best topic these all problem occur in our society and our home Allah Pak gives all of you jaza for that and give us hidayat for right way

Mashaallah...wanna bros like u..love❤️❤️from iok...

MashaAllah this ramadan too much things learn from you Tuaha Bhai I want to see One session with Mugheerah luqman Plz Call Him for 1 session before end ramadan ♥️♥️

MashaAllah it is Amazing divine Efforts and Endeavors by Youth Club

Minhaj Bahi ne begum ko aj khoob kush kia hai MashAllah 😅

At the end of this lecture.....its a kind of arrow in my heart seriously....buzdil maaye hi buzdil bacche paida karengi......amaizing 👍

Maashaallah brothers stay blessed both off u agr har mard aap logon ki tarah soch rakhe to shadi jaisa khubsoorat rishta talaak tak na pahonche I'm proud of u brothers aap log ahle imaan k liye jo kar rahe hai usme allah kaamyaab kare aameen

Minhaj if dadi is dushman of bahu then she is dushman of grand kids.times have changed a lot.

27:00 exactly sir, agreed. Marriage stands the test of times when both you and your spouse work towards making things better. And we are tested the most when we face adversities. If you can sail through the adversities as one, as a team, then you have won half the battle.

❤️ Everyone should listen this in this condition ❤️❤️❤️💕💕 JazakALLAH khyrn kaseera aaamin Brothers

Beta jee you guys are doing a wonderful work. Plz keep it on even after Ramadan. Bless you all.

Practicing couples will be good parents ... indeed ❤️

Ali brother + Tuaha brother = best combo❤

At 1:10:56 brother Ali: "Dadi mujhe bachalengi"😂😂❤👌👌

So so so beautiful u all discussed various aspects of ds topic.well done youth club.

Zabardast brothers.. I jz love this lecture Cz facing same things....

Mashallah jazakillah o khare very informative

Brothers I appreciate your efforts.. apne joint family system ki baat ki, Sab se zayada Na Insafi is mein hoti hai.. Agar Islam mein yeh system hota tou ALLAH( SWT) dewar, jeith in rishton ko Mehram kerdete.. Magar yeh rishte ALLAH(SWT) ne yeh rishte Na mehram rakhe.. ISLAM mein aurat per kahin jabar nahi hai..

Please call some senior people to talk on this issue like sir Muhammad ali

This episode very Beneficial

Aur waqai mai smjhti hu ki joint family system me aurat mari jati h parde ke etbar se v aur aese v aur parenting me v bht dafa grandparents dakhal dete h

Tuaha bhai ali bhai ap bot ache hen ap wo wo bt kr dte a jo hm ne apne dill k akhri corner me chupa k rkhi oti a q k wo bt na koi sunta a na smjta a

I am glad that Ali bhai and Tuaha bhai discussed the matter fairly.... Minhaj bhai has a different perspective made according to his own family... He seemed quite biased to be honest....

Beautiful. Lovely podcast. 🙂

Excellent ♥️ Jizak'ALLAH Khair Good Session Bro's👍🏻

U guys are reviving my dead heart towards emaan..jazakallah

MasahAllah very nice section👍👍

Asslam alaikum tuaha bhai you guys are doing great job...kindly conduct a session on the COVID situation and Pakistanis reaction towards indian crisis..

Your sessions are very helpful...jzak ALLAHU KHAIRAN

MashaAllah amazing discussion ......you guys discussed it beautifully........

LOVE THE HEALTHY DISCUSSIONS PLUS LOVE HOW THEY ALSO DISAGREE AT SOME POINTS

Kamaal ka topic hy MashaAllah

Ronaldo says that I show my kid that place where I used to live in my childhood so that he could imagine how much hard work I did..but this generation doesn't want to face hardships

Ali e bhai has a very pure sense of humor

Mashallah, Rabikareem elam mai brakt ata kery

Invite Mufti Tariq Masood sahb here on the topic of "4 Shadiyan" 👀💯

sab awareness session kids k lye fun way mai b banaye please, takay kids mazay se enjoy b karen and seekhty b jayen, we live separate in punjab i want to give my son environment like u guys i play ur session in our LED but it must include some fun so kids have interest ❤

Watching and Listening to all your videos drives away my loneliness.

I don't understand why people are hating on the guest here. He's sharing his experience which could help others come over their family problems by replicating his way of tackling things between the two parties.

Excellent session! May I ask which mic do you use sir? Jazak Allah!

So beautifully they are explaining parenting....

Minhaj udin is best n experienced man. .

Mra dill bot dukha ova tha apki bten suni to bot ziada rona aa gia

Ali bhai: issue is not that grand parents are not practicing, mostly they dont hv capability to train the kids in right way or the way their mother wants just in jealousy with bahu! there are many religious grand parents too who practice much and yet keep complaining about bahu to the grandsons! thing is the major authority must b given to mother who trains the generations,

Ali e bhai is the life of these discussions MashaAllah

I feel like this podcast could have gone a lot more in depth with Ali Bhai's line of questioning but it always got interrupted by Minhaj's "ideal & fairytale" marriage life.. Tuaha bhai, can you please re-do this topic this time with Kaiser bhai as the third guest..

Tuaha bhai waqai bht hi acha tha lekin is bar thori si different level pe chli gai discussion mera manna h bjae iske ki insan apne opinions share kre hme pyare nabi Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ki zindgi unka bcho ke sath kaisa relation tha biwiyon ke sath kaisa tha agr is bat pe discussion hoti to zyda behtr tha kyuki insan jb apne opinions ke basis pe jb discussion krta h na to ektilaaf bht badh jate hain isliye pyare nabi sallalla alaihi wasallam ki zindagi aur sirat pe discussion ho aur agr ap aesa naa krte hain to aakhrat me apke sath kya hoga uski bat honi chaiye

MA, Minhaj uddin bhai ki batain 😍😍😍

Mashaallah. Hesi aati hy brothers.. Allah u bless you all!! love from. Kashmir (India)

Masha Allah....Best topic

May ALLAH SWT Bless Righteous Spouse and Righteous Families to all Us..AAMEEN❤

Tauha bhai bht achaa kehty hen

I'm sorry but Minhaj ud Din wasn't letting the conversation become diverse, he was too biased about a joint family system and focusing on an unrealistic lifestyle. Ali E's perspective was more realistic but he didn't get to speak much. A video should be made again and problems in the general public should be addressed please it's a request I want to hear more of what you have to say without a positive biased...

جزاك اللّٰه خيرًا

this episode has very few references from Quran o Hadith, i was expecting more

12:37 🥺😌❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💞💞💞💞a beautiful point 💕💕😭😭😭💞

Ali E bhai qpne bht theek kaha grandparents anjane me bacho ki tarbiyah kharab kardaite hain

Ali E bhai looking proper nerdy and mommies school boiii😂😂

Bhotttt achi baten krty h ap❤️😊

Allah ap ko jazay khair de minhaj bhai

ma sha Allah very nicely explained mian bv bachy Realations.

20:00 such an amazing example. Ma sha Allah.

Assalamoalaikum couldnt find your ep 18 of 11th hour

Tuaha bhai is right...bachy khrab krny main grandparents ka b hath hota sometimes...

Could you please talk on Toxic Parenting also?!