This is precious I am a long time sulker someone once explained to me once that it is a passive aggression I really got it and have tried since to “let things go”. I have just listened to this and it really reinforced the idea of my natural ? instinct pulling the shutters instead of opening the window. Just working on my inside instead of trying to control the outside. Thank u Michael it makes so much sense And I will as you said keep practicing . Much gratitude and love
Dear Michael Singer, Thank you with all of me for your book and podcasts. You have saved me from myself. Tears of joy are on my face because I am realizing what you are saying. The reminders for what to say in the morning are life changing.
Dear Micky , it was so Wonderfull to meet you last Sunday at the Temple. I am great-full that you have created this great space and then on to free yourself over the past 40 years and then you now share it with all of us ❤
Loving them unconditionally is one of the best things I've learned in life. You just accept things/ people/situations the way they are. Letting go would be easy if we learn to accept
This is simple pure truth that everyone ought to listen to; how many relationships would not break down ? - if only people would listen to and understand this. ❤ Bless you Michael for sharing this wonderful yet simple wisdom. Essentially everything in life is simple; it is people and their ego that complicates everything. Sending love and light to all. Michael- I have only fairly recently come across your teachings and it is helping me no end during a time of emotional challenges. ❤
Imbalance is the problem. Empaths are created in imbalance. My family of origin dictated this imbalance and are equally responsible with me for creating this imbalance, but they are not accountable in my life. I chose to allow the imbalance. This made others primary in my life by my choice. This makes me an empath who lacks a personal, individual identity as my goals are defined by the emotional needs of others. So, where are my emotional needs being met? They aren't! I must focus within. The power I have, all this wisdom I have attempted to apply to those I love, is better intended for me. I must heal myself and become whole before I can return to my better nature. My passion is sharing myself. I cannot define myself as separate from others, but I must become distinct. The form of love that I Am becoming must be established distinctly. That means I must learn to become "selfish" in ways I never have before. I must place my healing first before I can help any other. I will be my priority today and always. I will focus on myself until such time as I am strong enough to do more. I will have nothing to do with anybody along the lines I have previously established. I'm starting over.
An empath must begin again. One must abandon the assumed limits of the past, those we assumed from others. The only way to do that is to leave them. One may not claim distinction without some separation; however, separation defies One's prior chosen definition. Therefore, I will gain distinction, that distinction denied me by the cowards in my family of origin and then by myself. I must admit I am broken; that I have become that which I hate/oppose so I might learn to heal it. Then I must heal it within myself; which was never my goal. Therefore, I must claim and then pretend to an isolating selfishness before I can heal Myself. Then I can return to them. I get it. All things follow an order today. This is mine.
This insight is resonating deeply with my own experience right now. Thank you for articulating it so beautifully. I may use some of your wording to express this to a family member who is hurting and needs to understand this before healing can begin.❤
@@MichaelRyanEpleyThis comment thread is phenomenal!! I feel like I'm in group therapy! Thank you for your vulnerability and wisdom. These comments are so relatable and are helpful in my journey to healing.❤😊
Grateful to be experiencing every moment 🙏 😊❤but must leave my raptors, spiritually, when I put them back in their enclosures 🦉🦅🦉my heart stays open, even when I get stabbed by a talon,😅 lol 🪶Thank you!
39:04 can I say that if I am not happy, it is my ego. I can notice that. 40:53 ego will never be satisfied. Alternatively Relax and Release . There is things in the universe. An ignored guest will leave.
I’ve tried numerous times to listen to Michael with the hope for insight and wisdom but the numerous hyperbolic accusations become overbearing… like everyone listening is being accused of a list of qualities that keep us from love and joy. The teacher needing to learn from their own teachings phenomenon.
@lnorani Everyone is at a different place on their path to self awareness. I hope you can find a teacher who resonates with where you are at in your journey. ☮️💜
