I'm also feel the same on 6month pregnancy 😢n loosing first baby boy on six month period month n aborted because surgical aborted before 73hours then I'm free to bed rest another ward hospital.it's was an terrible experience my first baby I'm feels pitty my hubby n also me n pray please come back next baby boy 🎉
Omg! I almost lost my first child too at 4 months. I was dilated 2cm Luckily it was picked up and I got cerclage ( a stitch on my cervix ) it was high risk but I went for it and it saved my son. He is a fit and healthy 7 years old now ❤️ Alhamdulilah 😊
People will try to even belittle you not understanding ur roller coaster of emotions.. know this feeling very well I was diagnosed with severe pre eclampsia sudden onset at 6 months and ended up having baby after two weeks. I got to hear it was my fault.
I miscarried in 2014 and doc told me it’s more common than people know 1 out of every 4 women miscarry… it’s a good subject to talk about because people don’t have awareness and are somewhere scared to talk about it as it’s consider as mother’s fault 🤷🏻♀️
And I miscarried in 2019 and the ratio changed to 7 out of 10 women misscarry.. even though people are getting educated about it still the miscarriage rate is increasing
yes i m also torch positive and doctor doesn't dygnos and i had premature baby with sever infection with dailetd cardiomapography ventricular brain damage@@sayedtamanna1647
The trauma that a pregnant woman have to go through to go through all that pain just to lose the baby ......may no one ever have to go through. I empathize will all the women who went through this. You all are very very brave.
I had missed miscarriage at 4th month, baby had passed away in 14th week and in my 17th week scan there was no heartbeat, i was carrying a dead foetus for 3 weeks . It was so painful and i was traumatized. By Gods grace i have a daughter now, i always pray to God for her longevity.
@@RisingFromAshes2011 no symptoms. I just read everywhere that I should feel the baby by that time but I was not feeling any movements so I got worried and got the scanning done. But usually by 17-18 weeks also sometimes we don't feel the movements. This time in my pregnancy I had anterior placenta and did not feel the movements much movements by 24-25 weeks and even after that the movements were not much prominent but for my sanity I used to have scanning done every 15 days. By god's grace I had a healthy baby and she is now 19 months.
Same,I carried 10 days dead foetus in my tummy without any symptoms, I was waiting for my 1st sonography and this happened, it’s been 5 months now, I’m still in trauma what if next pregnancy doesn’t workout ( it’s really painful )
Your doctor saved your baby. One of my relatives did not have that luck, and they lost their twins because the doctor did not take ownership and did not call the hospital.
I know a woman something similar happened to her she dilated at 6 months had to deliver a baby who sadly passed away and that woman wasn't informed about it cuz she conceived after 11 yrs and couldn't bear the shock she was told that the baby was in ICU and everything would be fine
They did a good thing by not telling her as I know a case when woman had urgent c - section at 7 month but unfortunately her baby died and when nurse told her the news she was in shock , her bp lowered and she passed too😢
this what i want to tell everyone never ever compare your pregnancy you never how your body going to react ,,,,, there are women making videos dancing and working out it is not for all though you are feeling alright loosing a baby after ahving it inside you is not only painful moreover it very heartbreaking
It does not happen to everyone so yes this must have been very scary for her & any pregnant lady who went through this. We just hope her daughter is growing up well now & that's what matters.
I dilated at 5months pregnant. I was admitted immediately because I told them I want to save my baby. They put me stitches at the opening. And another month later I still got labour pain n delivered my son. Super premature baby. But now he is alright n 3 years old. 🧿😇🧿
Same happened with my older sister and me. We have “incompetent cervixes”. In both of our cases, our cervixes were too short and dilated early. Unfortunately, my sister miscarried her first baby at 17 weeks. They don’t check cervix length usually so that’s something OB’s need to be checking when pregnant women go to them. My sister went on later to have a healthy boy and then girl. She had to have a cerclage placed for both of her pregnancies. Since I knew what to watch out for I was able to avoid miscarrying. At 23 weeks, I began to dilate and had to have a cerclage placed too. I quit my job and took it easy at home. Baby boy will be 4 months next week 😌
I'm glad privileged women are becoming more vocal about feminine complications and the dangers of childbirth. People ask, why the need for celebrities to talk about it when they have money and access to the best medical care? It is important because these videos have more chances of appearing in your husband or in-laws' timeline than a common woman's videos. Usually ignorance makes them dismiss their wives and daughter-in-laws saying, childbirth is not a disease and itna naatak kyu kar rahi ho, humne bhi bache paida kiye hain.
Same case and they even performed a cervical cerclage but I still lost my baby because I was in labor already and they had to remove the stitch. Later when I went through my reports at 4 months USG it clearly highlighted I had short cervix. My doc didn’t even see the USG report properly, it could have been prevented. My baby would have been 3. I still don’t have a child.
so to all people saying age related issues ...with pregnancy whatever be your age anything can happen...you don't know how your body will act at a given point of time ...age really doesn't matter now a days....for those who are young they generally have a bad lifestyle and food habits so their bodies act like an aged person ...and a person with advanced age have the options of such good treatment these days that they can almost mimic a young body ... nothing is definite...nature has its own mind.
my mom lost her first baby in 5 months she was young fit and fine and suddenly she felt like going to toilet and there she passed the baby out, she says she cnt forget the experience, ofcourse then she had me and my brother later but then u always have a trauma..
Same happened with mine... She was too young maybe 17-18 .. she didn't knew much and then the miscarriage happened... Coincidentally that child was supposed to born in June and after all three of us were October born on 25,23,24 respectively.... But again at second pregnancy she had bleeding and in twins one survived, i.e my sister and she is the best child....
Oh my god this pregnancy journey is truly very scary haan....Khushi toh bohot hoti hai lekin taklif bhi utni hi hoti hai.....wen I was pregnant with my first baby I was 25 years old n my case was exactly like Meera and my doc suggested me u goona loose ur baby any minute we need to take stitches in ur uterus I was faint I was crying I got scared and my husband was telling to doc is it necessary and doc said it is....if u don't go for it u will loose ur baby any minute and I was 5 months pregnant at that time...... seriously this pregnancy journey is very painful
Being pregnant is the most courageous thing a woman can do if you know all the things that can go wrong. Right from first trimester to giving birth. My first pregnancy was cervical ectopic , but since I was very vigilant right from start and so were my doctors I was treated right on time. Offcourse, I lost the baby but if me and doctors weren’t vigilant enough I would have probably died or had multiple organ failure if not treated on time
I am glad women are discussing issues like menstrual issues, pregnancy, perimenopause, post partum, lactating phase, menopause, mental health, hormonal issues, female only unique issues more openly instead of stigma, silence, shame, ignorance around it earlier. I hope it will educate more women and also educate men who have no idea of anything and think it is natural or no big deal and pregnancy is fun and games as shown in useless TV shows and films
Miscarriage can happen also due sperm quality...if the fathers over 40+ in age....its not always from mothers side... unhealthy sperm can also cause miscarriage in pregnancy.
May be you are young and in prime age to have a child. But the quality of the sperm also matters. How healthy or young that person is. What kind of lifestyle the sperm owner lived also matters.
😂😂😂loved your dig at both....she behaves like she is young,she s young,she is young.. N Shahid poses like a alpha male marrying a kid compared to his age.... But the fact is she is dilated n its her reproductive organs....
Yes Shahid was much older. 35 plus. This is also important issue. Men think their age does not matter and they can have healthy kids at any age but it is not true. Quality, quantity of sperm, sperm count, sperm motility, declines with age and risk of developmental disorders, autism in baby, fetal abnormalities increases with increase in age of father
I am also 24 years old. I also had a miscarriage at the 3 months of pregnancy. I felt a little sad but there was nothing special, most of the time I was sneezing a lot because I had allergies. That's why i faced the misscarged ....
Cervical incompetence. Pretty common condition and a common reason for miscarriages. Good to diagnose it early so a stitch can be put not to dilate until the end of 3rd trimester. Im a doctor and I was also born after 3miscarriages my mother underwent due to the same condition.
This is tge same women who was shaming working mons? Saying kids are not pets so why have them if you're going to leave them? But shes here leaving her kids giving interviews?
Also, as other user in comments said it is NOT just age of woman that matters. Age and fitness of father also matters. Most men do not know and think they can have healthy kids at any age. Nope. Quality, quantity of sperm declines with age, risks of autism, developmental disorders in fetus, fetal abnormalities in baby increase with increase in age of father. Risk of male infertility, sexual dysfunction, sexual performance issues, stamina, energy issues increase with age in men. Men also have a biological clock. It is not as obvious as women's menopause but it exists and men need to be aware that their age, lifestyle, diet etc also affect their sperm. Shahid is almost 14 years old than Mira and was 35 plus when Mira got pregnant. The age of father and his sperm quality also make a difference.
Exactly. Let it be any age 20 or 40 when preganancy gets complicated nobody knows. So its not any disease but needs to be taken care. And its a taboo but late marriage and pregnancy is unhealthy and blah blah...
Same happened with my first pregnancy I went into preterm labour in my fifth month after that they kept me on complete bed rest n some injection was given every week to keep my baby in womb fr atleast 7 months
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Same thing with me I thought I m so young ND healthy so baby is also good in tummy but suddenly in 3rd month I feel pain ND bleeding uff ND I lost my 2 babies
Pregnancy mazzak nahi hoti Madam....doesn't matter how young or childish u r....u HAVE TO B CAREFULL with so many things around.....specially 1st 3mnths
You can be all the "careful" in the world but cervical dilation can't be stopped or strated by being careful or not careful. It is a hormonal problem, which can be solved in the hospital by giving certain medications, which ai am not going to write down because it is easy to get meds in India without proper prescription. And if it doesn't work, then a cervical cerclage is done. I get it that you don't know all the details about medical stuff, but I would urge you NOT to spread misinformation and make new mommies sad and make it their fault that they lost their child. It is not their fault.
It's a podcast she's not getting interviewed and also she's not someone that u don't know so why do u guys behave like that ? Her new brand is getting launched that's why they invited her for the podcast...itni badi mahila h itni akal to mujh se bacchi mein hi h aap logo ka dimag kam nhi krta kya ?! Ki chlo ye bkne se pehle khud hi janlu kyu bulaya hoga
That's why I say age is just a trap...young age doesn't guarantee healthy pregnancy and little later doesn't mean there will be certainly complications..... I have seen so so many ladies,all 30+ with 0 complications. So,it is unpredictable.
That is a lie and misinformation. Preterm dilation occurs due to multiple factors, and the husband's oldage isn't one of them. It can be due to a short cervix, infection, multiple gestation, structural abnormalities in the uterus, and lifestyle risks such as smoking, drinking, or use of other ilicit drugs. Why are you taljing about a subject you have no knowledge about?
Ha toh kisne bola tha itni jaldi preganant hona😂😂 aayi badi yaha bata ne, kitni girls he jo 18 yrs main bhi pregnant hoti hain, lakin itni over acting karke nahi batati, sab ko pain hota hain but phir we got our baby, and rest of the case when we saw our baby all the pain is nothing in front of them
It also depends upon d quality of sperm...if der is a age gap of more than 5yrs between u and ur spouse den der is a possibility of miscarriage....but we women always think dat we r responsible for d same
These types of misinformation should land you in jail. Medical misinformation is the worst type of lie a person can tell. You're not a medical professional. You have no idea why that happens, so do not spread misinformation about a subject you don't know.
In earlier days, in many couples, age diff bw hubby n wife used to be 8y to 20y in India... Yet they had min 6-8 children ranging upto a dozen sometimes all thru their child bearing age... 😂 😂 What're you talking ?? 🤔
@@rameshwarjoshi8632 ya you are right but disrespecting others journey is not done, and second after marrying Shahid Kapoor she has nothing to say so again and again selling same motherhood story is really not done
You seem to have personal beef with her. Why so bitter? You people seem to target people on internet to cope with your shitt¥ life. @@humakhankitchenrecipe3293
Now shahid is again cheating with a much younger woman then her. All these years everyone was giving hate to Kareena for marrying Saif, Bt guess what Kareena made the right choice. Once a cheater always a cheater and no woman of any age can change a wasteful man like shahid
Aisa nahi hota madam. Har ek ki apni journey hoti hai pregnancy ki. Kisi ki smooth hoti hai, kisi ke complications hote hai,kisike miscarriages hote hai.. and unfortunately kahin baar auratein mar jaati hai during child birth.She is sharing her story. Atleast, respect motherhood.
Puri duniya me toh ye akele maa nahi bani hai, but inke podcast se ye pregnancy case face karne wali baki new would be mothers aur bhi zyda alert aur cautious ho sakenge.
Not a very big deal, women deal with period and pregnancy issues at some point in their lives, its quite often, she is the wife of shahid kapoor that is why she is being interviewed. that is it.
The point is people think young age me baccha karlo toh sab sahi rehta hai.. after a certain age complications badh jate hai.. but young age me bhi problems aa sakti hai...highlight yeh hai is reel ki.. but haters ko toh bak bak karni hai .. And yes ofcourse she has some quality in her tabhi voh us celebrity ki wife hai jiski kafi ladkiya deewani thi...
@@Anmolj1955being someone’s wife should NOT be the ultimate priority of a woman, marraige is a part of life, but not the entire life. Young age and Old age dono mei complications hoti hai, it depends.
@@Karunamayii people like you love to misinterpret people's voices, cause you lack brain, why glorifying just her? why not supporting and telecasting other women who have dealt with harsher situations during their pregnancy? if she was't shahids wife they would not have telecasted her at all, if they are telecasting her then they should give a chance to every woman to share her side of story, her struggles and i respect women much more than you do, and your statement "for you its daily routine giving anda daily" proves that you don't respect women, grow up kid.
@@Karunamayii people like you love to misinterpret people's voices, cause you lack brain, if she had not been a celeb wife they would not have telecasted her, there are women who suffer much more in their daily lives, their health, while their pregnancies, but never get a chance to speak on camera, and i respect women much more than you do, your statement "for you its a daily routine like giving anda daily" proves you don't respect women, you just pretend to be a good person, grow up kid. thodi duniya dekh le fir baat kar.
