“A strong woman has feminine essence with a masculine capacity. …She is clothed with strength. She is feminine in nature and masculine by necessity” Bishop RC Blakes
It may take a while for a strong woman to find the right man, but waiting is better than being with a weak man who will try to make u weak! We have to set a standard & keep our boundaries. We can't allow weak men to come into our lives & disrupt our peace ✌️✌️✌️
A woman who realizes her worth and values is comfortable in her skin, she’s not embarrassed by her femininity neither is she intimidated by socio-patriarchal biases. She’s ever hopeful and an overcomer. Strong women love and care with authenticity, they don’t hate neither do they hurt others. She’s never too proud to apologize when mistaken and she’s never in competition with a man or another woman. Strong women believe they complement their men, and not compete with their men.
"Some of those men who are saying that women getting all of these degrees have a Father Wound need to have a Father Wound too so they can get some good jobs and careers!" Bishop is preaching better than we're shouting ❤ And yes sir, weak men have helped produced strong women from necessity!
"If she's achieving all that with a daddy wound, you might need a daddy wound" 🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣🗣 RC always gets it! He gets the psychological games people play to try to diminish the strength and wisdom of women that refuse to settle for anything less than their worth.
My Suffragette grandmother told me as a teen, "The hand that rocks the cradle rules the world." She and her 4 sisters ran their businesses from home - 2 ran restaurants, one an orchard, one a rental property...and they did this with their children (our parents) at their skirt - in the home with them. My grandmother (the 5th) was a school teacher. They were all married to very strong men - most worked in laborious careers (brick Mason, farmer, etc.).
It's absolutely refreshing to see so many like minded women in the comments. I've been fasting since the beginning of the year every women that is in this comment section Im fasting for you as well Our time is NOW ❤🎉
“Strength and honor are her clothing; She shall rejoice in time to come.” Proverbs 31:25 NKJV Heard/read this the second time today. 🙏 🕊️ God bless you all
Thank you for this session When my sons were younger and life was very hard I went into single mother hood with focus and survival mode mentality Meanwhile many good men in the community would call me a strong Black woman And it would make me sad and I would cry in private because always being the strong one was exhausting 😢
That's because they are being masculine and have poor or no regulation of her emotions. Being strong doesn't mean being loud and aggressive. That's weakness. Be gracious, be feminine while doing for yourself.
I would probably be called a strong angry black woman as I am, but God, I know who I am & whose I am. I’m in my 3rd Act and I do allow myself to get angry at the injustices that have been perpetrated on women by men. I’m not able or willing to hold it in always, to my detriment. So what I say to that comment is, Man Up!!!
I agreed. As time goes by, I develop knowledge through Pastor's teachings I used it to protect myself from selfish, toxic, behaviors people demonstrate in this brutal 🌎
Hello from Memphis TN. Thank you for this truth!! Strong women love their own man! ❤ They are willing to wait because they are worth the wait and so is he!!!
Thankyou Sir. I get misunderstood alot due to my leadership gifts. I used to shrink back to avoid conflict, but I no longer dim my light for men or women.
Thank you for this commentary, Bishop Blakes. I do hope that broken men who reject strong women because we won't comply with nonsense, will hear this and gain a better understanding of who we are and learn to value us.
A great presentation. I was constantly playing all of your points in my head. I have been called all of the above. Yet I realized that became as a weak man and a broken woman it's clear that you don't fit in my circle of life. There was a time I taught something was wrong with my strong personality. Thank you so so much. Blessings
I love it. Thank you so much for describing me. Society often pushes us to be apologetic and regret who we naturally are, yet God had His own perfect reasons for creating us as such. I am grateful. Blessings.
Thanks for the confirmation. I've literally stated that the masculine energy I've had to tap into was because of necessity. How was I going to take care of myself and my family? Especially while working and going to school. I'd love to have someone to lean on.
You got it. I'm clearly a "strong woman". But...I find myself in my 60's seeking more time with my feminine. Single for 25 yrs to process my traumas, and deepen my relationship with God. I'm ready to receive the "gentleman" He has in mind just for me. Thank you for seeing us strong women in a positive light! I was honored to meet you at your birthday party. See you at the TOP!!
Bishop I enjoyed and I always will enjoy your words as long as I liveI quote "Strong women want help they are begging for help they are crying for help I talk to them all the time"
This was soooo needed. Because in ministry, many times if the presentation of your gifting does not manifest in a "hoop" in some church settings, it is measured as " a good little message " or not as effective as one who presents in that form. Spot on Bishop...
That’s it Pastor. You are spot on. Thank you so much for understanding us Women who struggle with finding a Real man who can appreciate us. God bless you. It’s so sad just because a woman won’t take crap we are labelled as Negative and carrying negative energy. Blessings RC 🙏🏿
Many thanks for reassuring me that my strength is a favour, blessing and grace from God. RC, your teaching and preaching are worth more in weight than gold. God bless you.
I love you Bishop RC Blake’s, Jr. You have made me cry 🙏🏽🥹🥲😭🙌🏽☝🏽❤️ for you truly have described me with every “I” dotted and “T” crossed ‼️Glory Be To God; Praise Jesus Christ. Amen. I must join and I look forward to meeting you and First Lady Lisa in the near future. Respect 🫡 and love from Philadelphia. 🙏🏽✌🏽❤️
God bless you Bishop Blake’s love your teaching because you help women understand who they are and us strong women need a strong man validation! Gods blessings to your beautiful strong wife Lady Lisa Blake’s!❤
I must say thank you for all the insight and motivation. I have been feeling down, under achiever, as if all my 51 years I have not make my mark on this earth. This message has encouraged me. Motivated me to do better and demand more from myself. I NEED to get your Queenology books from the beginning so I can get it from the root up to the fruit. Thank you. Hazel from Guyana, South America.
Yes, a strong woman has to put on her masculine side to handle her everyday life, but when a real man can see her true femininity and honor that. Then she can then let go and relax and still be a strong woman. She will honor that man as a king.
Wonderful message. So on point, honest, and da Truth. Your presentation was unique & funny. Everything you said was directly relatable to me. 💯 I love your ministry! You & your wife are a blessing in my life.
This is why I never understood this overplay on super soft, ultra feminine. A good woman will have a good balance! If a man dies don't you want a woman who can take care of your estate and children?? Not one who just falls apart!
Wow! This is so good!!! Just confirms my heart, my qualities of Proverbs 31 women! Clothed in strength and dignity! Thank you God for Pastor and his wisdom to speak into and confirm through your word that reaches all of us who need it ❤
Pastor, May the Holy Spirit keep using you. I watch you from the uk. The other day I sat down to talk to myself on this issue, and My thought was maybe I’m too strong and need to play it down, and literally this video popped up. I believe Abba speaks to us in so many ways! Thank you once again. The right man will find me and my strength will not be intimidating to him❤
This is Absolute truth. I like how you said , strong women hate men, you are wise, multitasking is what we do. Strong women does not hate men We love men, weak women wants to start Men hater's club.. APTTMH
Enjoyed listening tonight. Wish I could attend Queenology 2024 in ATL this year. I know the experience will be beautiful. Continue to be a blessing Bishop Blakes for God's people. You have been apart of my healing journey . I wish God's protection, peace and happiness over you, First Lady and your family. 🙏
Good morning Bishop,I am a strong woman,I wasn't at first...I thank the lord for the woman I am today .because I'm not so quick to think about my needs as a woman..I'm able to go to the lord in prayer when I need self control 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I've been single for years and while I have not been seeking a partner, the few men that I've had a chance to talk to are very put-off by me because I own my home, own my car and make enough money to support me and my children. I have been described as "tough" because I drive in bad weather, have loaded and unloaded my own moving truck and am able to manage my own affairs with a degree of success. Men seem to think that a woman's basic life needs are to be "on standby" until he comes strolling in the door and then a woman must not have the audacity to ask a man to help her otherwise she is a nag. Should I reduce my quality of life so that a man can feel needed but not pressed to actually do the things hes needed to do? Should I just endeavor to be a penniless damsel in distress and squander my entire life so that a man isnt put off by the stench of my survival? Are all single women meant to sit in a waiting room poised with a warm smile and unrelenting hope that someday a man will pick them like a mutt from the pound? Im not doing my own home repairs because it's my hobby, it simply must be done and I have no husband!
This is an on time message for me, I was just asking the lord what to do for I feel like I come off to strong, but the truth of the matter is I am a new creation in Christ Jesus, and the entanglements and strongholds the enemy use to be able to entrap me in, he no longer can!!! Praise the lord!
Men run to hills from me all the time when they realize they cannot run games on me. No mattet how I exude my feminine energy. Their egos are too large to see the diamond in front of them. Too bad for them 😅😅
Blessings Bishop and First Lady Lisa. You have just described verbatim EXACTLY who God Has Blessed me to be; who I am, in this world Through Christ Our Lord and Savior Jesus. Amen. 🙏🏽✌🏽❤️
Pastor Blakes, I love what you say on the strong woman. I will say it is 100X worse than what you say in this - We are actually targeted by those we love the most as well as the society; to the point that many times we are lonely as hell.
Thank you Pastor Blakes for speaking the truth about some women preachers "performing" as men preachers do. It's disengenuous and highly distracting to me. I can't focus on the message because I'm too busy trying to tune out the performance! I feel the same way about all of that "extra" with men Pastors as well.
I love to hear him preach. I love to hear him teach!Such an expounder! ( femininity and masculinity how powerful! Sometime a woman just got to reach in and use her God -given rib that he took from adam on purpose. For the fitted occasion)! It was placed in her for the moments that she will need masculinity.(Did you think that rib was only serving one purpose? That would not be like God, to use any one thing for one purpose...Use that RIB LADIES!!! Then we go right back to our femininity where we belong.
