That snowball analogy is spot on. The real term is called the compounding effect. The older you get without experiencing female love, the more it multiplies how over it is for you. One day you’ll look in the mirror and realize you’re past the point of no return which imo is around 29-32.
Honestly, once you graduate high school and are an 18+ year old with no relationship experience, the damage is already done and beyond repair. Like you said, it only gets worse the longer this goes on.
Same with people who are born in wealth telling you money doesnt matter. They ve never had to worry about paying bills or being on the street but they talk a lot of smack.
Swear. Those guys double dipped in the dating market, having multiple marriages, the most spoiled and privileged generations talking to millennials and gen z like we had the same options
@@kingdoge69 boomers bought houses for peanuts that they sold back for millions after decades of decay. Of course they ll tell you dating market wasnt better. They will never admit how easy they ve had it in every area of life
Being a teen with aspergers is the worst years of your life, Now i work in IT and i am much better at my job then my colleagues so they kinda look up to me, Although life is a bit more lonely as all i do is work/sleep
Not fulfilling teen love is crushing. The innocent moments of first love is potent. It’s the elixir from the gods. We felt teen love but never fulfilled it. Crushing…
Bro I hate to break to yeah but that Disney love clingy in bed teenage love does not exist. Most girls if you really talk to them are down to earth. And don't give a fuck about the things you just mentioned. But that does not mean those type of women don't exit. That's why I'm starting to focus on trying to find an upper class well educated gal. Coz those are the ones that hold you down when it comes to loving you for who you really are unlike the everyday hoes looking up down a man trying to see if his worth her lock him down
Most of my life I spended drifting and moving a lot. And now that I'm entering the age of 21. I feel like I have missed out on a lot things. And with time moving and not being able to change the past is a such a universal joke. Anyways sorry for the rant.
@@enlightthehermitsounds like my childhood, I went to 8 different schools then I finished my last 3 years I was homeschooled. Hopefully I can make up for it in the airforce
This is one of your best, and most important videos. Excellent, excellent take. If I hadn't tasted love as a teen, I'd be dead or in prison today. Teen love has a poetry and intensity that you can't find anywhere else. It's literally like discovering color. And you dont even need sex in order for teen love to do its magic.
@@Thatrandomguyonyoutube547 19 aint that old yet. I mean you re already very late in terms of development at that age, i wont sugarcoat it. But id say it's not completely over until you finish college and you re still khhv. Past around 25 it s virtually impossible to change your situation.
"-You reckon it’s hopeless? -Sure. It’s been hopeless for a long time, from the very beginning. You will never represent, Raphaël, a young girl’s erotic dream. You have to resign yourself to the inevitable; such things are not for you. It’s already too late, in any case. The sexual failure you’ve known since your adolescence, Raphaël, the frustration that has followed you since the age of thirteen, will leave their indelible mark. Even supposing that you might have women in the future - which in all frankness I doubt - this will not be enough; nothing will ever be enough. You will always be an orphan to those adolescent loves you never knew. In you the wound is already deep; it will get deeper and deeper. An atrocious, unremitting bitterness will end up gripping your heart. For you there will be neither redemption nor deliverance. That’s how it is." - Page 86 - 87 - Whatever - Michel Houellebecq
Missing out on teenage love is not a guy fault thou because if you didn’t have the good genetics , you’ll have a hard time with the girls in high school. You need to have those looks as a teenager
Also the brutal part is the ghost aspect of it. I still feel haunted by this. I still crave to fulfill these moments but can’t. Our friends did so they are able to move on, move forward.
@@Theblacklensor some people are late bloomers. An insecure teen became a Chad-light in his 20’s. Being fit and healthy during military service helped in my case i think
Nothing once you are an adult. Probably nothing either if you are a teen because girls just don’t like your looks and personality. If girls don’t like you for you, any love you get by faking a different personality or statusmaxxing will be fake love. If girls aren’t naturally attracted to you, it’s over
Because teenage love is all about looks . Teenage love is genuine because it’s shows that the female finds you attractive. Its looks above everything else for this world. The black pill is the truth
Now teen love is the purest form of love on a base level bc all the adult factors of the world don't play into it. But its not the strongest form of love at all. Nothing is stronger than choosing your partner every single day, consciously and intentionally. So yeah you miss a few important relationship lessons from teen love not experiencing it but you can absolutely get that in your late teens/20s.
@@TwistedLullabiesAgreed. If you get past 15-16 without ever having a gf, you will be a little stunted. If you get past 17-18, it’s over. Once you graduate high school with no experience it leaves truly irreparable damage.
Adult love is actually not a true love in most cases because both partner become selfish. Women start wanting men more for wallet or status and men starts wanting women more for her looks and effort. It just becomes very toxic relationship. Of course they still care about looks to some degree but that doesnt make it any better. Its not love guys. Teenage love is the purest love
There’s a little truth to that, but if you are good looking and NT, getting a girlfriend just usually happens naturally without having to learn much or put in lots of effort. If you are an outcast without even friends throughout high school (which I was) and you were kind of ugly, it never began for you.
Right on man. I was thinking the same thing. Having this mindset is useless. I didn’t lose my virginity or even have my first kiss till I was 19. It was awkward dating at first but you get used to it.
I don't necessarily agree. Teen love is kind of useless because as a teen you don't know what real love is like and your body is still going growing, so you end up getting tangled in your hormones, sure it might feel nice but I don't think it shapes you because what do you know about love and relationships when you are a teen? I think your 20's is more important. After that it's downhill.
You need teen love in order to be able to get the 20s experience. You wouldn't expect a 12 year old to do well in a relationship with a 24 year old. That's what it's like for someone who hasn't had teen love. I know from experience : a close friend of mine had his first gf at 22, and he needed A LOT of help and support
I find that 9/10 the people who try to claim that "teen love isnt that important" or that teens shouldn't be so focused on finding relationships because they're young and have "plenty of time" are the very same people that got to experience teenage love themselves and as a result have no conceptualization of what a life without that crucial developmental milestone would be like. Also what you describe as "hormones" is actually the rawest form of human attraction and its the societal factors that come later in life after such as money, status etc. that muddy the waters of attraction and so the idea that teen love is the purest still stands imo.
It’s the opposite. Teen love is real love. It’s love that’s not logical, governed only by feeling and hormones, the rawest form of love between two human beings. When you grow up, status, money, and resources begin becoming influencing factors that change the way love functions. Stop coping
@@gutswithdrip879 exactly. The rational part is all transactional thinking. It's when people stop thinking PURELY about love and start adding other parameters unrelated to love that you know corruption has taken place
"Teen love" made sense socially when people died younger, matured earlier, began working earlier, and married earlier. It has been a complete anachronism for at least three if not four decades, but Hollywood and pop culture keep reinforcing old narratives. ( Ironic when they hate anything else that's old)
I would argue that it is not as important, especially if you would get betrayed in the relationship. That pain leaves plenty of wounds to take care of for the upcoming years at least
@@icommitedwarcrimes4879 Ok, then you weren’t deprived of that developmental milestone like many of us were. It’s easy to say it doesn’t matter much if you actually had it, but I would venture a guess that you would have been much worse off having no teen love experience. Trying to get a first relationship as an adult with no experience is very difficult, and most women won’t want anything to do with you because of how much they’d have to teach you.
