Scar not even in the top 25 but go off . 🤔😂 Where are you from and I’ll find you fucked up shit that goes on there too. Fucked up shit happens anywhere you imbecile.
I am sorry for the wife. She was very nice to report her husband and talk to the family of that teen... I hope she had the custody of their kids and lots of support.♥️ Hopefully the teen has open her eyes now and get someone who respect her instead of a bad man. That must have been so hard for her mother. ☹️♥️
Well...........she’d only have two years left until high school graduation. She could have either been home schooled, still could have been enrolled in her high school but be allowed to do the assignments and be given the lectures on paper by each teacher while staying at home (I know of a student who did this that went to high school with me), or she may have had to toughen up like hell and go every day to school being bullied and harassed by every student about this!
Ya at 16 I thought I wanted a back tattoo and to have a baby but THANK GOD the law and my parents prohibited me from doing the things I thought I "wanted" because now that I'm an adult i'm aware that my decision making at that age was shit and I didn't know all the things I thought I knew.
Probably because scientifically a teens brain is not developed enough to consistently make good decisions, nor govern their own lives. Thus making them very prone to stupidity and manipulation. Which just anecdotally we know to be true even without the neurological evidence.
Throwing in the word **scientifically** doesn't make your statement even remotely accurate... There have been and still are cultures where people are considered adults at 12 to 16, and they raise and provide for families just fine.. Some cultures had child leaders.... If you don't mind, please cite the sources on these scientific studies of human brains and how they came to the conclusion of what year the brain becomes capable of deciding for oneself.
Lunamaria I literally read the first sentence of your reply and said out loud "you're completely stupid" 1. I hate when people put words in quotes as if they don't exist with real meaning. I said scientifically because I MEANT scientifically. Google is fucking free. And even if it werent, your science teacher failed you. It's a neurological fact that children and teens are vulnerable, or stupid however you want to put it, because their brain is not developed enough to consistently make great choices. 2. Lol you want to site sources on these so called great societies where all the families are being lead and raised by children? Clearly I'm talking to someone who has no idea wtf they are talking about. NO SOCIETY EVER HAS FLOURISHED ON THE BACK OF ITS CHILDREN. Fucking children are not raising families "just fine". All of this is bullshit pulled out of thin air by you because you're too fucking stupid to accept the fact that you're wrong. You must be a teen 🙄 3. Now I have to do the job of your science teacher. Clearly he or she was not following the curriculum and allowed your brain to rot to such levels of idiocy, that a random person in a RU-vid comments had to school you. And all you could come back with is fairy tales about societies where children raise the families and rule the lands. Life is not a fucking anime 🤦Educate yourself: www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=124119468
mbc kff it's about how she is raised, her life experiences, and the grooming of the 45 year old. Couple that with her being a child, and she ends up yet another teen prone to grooming and sexual assault. Laws are in place to protect people like her.
Ah, yes. Let's blame the 16 year old who was brainwashed by a grown man, who should know what he did (and was doing) was wrong. Because it's 100% the minor's fault.
She definitely has some sort of issue. I would guess her parents are too strict and at the same time aren't communicating with her like they should, so Esterly stepped in and filled the empty space.
Why is everyone cropping her out to be a victim?? She stole items from her mother, she chose to go with him, and they are both at fault duh!!! It takes two to tango. I don't think she's a victim I think she just acted out not for attention but because she wanted to. She's more at fault than he is except he's getting punishment and she going to some Hospital!! And I do recall every ADULT knew what was going on!!! And all the mother did was say stay away and the dudes wife knew about they're arrangements and what was going on and she still stayed with him until in made national news now she's in the spotlight and is leaving him??? It's another Jared Folgle all over again except the wife is getting paid to do interviews instead of taking half his investments.
She got issues, but you got'em too, so give them all to her and she'll give hers to you. Bask in the glory of all your problems, cuz you got the kind of love it takes to solve em. Yeah, she got issues, and one of them is how bad she needs you.
he did kidnap her. she's not an adult. pedos are able to manipulate children in ways that no one else can. even if she "consented" to go, she's not old enough to consent.
Can't think like that her brain is literally not even done developing it's alot easier for him to manipulate her immature brain it's the reason people aren't allowed to do many things before they turn 18
Beauty killer Deal with it no it’s not. It’s legal as long as the person is within a few years of their age. If she was eighteen then it would be legal.
@Mickey Zombish Divorced, lose everything, pay the attorney, the wife and child support for 4 kids plus 10-20 years and gang raped in prison is worth it? I wouldn't go around giving that advice.
Mike dav lmao 16 year olds are smart enough to know better, it’s not like the girl is 12. she knew exactly what she was doing/agreed to. I stopped feeling bad for her the second they said she stole stuff from her own family before she left.
Mike dav Slow down now, I said nothing about rape. I’m speaking on her leaving her home with him willingly. I’m a 16 year old girl, I know at that age we know better. 🤦🏻♀️ She knew what she was doing when she left with him; perhaps if he raped her along the way that’s probably not something she agreed to I can agree with that, but she definitely willingly left with him.
Mike dav I get what you’re saying but that has nothing to do with my point. I agree, he probably targeted her because she was young, however she still agreed to go with him and even stole money and such from her own family before leaving with him... Yeah he’s still completely in the wrong for even thinking of running off with a minor, but clearly she played a part in it aswell; and left willingly.
Mike dav The guy would be going to jail regardless of if he “manipulated” her... I get what you’re saying. But I’m saying as a 16 year old female myself, i know some my age may be (🚫TW🚫) a little slower in the head than others their age; but speaking for myself there would be no such thing as even talking to an older man, let alone knowing he’s married with 4 kids and being around his wife/kids... I don’t wanna argue further; she’s smart enough to know what she’s doing, regardless if he “manipulated” her due to her age. She likely also had something going on at home making it feel like an acceptable decision to leave the house with a grown man; but hey, that’s something the public will probably never hear about.
My friend was 11 when she left on her own free will and she was what you think is unharmed, what’s that have to do with anything? He is still a old nasty man.
The racial jokes are sick. A grown ass man took advantage of a dumb youth. There's nothing comical about that, I can't stand child predators and the men behind bars will make sure he regrets what he did to her.
As a person who made a racist comment, I agree, and apologize( to you only).For you see the truth “ everyone blames the young victim as tho it was her fault, and say nothing about the adult, who knew better” That’s why teens don’t speak up, cause they get shamed and victimized even more from these man-children minded fools😒
first off let me say that I think it is sick that a grown man would want to date a child. now with that being said the mass media tells us that these 15 year old to 18 year old are intelligent enough and wise enough to know that we don't need a second amendment but then they want to say they're not intelligent enough and wise enough to know who they love. I wish they would quit contradicting themselves on the children in our country
This is true... They do.. Butthe thing is in ceirtain occasions a 16 year old thinks they know what they want (speaking from experience) but then when they get older they start yo understand what they did not want to do and wish they never did so even though they act as if they do they really dont... Again this was me when I was 16 I thought I knew...
Honestly the embarrassing thing is that once the girl gets back to her family , it would be embarrassing because knowing that her family knows she had an affair with a man like 2 decades older than her is disturbing and disgusting
Despite her age... she knew what she was doing. I blame the both of them. Amt stole jewery and money, he took 4 thousand...she is NOT innocent! In my humble opinion...their both wrong. He shouldn't take all the blame. Thank you.
You don’t have children, do you? She’s under age she has her parents also legally , that guy ain’t his father and he’s taking her to another country, do I have to continue? Lol
Carolynngyn her age doesn’t determine maturity she knew damn well that it was wrong to run away with a older man let alone one that has 4 kids and a wife
Dude if you're a child or teenager and someone who isn't also a child or teenager they shouldn't be having any inappropriate contact or relationship. They don't care about you. They care about their predator needs. You'll screw up your life and they'll be on to destroy the next kid, while you're the one who has to live with the trauma. This was 5 years ago. I bet if anyone talked to her now she may realize the trauma she went through.
Its not really a suger daddy that guy only had 4000 in a joint bank account. With 4000 dollars those two will need to work their ass off to make a living.
@@michaelcastillo3231 with all due respect, are you my high school teacher?? Because, you are correcting people grammar, like my teacher used to do. P.s. Feel free to review my comment, for grammar error. 😏
TheUnatuber Yes, according to an interview I watched online, the mother said he's in China & can't come back. It was also said she's raised the 2 children mostly on her own. Fairly vague, but that's what I've seen in interviews with the mom.
I don't know anything about this case, 1st time ever hearing about it but When I read the title, I was genuinely happy. This world is so evil & crazy, all these young people,innocent kids dying so I'm happy to know she's alive and safe..xoxo 😘😘 =)
@@larsonfamilyhouse yes male at fault no denying there. The real problem is the denying of that poor lil innocent child who willingly ran away with that dumbass.
Come on people, what happened was wrong and the man should be arrested of course but this girl is not some innocent angel who was forcefully kidnapped. She went willingly, she helped set the entire thing up.
@ I remember being in high school and 14 year old girls would proudly brag they had boyfriends who were over 21 years of age. This young woman is not a victim not at all
All y'all are stupid. As a 16 year old Manhattan think they know what they want but they actually dont if at my parents would had condemedme for the things I did at 16 man... Must whole life would be ruined.. Shut up thinking 16 year olds are grown enough their really not
@@axelfoley1812 , yeah I've heard about stuff like that, and I'm wondering how the hell 14-year-olds were able to find men 21 and over to have sex with? Seriously, wher would they possibly run into those candidates?
Ramon Ronquillo Obviously, but the news was pushing the narrative last week to let 16 year olds to vote after the school shooting. They can't have it both ways.
1:12 Hmm, I don't like the looks of her in that picture. I see someone cold and calculated in her face. Sixteen is well old enough to know when you're being inappropriate and your decision to do so could potentially break up a family. It's shameful that the husband did this, but he's not all to blame here.
This is like what my sister is going through with my niece and this guy that we use to live with and they still talk to each other the cops are involved. I feel that justice system fail
Stop being so hateful towards children! As a 16 year old, the rational part of her brain is not fully developed. The brain does not fully develop until the age of 25, no matter if you are male or female. This 45 year old man knew EXACTLY what he was doing, a 16 year old does not.
Ba ba I agree! She was aware of what she was doing but he is far more responsible due to his age and experience. Youths are easily coerced by mature people. He's a creep!!
Yep, notice how hardly anyone blaming the adult? Yet , everyone continue to victimized the teenager, doesn’t matter if she reported the first time or the 20th Time, people still would have blamed her😒
Sad isn't it? People act like she has some kind of evil magic powers. Nope, she's just pretty and young. Men and boys today are so immersed in sexual fantasy, it's as if nothing else matters. I hope he goes to jail, tho even that is too good for people like him.
Ba ba the 16 does... It’s like when I was 14 I knew not to kill as I’d be in jail for the rest of my life And if not my life would be ruined Some people think, some don’t
Ahmed J. Um I’m 13 and even I know that would be wrong don’t start using her age as an excuse , it would be understandable if she were like an 8 year old but she in fact knew what she was doing .
Argument Invalid so in 2 years her brain will be fully developed and she can fuck whoever she wants? Your problem is you guys treating adults like kids, when I was 14 I used to go to school and work to support my single mom, I can't see how 16 can't think straight Btw I don't condone that sick pig actions in any way
I only see men trying to say 16 is an adult. Some lady's too but mostly men. It's like men want to be able to fuck these kids so badly. Never have I heard a women claim its okay to fuck a 16 year old boy. Why are you guys such disgusting creatures?? The fuck is wrong with men?? We need to keep our daughters away from these creeps ewwwww
Argument Invalid And exactly. Like we learn this is biology and health. 16 year old's are easily manipulated. If you do a simple google search, you can see that their brains, are not developed completely in certain areas. Yes you can be independent and doing shit at 16 but that doesn't mean you are an adult.
your mom should learn what a double negative is because if she truly taught you what you just said then your mom is telling you to say something. "don't say nothing" means "Do say something". Just an FYI, you might wanna let your mom know she has been teaching you all wrong.
Thank you. " profesor " you sound just like my daughter !!!! Is I want any help with my education I'll contact you next time !!! ARE YOU AN STABLE GENIOUS TOO ????
This is sad...once it settles in and she realizes what happened and who she hurt (which is herself as well as the wife and many other affected people) it's going to hit hard! then the real work can be done, but until then she wont see how this was wrong. I most definitely believe sex was involved in this and that's going to hurt her even more, the fact that she let someone who was willing to abandon his own for her, inside of her...it's going to hurt and well there is no remedy for feeling used :( after the fun is over.
She don't seem as she was a victim.. smiling and all the pictures with him.. Even on the beach in Mexico.. it seems like her mother knew what was going on.. She was more mad than crying
He has known her since she was 8. He had to have been grooming her. I mean it's wrong regardless if he had known her for 8 years or not. He is a grown man. Imagine being 8, and suddenly having a father figure who WANTS to spend time with you. She was being groomed, and her being blamed for it is nonsense. Just because you were a smart 16yr in YOUR opinion means nothing. I go to school with 15, 16, 17, year olds and they do NOT have the critical thinking skills more than half the time. I know freshman dating like 20 year olds so...
$14,000 to be exact. The man took $4,000 from his wife. The girl stole $10,000 from her mother. It’s disgusting enough that this man was even with a 16 year old, but what makes it worse is that he dropped everything just to be with her & didn’t give a damn about his four daughters that he left with 28 cents.
This girls is just as guilty. I don’t buy the “victim” thing after a certain point. My grandmother was married at 15 and had 2 kids by 17 and they are all successful adults. She was smart and knew what she wanted and wasn’t a victim. This girl is 16 and she fell in love with this guy because they were allowed to spend time together and develop an inappropriate relationship which ended in a crime being committed. Married women - take heed... If you have a husband and your daughters have female friends this very well could happen to you if you’re not careful.
Your grandmother was in fact a victim of child’s marriage no matter how you spin that is an indisputable fact. If she’d been born today she wouldn’t have been able to drive or do most anything “adult” without some form of guardian supervision. Im glad your grandmother turned out fine but don’t idealize or try to justify an incredibly awful thing
Yeah they need to stop weird laws about 15+ not being adults. Maybe a few over protected aren’t fully adults but I know I for sure was and so were most of my friends. If you can be charged as an adult for murder at 15 you can have say over what you do with your body. If your 15 year old can’t make adult decisions you’re doing something wrong. If something happens they won’t be prepared. It’s tragic this country is going backwards regarding age and trying to control the bodies of young women. That being said, you should divorce your husband if you think he’s interested in a 15 year old. If he’s interested in anyone other than you that’s his fault, not someone else’s.
sheets0f metal not really...there's at least 1 million American expats living all over Mexico. What's crazy is how brainwashed many of you are by your controlled medias.
Not worth goin' thru the comments. Don't do it. Imagine asking Cardi B about her thoughts on politics. That's this entire comments section. Switch on over to your makeup tutorial or newest DonutOperator video. You're welcome.
She's not a victim, she knew exactly what she was doing. But for those saying she should go to jail or be charged are ignorant. You can't charge her with anything because she didn't break the law. While she was not really a victim, he did commit the crime of starting and continuing a relationship with a minor. As well as "kidnapping", cause she's underage, her to Mexico.
Here in California the Chinese massage parlors are an underground industry... are everywhere! competing with Mexicans and Russians.. What about Pennsylvania ?
@@Gary-jh3wd "blaming", rme 🙄, no, he's a sicko, he's an adult, but she didn't get kidnapped. She ran off with him,,, stole money and Everything, I was 16 too once, legally it's not "her fault", but she for some sick, awful, reason, ran off with that gross, older, blah, after his wife and her parents tried to keep them separated and stop the relationship,,, I feel bad for her, not "blaming" her, but if she threw a rock off an overpass and hit someone with it she'd be tried as an adult and everyone would be looking at her alot differently... I simply stating that she ran off with him and that Gonna be a regret enough,,, In no way am I saying she should be punished,,, but she one day gonna barf at the thought. Never mentioned it was "her fault" this older schmuck was attracted TO her and tried to have a relationship, but it IS gonna be a regret in a few years time that she willingly shared the same attraction (for some horrible reason) and stole money etc. From her family and ran off with him. Every girl has a cringe in their past,, and he's a total cringe, I'm saying I feel bad that she gonna have that regret. They most obviously having a sexual relationship. It's gross. I think it's gross when ANY young girl is attracted to older men, whether they're 22,18,26,16!!!!that's alot of cases where these young girls are attracted and run off with these gross older men,, and I just don't get it! Like straight up attracted to, and having relations, and RUNNING off with gross older men. Not just gross because their older and attracted to young girls, not like physically gross... It is bizarre to me.
