Stirling cooper, Justin waller, Andrew & tristan tate, David goggins. These men and many others have absolutely transformed my life. As a 19 year old i feel absolutely privileged to be able to learn from these men.
It's great she said women can't operate under stress which goes against on eof the feminist biggest argument that women handle stress better and can perform stressful jobs well or better than men. So ironic
@@lavinder11 them laying on a bed and screaming. Idk how you think childbirth is equivalent to warfare or crash landing a plane. You literally don’t do anything besides lay down and push.
Thank you, Sterling, for acknowledgment and how important masculine and feminine energy and recognizing both can be. When I first heard of the concept it really improved my interaction with my husband in my marriage. I could finally embrace the concept of surrender instead of competing…which he didn’t find very sexy anyway. I wish more young people were aware of the law of attraction!
10:25 The way he handled that question was like a BOSS! She was expecting a certain answer and he just responded with insight that she had no clue about and was so much better than what she asked.
I've always said I've found when I have sex i lose myself as if the other person isn't even there. And that's when I've had the best sex and had the women climax. When I have a good time she has a good time and vice versa. It's like the energy as Stirling said is just flowing through us both. I believe it goes back to the principle of enlightened self interest. When we take care of ourselves first, which to a simpleton equates to selfishness, we can take care of others.
Exactly that. A woman will sense when you’re using her to have a good time and like it. This isn’t selfishness it’s just the key to good sex. As Stirling says, it conveys a manly attitude of knowing what you are doing.
I struggle with confidence in the bedroom because I have a small member. I start off good, but then every girl eventually comments on it then I get in my head, overthink everything, and then eventually the whole relationship goes to shit and we stop talking.
Sorry to hear that. Have you tried to get her to touch it through your clothes before everything gets going; she gets some advance warning. I'm sure you compensate in other ways.
Fuck em! This is what they gonna get and this is what u got we can’t change that! Next time a woman will mention it say “my fella still getting sum” What I’m saying is be happy with what u got, there is people just like you who wanted to increase their size and got themselves side effects and one of them is this syndrome called “hard flaccid”
yea man, its a struggle. Hookups never go well, and I just end up turning down sex with women a lot. I am able to easily get women into the bedroom and escalate, but I can't get past my insecurity.
"Leading in the bedroom" is something that needs to be explained further. I know what it means, only because I bought your reading materials, but thus is a topic that should have its own video/tutorial.
for me how i always envisioned it is that the man is the writer and the woman is the director, you have your play you want to act out but the woman is sort of directing when or if needed if there's something in particular she wants more of or want in a specific way, so you pretty much already know what you are gonna do as a guy and really only deviate from that if there's direction from the woman to do something different or differently or for longer or for shorter, more intense or less intense. as a dude i think you just gotta have some fun ideas that you bring, and most of it is you acting it out, where the fun actually comes in is if she brings a few ideas of her own that she wants to do to you, that's usually how i measure how comfortable a woman is with me or sex in general and how interested she actually is.
I think he missed the point of her question when he answered with (paraphrasing) 'sex workers do vanilla sex at home.'' I think she was asking about emotional investment of having sex, rather than about how complex/athletic/acrobatic the sex would be.
The comment at 10:45 applies to so many professionals that work in SIN/adult industries.. I'm a bartender with 20ish yrs experience.. i can make countless fancy drinks and be charming in big groups, and vibe in almost any social situation.. Outside of work 1 on 1 is my preference. I drink simple ... beer, wine, and bourbon
You two need to talk about men and women over 50 and the struggles we have in the bedroom, assuming men can get the woman into the bedroom... I've been reflecting on this lately as I am in this situation. Made me think about why older men cheat on their wives. Seems fairly simple to me... men are still very sexually active mid 50's whereas (it seems) women are not. That leads to a lack of intimacy. Intimacy is rather significant when it comes to keeping people together. Almost like a glue. Remove that, and what keeps them together, keeps them close? I'm not talking about just one-off situations like an illness or whatever, that makes the woman disinterested in sex for a short while. I'm talking about long term. The slow decline and eventual disinterest in sex by the women. When that happens has the relationship simply devolved into being room mates? What is the man supposed to do if he is still sexually active? Talk about this please.
You tell your wife you have needs, and she'll be a statistic with cats if she doesn't step it up. Of course if you aren't sexy(to her) or have enough leverage, you WILL fail. It's obviously hurting you enough to tell strangers on the internet, essentially calling for help, so let your wife know something is wrong and has to change.
@@aggrosamuri681from personal experience, this is exactly what you have to do. Been married a long time and hit a rut a couple years back. I sat my wife down, was honest and open with her. Told her I loved her, but that I have physical needs and would rather fulfill them with her than with other women. That I was still young and at an age where I could pretty easily find someone new to fulfill those needs and she needed to make a decision. I told her I would be heartbroken if she told me that she didn’t care and I could leave, but I would ultimately respect her decision and move forward depending on her decision. We haven’t looked back and our sexual life is better now than at any point in our marriage since we had children. If your wife truly loves you, she’ll come around. She knows that if she has sex with you enough to keep you satisfied, it’s way less than what a new man in her life would want to stay in a relationship. And I’m pretty sure loneliness is one of the biggest fears a 50 year old women has.
Just divorce her. No man should waste his time on washed up women of 40+. Male erectily dysfunction is largely because of low attraction towards their aging partners.
@@jimj2683 yes, but assuming you do still love this woman and assuming you have a family which, for your children, is better off intact. And also assuming that you don’t want to lose half your shit at the point in your life where it will be the most difficult to earn back, I say give her an honest, respectful ultimatum. It’s like a job. If I’m working hard and my boss isn’t recognizing the work I do or the value I bring to the company, and I’m not getting the raise and/or bonus I expect - I can just walk out and try to find another job which may not be better, or I can have an honest discussion with my boss and explain my expectations. Now my boss can tell me to take a flying leap in which case I leave anyway, or he may think about it and start to change the way he treats me. My point is that simply burning that bridge is not always the best 1st step.
There's plenty of women sexually active in their 50's and 60's. The men fail to realize that she may be no longer attracted to him, especially if he's the average man who has let himself go. I guarantee you if your wife became single, she would suddenly be interested in sex again.
Just to be clear, taking the risk of making a mistake kind of understates the severity of the consequences, don’t you think? Aziz Ansari did something like that and it didn’t go well for him.
Yes, but the advice given here is by the 1% of men that girls go silly for anyway for the 1% of men the girls go silly for anyway. Or basically women make all ethical judgments with their pussies. If a guy makes them drip, they’ll allow him to do literally anything. For example, Ted Bundy got bred by a woman while he was in prison for serial killing women.
This may sound silly, but doing a little stretching before intense sex wouldn't hurt. Especially when you get older, you can cramp up. That SUCKS! Definitely ruins the mood.
Such a hard thing to deal with that as soon a man doubts himself, she doubts him A man is a human and she be able to have some doubt. Any intelligent man will
The advice seems solid but how did we get to a point where people have to think about all this just to have sex? It's almost like people do not think that wanting sex is a good reason to pursue it. They want a resume before they can gain confidence for sex. No wonder pornography exists.
All this NEGATIVE DRAMA surrounding the male female interactions are what is ruining relationships, that is what's in their heads 24/7 for way too many couples.
Women love animals 😜, guy needs to sweep her away, leave her speechless 😂! Guys, she’s a girl, she wants to feel calm an rely on you that you know what the f*ck to do ! This is actually one of benefits of watching porn, at least you get to know different scenarios, although porn is definitely should not be a substitute to seeking relationship or even short ones.
Its videos like this why I hope so bad that sex robots become an actual thing. These people have made it so complicated and convinced us all on this crap. I'm so done with it.
Am waiting to read a comment like "Took ur advice, was a dominate man in the bedroom, i took the lead etc and as i sit here writing this from a jail cell charged with rape all I've got to say to you is......
@StirlingCooper maybe it's me, and my sense of humour, and if that's the case apologies, my bad, wasn't meant as a prediction, just a skit, a bit of banter aka a joke, obviously no-one would have access to RU-vid while padded up (ain't supposed to, anyway) lol, seriously though was just a daft joke, not to be taken literally, big respect to you Stirling 😉 some life you've lived already
@StirlingCooper would you mind giving a few minutes of your time Stirling and answering just one quick question please 🙏 If you could only give 1 piece of advice to men regarding the opposite sex, what would it be? Personally I believe the best advice would be along the lines of "Be a Man, not an idiot from back in the day who treated women as a slave/punching bag instead of an equal but be a man as for example, ur partner asks u want do u want to eat? Don't just say something like "whatever u want babe, ur choice" etc and that constant "I love u babe, can't live without you crap" they hate that, obviously be nice, be respectful but be a man to,
@fourshore502 That just sounds as if you are sexually frustrated. Cause it doesn’t even make sense. Sex is a very very important part of the human experience, as we have sexual organs which are supposed to be put to use. It’s in our biology.
@@3-methylindole730 its also in the biology of every other animal and insect, so what? its simple, basic, primitive and can have a negative effect on higher cognitive functions. i would argue that sex is not a "very very important part of the human experience" at all. sex is a trick by nature to make procreating feel good to make sure that the species survives. do you realise how many kids are born every day just because someone busted a nut in someone else without a condom but didnt actually want to have a baby? or how many people cheat on their partners because they just get horny? also, it was an answer to "sex is life" as if sex is the highest goal in life which it isnt, at least not to me.
@@wyleecoyotee4252 tadalafil is better (well never tried viagra so no comparision but im happy with tadalafil anyway) if you want to fuck all night long there is no other way
@Arnold Allen Thank you! I was horrified by what I heard. This "be selfish in the bedroom and she'll love that" mentality is all wrong. Most women want men to seek out what they want just like women do the same for men. Seems very one sided. Confidence does not equal selfishness and that's all I heard from him.
