Mob Koj Koj Thiaj Paub. 6/2/23 

I’m still living this life. I am still working the courage to leave. 20+ years of this shit!! I’m so glad you were able to get away and start anew.

I can relate to this lady my husband has a gambling problem too n I’m thinking leaving him too

Hais 3 zaug xwb yog nws hloov ces hloov lawm. Khiav tawm yog qhov zoo

Xum nrauj nyias nyob nyias thiaj kaj siab, ntxov tso ces ntxov zoo thiaj tsis nkim sijhawm laus tas.

I can relate. No with the gambling but the drinking. My in-law do not like me either because I don't like their heavy drinking.

Good for you sister but a lesson for all Hmong people and many others is to not care about what others think or say about you. They ain’t paying your bills and have literally zero effect on your life so why even care what they think or say just to put yourself down. Live your life and f all the haters!

Kuv tau ib tug txiv zoo li ko kuv twb muab nrauj kiag pov tseg kuv los ua poj nrauj kuv Kaj siab tshaj

Cov txiv neej zoo li ko ces kav tsij nrauj sai ntxov nrauj ntxov dim xum ua poj nrauj Kaj siab dua os

Tsev neeg liam li no ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo. Mob hlwb tiag niam txiv tsis xyaum ua zoo tsis qhia tej tub ntxhais coj zoo tseem qhia tub ntxhais liam li nws thiab xwb.

Tus neeg twv txiaj ces tsis muaj dab tsi kho tau yog tias nws tsis lees kev Txhaum thiab nrhiav kev pab os me viv ncaus. Tsuas yog taum txhob thiab hlau xwb thiaj li kho tau nws os. Koj txoj neej neeg no yog kiag li kuv txoj thiab. Kuv twb raug liam tham hluas nraug ib yam li koj thiab os. Koj yog neeg zoo ces nws yuav xyav koj lub koob phem npaum li cas los kav tsij nyob ua neeg zoo li koj ua mog. Wish you the best.

I’m surprised you and many women stayed so long in a marriage and kept having babies when they know they got a messed up husband

Cov niag niam pog kws txw nws niag tub mas kuv tsi muaj tabsis kuv ntxub ntxub cov niag niam pog phem li lawv os lawv E.

I'd say...leave the moment you realized you've married a corrupted family! Life is too short...

Ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo os txhob cia puas credit tag neej piam tag rau txoj kev twv txiaj no os! Nrog koj zoo siab koj mus tau tus zoo hlub koj os mog..

Sister, I can relate to your pain and your story. I once lived a similar life like yours and I also got away from it. People will talk and people will hate but just remember that their words will only encourage you to be the best and the haters will never compare. What matters now is that you’re free and you’re happy.

Cov neeg quav txiaj ces yeej hais tsis tau os

Ab… cas yus tsis muaj peev xwm li tus viv ncaus no ne? Nyob lub neeg yuab siab ua luab. Kuv nyob kiag lub neeg li no nas. Thov ntuj los tsis paub li os nkawg aw😢 Tsis liam leeg twg os, tiv yus mus tsis tau xwb. 😢

I love how the only thing other people have to say when women are tired of years of BS while being patient and is now ready to leave is that the woman was "cheating" 😂.

Lub ntiaj teb yeej muaj neeg phem, tiam sis ua as lub ntiaj teb ho muaj cov pojniam ruam li tus no thiab

Ladies, know your non-negotiables. Please add gambling and addiction as your non-negotiables. There's really no future with these behaviors. The sooner you leave, the better off you will be. Plus don't stay in these type relationships so your children can pick up these bad behaviors. Break that cycle, free yourself, and work hard to reach your goals. People like her ex are 100% loser and will not add any value to help you reach your life goals.

Thaum nw tau tsuaj lawm ma txau ntshai heev lis os

Ua cas es cov txiv neej uas nej qhuas qhuas thiab ntshaw ntshaw es zoo li tsuas yog cov normal txiv tsev xwb. Puas yog tsis muaj cov zoo lawm?

Kav laus2 lawm, yog yuam kom nkhaus ces kawg lov. Neeg laus2 lawm, kom paub, ces lav lim thiaj tau xwb😂😂😂

Tus sister aws cas koj lub neej thiab kuv lub neej es nim zoo ib yam os kuv nrauj kuv tus txiv vim kev tuv txiaj tabsis nws tseem coj kuv mus hais tias yog kuv tham hluas es thiaj khiav nws thiab no tiag tabsis kuv tsis k xwb cov neeg twv txiaj qub neeg qub siab yeej hloov tsis tau cia nws ua nws es hlau thiab taum txhob mam hloov nws xwb os

tau txiv quav txiaj ces lub neej kawg xyob txhiaj, tau nyab xyob txhiaj los yog vim kev twv txiaj, ua neej tsis sib hlub ces txhob yug ntxhais yug tub. yus mus khaws noj luag qub zaub ces zaum no yus paub tsis paub hahaha.

Why still give him $6000? He owed your parents money. You should give that money to your parents.

Hai tau zoo heev

Good luck helping relatives every weekends.

Cov txiv dev zoo li no xwb es ua cas nej cov niam yuav mus uv tau ntev ua luaj li. Kav tsij muab ntsawv thoob khib nyiab xwb..

Nyob zoo nawb me Nyab kuv mas niaj hnub hnoos koj os yog li tus viv ncau ntawv hai lawm nawb yom

Lawv tus tub ua phem npaub li cas los yeej zoo rau niam pog thiab cov muam. Hnub twg yus pib hais ces yus tseem Yog tus phem ntag. Yog yus ua npau li mas ntse lawv twb muab yus xa peb caug hnub nram ntej laws os.

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It's good you did what you did but I would have got rid of his candy ass years ago.

Mloog ua ke os❤❤🎉

We are all looking for something we don't have, lol you looking for money so that's what you found. The lady is looking for love so that's what she got

When we are going through our trails, people will believe the ex's lies. It's always the wifec was cheating. 😆 But it's the inside chapter that counts. Cus that's when their true colors will come out. I'm glad you found a better life and much happier. He doesn't deserve you.

Twb paub tias g hlub yus los yus kuj cuab nplib rau nws nthawv tas zog thiab, tub ceevxwm cab nws rau nkuaj xwb mas!

Koj tsis nco qab txog koj cov kwv tug meska. Cov dev liam zoo li koj tus ntawv ces tuamtxob thiab hlau thiaj pab tau lawm xwb.

Yog kuv los yeej dhuav koj thiab las mas. Niaj hnub nyob qaj nyob qauj foob thaub rau ub rau no tau 10 tawm xyoo. Koj twb paub hnub 1 koj nkag mus lawm na, es koj tseem nyob txog xyoo 10+ thiab 5 plab o diam na. Mloog xwb twb ntxim dhuav lawm, es yuav hais lawv tsev neeg dhuav koj naw. You were willing, no need to complain 😂

I’m not going to take advice from a mother who can have their own baby murdered. You have blood on your hands now, repent and trust Jesus to have your sins forgiven.

That is true. You did the right thing.

Neeg phem ces ntxov nrauj ntxov zoo xwb mas

Yog lawm, koj tsis nyiam lub neej tiamsis koj pheej tseem nyob. Yus nyiam yus li koj niam hais. Cov pojruam li koj ces txawj tham xwb, tais cau heev. Koj los ruam, koj txiv los ruam, koj niam los ruam, nej yog tib cov ruam raug dag paub nyiaj

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Know your worth! Don't gamble your life away...pun intended!! It's a waste of energy on these toxic people.

U own him and this family tiam ta los. Ha ha ha 😂😂😂😂

Don’t waste your time on this kind of life sister, you deserve way better than that! All they do is perpetrate you as this bad person and lie to others about you. They’re the ones that gamble and steal, lie and cheat. To hell with them! They can say all they want but a lot of people already know the truth. Karma did it’s job!

My favorite. I wear the same shoes. Life ended with two separate routes.

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Why don't you get a restraining order against him and his whole family? That family is one screw up family. They're the one who told you to leave. But yet they're gonna turned around and blamed and lie about you. Well, glad you finally left and divorced him. That bullshit hmong men can cheat and do everything they want to do but the woman can't do.

I can’t believe you allowed him to gamble with your father’s money. I would be so upset and make him pay back every penny. Good thing you didn’t follow him and become an addict too. My husband and I only go to the casino once a year and I hate it when we lose more than $100. You can get a nice meal or shoes with that!

Thov nb mog kv maj maj lm os

I swear Hmong people are the worse when it comes to victim blaming.

You wait too long.....

Get help!

Most Hmong youtubers do not even know how to write correct Hmong phrases for their story titles. The title of this story must be used the word "mas" or "ces" between the words "Koj Koj". Nyob rau hauv kuv cov kwv tij tau muaj tshaj 3 families sib nrauj ces cov txiv tsev tsis muaj chaw nyob vim txoj kev twv txiaj rau cov poj niam tiv tsis taus txoj kev txom nyem.

I don’t feel sorry for you. You killed a fetus? You could have divorced in the 1st month of marriage and not continue this agony for so many years. Why?

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I don't know why this lady care so much about their gossip?....i would not care...it is america....you should have reported to the police...

Nyob zoo os phooj ywg kuv taug koom koj lwm os py 👍

Kv xav muab kV zaj rau kj piav thiab😭