Modern men are hypocrites 

"You get the Instagram model, then want her to act like the Church girl". This is it in a nutshell! Its like a woman getting a thug, then expecting him to be a responsible father. People are delusional.

They only tell women to choose better to shift the responsibility off of themselves. They don't REALLY want women to choose better because they know if we did most of them wouldn't get the time of day.

This is true. They want IG baddies but somehow want those women to be plaine Jane's while ignoring actual plaine Janes then wanna complain 😂

Marriage is no solution when men don’t even see women as human

BM's nightmare is another BM with High morals that tells the truth, is honest, fears GOD. If Shumake was dusty, dishonest, abusive, they'd like him.

These dudes don’t know what they want…they stay double talking and contradicting themselves.

Our community is beyond garbage! They stay blaming women for being single moms but the fathers are never held accountable. Ask these men who is responsible for where they lay their seed and watch how they bring it back to women.

They are lying about their influence on women and they know it. They know that the overwhelming majority of women they impregnate would marry them if they ask. They know it. Come up with excuses not to do what’s right and blame her for believing in him and giving him a chance. They want her to say yes to his angle at gaining access but despise her for accepting him. This is dereliction at its finest. The baby is a punishment for many of them because the woman was stupid enough to believe him. He takes pride in her ruin.

I do not understand why something that literally takes the consent of TWO adults is always placed solely on women granting access. Does that mean that men never say no to sex and are happily obligated to lay down with any and all women? Can any woman walk up to any man and demand sex and the man has no choice but to oblige her because she is giving him access? Do men have absolutely no say-so or authority over who they sleep with? 🤔

Yep, modern men of y’all generation make commitment seem like a crime. I tell the young bucks the power of a Queen.

I can tell that you and my husband would be great friends. My husband calls the red-pill guys and the polygamy guys late bloomers. He says they've struggled to get the type of women they want or have the type of relationship they want and they're throwing a grown up tantrum.

More men need to take accountability for the role that they play in Singo parenthood

Women have woken up. And now we are telling it like it is - “the game” is actually abuse and is dishonorable. Deep down, or maybe even not that deep, men know this and don’t want to accept the fact that they’re being called to either heal or be left in the dust.

Women may have access but the men are willing participants & they make the decision to plant their seed in women their not married to. ✨️

Thank you for being a mature and sensible man and speaking to these toxic men!

Stay strong nerdy ladies! 💪🏾 Man! Dudes STAYED passing me by for the thots 🤣 I was "too boring".Yes, even we got friend zoned lol. It's okay ladies.

They want to confuse women on this main point so that we are double minded about who deserves access to us. In one breath they are all over SM saying we wont answer DMS, we act like we too good to just talk to them..basically us choosing better or being selective. And when we do select, thats the wrong guy or we didnt just give it to the men in our DMS. They want to make SEX a womans fault and issue..whether the guy ends up being good or bad they want the act of sex to only be a detriment to the woman. No matter what was said to us, we are at fault. So thats why we are now like fk it, we wont be giving it up to NONE OF YALL. Case closed.

I have been faced with same attacks from some male friends too . When you talk about treating ladies right , they would call you a simp or soft yet the same confused and hypocritical dudes want their own female loved ones to the treated good and nice by men . They label you a simp or other kind of inhuman names when you extend respect and tenderness to every other lady out there . But see you as a nice responsible lad when when you do the same to their own sisters , daughters ,extended female relatives etc . Brother just stay focus doing the great job you are doing . Most of these men don't even really know where they stand or what they want in life . They are just confused and toasted around by every trend .

The manosphere is a collection of contradictions. I think most would truly be better served in same sex relationships because they seem to only tolerate most women.

I've noticed the common denominator among good men is Jesus! Too many men in our community have an anti-Christ spirit. Lord, help em.

Women have access to sex not men. Who they having sex with then? I’m so lost

And a lot of them follow their friends and the rappers they listen to. it’s always some follow the leader type shit.

This is the part I always have a conflict with. Men shame women for giving it up easy but at the same time want to be able to sleep around, which requires women to give it up easy. So that same thing they shame so much is what they also want to consume so much...

I have children. Never understood how people who didn't have the other parent.. could just walk away from their children. You know how that feels.

This man is a true leader.

Scripture speaks about in the end times that people will love what’s wrong and hate what’s right. Keep ministering Brother!!! The world needs more stand up Men like you. It’s sad that a lot of men are actually lost and want to remain lost. It’s like a lot of them just don’t want to get it. If this man can get it right they certainly can as well.

"You hate what you're attracted to". That's a word! I grew up hearing my mother say BM aren't ish. When I grew up, she told me it wasn't until she was in her forties that she realized she was attracted to the wrong type of man. The type of man she wanted to marry wasn't interested in the married lifestyle. She wanted to take that man home and domesticate him. That wasn't going to happen. After she told me that, I noticed she stopped talking negatively about BM.

You are doing what The Most High intended for the men of our community to do, continue to allow him to use you to “CRY ALOUD, SPEAR NOT, LIFT UP YOUR VOICE LIKE A TRUMPET IN ZION, SHOW MY PEOPLE THEIR TRANSGRESSIONS” I pray The Most High continue to bless you and your family!!

It's sad we have very very few MEN like you in our community... We have to continue to uplift you.. because you uplift us!

Imagine a man say he high value, but sleep with low value women. Imagine being a decent guy and get mad when the woman get pregnant. Now it's her fault. I'm trying my best to keep my eyes open and not make any mistakes out here in these streets. People in general desire people they can't have and not willing to put in the work. A man say money is enough. A woman say my beauty and vagina is enough. Move smart people. Video👏👏👏

PREACH, brother, PREACH! To hell with ANYONE coming at you for saying and doing the right thing. You will be rewarded! Everything you’re saying is right on the money! Stay true to your convictions! Nothing you’re saying is wrong! Nothing! I agree with you 10000%. You have decency and integrity! You have self respect! I applaud you! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Yasssssss!

They want the sex but don't want to be responsible or accountable for the babies they produce. That's it, that's all. That mothers baby father's maybe rhetoric started because men were not, and are not being responsible for their kids.

A lot of manosphere is red pill rage. I actually support the manosphere (on the outside as a woman) but I think they’re using that community to duck responsibility, discipline and accountability as well! For example, I used to agree with the “women have access” to sex argument until I realized it’s the MANS responsibility to account for his sperm because THAT gives life 👌🏾

Finally a man who sees through the hypocrisy of modern males bs

In my opinion, red pill dudes and modern feminists are two sides of the same coin. When you look at it, both groups are telling themselves the same thing (sleep around, don't settle for less, he or she is always at fault, etc). (Please note that that was a generalization.) It feels like men and women are being pitted against each other and are starting to see one another as enemies rather than allies. We need to rid our lives and minds of the toxic drivel of these hypocrites and instead focus on how we can help one another. Men and women need to figure out what they want from each other so that nobody ends up hurt and confused. We are complementary but a lot of folks don't understand that.

I’m the husband of Meachum Village lady. Instead of inviting me to the dark side, I invite you to join the light. Lol. My standards come from scripture. So when I was seeking a wife, Proverbs 31 was my check list. 12 anniversaries later and no regrets. When we are faced with issues, we both submit to the standards of Christ. I fast regularly, and am constantly listening to audio Bible. Trust me, by any man's standards, my wife is gorgeous, like dudes' heads on swivel bout to crash driving by (that actually happened). But when we first met, I did not ask her on a date for an entire week because I did not want her beauty to distract me. I drilled her on her knowledge and relationship with Christ. She blew my mind. She had just come back from the peace corps, not a common thing for pretty girls. Our first date was at a Thai restaurant. I told her 3 months later that she can forget about being single again. I know that there are well intentioned brothers who have been hurt in relationships. Most guys choose the wrong type of woman and overlook quality women, only to find that she is a headache.

That's the comment of a angry dude who can't get layed.

Oh snaps it’s getting real…weak brothas exiting the room 🙌🏾applause bro! “You are attracted what you hate!”…phew that’s such a deep statement you made…🤙🏾

Saying you sound like Derrick Jaxn is not the insult they think it is. It wasn't Derrick's talking points that were flawed. It was the fact that he wasn't living what he was preaching. He's a complete hypocrite. If he walked what he talked, there'd be no issue.

Literally, it’s a lot of women being mixed into the hookup culture with no game knowledge falling for the guys that’s hiding their insecurities thinking we can change them. They’ll never change until they want too.

Thanks for speaking up Shumake. They want to be able blame women for why so many single mothers exists, but also guilt trip so they can easily get what they want out of women. Your wife is lucky to have you. And I’m sure you’re lucky to have her as well!

BRAVO BRAVO 👏🏾 You are NEEDED, keep it up, I wouldn’t mind what they’re saying about women if they weren’t being hypocrites 🥴

Modern men are hypocrites, as you point out. In my casual dating life, I avoided long-term relationships that were toxic to my self-esteem. Money, bling jewelry, and fancy cars do not guarantee security. It seems that modern men are all about the 'image' of having money and power in order to attract women. However, this does not translate into actual security, as these men are often unable to provide emotional support and stability for a long-term relationship. This is similar to someone who covers a weak foundation with a veneer of grandeur. While it looks impressive on the outside, the reality is that it's just a facade, and the true structure underneath is still vulnerable and unstable. Ah, yes, just like a house of cards! Modern women have unrealistic expectations when it comes to dating men who earn six-figure incomes and they don't equate being high-value women with earning six-figure incomes.

These men are mad that you are telling the truth. The truth hurts and these men are lost, confused and easily triggered. They don't get women or the women they want, and they are jealous of men who do. Derrick Jaxn was very "flashy" in the way he spoke. His lack of authenticity was obvious. You can tell that you have good intentions and have clearly done inner work. Keep speaking and aggravating their demons.

The hypocricy is the problem. They always want their cake and eat it.

You changed your mindset and did an about-face, and your results are a wife and children. You are an inspiration, stay blessed, all praises due to TMH. Keep moving forward in grace and truth. 🕊️

Lol. He just explained how some men build themselves up, then flash their wealth, attract gold diggers, turn them into baby mamas, who then take their money, and leave them broke and bitter. That should be a chart. That breakdown was the whole Red Pill lifecycle . 😭😭🤣

You are a very wise young man. It’s sad that young people in our community do not value men like you. God bless you and your family.

That ego is the death of some men.

Only a TRUE King can deliver this kind of message, so thank youuu!!! Derrick wishes he had an ounce of your integrity. Never use that word “simp” to define yourself. That is not a King-worthy term and definitely does not belong to you. This message is sooooooo needed! Folks really got it twisted.✊🏾✊🏾

I just reposted this channel on my page... This is a blk man.. this is the type that deserves the love.. respect and the protection from blk women... We need to set a standard... If you aren't coming correct like him... Then you dnt deserve blk women... You don't deserve our love.. our advocacy!

I just subbed you, keep up with the content and never let these red pillers change you.

That man who made that comment just admitted that he don't have game lol

I couldn't agree more man, I somehow realized this when I was really young so I can proudly say I chose the right woman and I've only been with her throughout my entire life, and bro while growing up I got called all the type of things, you gay, you don't like women, oh you're too serious and the fucked up part is that unlike some people that are unaware. my "friend" group from school and etc that are now working adults are AWARE of what they're doing, they're like hooking up, having sex and etc and when we have deep life conversations and they talk about settling down they talk about their future wives as if they have to be saints and I'm like bruh 💀 that is such an hypocritical thing to do. but oh well their life their choices. I've always been the type of kid now man to say if you want something, be the embodiment of that something you want. If you want a pure lady, be a pure man, if you want a committed relationship, be a committed person, if you want someone understanding, learn how to be understanding. if you don't want someone that sleeps around DO NOT SLEEP AROUND dude I don't know how hard is to get that through some people skulls. Just like we are the medium of the 5 people we hang around with, our partner is literally the reflection of our character, that being said, in order to choose the right one YOU NEED TO BE ALONE, LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF.

Men don't need to act better, they just need to be better. Acting is phony, being is real.

I think this needs to be posted Hosea 4:14 " I will not punish your daughters when they commit whoredom, nor your spouses when they commit adultery: for themselves are separated with whores, and they sacrifice with harlots: therefore the people that doth not understand shall fall."

No lies told, sir!!!

what they're REALLY attracted to, is being in the place of judge and jury of other people's behaviors rather than simply make peace with the fact that these are women they don't want and putting in the work into bettering themselves. They'll say that they're a 'good man', and that they're high value, but high value men aren't blabbering about what other people are doing and giving their unsolicited opinions, nor are they trying to normalize abuse and sexualizing young girls

My husband and I were talking, and he explained that after his first kid was born that he did not want to make anymore babies until he was married. There is a 5 year gap between my stepdaughter and our first son together. I'm quite certain in that 4 year span before we met that he was dating and had access as they say, but he was responsible .Even he says it's cap to put it all on the women. When it comes to making babies men should be just as accountable. You never hear the "manosphere" address that aspect of it. In a way it seems like they try to absolve themselves knowin that it takes two to tango.

Much respect to you Shumake for being real, for holding men accountable, and exposing the toxicity. This is so rare in this world, you are a leader material. Respect

Great commentary young bro! I appreciate you! It’s a shame that it’s men/grandpas in their 50s that really pushing this negative bs towards younger men! It’s real sad..say on the wall bro

I'm 31, so I don't know if that puts me in the modern category or not, but I always hated the rhetoric that is being spread in the manosphere when it comes to women. Alot of red pill ideologies aren't about being a more moral, courageous, and caring man; it's all about materialism, lust, and deception. And alot of it comes from a lack of religion. Modern men don't read their Bibles. They don't think that the Creator is watching them and judging the way they treat others, including women. But everything that the manosphere teaches is the exact opposite of what Jesus taught. He taught us to flee sexual lust and control our urges, He taught us that "a man's life does not consist in the things he possess" (this includes women), and he taught us to love God and love our fellow man/woman. This stuff is never preached to young men, the only message they get is to be the guy who makes the world a worse place to live.

Amen young sir! Keep talking. I'm with you. I want my kids to exist in a world where our community follows the Word. Or at least those who do are more impactful.

So immaculate conception? That comment was stupid it takes two to tango

I have a shocker for men, who make comments about women who are single mothers. I have a lot of female friends who are not mothers. They all tell me that men get very offended when you won't date them because they have children with women they never married. As one said, obviously these men are failures at maintaining family situations, so what am I gonna do with him. Apparently men don't want to be held to the same standard they hold women to.

I appreciate your transparency and honesty. My father used to tell me don’t let these boys fool me but did not warn of the ways of fooling me. But I’m thankful for God’s grace and mercy. I have no children and I am in therapy healing trauma from the different relationships I’ve encountered. May God continue to bless you.❤

You are preaching brethren. 😅 Fasho. I’ve been subscribed for about a month but this video struck a cord with me. Most men I’ve encountered won’t say things like this but I agree. Everyone wants the behavior to cease but it starts within.

Wonderful, intelligent, insightful young man. He is a leader. Listen to him.

A lot of these men want to hold women more accountable because they know women are the true leaders and I honestly agree. Women have the power to change the world but keep listening to men who are just waiting to be told what to do.

Couldn't agree More with this Narrative!!..

Those kind of men seem to develop amnesia and act so oblivious to how one another truly behaves when it comes to women lol. I've always said, what's the first thing men say the minute they get a daughter, baby sister or niece? They joke about getting a shotgun to keep the boys in line and not hurting her. We all know men develop these little strategies to get past a woman's defenses. Although I do believe in accountability for women when it comes to their bodies and who gets access to them, we can't negate the fact that there's a lot of people out there who will still purposely target your vulnerabilities. It's cruel but a lot of them just don't care I don't think very many people sign up to willingly be a single mother. I think a lot of couples truly are in love and thinking long-term when they have children. Unfortunately things don't always work out and I don't see how that it's automatically a woman's fault! If anything I know plenty of women who stay far too long trying to fix things with their man.

Takes a man with a backbone to call other men on their shit. Nice to see a logical man who isnt afraid of backlash. I think you and Kevin Hicks are real men trying to do right by their children and family and community as a whole. Thank you.

4:07 is the exact double standard that women are faced with when it comes to dating

I WILL BE 54...and I am just finding out what to LOOK OUT for...I WILL BE LOOKING WITH "GOD VISION" from here on out...

They don't want you to tell women this because it makes it harder for THEM to get sex. They could not care less about making people change their behavior.

The lack of accountability is disgusting.

Truth is truth. 😇💖

Man! There is so much good stuff in this video that I want to quote but what really hit home for me was “There is more than one time of woman.” And “When you see women like that (IG model types) guess what you can do? LEAVE THEM ALONE” Yes!!! Thank you! It always bothered me that the males with podcast on the internet love to make women a monolith - and it’s usually the worst qualities in a specific group of women that they love to broad stroke and paint onto all women as a whole. “Women are like this” NO WE ARE NOT! WE ARE ALL SO DIFFERENT. But like you said Shumake, they have in their minds that they deserve a certain type of woman.

We are in a new era!!!! Thank you!

If we can clone a billion more of you , women would have a fighting chance of having a great relationship 💯💥

That sounded like a Kevin Samuels talking points....they all say what Kevin Samuels has said.. they sound like a bunch of Kevin Samuels robots!!!

They seem to think being a pookie and a ray ray is how someone looks, no it’s also the way they think, their mentality. They have good careers with jacked mindsets

This reminds me of Aretha Franklin's song Still a Rose. Some people need to listen to the words of that song, and watch that video.

I just told my nephew the same thing you said. Choose better.

wow. a man that gets it! you're extremely sound of mind. A lot of men need to tune in and listen.

I love when people call people out on their 🐂💩

Your points are too logical for the illogical minds out here. SMH.

Your content is so valid. And our community needs more positive voices like yours. I only wish blessings for you and everyone who keeps you thinking the way you do. God bless you my brother

The motto of the day: LEAVE EM ALONE IF THATS NOT WHAT YOU WANT.

Yup been seeing this going on. I agree with this 100%

You are speaking truth.❤

KEEP SHEDDING "LIGHT"....TOOO MUCH LOOSENESS IN THIS WORLD...

Great message!

Damian Marley once said "use cheddar at the bait and you'll recruit the rat". Met my hubs of almost 20 yrs when we were both working at Sam's Club... We both liked that the other one wasn't "anti-work" lol

I love what you’re doing here brotha! 💯 It’s going to take REAL God-fearing high value men like yourself to speak out in order to make a difference in this generation! 😭🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

You ain't nothing like Derrick Jaxxn (not sure how his surname is pronounced) and thank you for speaking up! And bringing Biblical perspective.

Great topic, much needed commentary and well delivered. TFS

Tell em! Glad to see a man talking to these men!

Keep doing what you’re doing, young man. Please help these misguided souls.

Wonderful young man. I hope his channel will grow tremendously and that he will maintain his humility and continue to trust God above all.