You have to confront the root of the fruit in your life. This is one of the best teachings I have done. I believe every single young person should watch this, and even people who have been divorced or going through marriage problems.
I had a rarely-discussed (medical/criminal statistics) childhood. Molested by a teenage girl (I'm the oldest of 3 girls) who primed me and I was 6-8 and wanted a big sis. After it went on and I was shown girl-on-girl porn, I (sadly) showed two friends what I secretly knew because I was "special." A couple of years later I learned it wasn't okay according to the Bible. By 14, I had started drinking, lost my virginity, began having panic attacks. I clung to my boyfriend at age 16, we got married - and I finally felt "safe." But I carried this SHAME until last year. My Christian family shamed me - they left me with this girl (their friend's daughter) - and I guess they can't handle what happened to me. But, I haven't touched alcohol in a year and refused to date for the last 2 years to allow God to do a complete overhaul. And HE did. Being molested by a girl drove me almost 30 years of hidden sex addiction - married 3 times and wanted sex daily or multiple x's/day. Gladly God limited the # of people I was drawn to (had every blood test completed) and I don't have any diseases or HIV! Never again. I'm unashamed and transparent now. God will bring who I'm supposed to be with. I had to face it all. Even though I was TOLD to let it go.... and now I'm happy to say that God is showing me how he can use the horrible molestation for the good. He forgave me! Praise God.
Thank you I needed this! My father molested me years ago and I was raped later. These incidents have affected me every day of my life since then. My father admitted it and my mom stayed with him and my family stayed by his side. My father died 17 years ago and my family still defends him. I recently decided to cut ties with them because they refused to see or admit the damage he caused. I also recently found out his father molested my aunt😢 The panic attacks I've suffered since 4 also come from my father's side of the family as well as genetic disorders. I've believed for some time there was something very unnatural and powerful coming against my family but I haven't heard this subject much. Praying for these curses and soul ties to be broken😢🙏🏻
Hi, I feel your pain. I also experienced molestation and rape by family members. The rape by a family friend and my family didn't support me either. I want you to know that God sees all, just work on your healing and gets some support elsewhere to get your deliverance. One day soon you will be able to support others because of your testimony. God bless you and remember Jesus loves you always.
Have a look at a brother kevinlaewing on RU-vid teaching generatinal curses also the book be feee from spirit spouses by Zita Grant. These demons enter through rape and molestation . Get the book. You will need to do a 3 day fast and prayer to breal off the generatinal curses. Of rape. Molestatin. It didnt start with you. It started in your fathers bloodline. Also.to come against spirit of anxiety. Panic attacks which come from spirit of Fear ( wanting to be in control)
@@rikim1693 you shouldn't tell someone to do a 3 day fast and they are still left with the same feeling. The person has to me led by the spirit even with that. It may take more than that, too.
Hang in there sister, I too suffer from panic attacks because of things I've endured both as a child and as an adult. Forgiveness is a tricky thing, but it will take tons of stress off of your mind and body. Faith, Hope and love, abide in these 3. I've lived most of my 37 years void of hope. I'm fighting to overcome my depression and each day is a struggle. It's true, we need God to overcome spiritual wounds, but we have to put in effort too. I believe in you 👍. You're gonna make it. Heck you're gonna do more than make it. Jesus said He came to bring us life and life more abundantly.
@ Marcus Rogers Wow!!! You just spoke to the child in me that was molested. From male and female. Wow. Now I see why i used to be promiscuous. And now I see why God has me in this lonely season. It's to get to the root of my problems.
Yeah. Now you have ask GOD break those soul tides. I got molested too and was out there. Now I'm celibate and I have no kids. I broke those tides. It takes time so be patient
This is so so good brother! Preach it! Love Holy Ghost moment! I was sexually abused for 20 years and Jesus healed me. Now I lead Journey to Heal groups for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse at my church and am a Christian Life Coach. Truth! Preach it! So good!! I felt Holy Ghost too! ✝️🙏🏼💖😍Lord, bless this brother, guide him and continue to lead him. Give him your extravagant love in abundance, in Jesus Holy name, Amen!
Galatians 3:13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a pole." And if we are freed from the law then we dont pay the price for Exodus 20:5 & Numbers 14:18 Their are NO MORE generational curses for those in Christ! Even if the new Testament isn't enough to convince you read Ezekiel 18:19-20 Through Christ we can do all things new through Christ!!
Why don't we ever hear this kind of teachings that we NEED, that are so important and crucial inside of a church??? I don't get it. Why is the church scared of real talk, isn't that exactly what we need, what the church should be there for?! The fact the church is NOT speaking about these things is causing so many problems and sin and people falling away.
@@sarahsmile2883 Mostly, some churches are not transparent. Too your point regarding money is wrong. If you have a Godly pastor and fulltime ministry, how do you think he is supposed to live??? The pastor is held accountable for your soul and he will be judge for which God has intrusted him with.
@@Lala-ht8ps well find me a pastor who will talk about demons, demonic oppression, topics about sex addiction and pornography, curses and witchcraft, SRA abuse . God has also entrusted them to talk about these topics as well, topics most people are struggling with, the barriers that put a true relationship with God impossible.
@@sarahsmile2883 sis, there are. Actually Dr Matthew Stevenson- All Nations Assembly Chicago. You are not limited to a church building. There are lots of youtube video. Ask God to lead you in that area as well. He knows what you need.
Yes every opening of the body. Demons are worse than fleas, can go into ears through evil music etc can go through mouth through bad foods etc through eyes by loking at porn etc thats a big way they enter earth plane is a constant battle.
@classyt20f7 you have to know first that they're evil spirits hovering over you, making you act and think the way you do...When temptation kicks in, always think that 'God is greater' than these spirits..
Yes all openings, ears.. gossip etc. the mouth through over eating, eating wrong foods, vagina with possesed men through sexual immorality with another man.
I spent a lil while trying to figure out how i'd initiate my comment. But mannn, you're speaking nothing less than facts. Its mind blowing because I literally sit and have these types of convos with God and to myself because a lot of people wouldn't understand what I mean or where I'm coming from. I'm currently in my season of allowing God to uproot and destroy things that have been brought against me by the evil one to defeat me. It's taking time but I must be patient for God. Spiritual Warfare is real, it does exist and we're all out here battling things that we do and don't have acknowledgment of. I pray that, whatever battles that the person(s) who is reading this are facing, God shines his light of knowledge, truth and understanding on you and may he break these evil bonds of oppression that we're under in Jesus name, Amen!
God bless you and thank you for this comment. My 2nd day fasting to break roots of my problems and listening and reading, I know God is leading me to things for my favour. Again, thank you and God bless you!
Galatians 3:13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a pole." And if we are freed from the law then we dont pay the price for Exodus 20:5 & Numbers 14:18 Their are NO MORE generational curses for those in Christ! Even if the new Testament isn't enough to convince you read Ezekiel 18:19-20 Through Christ we can do all things new!! Stop teaching false docturine!
I was molested for years and suffered as everyone hailed my predator as a hero. I have hurt so many people in my life as a result of the molestation I endured. I was a addict for years and suicidal for most of my life. I am very shutdown as a result. I can be emotionally draining to those around me because I get so deep inside of my own head. As a result of being molested I was raped later in life because that predator could tell I was a victim. I have had very low self-esteem also. I hurt the people I love the most and I have a very low opinion of myself. I think the bottom of everything is going to fall out so I kick it out instead. I have been married for almost 20 years and he knows everything and God bless him he is such a good person. God sent him to me so I may have a chance at a normal life. Anyway I'm rambling I just needed to get this out of me. God bless you all and please pray for me.
How did your husband treat you while dating when it came to sex? Did he have boundaries? I'm asking because I just went on a first date with a guy to church and we had the conversation about boundaries. I said I wanted to wait until marriage for it and he respected it, but then (because I wanted to test him) I told him I wanted to wait to kiss until marriage as well. He said he already lost his virginity so it doesn't matter as much for him. Shouldn't he have told me his boundaries? He should have some right?
I pray for your healing and guidance from the lord, may he be your comfort and shepherd as you move forward in your life. I pray that you are healed in the mighty name of Jesus.
thank you and God bless you as I was molested at 12 but thank God I wasn't raped and he was "grooming" me to eventually rape me. I looked about 7 so he wanted a child. I didn't know much about sex and was a very late bloomer and what was worse is my mom begged me to say I lied cuz she wanted a man in her life. My grandmother saved me from him. It caused a lot of anger between my mom and me a long time. I totally forgave her when I got truly serious about God as I got saved at 8, knowing full well what I was doing. I was later date raped at 18 and I hated sex for years. It caused my husband to cheat and eventually he left me. I told my new husband and we have been married 30 years. I told him everything. I pray people listen and tell their love, they WILL believe you but if they don't and blame you, then do not marry them. be ye NOT unequally yoked. GOD BLESS YOU.
@@MarcusRogers where are your one on one classes bcuz me and the father of my child need it honestly. Pray that he actually open this video if I send it to him . GOD KNOWS HE HAS USED YOU FOR YEARS BCUZ THIS IS TRUTHFUL AND ACCURATE
@@JesusLovesYouSoMuch1 thank you dear one, I also ask prayers for my sister and her fiance, they're getting married and I have no idea what they're going through personally but my prayers are that they find healing through Jesus Christ if they haven't already
This is real y'all. Me and my husband could not have good sex in our 3 years of marriage until a few weeks ago. I had been molested and rape through out my life because how green and trusting I was. I fasted and prayed and our sex is now great. Glory to God!
Liliana Kaspar In my opinion this is why so many homosexuals embrace homosexuality because they don’t realize that they were molested and thus have soul ties with the same sex. It confuses them when they’re a certain age and if they’re male they think they’re female and vice versa.
Omg you’re so right I was molested at 6 and I started a relationship with this guy for 18yrs. And I never had an orgasm with him and I never wanted to have sex with him and he wound up molesting my daughter so it’s so hard for me to be in a relationship please pray for me cause I know all men are not the same.
Sex is not love, love is intimacy, with respect and expressing your feelings for that person, not just getting your pleasure and then going your way when your done.
I too was molested as a young boy, it was by my older siblings. Thanks be to God, for giving Marcus this message to share with any who will hear! And another thank you as well to all of those in the comments who have openly spoken about the trauma they faced in their lives; and in doing so giving me the courage to share this. Because I myself have only told a handful of people. But I just minutes ago prayed to The Lord and asked him to lift this burden from me, and to rebuke Satan and the hold he has had on certain emotions and memories in my life. I know this cannot be erased from my memory, but only with time and Gods grace it can be healed. So now brothers and sisters, I ask that you pray for me in spirit to help me heal, and to gain the courage to confront my siblings and tell them that I have forgiven them; and as well to tell my mother of this just so I dont have to feel like I'm always hiding something. I'm not sure though because I feel like this would truly devastate her, and make her feel guilty because she was an only parent. Maybe can someone give me some advice on this or if I shouldn't even tell her at all?! This is the greater mountain I feel I have to hike. But I know 8 just have to keep strong in Faith and hope in The Lord. Thank you to all, God bless!
West Gordon I pray you don't give up on God that your wounds are healed. I pray that God uses your pain for His gain in His kingdom. I pray that all ties are broken from you in the name of Jesus. I pray all generational curses are broke in the name of Jesus. That you are released from all bonds to molestation. I pray that the Lord God Almighty will bring peace to you and your family. That your heart will be healed. Your soul transformed and all chains to be broken in Jesus name amen
@@britneymc18 🙏✝️ I agree with you in prayer for West Gordon. For West: My question would be, what do you hope to gain from confronting your siblings and/or telling your mother about what happened? Also, where do you think the molestation started? Were your older siblings molested themselves, and if so, by whom?
I pray that your mind is healed and you're able to forgive those who molested you. And with time and prayer you will heal. I know because I was molested and raped. And time is going by and I don't really think about it anymore. Thanks be to God. It isn't my priority. God is my priority in Jesus.
How awkward is interactions was it addressed. Is it awkward. I would imagine I'd look at my siblings sideways always even going to get something in the fridge
Exactly why I & my wife have been separated for almost 2years now. She had rape & molestation happen to her as a little girl & a teenager. She told me about them in the beginning of our relationship, but I thought I could show her something different...real love. Nor was God the foundation of our relationship...man if I had only known all this before. I would've loved her so much differently. Please pray for us that still truly love our wives & husbands....that they are healed & allow God to lead them, & us to love them .
When I was involved in the occult/new age the spirits in me would drive me to sleep around so they could transfer into other people. I used to think I was just having periods of heightened sexuality because I'm diagnozed bipolar, but looking back at it honestly, it was the spirits working in me, using sex to create those soul ties and jump to other people. It became evident, in the people I'd sleep with experiencing spiritual oppression right after and they would lose their temper at me, get paranoid and claim I had done something to cause all the dark stuff happening in their life. I wouldn't understand it at the time, but I only got diagnozed with and experienced "bipolar" symptoms after I began to conjure and open myself up to spirits. There was a key demon I dedicated myself to and it's specialty was making people lose their minds. Anyway, I'm seeking God to deliver me of all this stuff. I've burnt all my occult stuff, renounced my ties with these spirits in Jesus' name. It will likely take time, but I'm going to focus on drawing close to God and letting these old ties fall away.
@Felicia, thank you for sharing that insight! Wow… I do want to encourage you to stay in His Word daily!!👏 You want to make sure you’re filled with His Holy Spirit so that the unclean spirits stay away! I pray the LORD delivers you once and for all, as you abide in His Word while He abides in you.✝️ Read Matthew 12: 43“When an evil spirit leaves a person, it goes into the desert, seeking rest but finding none. 44Then it says, ‘I will return to the person I came from.’ So it returns and finds its former home empty, swept, and in order. 45Then the spirit finds seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they all enter the person and live there. And so that person is worse off than before. That will be the experience of this evil generation.” *This is a warning for us all to stay connected to Him, abide in His Word, and seek His presence in our lives every day. That leaves no room for the enemy to return and oppress us.*
Thank you Marcus. 53 yrs old, 49 years a struggle in my mind. I want to add, It never goes away. The struggle is real. At the end of the day, always be thankful for the mercy and grace that is ours, through Christ Jesus.
Galatians 3:13 Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: "Cursed is everyone who is hung on a pole." And if we are freed from the law then we dont pay the price for Exodus 20:5 & Numbers 14:18 Their are NO MORE generational curses for those in Christ! Even if the new Testament isn't enough to convince you read Ezekiel 18:19-20 Through Christ we can do all things new!! Stop teaching false docturine!
Brother Marcus, I have seen this video for the first time and I was tremendously blessed. I work in Mental Health field. I thank God I can use the Bible in a public setting. I teach about Trauma and Generational Curses in my groups, I was led by the Lord to teach and educate people in this area. It is sad that the church doesn't discuss this on Sundays. So many Christian are in bondage to trauma and believe that the Blood of Jesus will cover it and not deal with it. This was a setup by the Devil to destroy what God has placed in His people; to get them out their purpose and focus on the hurt and pain. I was a victim but no more. I learned to forgive and settle my past with trauma 10 years ago. I was able to confront the young man who molested me at the age of 8 yo. I forgave him and told that I love him with love of Christ and that I will pray for him. I was re-traumatized again at 16 years old, this time it was a gang rape from older men and woman at friends house. I was able to write a 26 page letter and wrote what happened that night, how I felt and what I went through but how I will overcome it. I wrote all their names on the back of it and took it to the woods and burned it up, that was my forgiveness for them. It was by the POWER of the HOLY GHOST and renouncing what took placed. Today I am free from my past and still learning to grow in Christ and now able to teach others to work through and overcome their past. Bless you Brother Marcus and continue to speak the TRUTH of God. I will continue to stand on the forefront for Christ and TEACH to EMPOWER and then RELEASE back into the community with new mindset ij Christ. He is the Great Healer and deliverer. Fight through this my brother or sister, YOU'RE A WINNER IN CHRIST.
This is sooooo true to me! I'm an example of this very thing! I was molested from 9 years old to 17 and after that I got married to my husband at 18 so I never got healed from the past so when I got married and when me n my husband would get into arguments I became very angry and abusive to him! I never knew this part of myself, I was depressed, dealing with anxiety and suicidal! I'm still healing, after being married to my husband almost 10 years I realized that I have not healed and I still have troubled thoughts in my head! Thank you Marcus for this video, it touched home soo much
Check out teachings from Kevin LA Ewing on Controlling Our Thoughts In An Effort To Controlling Our Lives. He is also detailed (like Marcus) & scripture orientated. Make sure you have a pen & paper at the ready. Blessings to you.
Thanks for telling your story. You must forgive the person who molested you and forgive yourself also. You have pray and ask GOD break those soul tides.
@@jelicianorwood24 thank you and yes ma'am I have forgiven my abuser, but it's my mother that I discern that hasn't forgiven me or herself! My mom and I have a dysfunctional relationship since the molestation and we never talked about it but we got into an argument this year and she pretty much told me I was in on it with my abuser, like I wanted that to happen to me. She still has not yet apologized for that after I expressed to her how that made me feel, I feel like my mom has so much hatred in her heart over me sometimes. I'm 28 and I received my diploma this year and my hubby and I didnt have a car at the time cause our vehicle was repoed but guess what my mama had a date with a guy and she did not take me to my graduation, she didnt even tell me congradulations knowing that it took me a long time to get my diploma! I'm a keep praying for her. But I just wish she would change the way she may be feeling about me
Can you give an example prayer to break soul ties and generational curses Like if you were molested , abused mentally and emotionally ,struggle with rejection ,fear ,worry etc.
Go on RU-vid and type in stephen Darby fire prayer There is another called stephen Darby uncovering occultist strongholds. He is a pa st or who not talked about this but many other issues and stuff we get unto that open doors of darkness in our lives. I suggest them to you!
I have soul ties to over 53 people.... it got to the point where I would just cover their face with a pillow... because I didn't care who they were.....I am 38, I have no children, and have never been married... though I long for both of those things.. I have since been saved and repented....but I think that I have yet to revive to things because of my past sexual sins... I have even broken those soul ties and the darkness that came with those interactions... but I am still void of my heart's desires. I wish I never went down the road of sexual sins!! If only I was obedient I know things would be different!!!
Brother Marcus, you are s wise young man, God bless you for sharing your higher consciousness with us. Such understanding and courage. You get an A+ on your ministry; and we love you dearly .. continue to obey the "Holy Spirit."
He's a born again Christian, not a new age Christ Conciousness believer. You see the Kundalini spirit is not the true holy spirit, it a counterfeit my sister. Be careful please if you are involved in that.
Get a book Be free from spirit spouses by Zita Grant. 3 day peayvand fasting. Come against that spirit. Look at a brother kevinlaewing on RU-vid teaching generatinal curses. These demons enter from Rape or been molested.
Eh i blocked it out. Doesnt Affect me Now. Im a good person. Good kids, pay it forward , help people, volunteer, make care packages.. I Love God. God is Good. Jesus showed me the way. Amen.
WOW! Thank you, very much! For this word. I Recently met my birth mother. I have been Separated from her, my dad, and Bro for 33 years. 'm went to go spend the week with her. I did see that I’m nothing like her when it comes to spiritual things. she’s a superstitious believer. I believe in God the Trinity, the I am, the beginning and end. Long story short, I did also see some resemblance I'm 34 and I have never been married and my mom struggles with a lot of things and I started seeing that she and I are a lot of like.. At that moment,, I asked and I prayed for God to break every chain and I believe in my heart he did! I’m going to be going to school to be a Dentist! I was also molested and raped by my adopted dad had a baby and everything. but look at God and how beautiful his mercy is he taught me how to forgive and move on from my past. And you also confirmed it for me!! And I prayed with my mom to break that chain to break that generation curse because I know a lot has to do with her I just know in my spirit. I’ve also struggled with relationships because of all the generation curses and so ties. I know my mom is never been married but she’s also struggled with relationships, however, my point is I don’t want to be like that my mom is not a believer the way I am but I am going to plant the seed of God in her to thank you so much for putting the word out there I recently subscribed to your channel, and I’m absolutely getting the word from you I’m also a Christian and a believer and I just want to say thank you again for being the Christian you are!!! ❤️
Excellent teaching. I found out too late in my marriage that my ex wife was sexually abused. I desired to receive marriage counseling from out pastor but he refused to counsel us; only me. This was a great injustice to us both but especially her. She threw me out of our home and was left abandoned. Like you said, I was being punished for what men in her life did to her. As I was getting her closer to facing her demons to deal with them biblically she rebelled. During our marriage she was always angry and I suppose put on a game face. I suffered as a man as we never even consummated the marriage. She played the victim because that is much easier than to confront her past. I however have been disgraced and abandoned by our Christian friends and my family and left alone to deal with the shattered fragments of my broken life. I have struggled with trusting people because of being burned in the past but now even more so especially those in Christian leadership. I do not want to be single and feel empty at times because my life seems to be one failure after another. I am beginning to believe that nice guys do finish last if they finish at all. For anyone reading this with a similar situation, know that I empathize with you!
I cant say I have gone through the same brother, as I am only 19. But I have faced abuse as a child and I have known what it was like to face abandonment. But I will say a prayer for you. And The Lord loves you, just unceasingly pray to him, he will guide you. Dont lose hope man, I dont fully know your story but maybe your relationship with your wife can be reestablished. But either way just know everything happens according to God's plan and he is always there for you; just seek him and his word!
This really was needed. I was molested for about 7years and now that I'm married and have a daughter, I fear that she'll be molested by him or her older siblings. I feel like I'm in bondage😭 I just pay that he'll keep her safe. 🙏🏾
I am taking responsibility !!! Yes I am. I followed the flesh, yes I did !!! Smh. Thank you Brother Marcus, the raw truth is ALL I needed today!! Pray for me guys. Day 2 fasting to whip this devil out!!
Victims tend to blame themselves, so what many women are thinking is not that Men are awful, but rather I AM awful. It manifests as self-hatred and guilt. Hard to enjoy marital relations when you are deeply sick/injured by it too.
Everything you said is so true...just last July I went through a terrible marriage of 22 years that ended with him ending up in prison for committing the worst crime to God, my girls and me. I went through molestation and rape myself and I told my ex but the problem is that he was hiding all that happened to him from me and it caused such a tragedy. I realize what you said is so true...if he would've shared with me maybe it could have prevented him becoming seriously demented and might I add influenced by evil. I thank you for posting this because it made me realize what has been interfering with my current healing and even caused me to be a victim once again. I need to break those soul ties from my ex and the others who have hurt me so I can be truly healed and be the woman of God I am supposed to be! Once again...thank you for being so faithful to God and bringing me hope that there are still good men of God out there!
Marcus you just nailed it....This could really help those who have been sexually abused. God bless you and your wisdom and knowledge in the scriptures & the Holy Spirit, He is definitely guiding you
I agree. You have to break those soul tides and break those generation curses. I've breaken our generation curse because of God. I don't have any kids and broken any soul tides. We all suffer in different ways but don't allow devil to take you hell with him. Let him go by himself
Thank you for full transparency in this teaching. As a woman and wife, who can speak from experience, it is very TRUE! If we would just be willing to tackle (w/the Word) the problem at the "root" and not the "branch" we can uproot those things in our lives that block our destiny. This was my first lesson in marriage counseling. Most common roots to cast down: Fear, Rejection, & Shame. Ask yourself when you are struggling "what am I afraid of? Why do I feel shame? Who rejected me?" Call it out by name. Forgive them. And then break those ties off you in JESUS' MIGHTY Name - for what area of your life is affected. In Faith and be Free!!! #ClaimyourDeliverance
Fast and pray and break generational curses Jesus said this kind only come out through prayer and fasting. Look at a brother kevinlaewing on You Tube in depth teaching on generational curses. Thear are spirits you dealing with Rape Abuse Mental illness Depression Ant marriage Poverty 3 day fasting and prayer. Isaigh 58. A true fast breaks bonds of wickedness. Chains. Heavy burdens. It stops with you. Whilw on fast so good. Pray for someone. Fast for someone( spirit of infirmity) give. Random act od kindness
Sarah Smile You can fast by cutting out cheese, meats etc. and only eat vegetables and fruits when you meed to and of course water. God bless and hope this helps
I was molested when I was 5. I feel like if you have that trauma in your life your spouse should understand that beign sexually rough, in a disrespectful way can trigger memories of the trauma and should not be upset when that spouse pulls away and shuts down.
I believe that he should understand and be patient with you. But I also believe that the one who also got abused should get inner healing first for yourself but also for the relationship to be as healthy as it should be
@Marcus Rogers You should do a video on Incubus and Succubus. Those sexual demons causes those irritable moods because that spirit fights that person breakthrough. Thats why its so important to have God in the relationship. And having a help meet to speak into our lives.
@27:17 It reminds Me of when in Matthew it talked about when the house was swept clean. Those spirits come back 7×70 stronger thats why its so hard to let go.
@@equanyabyrd6093 I didn't say this when reading your comment earlier, about the lonely season. Be prepared. You may end up at the decision that you just can't do a relationship. It is ok to be alone with Jesus. I'm praying for your's and the healing of all who need it for this problem in our lives.
@@zulumagoo1 I can do a relationship. I just picked and attracted people that was more from my past hurts. Because just like the molesters.. They were in control. I manipulated alot of those partners because I found how to control them and the situation. Didn't realize I was only hurting myself. Sex was my escape. But Now God is..
Marcus, I've been saved for 38 years, sat under some wonderful teachers and done a lot of teaching myself. This was the clearest teaching on soul ties and how molestation, abuse, rape, and promiscuity creates soul ties and problems in later relationships I've ever heard. The Holy Spirit really spoke thru you. I'm glad you included promiscuity in this; promiscuity is self-inflicted sexual abuse. I really enjoyed this lesson. Pray for God to keep you humble.
Trust, honesty and communication is SO important. If I can’t trust you with “my stuff” then I know you are not for me. So many out here put on that mask and act like they are in your corner until they get mad at you and throw “your stuff” back in your face. Smh...
This true it gets used against most people hence why some may not want to tell the person because it may come up in that something that will just bruise the person all over again
Pastor Marcus you were on point!!!! God is Good!! Your message was right on time!! Now I can help her understand why my ex girlfriend acts the way she does. I want to marry her but because of her past situation.........I feel the Holy Spirit!!! Pray for me to help mend this relationship in love and allow these things to be addressed at the foot of the cross!!!! Amen!!
This is perfect timing for me Thankyou holyspirit,Thankyou Brother in the Lord ,I am waiting on my God to see if I should marry my fiancee.. Soul ties are so real..Wow I watched half your video this morn & the rest now on the virgin.& the blood& God & his blood entering into the holy place wow that's amazing,such great teaching
Have a look at a brother on You Tube Jushua Eze. Teaching. Dont commit to anything God didn't confirm or give you confirmation. 3 day fasting and prayer. Listen to teaching.
Amandaa’ Sophia pleaseeeeee check him out! God is using him to do a lot. His teachings will guide you to a lot of personal truth and deliverance. Please check him out.
“It’s not my fault” “the devil is on vacation” part was funny but he is so right. I’ve just seen it so many times. Keep teaching Marcus. God bless you all
My molestation happened when I was REALLY young, by my own brother. I've been married 3 times. I was honest about my past. Ok, I can see where my not having properly dealt with this caused problems. Compounded with the fact that Most of the men I have been with have been narcissist's. Therefore they ended up instead of giving some understanding and compassion they used it against me. Now I'm 50 & alone. I FINALLY put all this together & now I'm lost. I'm sad & I feel broken. I'm still actually married but we have been separated for 8 1/2 years. He wouldn't sign the divorce papers so he could still try to control me. He ended up physically hurting me so I CAN'T see myself going back. He keeps trying to tell me that I just NEED to come back to him. I CAN'T, I DON'T see anyway it can go well, ever. He put a gun to my head. I will not go back to be hurt more or killed. I'm so so lost. Please pray for me while I gather my thoughts and take this to God. Bless you. If you have further advice please feel free to elaborate. I'm drowning in sadness & the fear of dying all alone. Right now I'm working on learning to love myself. Thank you for this video !! Lots of Love from Dianna in Oklahoma. 🙏🙏
You are such a blessing to the kingdom of God!!! I am 49 years of age and I am the process of healing now from my past hurts. I am divorced now. This is true teaching. I should have listened to the spirit of the Lord. I married out of God's will. Now I'm divorced now and allowing God to perform spiritual surgery in me. Everything that you have said hits home for me. Praise God for this real teaching. We in the body of Christ need to hear this type of teaching. Thank you for being so obedient to God. God bless you brother.
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Factsssss. I had to give myself wholly to God and stop using my experience as an excuse! Do not be a victim of your circumstances! That’s what’s the Enemy wants! I was molested as well as a child and the experience was blurred out for a good while! Until the enemy decided to utilize it again as a way for me to excuse my sexual immorality, I broke down and cried to the one and only king! I gave up my hurt and my own understanding, I told him that I didn’t want to destroy his plans for me because I didn’t know better so ever since then the spirit has led me to do better. It’s a journey, but God has been wonderful! And I love him even more everyday.
Thank you Marcus for talking about this subject. This is something I still deal with and want so desperately to heal from today. I want the curse to break with my kids. I want God in our lives. I want to be free from this pain!
God has used you and your wife to teach me so much this week.. Your videos have really impacted me, challenged me, inspired me and directed me toward and closer to CHRIST! I have been praying for wisdom and knowledge and BOOM there it is and more is coming! I am praying for my Husband to start watching your videos because y'all are a great influence on people.. Thank you !
Thank God for healing me! Thank you for sharing this info no matter who doesn't want to hear it. I pray that you help some others that are or have gone through this! I've gone through this at 9/10 years old and now I'm 50 but suppressed it for so many years. Finally was able to tell my mother about it at 30 (the 9 year old daughter wanted to tell her mother) not to get back at the person but just to release because I had forgiven the person already. If this is you, please forgive the person who did this to you and then yourself so that you may be free to move forward. God bless you sir for sharing❤
Lord I pray that you deliver my sister chelise in the name of Jesus She is hurting right now God Physically, mentally and Emotionally I pray that all them evil spirits, Angry spirits, negative spirits and any other spirits that is on her be removed from her body and that she will recieve the gift of the Holy Ghost in the name of Jesus Amen.
the problem with marriage today is people are getting married with the option of divorce in the back of their mind just in case it dont work out.. been with my husband for 19 yrs now and we been through it! good, bad and ugly.. God just used you to show me how His grace has kept us! we were saved maybe 4 yrs in.. past hurt and drug abuse on both sides.. tried different churches for like 10 yrs and realized we had to put our mask on everytime we went! we worship Him at home now and i just realized instead of taking our anger and hurt out on each other ,God has been our punching bag willingly... oh my Lord i dont wanna wrestle with You anymore!! You can make a Isreal out of Jacob, Paul out of Saul, even Sarah out of a Sarai!! Praise Your Holy Name!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼
Thank you for everything your doing Marcus, you have really shown me a whole lot and I'm happy to watch your videos. I have made so much progress since coming across your videos. Please pray for me, I am just starting my walk with God and I wish to continue this amazing journey. Thanks for all the ideas and help you have given me!
I really cant believe the rich wisdom that is coming from Marcus. I am getting another piece to the puzzle of the dysfunction in my life.. I feel like I can make another day. Thank you Jesus from this man of God. I pray that you strengthen him daily has he follows you.
I struggle hard with this one. As a child I was abused and raped for years, from 10-16 by both a man and a woman. Years later got some counseling and eventually told my parents and family. But they refuse to understand that it has left some scars on me. Some things I feel will always broken.
I’ve struggled keeping my molestation a secret for years the pain of just speaking about kills me. Even in therapy it hurts I’ve blocked it out for years been diagnosed with ptsd one day hopefully I can tell my story to my spouse.
Brother Marcus I am blown away with this video. This is so deep and powerful. I was going through something the other day, and I just went into a rage on a friend. It was so crazy my friend don't want to talk to me anymore, so know he's my ex-friend. What's so crazy about this is it wasn't the first time this rage came out of me. After I finally calmed down, I broke down and cried, and asked God to deliver me. I never been molested or rapped, but I don't know we're this rage comes from, it's uncontrollable. I never physically hurt anyone, but my words are weapons. Please pray for me as I well continue praying for myself as well as you and your family Brother Marcus. Thank you so much for sharing this video. God Bless you.👏👏👏👏
I gave up on relationships a long time ago. Celibate until I leave this earth. I haven’t got the mental energy to be dealing with relationships. I’d rather deal with other things in life & then leave.
I was never married before or had live-in partner, but I am still believing God for it even though I am old. So this is very valuable information to me. My generarion is either married before, and/or have children or even grand-children and i am green. I believe God for a miracle. Thanks. God bless you. Amen.
Recently split from my bf who was molested by other males in his family. I love him but he had so much internal anger and began taking it out on me to the point of misery. Just a sad situation.
I'm only 6 min into the video and, already I am seeing the error of my ways and some of the reasons behind it. Thank you for being obedient to God's word and a sharing.
This is very true I am married almost be a year in Feb and I told my husband when we got married about my molestation when I was younger and he was of great comfort, but your shedding a light on a serious matter. This stuff needs to be talked about. That's why I say many of us who have been emotionally abused needs counseling, and there is nothing wrong with that. It helps so much, how I know I have done it and now we are on the topic of me now telling my mom because I am 23 years old and she still doesn't know.
Thank you man of God for allowing the Holy Spirit use you! This was the most insightful & spirit filled & direct teaching on this issue. Keep being a vessel God can use & may the Lord bless & strength you.
Choose ye this day, whom you are going to worship, God or mammon?? We have free will to choose to do Right or Wrong, you must go through your pain and anger with God guiding you. Get angry but God says not to act on it! Your teachings are Light.
This is so true. My husband and I were both molested as young children. Mine was in my family and church his outside family. He did not tell me about his until after we were married when i started doing healing work for mine. I just found out MORE just this weekend after 24yrs of marriage. The mask analogy is exactly what happened in our marriage. I refused to live in secrecy from the beginning and have open and honest through every step of this marriage. I am completely freed and healed but my spouse has refused to see this truth about being honest and vulnerable. They have kept him in such bondage. Finally, as I have prayed and found help through Pure Desire Ministries, he is starting to get help. We are on a Looong journey. Thank you for addressing this! No one really talks about this and so many are hurting. Statistics say 1 in 3 women sexually abused. 1 in 4 men. Alot of people in bondage out there.
I love when you say "I feel the Holy ghost". I know exactly how it feels and when you say it, I can feel it. You are definitely tapped and I'm grateful I found your channel. I've never seen a YTbr think so similarly to me. It's insane. You're real as hell. I enjoy your vibe SO much. You are gifted and blessed, I can tell
This is so true. Healing is necessary! "You cannot have the truest intimacy without honesty." This is true with God and your spouse. I thank God for GOD, my husband, and everyone who helped me heal! It was not easy, but I am a better person now because of it. Fight for your healing...no matter the violation, BUT GOD! True breakthrough doesn't occur when God breaks the cycle. Breakthrough comes when God reveals the trigger that sets the cycle in motion.
Amen!!! It was yesterday I was having the same conversation with one of my young church bro and I was telling him that It's best to tell all while dating before going into marriage, because satan loves to expose all the skeletons in the middle of the marriage to break it apart; and also to be delivered from soul ties and generational curse. I really felt the connection and Holy Spirit watching this video because hearing you speaking on a topic that has been on my mind for months now I really know God is using others to defeat the adversary (SATAN). I do believe the churches need to speak more on these topics and educate their congregation. A lot of churches don't believe that members have spirit husband/ wife and need deliverance. sigh!! I'm so grateful for this video..... Be blessed Bro. Marcus
My God! This is the truth! My marriage is the perfect example. Didn't understand the importance of dealing with past traumas and molestation. But even in telling your spouse, if they didn't go through this they may not understand what you've been through. But thankfully, through Jesus, he has healed us. He has helped our marriage. The Holy Spirit councils. Be an accountability partner for your spouse or even a trusted friend that has been through these things. We need more discipleship in church!
How can we cut soul ties?? I never loved myself and looked for love in other people. Even if I admit it's my fault I still feel disgusted and can't forgive myself. How can I love myself when I'm disgusted with my actions?
Brother Marcus the Lord have me all on your videos tonight. I am sitting here saying to myself Lord no one understand me. The Lord let me know even though I was molested that everything the enemy has taken from me God sent Christ to restore it. I am not afraid to speak from a place where I WAS broken, but I definitely can speak from place from HEALING! Molested???Yes lived a homosexual lifestyle?? Yes! Still get tempted by the enemy???? Yes, but God said He has given me power over all the works of the enemy. Thank you for speaking on this my brother. I am so liberated that God had me write a book about my testimony!
Brother I sure wish I could have heard all of this before and after I got married, because everything you are saying I went through all of this with my ex husband because he was raped by his older brother. Then when he married me a virgin he neglected me as his wife in every way, because his manhood was stolen from him by his older brother. And because of all his pain and past he could never be a husband to me. And after I divorced him I find out from our own handicapped son what all He was really doing. I wish I could say much more, but I don't want the wrong people to find this to read.
I tried to break up once with my now husband because the rape and molestation I went through made me feel unworthy and unclean. I did not feel like he should love me because I felt dirty. It took a lot to heal from that, but what helped was being completely honest with him about everything that happened and not having sex before we were married. Not having sex allowed us to learn to love and trust eachother without the disfunction and confusion that sex outside of marriage can bring. I didn't have to worry about if he was just using me or just wanted sex, I knew he wanted to be with me because of who I was and I knew that I was loved. After two long years we finally got married and it's been great, but it took a lot of prayer and open conversation.
I know this video was posted 3yrs ago. I found it today and man you are like the ONLY ONE who has been open about this and it home so much and crazy as it sounds this still affects my marriage after almost 12 yrs we have been together 18.5 though. Thank you for your heart and Truth! God bless you, your family and your ministry!