What is wrong with OP??? I'm all in for helping Mom...but there would be zero interaction with her friends and family. If Mom chooses her friends over me? Nope. I'm sure Dad left something for Mom. OP needs to live her own life, not her mom's just move on.
EXACTLY...Yes,she lost a hubby..But god`s sakes,She does have a DAUGHTER,And could`ve accepted the Daughter in her life,instead of rejecting her.,....OP, You owe her no loyalty,or love considering what she did to you.. TO me,she`s a monster...She deserves EVERYTHING she`s going through..THIS IS ALL HER FAULT...Like the Sis that abused HER BROTHER.....She EARNED her pain,and the rejection she got...Hope she suffers,The Abusive !@#$%^&^&!!!!!!
Wow what a shocker. Let me say one thing that woman isn't your birth mother but legally she is still your Mom. Op, you were lucky to find two people who gave you a home and unconditional love so they were your family and even though your adoptive father is gone your adoptive Mom is still your Mom. She needs a swift kick in her bottom because she is willing to dump her daughter for those toxic fiends!
Listen if your mother wants to be around those people then let her and let it go you don't owe her nothing live your life. You're gonna see that it will be better for you so let her go
I'm sorry that Anna went through what she did, but I'm not sorry about Ora hanging out with toxic people. Since Anna is 29 years of age, she could take a DNA test to see if either her birth parents and/or any of her birth parent's family members are still alive or not. I hope that Anna will find her birth family and get to meet them one day. Good luck!
I feel bad for OP being told she's adopted that late in life. It hurts being told your adopted. My twin and I were adopted together, luckily enough and our parents treat us very kindly. They told us when we were still in our late teens but that wasn't an issue for us as we have always had a very close connection with each other to lean on. We share the same likes too so it's easy for us to relate. I do feel bad for OP's mom, but the mom brought it on herself, OP was concerned about her well-being and she pushed her away so I feel op is the one that needs to most come to terms with her decision in that regards
I feel the mom is broken after being abandoned and she doesn't wanna call her adopted daughter because it would be admitting she was wrong. She also can't face her now.
OP, she's still grieving believe it or not, she was immature when she married and had you.your father was her rock. Your mom is running. It's her companions are behind enhancing her weakness. She's your mother!!!! Let her go, she's going to have to work this out. She needs counseling, but she's not ready. It's not you being a burden it's her inability to have children with your dad. You stay strong, you're a survivor and you will survive this.
First of all Op is also in grieve over her Dad's untimely death and then having her Mom being depressed is a bitter pill but Mom needs to find a better class of friends
Those so called friends are a bunch of mean gossiping jerks who seem to delight in bringing people down because it makes them happy. Those are not friends they are narcissistic and really bad! If Mom wants to keep hanging with these idiot's Op will have to cut ties with Mom for her own mental sake.
Isn't it odd how she was daughter enough to pay all the bills and the house for 10 years? I feel bad for all of them tho. Nobody has a life goal of being depressed and widowed (mom) or orphaned and abandoned (daughter). That is a lot.
talk about cutting your nose off to spite your face........Mental illness or not she got what she wanted......Too bad it was the worst thing she could have got. OOOOOOOHHHHHH WELL THO!
You're scared of losing her but your friends are right you're stuck in a toxic loop and you refuse to admit that. Cut her off or stay in the loop that's the only choice you have
Some relationships are for a reason, some for a season, some others for a lifetime. As screwed up as your adoptive mother is, She sacrificed part of her life to raise you. So you can carry gratitude for that o p. She brought the relationship to an end. You are now free To move forward with your own life, make new relationships. And perhaps a family of your own.
I wish before she left the house in that one confrontation that she would have looked her mother up and down and said enjoy that drip I'm not giving you a cent more
Sorry OP, you can’t do this cause and effect thing, I know you lost a lot of time on her but you should’ve let ago. She was emotionally abusive. You need to pick yourself up and wipe off her trail of dust and cruelty.
Oh no other than not know that when her so-called friends will be realizing let her dig her own grave she digging her own grave and she's biting the hand that feeds her be trusting these people will toxic to her but in my neighborhood. Manipulate her to hate you for no reason all her family and friends that have their hatred for you for no reason feeding her lies and judgment and making her hate you for no reason mother's going to learn the hard way when it blows up her face and Karma slaps her in the face okay they won they won they got what they wanted now what didn't think about that now that you completely kicked her out there she going to have no one to watch her just like she threw that you're not my kid kid and left out on you do the exact same thing when she comes crawling back best thing about this punishment is that she's doing it all her own she made her bed and she has a lion it this is the consequences of her actions she didn't want to hear if you were careful P like a kid like a mother should she wouldn't be in this situation I whatever bad thing happens to her she had it coming ntn
My goodness she's is digging herself in the grind Amy Lee going to guilt-tripping DLP who's completely her father dying with complete our hands she destroying the diggers and even deeper I guess anything she couldn't stoop any lower AR go down eating lower she Dig Down Deeper and trades or her Dopey where Hurts the Most like she did Big Angie just digging a hole for herself are we going to see that old and leave her and go no contact with her to going to be shocked Pikachu crying man throwing a temper tantrum when Opie cuts her off and go no contact with her leaving her to 16:00 soak in her and her mistakes and hatred
She did her best for her so called mom but she turned her back on her , so she got karma move on with you’re life while you’re still young n’est of luck in the future ❤❤❤.
Good luck baby I like it is good riddance to her taking care of your whole life and all you've been getting his back with julex hate it colder in my steak yelled at and then cut out for no reason all for you being at least trying to love that person and she's not reciprocating it I like if they go no contact with her and her toxic friends let it talk say friends take care of that toxic mother and go no contact let them stew in their toxicity you going to live to regret this when it comes back and bite her
What is wrong with u op. Shes buddy with them and talking about u. Tell her to let them take care of her needs. You spend ur time and money in your happiness and maybe starting a family. Tell them they can go talk about e😊😊😊ach other. QUIT BEING A DOOR MAT!!!!
What is wrong with u op. Shes buddy with them and talking about u. Tell her to let them take care of her needs. You spend ur time and money in your happiness and maybe starting a family. Tell them they can go talk about e😊😊😊ach other. QUIT BEING A DOOR MAT!!!!
