Yea but I wouldn't hold it against him. A lot of fathers just give up and never correct these things at least the judge wanted to do more research for the correct interest rates the OAG applies in these cases.
This man likely had his wages garnished and sent directly to the state. Absent a termination order, the garnishment will continue unabated until the order has been adjudicated. Unfortunately, this means that he has a credit to his account and the recipient is unable or unwilling to compensate. Men need to watch when nearing the end of support obligations and be proactive with their attorneys in a timely filing of a termination order request to prevent overpayment. The state won’t repay an overpayment, and in some cases like Pennsylvania, consider it as a gift. Good luck trying to recoup that money. The pandemic caused a lot of problems in these cases as hearings were postponed while wages were still garnished.
@@brucesmith9144 well at the end is not loss money if that goes to your son or daughter...but does really go to your son or daughter? in this case didnt, since the kid was emancipated
The fact that the man had to even hire an attorney shows the judicial system is broken, the state should’ve represented the man for free just like they represent the woman for free when she filed for child support
I overpaid by 3,000+ and was told that the state I live in is a "windfall state" and that any overpayment is water under the bridge. It's gone and I will never get it back.
I think the judge was trying to help her out and she didn’t realize it! She could have said all the financial burden of the funeral falls on me and she wouldn’t have had to pay for anything.
If the father was the who was owing her $$ he would have been ordered to reimburse her within immediate effect or asap ! The double standards wouldn't STOP......
The state should pay dad back since that’s who sends the withholding order to hr and the state should figure out how to get the funds back from the mother ON THEIR OWN. Why they can’t garnish her accounts like they garnish the fathers🤷🏾♀️
@@paulam.foreman4413The state gets back 60% of all collections for CS from the fed. I would say the idea isn't that bad considering we are already supporting these single mothers
Same thing happened to the comedian 'Earthquake' he overpaid child support by 10's of thousands of dollars. He took her to court & the judge put it on the backend so that he'd be finish paying support 6 months early. Plus his son was already living with him the last few years. She tried to appeal claiming that she coildn't maintain her household without that income.
I don’t know if it’s the state where I live, but my husband overpaid and he’s receiving checks from the state still to this day and his daughter is 25. It’s sad what these fathers have to go through. I know what we went through and what he did as a father and was still dealt a bad hand. Mom tried 18yrs to keep her away. She’s 25 now and we can’t get rid of her so just be mindful, kids don’t stay kids forever.
My ex-husband overpaid $23,000 to his ex-wife, over the course of 5 years. When the state audit found it, the state sent a letter asking if he wanted to make a “gift” of it to the mother since it would be a hardship for her to pay it back. She knew it wasn’t her money.
Wow! The A.G. is a moron!!! Let's see, "do you have close family members with health issues?" How is that HIS problem to pay for??? "Did you help pay for funeral costs?" For her deceased Aunt. Again, how is that HIS problem to pay for??? "I have a nephew i have custody of." Last time, how is that HIS problem to pay for??? Thankfully, this Judge knows his job and follows the law.
As a women who paid child support I am very sorry to hear this. The pendulum should swing both ways. Fair should be for both but I know it isn’t. Never had this issue but still what a horrible selfish thing she did.
I wouldn't care about any of those issues she was talking about... Can't get money you know you weren't supposed to get then try to justify it by saying it takes more than money to raise a child....
They tried their damdest to let her keep that money and coach her through it her ignorance one him the day. Im disgusted with this family court trying to rob this man
Emotional and Physical needs is paid out in Alimony or Spousal Support. Not your adult child who can now work to support himself. She had 18 years to prepare for this SMH.
In fact, madam, you did indeed take the money. If you had not done so, you would not be in court today. If the bank were to mistakenly withdraw funds from your account, would you accept this as a loss or would you insist that the bank rectify the situation?
Men need more rights when it comes to labor/being fathers. There’s no reason a woman should hold the fate of a man being a father or not with no accountability.
I would have been watching my check like a hawk with court docs. “Hey child support office here is my court order and my kid’s diploma”. Also why isn’t this criminal? If the bank put money in your account you know wasn’t yours, its a crime
I overpaid 62k.. and what make ut is sicking that the state if Illinois tamper by hand writing different numbers but with their child support audit report I proved it.. i was making 1600 a week.. my take home was from 15 to 28 dollars a weekly .. there need to be new bill on two fronts.. non custoday parent relationship and audit all interstate child support enforcement systems .. i listen to the elders alway jeep your check receipt. If tge gkove don't fit you must aquit
And he didn't think to check why his checks was still being garnished for child support after he made his last child support payment after the first time it happened
It's in the name "Child Support". That money is for the child, not for the parent. The moment the parent starts using it as their own personal paycheck is the moment to assume the child is in a bad home. Child Services should have been called and the child taken out of her custody cause clearly she's not doing anything for the child, only herself. (Negligence) Additionally, continuously obtaining child support even after you were emailed and told that it is no longer a court order (meaning the child support is now expired) and failing to return it should be recognized to the government as fraud and theft. The amount of issues regarding child support is one problem that needs to be confronted and solved and has needed to be confronted and solved for the last few years if not more.
Dear lord they were leading her any way they could trying to get her to NOT have to pay. Any man in her situation would not receive the same treatment.
This woman is not smart. All she had to say was paying the money back would cause financial hardship. But she wanted to show her frustration at her baby daddy. 😅
I wished he would’ve been in his son’s life. It sounds like she didn’t file for child support right away, b/c she probably was hoping he would come around his child and she was trying to make it easy for the dad in the beginning. If he really wasn’t there for his son all those years prior to the child support going into effect, i could definitely understand why she felt he owed her, but unfortunately, she didn’t have a leg to stand on legally.
What's the difference between being a parent and child support? One is somewhat there in the household due to working a 9-5, and the other just gives money the same thing to me.
This girl said “EMOTIONAL PHYSICAL NEEDS” 🤣🤣🤦🏻♀️ She slurred that out loudly!! She really really believed all that noise she sung 🤨 girl this case is NOT about you’re ridiculous emotions it’s about you’re grown children!! Give that man back his $13k!! This father paid when he had to now it’s your turn to pay him back his money 🫤 Do what’s right!! Unfortunately by the sounds of her he’s not going to get anything back!!
As a parent that received child support, I hate these mothers that think they are entitled to all kinds of money because they have the child. I bet if the roles were reversed she would have a fit if she over paid and was due a refund. If she was so concerned about the years before 2011 why didn’t she try to get support before then?
I remember when my ex over paid by 100.00 - they took him taxes for several years until his back support was paid off. he owed 84 k and bitched about 100. I wrote his ass a check for the $$. Now this Dad I feel bad for- he appears to be be a good person.
just another reason why todays sinlge mothers r the most dangerous thing to childs future. if the father is able willing n stable enough, they should 100% always get custody over the mother. these single moms n these judges have destroyed an entire generation of kids. look at the youth today. their feelings have to always matter they cant tell what a woman is bevause some of there monsters have forced sex changes on their kids. They dont wanna work, and they fn protest everything. glad too see were starting to try n fix this
😐 she stole $13,000 from him and is basing it off of her feelings. America will NEVER hold women accountable and will NEVER force them like they do to men in court. They get the slap on the wrist and that's all. Very sad for ALL men in courts when it comes to situations like this.
No no no idgf what her other obligations are in life he over paid,she took it, they allowed her to keep taking it and him to keep giving it, she needs to repay him. He fulfilled his financial obligation per the court order, she is also financially responsible for her child. 13grand isnt going to make up for his absence, smh and we dont know if she prevented his presence or not eather. And this child support office needs to be hwld accountable for not stopping their collection of his money where it was supposed to stop. They dont like to take accountability for their b.s eather. Pay that man! Ur personal losses are not his problem lady.
it's obvious what was going on. she wanted the money for her, it was never for the child; she didn't want to give it up, and when she kept getting it decided that she 'deserves' this money and should be getting it forever.
Why isn’t she jailed? Let see man doesn’t pay child support he gets garnished or worse jailed. Women owes money, then all hee haw and stutter as if they are afraid. But her sorry a$$ kept the money for years. Again I ask why isn’t she in jail? She knew it was wrong, she knew she wasn’t entitled to the money but kept it. Sounds like a thief and isn’t stealing over 10k considered grand larceny? Again why isn’t she in jail? Damn government with the age old double standard.
Almost had an aneurysm when I heard that. So we can just do whatever we feel regardless of right/wrong or even legality? I'm sure that man has lots of interesting feelings regarding her, but the law doesn't allow him to act on them.
@@aixpert291Exactly. Not only do they jail but suspend DL, passports etc. She needs to pay that money back. The man needs to have it garnished from her paychecks.
@@aixpert291If she did this to an employer or a bank, there would have been definite legal consequences for theft if she didn't return money that isn't hers. This is theft.
@@jalamela1480that would and should have been adjudicated during the initial order. Women always say that when they go to child support court that's why the judge makes the determination. Stop being naive.
