At 17, my 1st serious gf's mom had 3 by 3, and my mom warned me about the effects that would have on her. I found out how right she was as time went on. Moved on eventually and chose better. I couldn't imagine bringing home a mother of 3 by 3 diff men.
She got a man, married him while she was 8 months pregnant when she was a teenager and they mean raised that child so she's already done this before, clearly not off base for her
Yep, she still got her butt cheeks clapped 2 months ago by his last baby daddy..! Smashing with their baby daddies is an ongoing thing with these women. They say it’s better doing it with him than with a new person.!
Where does she even find the time to date with an infant to take care of? 8 months ago, yeah that's a HUGE red flag. Add 2 teaspoons of 2 other kids, 3 table spoons of 3 baby daddies and you got yourself one heck of a plate to deal with. Plus she's 30 and boldly claiming she ain't having no more kids for the next man. Yup, that's a real winner there. Good luck on that one guys.
Stress to him to never trust that a woman is taking her birthcontrol pill or using some other form of birth control. Avoid that unwanted lifetime connection and wear condoms. Make sure to flush them down the 🚽.
That was what I was thinking she has no idea how to keep a relationship together or what to actually value. My wife and I be laughing at this show. Married 26 years. When Kendra ask what is your flaws she should of said rewind this interview that is all I been listing.
8 month old baby and she’s already single? Also she’s 30 with a 14 yr old. Shes concerned about him being a Christian but she just had a baby out of wedlock. She had a baby with a man that was homeless “unstable”.
@kane99560 Doesn't matter what u think. GOD is the only one who knows the heart. She is doing much better going forward. Again... people *live and learn.* Just like you. 👍
I don't see the problem with her wanting someone on her level. A Pookie with 3 kids and 3 baby mommas who will be out of prison in 2026 is perfect for her.
Ready for Marriage 🚫 Multiple Children ✅ Bad attitude/ mouth ✅ Wants a finished product ✅ Is a finished product 🚫 Multiple fathers ✅ Introverts 🚫 Toxic ✅ Homeless ✅ Tubes Tied ⏳ Opinionated friend, who’ll be in the background of your relationship ✅ Have at it fellas 💅🏾
@@dbizzle85 Date people because they treat you well and match what you desire. The terms dating out and swirling usually praise other races just for existing. Black people collectively have the worst stereotypes which differ for men and women. Many of the men/women who dated/married out that I know are divorced a couple times over. Social media is not the best place to see representation of quality women. Either way good luck to you!
@@Kimberly.TThese are real women. Blk men and women need to get in order. It starts by worshipping God instead of the cult of blkness and the matriarchal culture that comes with it.
@@dbizzle85if you’re dating out to Yte women, those interracial relationships are far less successful than any other group. Yte women are more viscous and play the very long game to get over you. Statistically it’s still better to date without your own race when you look at statistics, even when BW are filing most of the divorces with bm
Girl, you did NOT come on this show neck rolling with an attitude because you were a teen mother. I'm at the Kendra Cam part and I promise you, being a teen mom is the least of your worries. You can bounce back from being a young mom. You're a grown woman who's story's getting worst by the minute🤦🏾♀️ Edit: I say this with love sis, you need to humble yourself all the way down. Humility goes a long way. Also, let your friend know that if she spends as much time cleaning as she does minding your business she'd have no time to be in your business.
When I was 18 I decided to myself that I would never bring children into this world that I can’t take care of , I meant it too , this woman should worry about her children and making sure they grow healthy and strong instead of worrying about dating because some men specifically go for women wit children for bad motives
@@chilout2496if you make it to 40 with no kids, kendra thinks you are 🌈 as a man. She said this a year ago on a live. Yet she in her 49’s with no kid lol.
Imagine, she meets a man who wet her while she was pregnant and he marries her. He happens to lose his job, and she’s gone? Where’s the loyalty? Further, she keeps acting as though she is not ‘hood’ meanwhile she has 3 by 3. 🥴
"I'm 3 in 3" To come on a public platform and say this so casually should be embarrassing. Why do our people not find this embarrassing. Don't get me wrong, it's not all on her. It takes 2, but this lady should focus on her children and ask their fathers to play a significant role in the lit lives. By equally yoked, I hope she means a man with 3 kids by 3 women, cos she doesn't deserve a man to save her after making those poor decisions.
This is what happens when you make bm an option they will make you a baby momma. Multiple times🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️. Too bad bw haven’t gotten the memo and still choose to cock they h0 legs open to accept degenerate seamen
Instead of cheering her on, her friend should be telling her to take some time before looking for a new man while having 3 kids, particularly the 8 MONTH OLD! Someone asked in the comments how is she not embarrassed and I think having people around you who don't tell you the hard but necessary truth is a big part of the problem.
@@MsTKO-le7uslol as if married people can’t give bad advice. It’s the message that’s important not necessarily the messenger. “Not by age but by knowledge is wisdom required”
@@user-zx5xw4yw2eI noticed that men want to test drive it and and be all in it during the dating phases but in the same time we'll talk about a body count 🤔
Why would you leave and divorce your husband? The man that accepted you when you were pregnant with your first baby, helped you raise her and while he’s trying to figure it all out, you didn’t stick by him! You made the vow to stick with him for better or worse, in sickness and health….. Now you have another baby by a guy that doesn’t want you. Wow karma is a bitch! Isn’t it?
@2:10 - "He's there, struggling". Not more than you, apparently. You're the one with all these kids by different men, raising them all by yourself and looking for a man on Kendra show. Please don't ever come out your mouth again to say somebody else struggling like you some sort of flex. Girl, you ARE the struggle.
Right, the nervvveee, girl at that big of 30 & still can’t pick a decent quality man for 💩 15 years later. Was married and left. Just hang it up already and go be a single mom
I give it 6 months before they’re not friends any more. They’re both in ATL looking for the same man and her friend is better deal. Sad. She highlighted a better candidate at her own job interview.
I was thinking the same thing. She wanted to be heard and seen so badly. RULE OF THUMB: never take your friend with you to look for a job or a man....@@sweetjanejonez
I need to have the confidence that she has to just have had a baby and back out there looking for love and I’m single with no children😅 I hope she addressed any issues she has within herself because three children with three different fathers isn’t good.
Ok mothers, you want to cheer for single moms, so tell me which one of you is signing your son up for this? Yes, your baby boy that you birthed and raised and worried about. Are you sending him into the jaws of this leviathan of a situation?
I told my Son in his late teens and 20s to be very mindful of the women you date with kids. You are signing up for all that comes with it. All of it. He’s married now and my daughter in law had no children until after they married.
I live in ATL she invisible to quality men she can get from Pittsburgh or Vine City but she won’t get a man who stay in the burbs with a house job snd 401K nope 😂
I thought the same thing. Dude was on his Derrick Jaxn always in his car smh. Her intuition kicked in and that stupid little birdie 🐦 told her to check the car.
I feel bad for the baby. Why would you choose to give your attention to random strangers when you have an infant that needs all your energy. This is toxic energy being passed down.
I am going to keep saying this because it's like AFTER multiple kids and multiple baby daddies, Now these women have high standards. This blows my mind bc while I can understand wanting better, they now have much less flexibility to do things with you and for you, and the relationship will cost the new guy more. The new guys had to deal with three baby daddies. NO THANK YOU.
@@cookingwithlove5132she said she works in the “IT industry”. She isn’t in IT the way that you would think a person would be who says that they are in IT. She isn’t a manager, or else she would have said that. She isn’t a developer, programmer or engineer. I’m going to take a guess and say she works in “tech support”, as in resetting passwords and stuff like that.
Let me get this right: your ex-husband got with you when you were eight months pregnant with another man’s baby and help you to raise that child and also the child that he had with you. And you divorced him because he wanted to move back to your hometown?so you opted to be a twice over single mother, struggling by yourself rather than in two parent household, making it happen because you didn’t want to move back to your hometown? Makes total sense.
Lmaooo exactly!!!! I was biting my tongue until I saw the Kendra Cam. Then at the same time she accidentally exposes her homegirl's dirty crib😂😂 This is ALL bad!!!
They tell on themselves. Women who are on a level where they don't deal with broke men and petty criminals don't have to announce it. Desirable women don't even see these men and barely know they exist.
These the same women getting on TikTok and Instagram talking about a man has to send $100 for lunch, she don’t do 50/50! Meanwhile she’s paying all the bills for a 🥷 to stay at HER house and he’s cheating on her😂😂
So she thought she was making better decision by divorcing her husband because she didn't want to move back to the hoods of Baltimore, so instead she stayed and became 3x baby mama by another failed relationship. .... yeah sounds about right
@@shaypope4732 You don't blame her! 🤣 If you leave your dude, you need to b making better decision, obviously, she wasn't. She just pumping out babies by pookies, and you agree with it!? Damn, some black people are doomed!
@@shaypope4732no. She said he lost his job after taking care of her and someone else's kid when she was 8 months pregnant. (They dated for 5 years. Married for 2.5) has 8 year old. Sounds like they only started dating the moment she got pregnant. Her oldest is 14 so between the 1st child and the 2nd they were never dating until she got pregnant.
GeArl, go somewhere with the "God-fearing," "God-serving," and "Paying tithes"crap. You divorced because you didn't want to follow your husband's lead. You need to go READ that book. Three babies with three baby daddies and acting like she holds all the cards.
Also she ain’t suppose to remarry. If her husband is still alive. Her Bible clearly says she is suppose to go back to her husband and reconcile or she and the next man will be committing adultery.
Ladies if you’re still having se$ with your ex you’re not ready to date other people. Being intimate clouds your judgement when it’s already on shaky ground. I would suggest her seeking therapy. I wish her the best. This was a lot to digest.
This is so sad to see so many of our sisters not valuing their bodies out here sleeping with men who are not there husband having multiple kids by multiple men then expect a quality man to rescue them. What do these women have to offer? This dream man can’t even get kids because she gave other men kids and don’t want anymore. SMH
@@tippy06 Women please stop comparing yourselves to men. This is a disingenuous argument, this is why our community is going down the tubes feminism has destroyed our women and our families…
Many young girls need to see this because this is just reality. The world has changed just because some grandad's, uncles and stepdad's decided to take on an already made family the quantity of the who do are few and quality is almost none
@@tippy06 & woman control who they want to sleep with. If a man sleeps with a woman is because she wanted to unless it was without consent so please if woman actually limit opening there legs every chance they get, they won't be in situations like this.
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 5 out of 5 RED FLAGS. So she refused to follow her HUSBAND and decided instead to break up her family. She’s a 4 at best in one of the most competitive (dating) cities in the U.S. She should have worked it out with her husband or her 8 month olds father…and she is pushy, quick to cuss you out, with an intrusive friend. You can’t make this stuff up.
Yet this is why I never got married. The marriage laws are against men, especially men with resources and women today will even divorce a man for the most simple of things instead of getting therapy/counseling or accepting it. Marriage vows are created for a reason, because marriage isn’t a 100% all the time lovely event. You have highs and lows like any other relationship. This is why a strong tight knit family of support is needed for both sides, especially long term married elders who can give advice to maintain the marriage. I what’s sad is people who claim to be Christians, don’t even know what the Bible says about a woman who divorced her husband who is still alive. You’re not even suppose to marry another man but instead go back to your husband and reconcile
@@Tony-lm5zs you are absolutely right. People spend more time planning the lavish wedding than they do planning the marriage. The love and romance is great but it’s the hard times that really test you. Will that love for each other get you through the tough times because they will come. Sickness job loss, finances, raising kids etc. I heard something once about marriage that made sense. At Thanksgiving the main dish is the Turkey. You prep it and put it in the oven. While it’s cooking, you start preparing all the sides. But all the while you’re forgetting to base the Turkey. Check on the main dish. The Turkey is the marriage. The sides are the kids, bills, your careers. Although the sides are important, you’re neglecting the main dish. I thought that was a great analogy.
Wow she left him when he took her in at 8 months pregnant with a pookie baby. Had his baby. Wanted to relocate to get himself and family back on track. Then she had another pookie baby. 😂😂😂😂 who’s signing up for that? Ma’am move back with you husband.
😂😂😂 3 x 3. This is a terrible deal for any man. Let me continue. 3:31 any man would be a fool to get with her! 6:31 helped raised her child and they had one together and she still left him instead of being a family. I feel sorry for step daddies! 7:46 it's just getting worse. So he'll play step dad and y'all can't have a child together? Kendra Kam when Kendra says "we see you baby" 😂😂 we all know what it means!
Anyone would be a fool to think she really was married. Now they coming on the show lying. That's what men have to look forward to. Lies from the very beginning
Her ex-husband was messing with her while she was pregnant. That's why she thinks having a newborn is no big deal while trying to date. ETA: Friend stfu. And I see she's the trick type. He got chicks trickin' on him across the country. 😂
She didn’t want to hear gunshots gunshots constantly and west a bullet proof jacket lol. He could have worked it out and lived on the outskirts of B more lol
@@Tony-lm5zsshe chose what she wanted instead of following his lead. She is acting holier than thou, while being in the same position that she was in before, while also adding a toddler and another dad. She wanted to clown him, but she is in a much worse position.
29:20 She thinks that once a man sees her friend he’s going to still want her. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Competition is real and she’s out here advertising her friend. LOL.
This man helped her raise a child that wasn’t his and she left him because he lost his job and wanted to move back to Baltimore! That’s the dumbest shit I ever heard!
Dear God in heaven she has a 14 year old daughter and she thinks some man is going to come in and do what now????? Nevermind the conflict of interest in general. "He looked at me", "he aint my daddy"!!! Girl byeeeee. I have a teenage son and he gets on my dam nerves with his attitude. A girl is ten times what im going through with someone who aint the daddy 😮
And worst of all being at the airport with your 14 year old step daughter who don't look nothing like you...you already KNOW someone gonna call 🚔 on him and that is PTSD right there ☠️
Try to get back with your baby daddy. Give that man one more chance. Too many kids!! Dear Baby Daddy, make it work with your kid mother. I rooting for you guys. YOU CAN DO IT!!
Beautiful young woman. With that said, sis please concentrate on your babies, try to co-parent as best you can, work on further development at the job site, and keep fostering that relationship with Jesus. That’s the only man you need right now sweetheart. I say this with love as your sister in Christ 🩷
This shit is real guys this is shit is real! I’m out in the dating world and this BW hit me up and we getting to know each other and she have 5 kids including a 9 month old and have the audacity to tell me I have to accept her kids and I must marry her ! Evenly yoked I told her lady , it’s not evenly yoked , you have 5 kids I have none ! And my 80k per year I’m not gonna be No stepdaddy to your bastards ! She told me I been watching KS , I told her I don’t have to watch KS ! It’s common sense in this economy!! SHE blocked me by the way , as if I was going to call her lol 😂
LMAO... These women act like men had no clue being with a baby mama wasn't a bad idea before KS. All he did was call these women out to their faces and articulated things perfectly.
I don't care if ole girl looked liked Nicole Murphy. Those 5 kids are her responsibility along with the ex-husband/baby daddy/side dude. That's not a good look. Stick to dating single women with 0 kids.
@@candorsspot2775 it’s real shit man! I really couldn’t believe it this was last just last week ! She got angry with me when I told her she needed to go back to the 9 month old daddy. He took you up with 4 dem bastards . But he’s a NUG NUG 40 year old wanna be rapper
@@rvandoom It's funny because that convo sounds like straight off of Kendra. These baby mamas are all the same. Equally yoked, package deal, real man, blah blah. Glad you dipped. Dudes gotta stop having sex with these women. This stuff continues because they can still get men to screw them and the govt will take care of their bills. There's no pressure to do better and they won't until there are consequences.
My only explanation that seems to work well for this show is that people present themselves on this show saying they "all that", but when the camera turns off, it's a whole different story.... that's the best I got 😅
Nearly 80% of blk babies are born out of question. It makes more sense to question the blk women who wait until marriage and ask them what possessed them to be the weirdos in the community.
She didn't acknowledge her mistakes because if she did, she wouldn't be on kendra's show with a 8 month old looking to go 4 for 4. She would be healing, raising her newborn and getting to the root of the problem.
so she actually harshly judges people who sleep on mattresses but doesn't see fit to judge herself for getting pregnant 3 times out ot wedlock, with 3 different men? i can't