The fact that daddy is texting Shalon but from Monique phone is crazy. So that tells me he can’t even have private conversations with his mother because clearly daddy is reading and responding
Or she’s actively involving him when she can’t handle something. As soon as something “does not compute” she relies on him to speak for her. She is the epitome of pick me and I don’t care if I’m single, if I have to pull out my brain and suppress my emotions for the sake of my partner and surrender my career to him , I’m good being single with my dog. This woman has had nothing but trouble since he entered the chat and she let him take over. Her son is doing right by severing the relationship to keep his mental health correct for the sake of his daughter and his lady and the family he’s been building.
Why does Monique feel the need to put her personal business all over social media? It's one thing if she's beefing with other celebrities (although that's tacky, as well), but not her family issues.
She's been putting out her info between her son for a while, she went on TV around the time she won her Oscar for Precious. So, this is nothing new, she said she choice fame over being a parent to him, and she regret it.
@@cammymc1982yeah I think we’re just seeing it publicly. It’s very clear he’s BEEN distanced himself & she’s tryna make it seem like she still tries. It’s weird that she continually bring it up. I think it’s guilt
He a grown ass man fuck outta here. If you don't want nothing to do with your mom then don't. Who cares if she speaks on you on the internet. Nobody really knows who you are, you are off the grid buddy. You could have continued to just live your life and said nothing.
I find it funny how Monique plays an abusive deadbeat mother in Precious, and she's kind of manipulative and absent in real life 😬 i find that a lot that actors display a lot of the traits in the characters they play... sad for her son though, he deserves better. Seems like her and her husband aren't going to take accountability anytime soon..
I like how the son is the bigger person. Cause LAWD knows, I wouldn't have nothing nice or mature to say. I fk with Monique as a comedian. But, her "mothering" reminds me of what I had to deal with.
I agree with Dee. It’s a very sad situation. Mo’Nique is more concerned with the public perception of her. She wants to be thought of as a good mother, without doing any of the work. Her son seems eons more wise than she. I hope he doesn’t respond again, even if she says something else. She will continue to make herself look bad.
I just find it crazy how parents can acknowledge “I completely ruined my child and have no relationship with them” but still wonder why those adult ids don’t want to have a relationship with them.
They all need to get off the internet and sort this out privately. And monique trying to "expose" her son because he responded to a situation SHE brought up is ridiculous smh
Text messages spanning over 3 years can’t erase the harm you’ve done the other 30. Also, it’s crazy to uses texts as “proof” you weren’t neglecting your son when 1) you’ve repeatedly admitted to being absent and a poor parental figure to him over a couple decades; and 2) most of the neglect transpired in the 90s and early 2000s where texting/an electronic papertrail can’t prove you weren’t a bad parent.
she said she was stuck at 15 that must have been when she was harmed by her brother meaning she may have split personality and built personalities on top of that 15 year old child and now she has reverted back to that kid with this man
@@vvotchme1576 Which is really sad. Seems like it's one of those situations where everyone needs healing, accountability, and the right support system. At this rate, there'll be a lot of back-and-forth.
I find it so weird... Monique and her son call this man Daddy. Find that so weird. Monique lets her husband own her and control her, and it seems like she can't think for herself. Smh, the one award and the one trailer she should have been fighting for was being a good mother, and she failed. He is very articulate and inspiring. I hope he gets all he deserves. I hope he continues to speak, and he seems to have a pure heart despite his hard upbringing. ❤❤
If I don’t answer the phone or text ( she doesn’t like to text) from my mom the next day she popping up at my house. Just to check on me, and then to fuss at me for not answering the phone😂. I hope Monique and her son rebuild their relationship one day. But I do understand that you have to remove some people from your life and that unfortunately could be a parent or a child sometimes in certain situations.
I have watched all of Mo’nique’s interviews over the years and heard her side of the story, comprehensively. I have come to a simple conclusion: She is a vile narcissist. She is a very effective and manipulative communicator, and that has led some people to believe that she is a victim. Mo’nique is anything but a victim. The only thing she is a victim of is being mentally disturbed and being in an emotionally coercive relationship with her “daddy”. Be careful believing anything that comes out of her mouth. If someone says something consistently enough, people start believing it’s the truth. I take everything she says with a grain of salt.
While Monique does speak to a lot of issues that actually go on. I stopped fully taking her serious when she started calling that man daddy like he’s really her father. I get as a cute nickname. But momma. Please. I do think the son has abandonment as well as mental health issues. But it’s funny that the very thing she’s expecting from everyone else, she’s not willing to give. Understanding
Sry, but the son came off way more mature, more respectful, and more articulant than her and her, "daddy",...If this is supposed to be her comeback, she seems determined to sabotage it.
Yeah I unpolluted her after she appeared with her "daddy" and let him do all the talking about HER son. He was rude af. I've lost all respect for her. As a mother I'm so disgusted with this because I could never try to publicly or at ALL, humiliate my kids. Her son Shalon is an amazing man and he didn't get that from her. I wish nothing but the best for him.
i like reporting dee (: its cool and very direct. you should do it more often if you dont mind! but not telling you what to do on your channel just saying its cool!
nah this is sooo nasty, you can tell they didn't raise that boy with any type of compassion beyond the verbal "hi mommy love you" "love you two sweetcakes"
To be fair me and my mama don’t text much at all but it’s bc she hates texting, we talk more but we talk for hours. So if they talked more than they text, she would probably show that too I guess.
He is so intelligent and emotional self aware which is a byproduct of narcissistic abuse. You have two options being a victim of narc abuse and one is to become one and the second is to be a empath.
Dee, I have always liked your content. And now I see you as a super intelligent person with a great deal of nuance to your commentary. Don't get gassed lol, but I am impressed if that means anything to ya.
If Monique & her son’s text interactions are anything like me & my mom’s…it’s spaced out because we were on the phone most of the time there were no text interactions. Or we’d be in person. So of course no reason to text.
Sholon reading from these scripts is killing me but this needs to be the end of this because at this point they both need to take us (the internet) out of this because it’s just a fool all around
Some people have a hard time vocalizing what it is that they want to say so writing it out and reading it tends to help, I'm not saying this is his particular issue though it could be. I'm personally not always the best speaker so if I have a point to make it's easier for me to hit all the points without going off subject if i write it out.
Monique is a narcissist she enjoys the attention of being on the shade room and putting her business online so people can see her in a certain light ( narcissist care a lot about how people view them) she also cares a lot about Sidney she’s scared he’s going to leave her that’s why he’s always involved in someway. Remember her “role” in precious that’s all Ima say
Monique's too old for this she should have just ignored what her son said online and just talked it out with him in private. If he doesn't want to talk, that's on him. No one can say she didn't at least try. Going on social media with this problem will only make things worse.
Sorry but going to the internet with your family grievances is also shady to me regardless of what was said. Some kids believe their rich parents should continually take care of them and so on, we dont know if he was an entitled acting child to her,but also he waits till shes saying stuff and in the public eye again to go online and say something 🤨 there are regular everyday people without relationships with their parents and they dont feel the need to make it an internet spectacle. I cant trust people who take private business like this to the internet cause why would she want anything to do with him now? If he did this once would he do it everytime he didnt get his way? Honestly i would have called her, told her dont speak on me or our relationship we dont have or else i would let it be known how its not then leave it be
lol, now that you’ve got that outta the way. Go ahead and redo this comment, and this time, ACTUALLY try to sound like you have a properly functioning brain ☠️
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Monique’s son is picking and choosing. He can’t say he doesn’t want a relationship with her then chooses to ask her for help. There’s no parenting left to do once your children become adults. He’s clearly still holding anger and resentment against her. Monique has acknowledged, owned, and apologized to him for not being a good parent a while ago. What more is left when he wants to live in the past. He’s hurt that much is clear. This issue isn’t going to be resolved going back and forth on social media. It takes 2 people to have a relationship. He’s giving me mix signals. As far as Monique’s husband, he was the only one who’s been consistently there, through all of it with Hollywood, so I get why she allows him to give his opinion. I don’t agree with him interfering in their relationship. That’s where she’s wrong. It’s clear her son doesn’t like him. Monique and her son need therapy apart and together if they’re ever going to move forward with a relationship.
@@KNByam Find where I said you stop being a parent. As a parent of 2 adults, 34 and 29, I can’t parent them anymore. I can advise them when they ask. I don’t tell them how to live their lives nor decisions they choose to make. I’m not a helicopter mom never have been. I also didn’t neglect nor abandon them. I can see both sides of Monique and her son’s situation. They’re both at fault for how things are presently.
@@TallNOpinionatedshe's the one that continues to put her business out on the internet. Instead of talking to her son she instead is opting to post text messages of herself to the internet. She's the one that keeps bringing up their horrendous relationship why should her son sit back and allow her to keep acting like the victim. She's only talking about her estranged relationship with her son for her fame that's it. We, the Internet should not be involved in this matter, yet she continues to post and expose their relationship. I understand why he's responding. She ain't shit to be using their relationship for her fame.
