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MAN GIVES UP EVERYTHING
In 2015, aged 47 an English businessman gave up everything and travelled Asia to find true happiness. Now a Buddhist Monk, living a simple life in Thailand, India and Sri Lanka, he shares the continuing story.
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Phra Dan (Bhante Dhammarakkhita, Bhikkhu) is a Theravada Buddhist Monk who lived in India from 2020, Thailand and now Sri Lanka. Born in Sussex, England in 1967. Educated by French Catholic Monks. A successful businessman in Estate Agency and Financial Services during the 1980's and 90's. Married, now divorced with 3 adult sons. 2000 marked change and travel including South Africa returning to the UK in 2003 to continue different work and business activities until 2012. Gradually materialistic values turned to renunciation, simplicity and meditation, living nomadically in an old Ford Transit van full time for 3 years. Van life and meditation led to Buddhism and a Thai Forest Tradition, Theravada Buddhist Monastery in the UK. During 2015 travelling the Buddhist Holy Sites of India, deep faith reinforced desire for Ordination. In 2020 after 5 years of intensive meditation practice between Thai Forest Monasteries in Thailand and England he was Ordained in India where he lived for 3 years until returning to Thailand in 2023 and now Sri Lanka.
Sabe Satta Sukhi Hontu
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Комментарии : 31   
@hansana0
@hansana0 4 месяца назад
Use your titles like this, " How to avoid Confrontation | Monk's Q&A's " so they are more attractive to the audience. Sadhu Sadhu. 🙏
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Sukhi Hontu
@paultkc
@paultkc 4 месяца назад
Sadhu, Thank you for sharing Bhante. Wish you good health.
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well too.
@skrrskrr99
@skrrskrr99 4 месяца назад
I got so excited when I saw the cat as I was listening to this in my car. I find it interesting that we use similar communication methods for resolving conflict at the major tech company I work for. Well, we're supposed to, anyway. 😆 It's always great to hear a voice of calm reason in the vast sea of anicca. Thank you for what you do Bhante! I don't have easy access to a temple and have so little time to travel after work to meet with the monks and talk about one of my favorite subjects, Buddhism.
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Sukhi Hontu
@manarama1753
@manarama1753 4 месяца назад
Your talks help I have no intention to ordain The knowledge is extremely valuable
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Sukhi Hontu
@StarCat616
@StarCat616 4 месяца назад
Love The Cat ❤😻.
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Sabbe Satta Sukhi Hontu
@bryannewman9478
@bryannewman9478 4 месяца назад
Thank you as always Bhante
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
You're welcome it's my pleasure. Be happy and stay well
@mayploy6869
@mayploy6869 4 месяца назад
bhante i enjoy the background and the gentle sound of rain, but wonder why the focus is so bouncy? glad to see you well and all the best 🙏
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Bouncy it is! It's the phone trying to focus on changing light conditions maybe. Thank you for your feedback. Be happy and stay well.
@pathfinder_strider
@pathfinder_strider 4 месяца назад
Thank you so much, venerable teacher! I would like to ask a question, but I apologize if it has already been asked before. How should we leave deep meditation properly? I left meditation once and my ears started to ring, I also lost balance and had to lay down for a few minutes. It wasn't anything health threatening, but I feel like it damaged my confidence a little bit. Thank you so much for all your teachings and efforts!
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Thank you for watching and your comments. I will talk about this in a Q&A's video coming soon. ru-vid.com/group/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj Be happy and stay well.
@pathfinder_strider
@pathfinder_strider 4 месяца назад
@@englishmonk thank you!
@lonewolf4111
@lonewolf4111 4 месяца назад
Thank you Bhante.Unfortunately it seems all of us have to go through that hamster wheel.Not always out of greed but to support our families ETC.Sometimes that sweet ol boss still kicks us even if we say Thank you for letting me know. How does one run the hamster wheel safely. There are the right thinking actions, honesty, charity, castisy and so on. But I found though just mental self will trying to erode stinking thinking it was impossible. Once I added meditation though it gave me a scale. Like a scale to weigh things. Rather than a knee jerk reaction I was able to pause and weigh the situation. To be sure life is very hard at least for me it has been but the tools plus mediation will get you through the times when it seems every arrow is flying towards you. As for a bull in a China shop I relate to that too because almost everything ive done I had know idea how to do it at first. Sometimes I gently walked around stuff and sometimes I crashed through that wall. But I had that inner ( I dont know what) Peace? that made things a little easier. This stuff does really work.
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Sukhi Hontu
@hansana0
@hansana0 4 месяца назад
How long have you been a monk? 🙏☸️
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
Since 2020. A renunciant longer. Be happy and stay well
@sean2662
@sean2662 4 месяца назад
8:08 perhaps it is what killed him. perhaps performing an act of grace for your murderer is a way to reach parinirvana
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
The Noble 8 Fold Path is the only way to Nibbāna. Sukhi Hontu
@sean2662
@sean2662 4 месяца назад
@@englishmonk Thank you for your reply.
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
I will talk about this in the next Q&A's video coming soon. ru-vid.com/group/PLiX6s1kV1fRMCQyR6F7b6HxXuBUn9Zgck&si=7nWb2Y5dT2JpZjzj Be happy and stay well.
@sean2662
@sean2662 4 месяца назад
@@englishmonk Beautiful. Thank you.
@ChillAndPeaceful
@ChillAndPeaceful 4 месяца назад
•The 3 marks of existence Everything is suffering, impermanence, and non self,, •Suffering - all living beings suffer in different ways, mental and physical suffering, mental suffering like stress, depression, worry, etc. and physical suffering like disease, skin or organs problems, wounds, etc... •Impermanence - nothing last forever except change, everything or everyone will die or will change, like people, house, plants, possession, gadgets, perspective etc... •No self - everything is made out of 4 elements, fire water earth air, example is the house, how to build a house? Need stone blocks, how to create stone blocks? Need some earth or dirt, combined with water, then shaping to blocks after that need heat to be cooked and steady then need air to make the blocks dry and finish product, and humans and other living beings too are created by the 4 elements, People have heat in their body to not get cold, and water like blood, and air to breath, and earth is the physical form of humans and other organisms (living beings), Humans are just like cars, humans have organs, 6 senses, hormones, chemical reactions to the brain and the nature of mind, nature of the mind is greedy for sensual pleasure to the 5 senses, and car have engine, wheels, fuel, lights, windows, etc.. That's why humans are just like animals, humanity just invented sense of self, the sense of "me" "mine" "I'm this" "I'm that" but in reality all living beings are just an organism in the environment, So everything are just organism trying to survive everyday, name, labels is an illusion it's not real because truth is beyond words and beyond ordinary people and ordinary living beings understanding
@noonespecial4171
@noonespecial4171 4 месяца назад
Phra Dan's last video, I believe, is about the 3 poisons.
@englishmonk
@englishmonk 4 месяца назад
3 characteristics anicca, dukkha, anatta impermanent unsatisfactory and not self 3 poisons, root defilements lobha dosa moha greed, hatred and delusion
@michaelward6333
@michaelward6333 4 месяца назад
Everything is suffering and the last world was apocalypse now, now you ask phra dan for mercy, when i know nothing you have is worth enough! Dao quickly come, ah!
@ChillAndPeaceful
@ChillAndPeaceful 4 месяца назад
@@englishmonk 🙏