MONTESSORI AT HOME: Our ENTIRE DAILY Routine! // Montessori Homeschool for Toddler & Preschooler

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MONTESSORI AT HOME: Our ENTIRE DAILY Routine! // Montessori Homeschool for Toddler & Preschooler
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@amor2874 3 года назад

I’m going to be 100% honest. I fully expected to feel terrible about myself as a mom after this video. However, I left feeling like everything you do is pretty accessible. It left me feeling empowered. I am so glad you were upfront about screen time. It’s so refreshing! Thank you for making this video 💜

@isitoveryet9525 3 года назад

Why would you go into a video, expecting for it to make you feel bad? 🥲

@jessicawassermann6337 3 года назад

Agreed! 🤍

@amor2874 3 года назад

@@isitoveryet9525 because I don’t let my discomfort keep me from trying to help my daughter. If I felt bad after then I would examine why I felt bad but this video did not. So I’m pleasantly surprised.

@jamieconnelly6822 3 года назад

Huhhhuhh

@jamieconnelly6822 3 года назад

@@jessicawassermann6337 huhhhhhuhhhuhuuuj

@ItsBeatrizM 3 года назад

Congratulations on the 300k subscribers!! 😍🥳

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Thanks!! 😜

@vivianwg 3 года назад

What night light do you use?

@miepmans 3 года назад

This is so helpfull! Thank you :) my oldest son will be 4 this Christmas and wil start in Montessori elementary/kindergarden in january. I’m learning more about the montessori approach each day.

@ibethalfaro236 3 года назад

I love your videos, thank you for the time and the love you put in your videos. I’m being learning so much🥰❤️💐

@CosmoRendon Год назад

I loved this video. Thank you for making it!

@lisahuang4002 3 года назад

Could you give us examples of shelf work for a 18 month old? I feel like Mia is so good at all this because she also has Kylie to model after. I don't know how this would work with just my 18 year old son!

@caelynn42 3 года назад

If 1 hour of screen time is non-negotiable, do the girls ever watch feature-length movies? Would they watch them over multiple days? Thanks! Love your channel!😊

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

They usually don’t have an interest in watching full-length movies - they actually prefer the shorter shows with episodes. But we do have occasional “movie nights” as a family, which is more like a treat. And on those infrequent occasions, then it’s just a bit of extra screen time that day. ☺️ Most days, it’s just the 1 hour.

@allysonbrackett4810 3 года назад

Do you leave your dishwasher open during the whole day, or does Kylie and Mia know how to open the dishwasher and pull the bottom tray out?

@carols7n 3 года назад

Hi, I’m having a 10 month old baby, she usually sleep at 11pm and I think it’s too late for a baby. Do you have any advice for re-schedule our daily routine?

@tahoorashaikh2573 3 года назад

I have a 10 month old too and he sleeps at about 6:30 and wakes up between 6-7am. I've read a little about how you can reschedule sleep timings, and I think the key is to gradually shift the bed time from 11pm to 7pm by shifting the bedtime routine slowly. I'm not sure if a sudden shift in the bedtime will be accepted by your 10 month old. So start by, 1. Getting a bedtime routine ( follow consistently) 2. Do the bedtime routine at approximately the same time everyday 3. Be ready for push back and then eventually for sleep regressions!

@xxGuItArGiRLxx89 3 года назад

What about when you have to cook a proper big dinner from scratch?

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

We cook a proper dinner every night, but if it’s especially big then I just start a little earlier! :)

@christine775 3 года назад

How old were the girls when this sort of routine emerged? My LO is 9 months and we still feel a little in baby survival mode most days.

@MariaandMontessori 3 года назад

We started implementing some aspects of this around 10 months-cleaning up, helping get undressed and picking out pj's at night, brushing hair in the morning, etc. I added one task at a time that she seemed to try reaching for whenever I did it. At 12 months now she's doing quite a bit on her own-adding a kitchen next to start food prep. The number of tasks she has been able to do increased exponentially -we went from baby survival to "don't touch me I'll do it" seemingly overnight 😅 She just started trying to do whatever I was doing and that was my cue to show and guide instead of do

@christine775 3 года назад

Thank you for the reply. That is really reassuring. LO is rapidly becoming more mobile and alert so I can see how he could quickly become more independent. He is more and more fun each day 🥰

@hannahp.s.9990 3 года назад

This was so inspiring to me! I have realized that a lot of my stress during the day is because my house is not equipped for my children to do things themselves. Thank you for the helpful video!

@Daymickey 3 года назад

They are unbelievably good at kitchen tasks. 😱 it’s amazing. Kids that age usually spill all over the place.

@AshK457 4 месяца назад

Thats the beauty of Montessori! It stresses giving children the activities needed to do practical life tasks (like cooking) and gives them the time to master those skills! Children love it :)

@ilariandre_ 3 года назад

I'm literally speechless! You're doing such a great job with the girls!

@s.d774 3 года назад

You and your family are so inspirational. Thank you so much. Do you have any advice for guilt/anxiety over not applying Montessori much during the early years and too much screen time? My son is 4 and I feel like I failed him. Also, do you feel if you only had one child, she would have much more difficulty playing independently? I can't even imagine my son playing 20 minutes on his own let alone 2 hours haha. I'm his constant playmate.

@anon_sls6106 2 года назад

I FELT THIS! hope things are going well for you!

@d0ttiej Год назад

Current situation

@youtubecommentator6023 2 месяца назад

Yeah, same! My son is almost 4 and we just barely had a baby. He is way too good at playing Nintendo switch games and knows how to select his own movies on our Amazon Fire Stick 🤦‍♀️. I've been doing better by getting us outside but he will not, I repeat, will NOT entertain himself. Even before I started letting him watch TV when he was a little younger, he hated playing alone. I'd get his toys out and he'd start playing and I'd try to sneak away to the kitchen, which is visible from the living room, to do dishes. Less than 5 minutes later he would come and grab me to come play with him. Now that he's got a colicky little sister, it's even more difficult. I'm slowly making small changes though week by week that I feel are making small differences. We read more throughout the day, we spend more time outside (dollar stores have awesome outdoor play stuff for cheap), and we play board games more. I'm really really struggling trying to incorporate chores in the middle of all of it so much husband has been helping. He's going to be going back to school soon though so I'm not sure how I'm going to do it alone. Just know you're not alone! And take baby steps. Maybe give your 4 year old 30 less minutes of screen time each week until you reach the desired amount of screen time. And maybe purchase cheap things at the dollar store that you can use for learning/activities. You can always talk to local libraries, schools, try to find out programs that give away free pre-K learning materials too (there's lots online as well!). You got this! And remember....baby steps. You'll be able to make a routine that works for you and him but take your time and don't stress too much!

@heatherhughes9246 3 года назад

I love that you allow an hour of screentime. I wish I could do better about limiting it for my son, but it's definitely refreshing to see other families incorporating it even though it's "frowned upon"

@Lizbethsimply 3 года назад

I couldn’t finish watching. I felt like a failure 😢 I have a 2.5 year old and we don’t do any of this.

@HS-rb6vq 3 года назад

It's slow steps! Start one activity at a time. Maybe let them pick their own pyjamas, or chop the fruits.

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Oh no! I am certainly not trying to make ANYONE feel that way! 😫 We’ve been slowly working up to this routine for a loooong time. We started small, gradually adding more steps at a time. It is definitely a process! ❤️

@elementaryboo 3 года назад

Aw please don't feel like a failure! The fact you're choosing to watch such a quality RU-vid channel means you are already doing something great for your little one. We can't all be Ashleys but what she's sharing is definitely inspiring and seems achievable in small consistent steps. Never too late to start!!

@angbaby56 3 года назад

You're definitely not a failure. This isn't the typical lifestyle we're all accustomed to. It takes a lot of "unlearning" to learn a new approach. You got this mama!

@tahoorashaikh2573 3 года назад

No one is a failure. Please don't consider yourself that. Your child has only you as a parent. Your child is gonna love you no matter what you do for them. Please remember, your child doesn't need a perfect parent, just a HAPPY one.

@HS-rb6vq 3 года назад

Mia's speech is just the cutest thing in the world! And Kylie's such a good big sister. I can't wait to be a mom like you when I grow up!!

@leniceispurple1 3 года назад

I love this video! Can you maybe make one showing how you transition from activities throughout the day. (Ie: clean up, how much guiding a child would need when determining what to do)

@milenas3797 3 года назад

I second and triple that!!!! 👍👍👍👍🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞

@lmtorr22 3 года назад

I would also love to see that!

@mrbqkc 3 года назад

Yes, that would be great!

@themaneidea 3 года назад

Me five😁

@orrac1e 3 года назад

If it’s not too intrusive it’s something I’d love to see too!! I have a toddler and an infant and man I could use a bit of handholding from a fellow mama.

@sueyates3555 3 года назад

I absolutely love this video. If I had not known the age of ever girl in advance I would have thought they were much older. You two parents have done an excellent job teaching your children to be independent. And to keep your children on a schedule I do understand why. Everytime I watch your videos I'm amazed by what the girl's are doing now. Thank you so much for sharing.

@MariaandMontessori 3 года назад

You have such wonderfully full days with your girls-how are you going to adjust to Kylie being in school 😭 I mean, obviously it will be wonderful for her, but I'm already having to pep talk myself into it 2 years early. Is Kylie going to go only for the morning cycle or the whole day? (Mia's walk down the stairs in the morning in that outfit was a whole mood!)

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

She’ll be going to a 3-hour morning class, 5 days a week. I’m so happy for her because she’s really been craving some more socialization! And honestly looking forward to some more one-on-one time with Mia. ❤️

@MariaandMontessori 3 года назад

@@HapaFamily our poor kids definitely lacked socialization-a year is a lot in kid years! We just started going into the world and can immediately see a difference with our daughter. Also it sounds like the best way to deal with sending your little one off to school is to have another little one to preoccupy you... 🤣 noted ✍

@nadikstrizheus5815 3 года назад

@@HapaFamily, can I ask about the cost of the school in your area, please? It's $6,700 for 9 months (Sep. - May) for the 3 hours 5 days a week in my area. And while it's basically unattainable for us, I still really want to justify it. Thanks for the video, it's very much helpful as our days are so unstructured and I feel like unproductive.

@tuathadesidhe1530 3 года назад

@@nadikstrizheus5815 seems like a completely ridiculous price tag really - if you invested even a fraction of that into a Montessori based (or any style) home education you could provide far more than any school could hope too.

@The_C_Word 3 года назад

@@nadikstrizheus5815 that seems like a lot. I’m going to sending my four year old to a more traditional preschool in the mornings just to get some socialization and get used to how kindergarten will be like. (It’s all full day here) And then we can hopefully spend the afternoons and evening more Montessori style. And I’ll be paying less than half of that price tag.

@tiffanyhahn838 3 года назад

What a lovely routine and day! You’re an amazing mama.

@kjperez83 3 года назад

Wow. I love everything. Thank you for sharing. I would've loved to know about Montessori when my boys were young.

@cougartownlondon 3 года назад

Ashley, you mentioned that girls have 1 hour of screen time. My question is what programs and shows are Montessori appropriate, considering age as well, in your opinion? Thank you!

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

I have a whole video dedicated to that here - ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dNgvQH-oPLw.html

@ZinniaLP 3 года назад

Montessori appropriate isn't really a tv show category. Montessori is simply following the Childs interest and passion

@SomethinAintRightHere 3 года назад

@@ZinniaLP i thought she meant educational but also entertaining, though I’m sure someone will soon make that as a category. to be fair, an hour is a bit much for such small kids, but if they can follow those boundaries without tantrums and it’s not disney or nickelodeon garbage, it’s not the end of the world

@AshleighMcCarty 3 года назад

They are so sweet, competent, and adorable. I wish I could have another seeing them so close. Definitely goals here. I feel like at 14 months old, I still get absolutely nothing done all day and rely too much on music videos when our goal was zero screens. It's probably an 1hr a day or even 2 on bad days.

@karlstheg8 3 года назад

your day seems so easy, I need a schedule just don't know how to start

@zamiaramirez1390 3 года назад

Its a lot of trial and error. Just follow your kids rhythm if they have any and plan around that

@hannahp.s.9990 3 года назад

I started by taking a day to pay attention and write down what we already do, then thinking of what I would rather have our day look like. :)

@cloudscarves 3 года назад

I'm literally using my toddler's naptime to crochet a baby blanket while watching your video and I see you doing the same! Hilarious!

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Yes!! 🙌🏼 🧶🪡

@Shewhomustnotbenamed8 3 года назад

Hi Ashely- what is the reason that they don’t take their naps anymore?

@SomethinAintRightHere 3 года назад

eventually kids grow out of it, they just don’t want or need them anymore. varies with age and each kid but it’s pretty common. dont know about you but i still love naps and im a mom , ha!

@munyaradzimuzulu2260 Год назад

I'm an African we don't believe in homeschooling but this video has challenged me to try teaching my children at home. Thank you

@EmpressMenen Месяц назад

Who's we 😂👀

@AmandaLaVlog 3 года назад

You guys make me so excited to have kids some day! Your family is gorgeous and Kylie and Mia are the smartest most engaging kids ❤️❤️

@danilles.4247 3 года назад

You are a stunning inspiration! I am a decade away from having kids but your ideas and routine make me feel empowered to raise them confidently! Thank you SO much

@Ejwellbeing 3 года назад

Thank you so much for making the time to create such informational and educational content. Honestly if not for finding your channel I would have never heard of montessori and because of your wonderful channel I feel so empowered in my parenting choices with my now 2 year old who we have done our own version of montessori on a budget with and I am due very soon with our second baby and feel so ready to do all of this with them too. Thank you xx

@JodeneGray 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing. I’ve been looking for help in this area.

@melissadavis4981 3 года назад

They're SO smart and SO focused! My 3 year old just seems to lose interest so easily especially when playing with things that aren't dolls or animal toys

@bellsfiz 3 года назад

it seems like your LO is focused on animal toys/dolls at the moment and that's not necessarily a bad thing! if you want to teach certain skills, Maybe create different activities that is centered around the theme that your LO likes?(if you haven't tried) The time will come when his interests shift so don't worry too much! Enjoy the moment :)

@melissadavis4981 3 года назад

@@bellsfiz thanks! I kinda figured this out... I just try to incorporate them into everything we're learning now... I pretend they are the teacher and do different voices for them lol

@msi8311 3 года назад

Thanks for sharing! Hope you and your family are having a happy Thursday.

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Thanks, you too!

@ayaspapaya 3 года назад

Video hasn’t even started and I already know this is gonna be good content ❤️

@MamaOwlbear 3 года назад

How do you have energy to do all this, and cook and clean, plus any personal health like fitness? Its awesome how you work with your girls. I struggle to do so many activies in the day but I will do at least 2 or so. and I'll read to her and play pretend. Mom fatigue is real for me, been trying to also work on my health. and have to keep up with all the housework and cooking.

@shelleyknightley2674 3 года назад

So glad u made this video! I love how flexible and child led ur routine is 🙌

@haniyyahahmadbonvini1980 3 года назад

Ashley!! I can’t wait to watch this, I have been waiting for a video like this!! We’re currently hiking/camping in the German countryside. I love the content you’ve been sharing lately ❤️ you’re amazing. Also, happy belated birthday Mike!!

@karlamurphy9934 3 года назад

Just wanted to say Thanks for this video! It must have been a difficult one to get together but I appreciate it! 🙏

@aleksandrastojanovic3172 3 года назад

This is the dream :) I am five months pregnant with the first baby and actively learning about the Montessori approach, so thank you for all the wonderful, educational content and examples. I was just wondering what would a day in the life of a full time, 9 to 5 working mom look like. What I mean is, when you have very limited time to spend with your little ones, how to prioritize the activities? Are there any resources that you would recommend?

@MariaandMontessori 3 года назад

I'm starting to think of that as the world opens up and returning to work becomes a possibility. My personal plan will be to heavily focus on practical life as that will allow us to get things done as a family, spend time together, and encompasses all the skills she needs to learn from motor to mathematics. The shelf will be available and maintained for her play time in the evenings and even more so on weekends 😁

@AmmaraSHAH773377 3 года назад

I would also prepare the best person to be with them constantly i mean consistently that it is just one or 2 people who they have every day with them that they can fully trust and have that attachment relationship with. I would really really really recommend looking into the attachment relationship theories the talks on RU-vid whilst you are doing some chores or walking or something gabor mate goes into the importance of attachment. I think if you prepare the right environment at home and get one or two people to consistently nmbe there for the child then they won't have attachment issues and will feel more secure and the connection at every moment of detachment is so important so you can easily reconnect with them when you return to them. Keeping the environment secure and consistent will help with them reconnecting with you. I wish i had known about attachment relationships whilst i was pregnant. Also the stress a mother feels during pregnancy is not just to reduce risks in pregnancy but actually have a neurological impact on the baby they become more susceptible to stress the mlre they are exposed to stress hormones. Its a whole thing and i wish i hadn't started working for the place i work at now whilst i was pregnant and that i took the full year off maternity leave. The first 3 years are the most important years in a childs life for thier entire future of howbthey will interpret the world and how they will react to situations.

@SomethinAintRightHere 3 года назад

you have a great house and property - very conducive to home life and raising little ones! such sweet little girls. you’re doing a great job!

@barbaraliston5959 2 года назад

I thoroughly enjoyed your recent youtube on EC and your Keynote on Montessori for Modern Parents. So my only question is, are you planning a TED Talk? I can see you reaching and inspiring so many more parents and grandparents. You are a Montessori Superstar. You are absolutely amazing.

@CookWithThimmy 3 года назад

Love this! You're such a great mom! 💖

@pennyeliza 3 года назад

Love this video so much! I love how present you are with the girls and how confident and secure they are. You’re so inspirational 🤩

@StudioBAS 3 года назад

I loved watching this! I know it probably took forever to film and edit, so thank you for sharing. Your family is a great inspiration to mine :)

@meenakshis7049 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing, I am first time mother of 2.3 year old baby girl and I must say your videos are extremely educational and useful. Can I ask at what age did Mia stop napping.

@Azia222 3 года назад

Yup, I also used to learn, while my kid nightime. Now I am doing my reading while nap time :)

@mistylarue9075 3 года назад

Love seeing your notifications! I love all your content! Your family is beautiful & your girls are so smart!!! happy Im early, so you should hopefully see my comment! Thank you for your videos...you are such a genuine good person & I can watch any of your videos & love them!

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Thanks so much, Misty! ☺️

@hollygrail2964 3 года назад

Thanks for sharing your day, it’s great... But basically you have to be rich and spend a lot of money to have a thousand toys and activities for a child to use in one single day! I mean, this is totally not realistic for the average middle class/lower middle class citizen! ... This is the ideal way of raising a kid, and it’s fantastic, I’m just sayin it’s a little sad that you need quite a bit of money to raise a child right.... I mean, how could you apply this Montessori lifestyle with no budget for buying toys/activity books and only money for food? What house hold/outside stuff would you use? Maybe that’s a video idea, how to do Montessori for the family with no budget for it!

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Keep in mind that the “activity” portion of the day was only 2-2.5 hours… the rest of our day together is spent doing things anyone can do, regardless of budget or the kinds of toys someone has in their home. And quite honestly, those “other” moments (cooking together, exploring outside, getting dressed independently, etc) are WAY more integral to a Montessori lifestyle than any number of specialized activities. In any event, your concerns are definitely worth addressing in their own video, so stay tuned for that this coming week! ☺️

@AR-k39 3 года назад

Do you have a space with just learning materials? How do you make sure they’re picking learning materials over playing with toys during the work cycle? I have an 8 month old that gets into and wants to be involved with my toddlers work or toys. She really only gets to do work when he’s napping. She’s also distracted by him when being he’s awake and would rather play baby toys with him! Any pointers?

@user-vn6xo2tc9r 2 года назад

Kylie needs her own font, love her handwriting especially the ‘i’ 😂 So adorable and helpful! Thank you for sharing ✨☀️🧡🔆

@amberweston6926 Год назад

Thanks for sharing your day, your girls are adorable and I loved watching them play, my sister and I NEVER got along growing up. 😢 I am hoping to implement some Montessori techniques with my baby granddaughter who is just 8 months old. I am learning so much from you, so thanks for the hard work!

@lb8810 2 года назад

I love watching those two kiddos playing together. They seem like best friends and are so helpful and sweet. Thank you for setting such a good example for us mothers out there!

@allinonedreamer8137 3 года назад

This makes me feel unworthy. My parents never believed in anything I believed in about my beliefs especially in child care. I finally graduated in Child Psychology but I didn't know that I needed to do that first then ECE.

@blackpassenger 3 года назад

beautiful kids, yes to hybrid vigor. we are just working on getting our girl adjusted to the move from california to japan. But we've begun implementing some of the things you mentioned.

@InnerOrderandJoy 3 года назад

Hi Ashley, I love your videos and both your girls. I have recently started shelf set up and I have watched your videos so many times and they were really helpful. Thank you so much for uploading videos and truly appreciate. Thank you Ashley😊

@СветланаВласова-д9у 3 года назад

My daughter turns two years old next week. That would be great if she could sleep well all night after me just saying “goodnight”. Usually it takes me an hour to lie down with her

@Sacred_stargazer 3 года назад

Wow…I’m definitely a terrible mom. I have a 4 year old and a 3 month old and my 4 year old just basically runs around ruining my house all day. She won’t sit for activities. She won’t sit to eat. And she definitely doesn’t do learning like that. I just put her to bed looking a mess, because I just don’t even have the energy for her 3rd bath of the day. Ugh.

@SamanthaReil 3 года назад

I have a 15 month old boy and the struggle is real with work cycles! He is like a bull in a china shop. Do you have any recommendations on how I can encourage him to slow down? I had 8 activities out and dropped it down to 6 then 4 and I haven't noticed a difference after 2 months now. Thanks!

@sina2007 3 года назад

i have a 2,5 year old daughter that is doing the same .o. excited for an answer :P

@Puffolina15 3 года назад

Have you tried to have some outdoor activities first? Like going for a walk, going to the playground etc so he has an opportunity to use up some of his energy? Also, do you prepare activities that are following his schema? maybe he is in a trajectory schema (interest in how objects and people move, and how children can affect that movement. This schema can be seen in children’s actions when they drop objects, jump, swing and climb up and down repeatedly. definition taken from internet)

@jessicajones7056 3 года назад

I have an 17 month old boy and it’s the same. However, it’s gotten a little better ever since we started having more outdoor time. He can’t only have one outdoor time...I take him outside for about 30 min in the morning right after breakfast and then when we come back inside, it’s easier for him to focus. I hope that helps! 💙

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

I always defer to following their interests. If they are pulling things off the shelves (and you’ve already tried rotating for easier/harder/different types of work, or offering fewer choices), then perhaps they are simply working to master other skills right now (especially gross motor movement at that age) and therefore the shelf work holds less appeal. Try to consider how you can offer activities that encourage them to explore to their current interests - for example, if they are very into dumping things, offer some sensory bins of sand, beans, rice, or water where they can dump as much as they want! Otherwise, like another commenter said, perhaps they need a bit more outside time to get out their excess energy before they are ready to focus on quieter activities. It’s often a bit of a trial and error through your own observation, and you won’t always get it right - I know that I miss the mark sometimes, too. ;)

@SamanthaReil 3 года назад

Thank you all! He is definitely more interested in gross motor and we will try swapping outdoor and indoor time.

@shrutijambhekar1386 3 года назад

Thank you so much for sharing your day schedule with your gals. I always having been wondering will I able to manage my twins..(am due in April 2022)😉 Watching you and your gals has boosted my strength and confidence that it's gonna be a smooth journey of motherhood. 😀

@bandhagibajaj7031 3 года назад

Hi Ashley! I’ve been catching up on your latest videos. Hope you’re all doing okay. Thank you for sharing your whole day with us, it’s really nice to see how you and the girls practise Montessori principles basically throughout every aspect of life. It’s remarkable to see the effect it has had on them.

@ambientgamesound Год назад

I just want to say thank you so much.. I had my daughter at montessori school, however we can no longer afford it. I can continue with this routine ❤

@4usister 3 года назад

The only thing I can do after watching this video is👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

@sofiavoogne 3 года назад

Ashley, first thank you for all your videos and guidance

@84Love86 3 года назад

What is the light remote you have set up in the girls room? I need it! Lol

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

The girls each have one in their rooms, they are the best! They are these ones: amzn.to/3jGw10m

@feliciasuris2381 3 месяца назад

Do you have a video or advice for someone adopting some of the methods and 1 child (2 yrs soon) and doesnt walk yet? Its hard to get him involved in chores like cooking, dishes, etc. He'll try to eat raw egg off his hand in the helper or scoots with silverware

@augustine7893 3 года назад

Thank you for sharing ♥️ I have been slowly cutting back screen time in our household. I’m living with chronic pain so it’s a learning experience. Finding things that works with us and this has definitely showed me what I and my family can do together.

@MGB16 3 года назад

Fantastic video, thank you for your effort to put it together. May I ask at what age did the girls start brushing their own teeth, and then letting you do it? Was it at all a struggle at the beggining (them saying no no no)?

@emilymartinsen4737 3 года назад

So much helpful info! Could you do a video and talk about how homeschooling can be affordable? I know there are many ways to go about it but stay at home mom only? That's tough and nearly impossible as a single parent...I love the idea of homeschooling and really want this for both of my kids ❤️🙏

@astridcalderon8381 3 года назад

Is there a specific workbook Mia is using to trace, cut and paste?

@elizabethross3639 3 года назад

Thank for sharing! My daughter is two and I have such a hard time helping her focus on any one task or activity for more than 1-2 minutes. And she is very resistant to independent play (I know it's because I didn't foster that enough when she was much younger). Do you have any tips for helping teach her to focus on a task/activity and transition to independent play?

@marie-louiseweerheim4224 3 года назад

"The parenting junkie" has nice videos on independent play.

@brianbruneau7878 Год назад

I feel like crap after watching this, but I'm hopeful. It's just that I know most of the things in this video cost quite a bit of money and we are not nearly as well prepared as this mom. :/

@TheShellymay 3 месяца назад

This is a great video. I nanny a lot of boys and a lot of this stuff would be difficult for them to get through since they have to get the energy out before they sit down to concentrate. You definitely have to go by how each child is. I definitely have followed a similar schedule with the girls. I have nannied.

@dinakamel9423 Год назад

I know this is not really Montessori nor your area of expertise necessarily but watching this video made me wonder about Kylie being able to sleep through the night? My son is going on 4 years old and he was sleep trained at 9 months and we never had any issues but with pregnancy #2 he started having issues and it has been going on for a while now (baby #2 is 16month) where he falls asleep in his bed but 90% of the time will wake up in the middle of the night and come to sleep with us. :)

@claudiajade624 3 года назад

Amazing! 😊💜 So impressed by all the activities and how independent and capable both the girls are.

@Conmaritzzzaa 2 года назад

How did you first start introducing Montessori to your children?

@PreschoolwithMsLilly Год назад

I’m a first time grandma taking care of my grandson who will be 16 months old. Where am I able to purchase some of these great toys.

@relentlesslyawesomer 3 года назад

This was extremely helpful! I feel like at 21 months with another on the way, I'm finally developing some minor semblance of a daily routine. And it is a huge stress relief - thank God! I really appreciate seeing your full routine and am amazed by how much work you guys put in for the girls. Thank you for giving me a wonderful structure to strive for and for the constant inspiration.

@heatherhughes9246 3 года назад

Did Mia just stop needing naps on her own or did you help wean her off of them? Do you have a video on this?

@iant720 8 месяцев назад

Would love to know your thoughts on instead of letting the kids have a tablet, they could watch cartoons on a fixed TV, or just read a book? Be a new dad soon!

@estefir2930 3 года назад

You have always been such an inspiration! My little one is a bit older than Mia and I love getting ideas and being inspired by you! Sending you hugs!

@niahexe738 7 месяцев назад

I have trier a lot of the aproaches here too. But my toddler is not even close to beeing as interested in helping with Chores or choosing her outfit. She will just decide not to wear anything but diapers, even in winter and refuse to leave the house at all, because it would be too cold.

@TheMsChipsy 3 года назад

What do you do when the girls want to do different things? Eg. one of them would like to go for a bike ride and the other would like to stay and play at home.

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

We try to compromise the best we can: “Okay, we’ll stay for 10 more minutes, then take a quick bike ride on the trail. We can have lunch we get back!”

@TheMsChipsy 3 года назад

@@HapaFamily thank you for your answer :) I struggle with this daily with my kids :/

@JohnDuffell 3 года назад

@@TheMsChipsy Another option I read but haven't needed is to give them the problem back and coach them in an age appropriate way to an answer, so "hmm, two children, one wants to ride bike and the other wants to play at home, but we can only do one at a time. do you have any ideas?" and then see what they come up with! Might take you out of the middle of some of the battles, also gives them the skills to compromise even if you're not there to mediate.

@bridzs333 3 года назад

It was my preschoolers last day before summer break so perfect timing :)

@viennachan5505 3 года назад

I have a son 2s, is it possible to run quite time in this age and play his own? How to start up this quite time. I rilly need break time

@yson0408 Год назад

Love your video.! may i ask how old ur daughter's were at the time u filmed this video?

@MissVindicat 3 года назад

Thank you! Loved seeing this. Also, I applaud you for being able to work during the nights. I have a two year old and by the time he is in bed I’m exhausted. Don’t get me wrong, we’re having loads of fun, but I just don’t have any energy left afterwards. Any tips?

@rsrf39 3 года назад

Wow! Hashtag goals! Where do you get all your Montessori stuff? I heard you mention subscription boxes but any other specific guides or resources you recommend?

@jackie4114 3 года назад

Check out her Amazon store front (it is linked in most of the videos). Also, birthday and Christmas haul vlogs will usually include links to all the toys.

3 года назад

I love the natural flow of the day! And so many free choices for the girls. I'm hoping you get some more personal time on the weekend and I'm praying hubby gets to spend more time with the babies ❤❤❤❤

@melaniechabot9575 3 года назад

I was trying to see on the shelf where Kylie's homeschool materials (the counter beads etc.) were kept but couldn't see them. Is there a special spot you keep them? Or does she just ask when she wants them? Thanks so much for this video. It's inspiring me to work on our own home routine.

@jeffreyrichardson 10 месяцев назад

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@Carrots.love.tomatoes 3 года назад

Thank you for going to such efforts with making this video. Our Montessori school closed for the summer, and I've felt clueless most of the time about how to structure things. I normally work when she is at school, so this has been a real adjustment! Your video is very helpful for how we can approach our home structure.

@elisabethborst950 3 года назад

Do you continue the whole thing of choice with chores? What about when they are older and they are given responsibility’s, are they to decide they don’t want to do them?

@sabrinamyneni1455 2 года назад

Montessori is about choice within boundaries. So the boundaries change as the child grows. When the child is older and has more responsibilities the choice might be about when the chores can be completed rather than which chores to complete. Also, the idea is that you’ve established a positive rapport so the child is generally interested in pleasing the parents.

@aisha_shondina 7 месяцев назад

How old your children in this video? Thank you!

@priscillajimenez27 2 месяца назад

Wow by the time they start pre K they'll be at 1st grade level 😄

@geneveiveevangelista5713 3 года назад

Can you please link the letter work book ( w/ the cut outs) Kylie was working on? Thanks so much!

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Sure! It’s this one: amzn.to/3hHpTmj

@geneveiveevangelista5713 3 года назад

@@HapaFamily thank you so much! And thank you for being sooo inspiring!

@helenadupras8796 3 года назад

Hello i would like to know were to get a chess game like in the video please

@naturallynikki6370 3 года назад

Would you recommend practicing having a quiet time before they are done napping? My daughter naps still for about an hour an a half a day now. How did you introduce this? Love your videos as always! So glad you are doing well 🥰 still so excited for your book launch!

@phokhamsengdy4814 3 года назад

Thanks for asking her...im in the same boat and was gonna ask the same.

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

For a while, we just didn’t have naps anymore and I started feeling like I was going crazy with not a spare moment to myself during the day. I also noticed they NEEDED some down time just to recharge, even if it didn’t include sleep. So I started just doing it with them one day! I explained how it worked, started small (just like 5-10 min), and now we’re up to 30 minutes. I’d like to get to an hour at least! It’s a work in progress. ;)

@HapaFamily 3 года назад

Also - I can’t really speak to the “transition”, since we kind of skipped that part. But having some practice ahead of time certainly sounds like a great idea, especially if your little one isn’t yet accustomed to longer stretches of independent play.

@MariaandMontessori 3 года назад

In the school, we had the 3 and 4 year olds together. The younger kids napped and as they got older and didn't want to sleep, they were allowed a choice of quiet activity but because the room was still dark and their friends were sleeping, they caught on to what to do pretty quick. Leaving the environment as it was for nap time seemed to be helpful in making that transition.

@naturallynikki6370 3 года назад

Hapa Family I have the summer off with her as I am a teacher. I have started introducing something like this where I say I am going to read for 10 minutes. Here are books if you want to read too. Would you set a timer? Would you give ideas of things she can do? I know timers are discouraged. I plan to increase the time gradually. Thank you for your insight!

@maikaNredruby 3 года назад

Hi Ashley, could you share the names of the math and alphabet workbooks that Kylie was working on in this video? I'm looking for similar workbooks and I was hoping to know the titles :) many thanks.