Excellent analysis ... I have a moon in the seventh house in Cancer. I believe what you mentioned applied, in my case , to the relationships... interesting. Thank you Lada.
Thank you very much for this great video. This explains a lot. Let me share my own experience about this position. This is my girlfriend's position. (BTW Don't judge her too much because I'm a moon in the 7th house person. So I always emotionally attach to my partners too much) So Usually my girlfriend spend about 80 percent of her free time with her friend groups and 20 percent for everything else Including me. If I wanted to spend time with her, I have to be in one of her friend groups. She can't stay alone or with one person for more than few minutes. She always invite other couples to join us when we go on dates. Even to our anniversary dates. We met in university. Back then it wasn't a huge issue for me because her friends were also my friends. But This situation got worse when we started working. She literally goes to see her office colleagues in her week off days. The same people that she works with through out the week days. Also she finds opportunities through her friends. At least that's a good thing for her. It is really easy for her to make new friends. And it is Always groups of girls. So I'm not interested to be with them naturally. Also I'm not comfortable being in a group of girls. Girl talks and chit chats always bore the hell out of me. Her friends are so lucky to have a friend like her. Because she's always there for them. She literally uplift the mood of every situation. Me the boyfriend on the other hand miss her on every important moments of my life. She's not there for me. I'm always with either with my own friends or family. But for me she's the most important one to share that moment with. She never missed any of my birthdays or anniversaries. But she needed a group of people to be there with us. Not only 2 of us. We rarely spend some alone time together. Sometimes I feel as if she hates to spend time with me alone. But the reality is that she needs more people all the time around her. No matter how hard I try it is getting harder and harder to impress her alone. Where as a group of people who are not even trying can impress her the most. So this part is a little bit sad. Because of these misunderstandings we fought a lot and decided to breakup. This impacted me the worst. She started spending more and more time with her friends going out. I miss her and our relationship. We were in this relationship for 6 years. I was super loyal. Where as she took everything very lightly. This explanations gave me an insight of her brain. This helped me to see things clearly. Thank you.
I have this Moon placement & I don't dwell well in groups or gatherings for more than an hour or two. I do, however, have the need to be everyone's 'fix up' - meaning; am that person that comes up with a solution to any given issue. Am at my happiest when I know I have helped someone achieve the impossible, or especially when am being assigned several tasks at work. Unlike your ex, it's important for me to have private moments with my husband/friend/sibling, in order to strengthen my relationship with them. Am sorry that things turned sour with your ex, but understand that there are several other factors as to why your ex behaved the way she did. One planetary placement won't paint the whole picture. Listen to your gutt & always value yourself more. Wishing you the best with your next relationship.
