Moon in the 12th House Synastry | Moon in Partner's 12th House | SYNASTRY ASTROLOGY 

Dear diary, he's nothing but a plastic orchid with which I furnish my day dreams, I dust him and rearrange him, but I have the strangest feeling that I'm staring in the mirror

Im becoming close friends with someone and we both looked at our synastry chart yesterday. Turns out we have our moons in each other’s 12th house. We opened up to each other very quickly and we find ourselves talking about traumas and spiritual experiences most of the time. we’re always amazed at how much we click and understand each other.

My crush's moon is in my 12th house, I just "knew" there was something like this! I relate to this a lot, that is so accurate

I am the moon person in a new person I’m dating’s 12H. It is very draining, bc he is so mysterious to me. Communication is super difficult and every time I try to walk away he pulls me back in by becoming super vulnerable with me. It’s such an interesting dynamic. We definitely connect on a deeper level but me being a Virgo sun needs more of a solid day to day, 3D connection to feel like this can work. My Venus is also in his 8th house...

I'm sorry but I can't do 12th house synastry. I'm not comfortable with someone being able to read me like a map.

My husband and I have this in each other's 12 houses

Both my kid’s moons are in my 12th house. We are all picses moons and we all “get” each other. My kids are very protective of me.

His Moon is in my 12th and mine is in his fourth. I have done my healing. Our connection is super spiritual and intuitive.

He has his moon in my 12th house and his level of obsession and adoration he has for me is worrisome especially considering i have moved on i still feel his energy and it’s mainly due to him holding on for his dear life and making sure we stay connected . I brought out extreme emotions and insecurities in him without trying and unintentionally doing it i felt very bad about myself because i kept repeatedly hurting him without intending to. He is jealous and possessive to an unhealthy degree and is psychic he knows if im hiding something and usually it’s very deep stuff that others would never know all of that without words !!! I forgot to say but his moon is conjunct my mars so it causes more friction. I could never trust him and the reasons were illogical for whatever reason it was just a feeling I couldn’t get rid of and he went to the end of the worlds to prove his loyalty but it didn’t matter i just couldn’t. I know it may sound bad but i wanted us to always be hidden like keep it from our friends and it be private while he wanted it to be out there, he started to think i was playing him because i wanted to keep it private from others but that’s not the case, he hated the fact that i wanted him to be private. Now that i know about this synastry it makes perfect sense. It’s deep and intense stuff on a very emotional way but the poor moon will definitely feel it a lot more intensely i feel they will idealize the house and have a very forgiving and endless love for them. And the house is there just feeling the lack of trust and wanting to get away because of moons psychic ability that it scares them.

so true. i was the 12th house ( sag rising) person and was obsessed with a moon in scorpio ♏️ our connection, for me, was very secret but very intense. of course it didn’t last very long. i wish i knew his birth time 😂

This is so great! I am the moon person in my relationship and it can feel so draining sometimes and I have never been able to understand why! Thank you for clarifying! You make things so easily understood!

Interesting! My moon in his 12th- so true. His moon in my 8th. Thanks Tan😊

I have my moon in my ex's 12th. I already have Venus in Pisces so I've been working on these themes. I definitely see him as mysterious, not completely trustworthy as if he can disappear into smoke and I def have had a tendency to idealise him. I think subconsciously I have played into the damsel in distress role and I'm working to outgrow that now. This was sooo enlightening! Thank you xx

The fact this is how everything played out.. his moon was in my 12th exact! Mind blowing! Great Video !

My partner has the moon in my 12th house but I feel like it's opposite where he fits the 12th house description & I fit the Moon description. I am the spiritually evolved one & he is just beginning his awakening journey.

I had this EXACT scenario play out with someone I had in my life. I left because I was exhausted with trying to help “save” them. I’ve always known deep down that I saw deep inside of this person - and they used to tell me they loved me but I scared the crap out of them as well. I also knew that in the back of this persons mind they think that I will always be there when they’re ready to take this on again. I’m curious though - do they miss the influence you had on them once you’re gone? I wondered how potent this aspect is after you’ve parted. Thank you for explaining this aspect - I now know that maybe I don’t have a codependency issue so much as I thought - It was just this aspect.

Hi! My boyfriend's moon is in my 12th house so I just want to tell you that your video was very helpful about it! I have a lot of Scorpio energy and let's say that I like to swim in my unconscius doesn't matter how painful or difficult it is so I'm grateful and glad about it and I hear your advice about reflectiveness and open communication! Thank you very much!

My moon is in his 12th house and his moon is also in the 12th house! I have been trying to "push" him to express his emotions (not necessarily about me but in general) without knowing his moon placement 😂😭. And my moon squares his sun, Venus and Mercury. On the other side, his moon (and north node) is in my 7th house (squaring my sun), and definitely he taught me things about relationships. It's kind of thanks to him that I really started to learn more about myself using astrology and also that my spiritual awakening is happening. So even if I don't think we are meant to be together romantically, I feel like we have a big spiritual connection like twin flames (he is not into astrology at all). We were destined to meet each other to learn something.

I believe internal work is soooooo important! I love improving myself and loving myself! Thanks for the video!!!

I have this overlay with my recent love interest. Love interest's moon in my 12th house. There are other aspects too. Like mercury trines. Uranus conjunct.My ascendant Lord is in their first house. North node saturn conjuct. Venus saturn conjuct. Our venues falls into each other's 8th house. My venus conjuct their South node too. Yes there's huge amount of respect and mutual admiration for each other. We both choose our words very carefully. Our communication is pretty well. I feel accepted and appreciated actually.There's this ease and comfort too.

My moon in his 12th house and his in my 8th house I ran from him but cant get away from him spiritually eg I see and hear his name everywhere and when I'm finally done thinking about him I dream about him instead😒👌🏾

Thank you for this 🙏 I look forward to more 12H synastry series as every significant connections I've encountered, had one or more of their planets in my 12H. Though the connection was something magical and beyond this dimension, it also brought enormous pain but the lessons we're meaningful and necessary for my growth✨

He and I have each other’s moon in our 12th house and the level of vulnerability we share is sometimes uncomfortable lol 😬

I don't wanna be saved.

Funny, but as the 12th House person I can tell that it's the other way around with the Moon person... It's completely the other way around. I think the question here can also be tackled like this : Who can dump 'what' and 'how much' (unquantifiable) on who ? There's also a sense of "I am emotionally compelled (entitled ?) to dump all of this onto you because YOU understand me." But I wonder about the reciprocity in that sense. It feels like someone feels left out because they do not find the other person as keen to participate in the delving of knowing the other one as much. Hence comes the feeling of "mistrust". Also, same as with the Venus-Neptune overlays and interaspects, I find that the it's usually the other way around. It's not always the Neptune person who brings about the fog in the relationship, it's sometimes the Venus person. Just my 2cents.

Thank you so much for making a 12th house synastry video. Please make more about planets in the 12th overlay

I feel drained and we not even together! We met just 3 times… But I have this person 24/7 in my head!! It’s exhausting! I can not function

I have this beautiful aspect with someone who I initially thought reflected me, with their style of dress! It went like this "Hey! , You look like me" chuckles. 😁Re: "You look familiar" 😁. After that it was smooth, then scary. The friend with HER Moon in my 12th House and Sun with MY moon in gemini (does nails) and I was amazed at first meeting. At first I could not look her in the eye, and to be honest it's intimidating.Theyre helping me heal my nerve/ nail problems which are personal, plus many more!. I cried a few times as we listened to Venus -Like music which aspects the synastry. We discussed These things as well, So it relieved the energy a bit. The 12th house really is special and Healing 💞🙂

love this!! to take responsibility for our own fears

hi Tan, me n my bestfriend have our moon on each other's 12th house 😊 your explanation is all true ❤ great job Tan

My partner and I have this aspect as my moon in Sagittarius in the 5th house is in his 12th house and we seem to have a very spiritually inclined relationship . We seem to have a beautiful spiritually combined relationship which really helps because I feel like I cannot connect with anyone unless I am connected to them spiritually and we seem to have beautiful way of doing that for each other. Sometimes, I do feel a little pressure but i think i just put it on myself tbh

So, my partner and I have our suns in conjunction with our moons. My father also used to have Cancer sun in my 10th, Virgo moon in my 12th houses. And he passed away three months before I met my partner. I have been doing energy work specifically to manifest the healthy relationship I now have, I believe that my father sent my partner to me. There are times when I feel my father is with us and talking to me,he's happy that I found love in a decent, loving man as this is my first ever relationship. My partner is very gentle and understanding with me. We are both very emotionally expressive and sensitive. He accepts me as I am and challenges me to love myself more. We are both very mesmerized, respectful and compassionate with each other. The trust is incredibly strong(I'm a 12th house person) but we still have our eyes open. He reminds me very much of my dad but I still always see him as his own person.

I love your intros... youre very creative!!! Everything pisces touch its so complex isnt it? What a complex sign. ..

This overlay will work better if it's a water moon and the moon person has a well aspected moon. For me it is uncomfortable because i have moon in the 12th and Virgo and Leo. Leo is not selfless...Virgo is critical....so as the house person i feel uncomfortable and resentful...my 12 house is not a well developed house.

Moon in the other persons 12th house is a HEAVY Narcissistic/ Toxic placement for sure. Yikes.

resonated 100000%

HAHA he is the moon and too accurate he asked me: what do u want? Me: all I want is him.. 😩

My moon is in his 12th house and his moon is in my 4th house 🙃

You are so amazing! I just came across your channel but I love the content and the analogies used! Super well explained too, Thank you!

moon person here❤️thank you so much for sharing this, needed to hear 🌟🏄🏼‍♀️

Im the moon in the other persons 12 house we are both people who do shadow work and inner healing so far this is very healing.i do feel the im scared ti trust feeling but im aware its an illusion and i make sure to allow myself to show up and trust 12h we are both aware inner work is key and noone but ourselves can fill ourselves

So exhausting. So beautiful so true .

His moon in my 8th house and mine in his 12th woah!!!!

I don’t think I like this one . I’ve done so much research on this overlay but it’s just something I can’t grasp. His moon is in my 12th and I was always feeling drained, depressed or confused when around him.

Dude!! You just described the relationship with my mother on point :o

Lol he did really came in my.dream tbhhhhhh 😂😂

My sun moon and mercury is in his 12th house and his moon touches my IC 4th house. My spirit loves him deeply. With everything It is.

this is incredibly accurate

It’s crazy because I told him I feel like he’s casting a spell on me and I’m trying to resist it because the more you feel the more things can hurt

This is so true I’m the moon person she’s the house person also my mars conjuncts her moon which amplifies this aspect. She’s claims she 100% lesbian which I honestly believed in the beginning. I hang out with her, her sister and all her friends. Over time her and I have become best friends and I know she in love with me & im in love with her. However, when I express my feelings she says she uncomfortable. Yet she jealous of any of her straight friends & my other female acquaintances. She finally coming along after I blocked her. She reached out to my uncle. At this point I’ve decided to remain in the friendzone and it’s driving her crazy. The moon person needs to let go so the 12tj person can miss them and make a decision

This is so confusing . Because it’s the opposite I’m the house person, but I do what you’re saying the moon person does... but it’s also complicated our synastry is CRAZY. I have a Virgo sun & Mars house, my 12th house is ruled by Virgo. His moon is in Virgo, but it’s in his 8th house & his 8th is intercepted so his 2 & 8th is intercepted. I feel like I have all the unconscious knowledge of my person, even him though I am the house person. My sun and Mars is in his 8th house, it’s so much

my venus, mars, moon and ascendant in partners 12th house ☠️😂 thanks i love your videos tan!!

The diary part tho😂 I’m the moon n they were the reason I started journaling bc feelings were so intense had to put it down somewhere

My cancer ♋ moon is in my 12th house. Thats deep. Tans cancer ♋ moon is also in my 12th house. Thats super deep. 😊🌟💚🙏

We both have each other’s moon in each others 12H

I love your videos so much. You are so adorable and articulate and sweet, wish you were my best friend

So accurate

Few days before i had a dream with him and after twk days later got his birth date and his moon as well as his mars is in my 12th.My sun is in his 5th,my Mercury and Venus in his 4th,my pluto conjunct his Asc

My boyfriends scorpio moon conjunct jupiter, pluto and north node conjunct my pluto is in my 12h and it’s v intense for me but really deep. The North node conjunct pluto is also a big one I’m realizing. We came into each other’s lives in period where it’s like we kinda needed this

i dont know why i feel cursed for having 7H 8H 12H synastry with someone

My partner's moon is in my 12th and I've looked at her as my saving grace since our first date. She's been on a pedestal ever since. I see her as the unconcious answer to a lot of my problems. Whether it's time with her or a conversation with her (always need her for decisions). I just can't move without her. I see I need to be a lot more independent. It's hard when my moon is in her 6th though. Karmic placements?

Love this but I feel the 12 house person always walks away I’ve been on both ends many times and always the 12 h who walks away because the moon can become too heavy to the house. Almost scares house away

Looking up my person im just infatuated with chart I realized I have exs alot of their moons are the same and are in my 12 h 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲. Video is true lol

Love your vids so much

I am trying to understand more because I have a lot of Virgo Moons in my life (virgo is in my 12th house) my mom, my brother & a friend of mine -- I have a lot of love for all of them but the relationships haven't been easy, a lot of wounds were reflected and yes they have also helped me a lot especially practically but I feel like I was always a big one to help them more emotionally.

my moon is in his 12h and.. his moon is in my 12h

So my moon falls in his 12th house and his moon falls in my 12th house. What could that possibly mean?

You are terrific !! God gifted !!! How do u do this. ! So accurate

This is so helpful.

I have my Sun and Mercury in his 12th and he has his moon in mine 💀 and I’m very conscious

me and my best friend have it

I've been waiting for this one since I've experienced this overlay a couple of times - always as the house person 🙃 I'm wondering, what would happen if the moon persons moon is in aspect to their own jupiter in their natal chart, but also conjunct their Saturn? Wouldn't that block the energy? (Even if there are some really good communication aspects in the synastry) Also wondering, what if their moon is badly aspected by my planets in the synastry e.g. square my Pluto 😕

my sun is in her 8th and her moon is in my 12th, it’s definitely been an intense yet emotionally draining relationship. i feel as if we’re projecting our fears onto each other and subconsciously draining each other’s emotional energy while just trying to do what we can to be there for the other person while not losing ourselves. i really like this person and feel a deep, soulful connection but there’s no way the relationship will survive unless we learn to expect less of the other than we have been and stay grounded in our own self-love. it’s also weird because i have a great relationship with myself and a lot of self-love and contentment but in relationships i see i still have major insecurities and trust issues to work thru. any advice or feedback would be much appreciated.

I have my moon in his 12th, while his moon is in my 7th. It's like straight out of a manga with lots of synchronicities and conspiracy by universe. I studied shitload of psychology, spirituality, and philosophy because he triggered my awakening. I taught him shitloads, but mostly opinions. I dreamed of him rarely, where we fight because I drive him crazy. As if he wasn't doing the same thing to me. I keep blabbing him stuff, i didnt care what he thinks as I told him I'm weird and unfiltered from the get-go. And I dont care about his bs. I have virgo moon in 12th house.

I am seeing someone who has his moon in my 12th house. But I actually have a 12th house (Scorpio) stellium and have done a lot of spiritual work especially the last 6.5 years so I don’t feel uncomfortable (yet?) by him. I like the deepness. I did notice I have had some crazy dreams where fears deep came up ( about trust and jealousy for example). For example that he was dating my mom.. (because a while back I heard a crazy story about this I guess). I always have a good journal session when I have the intense dreams. Actually a good way to become aware of these fears and heal them.

Plz do mercury in 12th house synastry?

My moon and his moon are both in each others 12th house...o.o both of us are drained with eachother now we are trying to work on ourselves...maybe maybe...there would be a chance?..for the kids sakes..

I have my moon in his 8th and his in my 12th 🙃

Im trying to reconnect with someone, it's been over 5 years since we spoke but the moon person doesn't want to talk to me. He just became very annoyed me one day and we havent spoken since. I knew he liked me but at the same time i didn't it was hard to explain. I have always liked him but i just felt like he didn't like me. I feel so sad now :( we were great friends, hope he will talk to me again soon 😢

And what happens if the Moon is conjunct the other person‘s ascendant from the 12th house? :)

Hi, I love ur video and it totally resonates with me. But I have a question concerning this aspect. His moon is conjunct my ascedent but like 3degrees behind it (technically being in my 12th house. I'm wondering if this makes a difference as to how the moon person will feel?

His Venus and Pluto are in my 12th house conjunct my moon and Pluto. My moon and Pluto are in his 12th house. All in Scorpio. ♏️ so yeah it’s intense. It feels like I’m being summoned. Like a vampire connection. But I think he is my TF. Cause we also have the same spiritual number 33(the last number) and we both have Pluto in 12th. (The last planet in the last house.) I would be shocked if we weren’t. Both of our life’s fell apart when we met. Both of us triggered the shit out of each other. Ghosting on both ends. Fear. And a super intense connection. We can’t stop having sex. Like 7 - 10 in a row. And I feel like I’m in another dimension. I’m super psychic (Moon/pluto 12th Scorpio. Venus in 8th) and I can’t shake the feeling that this one is the right one. Like I can’t move away for him. I separated from him and changed my number for a year and it killed me. I get mad at him and I forgive him. Over and over and over again and he does the same to me. And I have changed entirely since I met him and every time I see him he has changed. It’s like we are different people every time. But I don’t know I guess I’ll find out. If we end up together I’ll definitely post about it cause I’m sick of everyone saying that 12th house placements are toxic. Like it’s the most psychic house🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ If you’re not willing to put in the work to ‘change’ it’s not for you. So I think it’s the TF house cause of all the evolution, surrendering, release, transformation and telepathy. And past life connections. So we have done this before over and over again. So I have given up. I just leave the door open now and work on myself. I know he will always come back and will always come to me anyways. What’s the point in running? But they say it’s the runner chaser mentality. And we did that a lot. For the first time I’m choosing him and making more changes to my life to give him a space. I want him in my life as annoyingly painful as it is for me to change. And I know his bitch ass feels the same way. Like two souls that call to one another. But it’s healing and transformative.

His moon is my 12 house and my moon is his 12th, plus his venus is my sun sign! Thoughts?

I have a friend with the same placement as me. And it was such a balancing connection. We both have 12 house moon 😅

I have this placement with one of my guys friends that I'm into but my moon in his 6 house his moon in my 12 💔🤦🏽‍♀️

My ex.. His 🌙 is in my 12th 🏡 🥶😥🙄

What means if I have sag moon in his 12th house and his cancer moon in my 12th too? Sometimes I feel a special connection or something karmic...I'd be really happy if you'll write about it a little🙏🏽☺️

When u make the NN synastry could u also add it with the SN, I’m very curious about that

Can anyone advise me here? My sun is in my 12th house. His moon is also the, it's his 2nd house. His sun is in his 12th house, my Mars is there.

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My moon is in my boyfriends 12th house and his moon is in my 5th house? What does that mean??

My venus is in his 12th house & his moon is in my 12th house. =(

Tan how would you describe a natal moon aquarius in the 12th House with their partner’s moon in the natal partner’s 12th House?

If I’m planet a and he’s planet b. Planet a in 8 house partner b. Planet b in 12th house person a. That means he’s in my 12th house?

Hey Tan, what's your thought about "True Sideral Astrology"? Wanted to ask you as my signs (not my Sun but like the MC, the Ascendent and the North node, and also the moon and some other stuff) kinda change a lot there

What about Pluto in 12th house synastry 😚😍

His moon is in my 12th(conjunct my Venus) and my moon is in his 4th ( conjunct his Pluto).

What about planets conjunct the ascendant? Does the house person still feel it more or does the planet person feel it more when it hits the Asc-Desc axis? Can you also do Venus in the houses? And how would Venus in 12th feel for both parties?

His moon and Jupiter is in my 12th house I need some insight I’m still learning

His moon falls in my 12 house and my moon falls in his 5 house