I'm so sorry this happened to you and your family. If there was anyone who didn't deserve it it's you. I wanted to convey my deepest condoences to both your family and yourself over this devastating loss. Its at times like these that the world seems to be at its cruelest and unfair and I couldnt even begin to imagine the grief you all must feel nor do I ever wish to find out. No word has ever been invented that comes close to describing this, there is no silver lining nor lesson to learn, it just happened and it makes no sense. Just remember that no one is at fault here, particularly not you and no one in their right mind would ever think that. You are one of the strongest and most amazing women that I have ever had the pleasure to know and you have been through so much that you should never have had put upon you or your family. But please keep fighting, I know you will because I have seen you do it so many times before. Love hard, live good and never let anything stop you. My deepest love and sympathy to you all.