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More women may be psychopaths - this is good, sort of! 

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More women may be psychopaths than previously thought, according to one expert, Dr Clive Boddy
The gist is, we have been using physical aggression and violence as one measure whilst assessing psychopathy. However, female aggression may be different.
I say it is good news because this helps us maintain focus on the character of the individuals who may be in positions of power, and avoids us making biased assumptions based on gender, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, accent etc.
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www.apa.org/monitor/2022/03/c...
www.theguardian.com/society/2...
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@lukehunnable
@lukehunnable 4 месяца назад
I've known this for years, just through observation and lived experience. The "women are wonderful" bias has blinded society for centuries.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 4 месяца назад
Thank you. I have always said that it is wrong to deify one group, or indeed individual, above others. Everyone is unique and everyone is flawed.
@johnwilliams-kz4ms
@johnwilliams-kz4ms Месяц назад
Same . I totally agree .
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou Месяц назад
Thank you!
@kellypawspa
@kellypawspa Месяц назад
Especially when it comes to mean moms...
@mrsherwood2599
@mrsherwood2599 27 дней назад
Sugar and Spice😅
@alexdavila1356
@alexdavila1356 Месяц назад
The thing I find really funny (sad) about this is the level of ferocity that the narrative, that psychopathy in women is rare, is pushed academically. Showing that psychopathy is just as prevalent in women as it is in men destroys the angelic, all loving, all nurturing narrative that many laws are (and social beliefs) are predicated on. I noticed this when I started learning about female murderers, most notably Karla Homolka. Psychoanalysts deemed Karla to NOT BE PSYCHOPATHIC because it would have given her a harsher sentence. This further burried the danger of these people and passed the threat onto an unsuspecting society. It would be a relief if this was more openly studied as it would show a change in the ethos towards female infallibility and infinite benevolence; fostering a culture of truth instead of a culture of cover-ups
@frakismaximus3052
@frakismaximus3052 9 дней назад
The first female Attorney General of Ontario, Marion Boyd, was NOT trained as a lawyer. She was, however, a hard-core feminist. It was under her direction that Homolka was to be treated as a victim, despite clear evidence of her guilt and complicity in the crimes. This was done to support Boyds political ideology and personal feminist/misandrist beliefs and create a narrative based on feminist myths about DV . I would argue that not only is Homolka a psychopath, but Marion Boyd was too.
@Mike-pc6up
@Mike-pc6up 11 дней назад
The male gaze is noted widely, The young female gaze would be a whole new self centred perception, underminding , gaslighting tactics once revealed would be alarming.
@mofrare
@mofrare 4 месяца назад
I read about this in no shiit magazine
@Rumination_Vertex
@Rumination_Vertex Месяц назад
Haha! No shit haha! I was raised by my mother, sister and my mothers nut job friends and I can thell you they are psycho and covert narcs acting nice when they're are actually cruel!
@telesniper2
@telesniper2 Месяц назад
Ah yes I remember that issue. I was enthralled reading the other articles "Water is Wet" and "The Sky is Blue"
@mrsherwood2599
@mrsherwood2599 27 дней назад
Awesome comments. 😅
@capnphuktard5445
@capnphuktard5445 6 дней назад
😂❤
@notaclue822
@notaclue822 Месяц назад
Cluster b women have been categorized as bpd. It's been known for awhile. Disordered women will use whatever social dynamics they can. They're manipulative and very, very subtle about it.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 29 дней назад
Thank you for sharing!
@mrsherwood2599
@mrsherwood2599 27 дней назад
They slowly, slowly, patiently, slowly make you express disregulation. Then they shame you and shrink from you.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 27 дней назад
@@mrsherwood2599 Unfortunately that is the modus operandi of many. Often Machiavellian and Narcissistic types too. And of course, it can be both men and women. One of the challenges is that those who seek to do this are often very adept at appearing very nice and charming.
@sherrilcarss4641
@sherrilcarss4641 Месяц назад
Thank You Sir for bringing this to light. Our family has been dealing with a female Psychopath for years, she has stopped my childrens father from having any contact, with them,and now my grandchildren can’t even meet him. It’s been mainly through Coercive Control that she has managed to keep my ex from having a relationship with his kids. It’s devastating for them, heart- breaking 💔 to say the least, but of course they know, the Psychopath knows exactly what they are doing, for they are Sadistic, and dangerous. Thank You again, I feel there is a huge gender bias, and that has been the problem for far to long,saying only men Coercively Control etc this definitely is not true, there are lots of men left without help because of this mistake. The family realising the danger, to the loved one doesn’t know how help him, with app’s these days that can be be used on mobile phones to track a person in this sort of relationship they are virtually a hostage, sad but true. This situation needs attention, that’s for sure. Please keep up the Good Work! It’s is very much appreciated. Kind regards & God Bless
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou Месяц назад
Thank you for sharing this. I am so very sorry to hear about this desperately sad situation.
@paulbrouyere1735
@paulbrouyere1735 Месяц назад
I have been together with such monster for 10 years. Very dangerous. Run if you can. Don’t become a meal for the black widow
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou Месяц назад
I’m sorry to hear that.
@idid1866
@idid1866 6 дней назад
I used to take my older cousin to her appointments every 3 months for several years. The only time I saw any males, were like myself in the waiting room! The irony of all this is all the front desk workers are always female and most of the doctors too.
@martinjohnson5498
@martinjohnson5498 4 месяца назад
18:00 you describe the majority of successful politicians. Which confirms you are correct.
@hayabarakat7889
@hayabarakat7889 Месяц назад
I believe it mostly has to do with men's tendency not to complain about being victims. It's a stigma to admit to being weak and under control of a woman. At least, this is what I've noticed. Also, in general, men don't talk and express feelings as much as we do.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou Месяц назад
Thank you. Yes, I think there’s definitely a stigma about not complaining. And men (on average) don’t talk about or express their feelings in the same way; although they do talk and express, but differently, and unfortunately there aren’t always the opportunities to do so in a fashion that’s therapeutic for them.
@johnhanaly2943
@johnhanaly2943 Месяц назад
Men face a few challenges from the female psycopath. For example they might drive you up the wall with abuse then accuse you of being agitated and unstable when you're annoyed and agitated by them. Best bet...head for the hills!
@bromack3
@bromack3 21 день назад
"Also, in general, men don't talk and express feelings as much as we do." Men don't enjoy listening to womens countless whining all day. Its like listening to a child.
@user-og6hl6lv7p
@user-og6hl6lv7p 12 дней назад
We do talk and express feelings, we just don't do it around you because you judge us. You also have the tendency to bring up our past issues whenever you're trying to win an argument, so why would I wilfully give you ammunition?
@johnhanaly2943
@johnhanaly2943 Месяц назад
They're a vigilant sort. They give it away when after a drink they tell you that they think you're a stalker when you're just not the type.
@muma6559
@muma6559 Месяц назад
i agree, same number of female ones. As with sociopaths, I believe there are more women than men in that character
@PatrickFoley-vf3lr
@PatrickFoley-vf3lr 8 дней назад
Society in the last 35 years has created these entitled monsters.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 8 дней назад
I think that there are definitely changes, the likes of which we haven’t seen before. I suspect that smartphones and social media have had a big impact - and sadly, often not in a good way.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou Месяц назад
Thank you for your observations. I don’t think it’s rare.
@jonb4722
@jonb4722 22 дня назад
One of the signs of a functional society is that it does not allow psychopaths into high political office.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 22 дня назад
@@jonb4722 Thank you for your comment. Yes, I think that a coherent selection and recruitment process, and ongoing development/accountability, are essential to have in place for any ‘leadership’ position. It could be argued that the greater the potential impact, the greater should be the scrutiny. And yet, in many situations, narcissism and low empathy appear to be on display. Not with everyone thank goodness. And yes definitely for a society to be functioning well, its members should pay attention to the morality and ethics on display from potential and incumbent leaders and both expect and demand honesty and transparency.
@SalznPfeffer658
@SalznPfeffer658 4 месяца назад
In academic circles it is a generally known fact that studies of female history, conditions, experiences etc has been at a deficit for centuries. IMO, there has been female psychopaths and sociopaths probably as much as the male group. Its just that they were never considered worthy of being studied or observed because all the assessment methods and tools are based on seeking male gender-specific traits etc. But you just need to look at how pain has been quantified and measured, to ascertain that there was/is a disparate treatment towards, and obvious lack of attention or knowledge of female issues in comparison to male matters. For example, there are very few studies on female pain management, most of our pain treatments are based on studies that experimented on males which means there is a chasm between knowledge of, and implementing correct and appropriate forms of treatment. I think its fantastic that studies/research and people in general are taking females seriously now - in that we are as flawed as males and there are just as many female reprobates as there are male counterparts.
@dutchdykefinger
@dutchdykefinger 4 месяца назад
I'd argue the women outnumber on sociopathy big time Reason: If society doesn't straight up lets them get away with things They get far shorter and less extreme sentences for the same crimes, despite being MORE calculating Simply because of the fact society lets them get away with it, means less are deterred and dare i say incentivzed Woman get to start some shit, and take half their shit as a reward for their insanity Women lie about victmhood WAY more, not even a contest And yoi have to be prettt fucking low to emotionally blackmail people like that Lol ladies do it all the time, and no honest person would argue they are not manupulative Perhaps not psych9pathy, but what sociopathy is concerned there's not even a contest here
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 4 месяца назад
Thank you very much for sharing that. Yes I think that females have been 'ignored' in many different ways. And that is very wrong. The next video will be about new research which (contrary to some studies) suggests that there are brain differences between males and females. And hopefully that understanding will inspire more research into exploring why some psychiatric issues are (on average) different between males and females, and that that will ultimately lead to more 'tailored to the individual' help.
@SalznPfeffer658
@SalznPfeffer658 4 месяца назад
@@YouLeadingYou you're welcome. I'm not clued on psychiatry matters but we (Masters Clinical Psychology student here) do have access to the same DSM-5 manual. There are differences, but we require more time and research of female conditions to develop both individual and standardized criteria for the diagnosis of mental disorders and so on. I look forward to listening to more of your videos 😊
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 4 месяца назад
@@SalznPfeffer658 Thank you very much! To manage expectations - it won't all be directly psych related, and I intend to get more guests on to speak about a range of topics. All related to development, awareness raising, and (hopefully) thought provoking, as well as some thoughts about leadership. P.S. there is a fair overlap between clinical psych and psychiatry in my opinion. And it's great to hear that you are studying it! Very much required :)
@ccoodd26
@ccoodd26 2 месяца назад
Therapy is a study that is female-based, and the methods are deficient in helping males.
@francesbernard2445
@francesbernard2445 14 часов назад
While identifying as a feminist who happens to be a Christian too as well I have for many years now already been warning people that fast tracking women into the professions too is not going to make that much difference since the early 1950's in China, 1969 in the United Kingdom and 1973 in North America too since Roe versus Wade. The abortion pill was first made legal for prescribing to women in China during the early 1950's.
@rottsandspots
@rottsandspots 14 дней назад
An interesting video. Thank you. I would say many smart psychopaths can be extremely charming, self controlled and able to ‘read’ other people extremely well and thus give them what they want to hear in order to be likeable. This is particularly the case if they have recognised they were different from a young age, and studied psychology and how best to fit in. Much easier these days with the internet . I have autism. I started reading psychology and medical journals & books at age 10 in the local library so I could understand better how to pretend I was ‘normal’ Short term I can fit in, but not long term. I doubt psychopaths are any different. I score very highly in the Hare test but I have no desire to harm anyone or anything , and I suspect autism and psychopathy could be confused at times. Not being able to have normal emotions or connection with other people is not a comfortable way to live. I experience emotions in my dreams that I do not have in real life - such as a sense of belonging, of being loved. My childhood was let us just say not the best, and I suspect my brain did not develop as it should in terms of emotions and the ability to relate to humans. Autism of course compounded this. I agree with your conclusions. It is the person and their actions and character which are important, not labels. My autism means I will never have friends or a full life. Am I also a psychopath? Perhaps. But part of who I am means I’ll never watch a child or weak person be bullied or hurt - regardless of personal danger I will act. If part of the reason I act is that I temporarily feel alive as I am in the face of danger, does this matter if I am doing good for others? In an emergency I won’t panic or forget what to do. Those ‘missing’ emotions can be very useful, and on an evolutionary basis I believe both autism and psychopaths had and still have their place.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 14 дней назад
Thank you very much for your comments and insights. Yes I agree, individuals with psychopathic and autistic traits within any given population can benefit that population due to their unique perspectives and approaches. It’s possibly nature’s way of ensuring that the ‘tribe’ can be as adaptable as possible. And it could well be the case that any given ‘test’ could blur the line between autism and psychopathy. You make another important point about individuals with psychopathic traits essentially being able to do the right thing and not necessarily being inherently ‘bad’. That’s the movie versions. Many people who would not score high on psychopathic traits can do some extremely questionable things.
@whadis404
@whadis404 15 дней назад
I seem to attract them Male and female My mother was a true narcissist
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 15 дней назад
That must have been challenging for you. Sorry to hear that. Maybe also, you’re good at spotting those around you who have those traits. If so, that’s a handy skill to have!
@whadis404
@whadis404 14 дней назад
@@YouLeadingYou usually when it’s too late
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 14 дней назад
@@whadis404Ah! Sorry to read that. I understand, that can happen to all of us in different ways with those people in our lives who may not be as they seem.
@btlfilmmedia9514
@btlfilmmedia9514 Месяц назад
In the real world its even men and women
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou Месяц назад
Thank you. I suspect that that is the case. Or thereabouts.
@ameliaannhouck2670
@ameliaannhouck2670 Месяц назад
TONGUES AS SHARP AS ANY TWO EDGED SWORD!! WOMEN PSYCHOPATHS MAKE BETTER CEO'S AS DOES THE COMPANY! WOMEN USE DECEIVING AND CONNIVING AS MEN HAVE DRIVEN US TO THIS , LIKE IT ???? I LOVE IT !!
@deecyful
@deecyful 4 месяца назад
Interesting and what it ultimately boils down to is your point at the end I think…we want decent/good leaders in leadership and in our life not toxic individuals and these can be in any guise .. and certainly in work environment some form of assessment prior to and certainly a probation is essential as it may help filter out those individuals to a certain degree I think 🤔 thank you 🙏 for sharing
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 4 месяца назад
Thanks! Yes, exactly that! We need to look at the character of individuals, not how they look or sound. Very important 🙏🙏🙏
@jonb4722
@jonb4722 22 дня назад
Psychopathy is a continuum. People who don't have it badly are commensurately less harmful.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 22 дня назад
@@jonb4722 Thank you. Yes I absolutely agree. There are differences between individuals, and because someone could be ‘labelled’ as a psychopath doesn’t mean that they would cause any harm whatsoever. They may in fact do a lot of good; for example keeping calm under pressure. It’s very important not to demonise. Those that do harm (irrespective of label) are the issue.
@raghatz
@raghatz 4 месяца назад
Why this fits so much with how the Vtubers themself act since most of the yabs came from girls / women to begin with.........
@jelkel25
@jelkel25 6 дней назад
There are few "pure" psychopaths or any other Cluster B, most are a mix of the PDs. Because of the nature of female competition it makes it more likely that a Narcissist or BPD diagnosis if any at all is decided on. I've met 2 female (majority) psychopaths in my time and both presented pretty differently through factors like intelligence and their different mix of other PDs. One was a narcissist mix, highly intelligent and one of the nastiest pieces of work I've ever met, male or female. The other, not narcissistic just had a reputation for using people and off colour conversations though not particularly nasty and of average intelligence. It would be hard for most to see these two as having a similar diagnosis which is why people let them slide under the radar.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 5 дней назад
Thank you for your observations.
@boethius1812
@boethius1812 28 дней назад
Women's morality is situational. Ask a woman a moral question and she'll usually give a pragmatic answer.
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 27 дней назад
Thank you for your comment. I suspect that morality is situational for more people than many realise. And to presume that a woman would not be just as prone to such moral vagaries as a man, is probably quite naive.
@francesbernard2445
@francesbernard2445 14 часов назад
What a blanket statement to make about humanity in general.
@hr3800
@hr3800 Месяц назад
CRIMINALS CRIMINALS !!!!! AVOID AVOID AVOID AVOID
@heartburn6160
@heartburn6160 Месяц назад
Excellent video!
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou Месяц назад
Thank you very much.
@TheArtsHunter
@TheArtsHunter 9 дней назад
My brother is married to a psychopatic Woman
@spaceted3977
@spaceted3977 20 дней назад
I decided at 13 yrs old that I never wanted to get Married. Both my Parents were Narcissists and I never forgot their Terrible arguments !!! I'm 70 years old now and I am retired. I have my own place and my 2 Dogs. I think Women are Narcissists at the Least. But none of them got me !!!
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 19 дней назад
Thank you for your comment. I can’t say that I think women are narcissists as a generalisation, but there’s certainly often an overlap between narcissism and psychopathic traits. As far as having two dogs, well many humans could learn a lot from our canine cousins. Their unconditional love and ability to seize the day makes them exceptional companions🙏
@user-ox6nc6ly7f
@user-ox6nc6ly7f Месяц назад
religious... a kind of psychosis.
@hayabarakat7889
@hayabarakat7889 Месяц назад
Narcissists and psychopaths wear all types of masks. Religion is one of them. It doesn't protect them, though, as they will definitely end up in hell.
@MargaretCampbell583
@MargaretCampbell583 7 дней назад
Why is it good. Do you want to be able to blame women?
@YouLeadingYou
@YouLeadingYou 5 дней назад
Thank you very much for your question. I can definitely say that the video isn’t about that. It is very much about equality. Everyone is unique and should be treated accordingly. What this video is saying is that it is not only men who can have psychopathic traits. It is also women. Probably more than we realised. And some people (although absolutely not all) with psychopathic traits can do damage in society e.g. if they are in leadership roles. And we shouldn’t presume that a man is always bad and that a woman is always good. So treating people as unique individuals irrespective of gender, is equality, and so is a good thing. And finding different strategies to understand who may cause psychological damage to others is a good thing.
@KatWoodland
@KatWoodland 22 часа назад
@@YouLeadingYou Great explanation! I am in the school of thought that any sane person in an insane world could very well be insane. :D
@francesbernard2445
@francesbernard2445 14 часов назад
I interpreted the title to only mean that it is about time people everywhere started acknowledging that gender equality should be the norm. Instead of thinking that one gender is superior over another concerning things like altruism, intellegence, emotional intelligence etc.
@casanana8
@casanana8 2 месяца назад
No Shi& Sherlock
@buddyrojek9417
@buddyrojek9417 4 месяца назад
Imagine if Trump or Hitler or Putin would have been prevented from running for office
@Ifyouseekyouwillfindit
@Ifyouseekyouwillfindit 4 месяца назад
Imagine if Biden was prevented from running. I wonder if we wouldn’t be in such a mess right now. 🤔
@goranmiljus2664
@goranmiljus2664 4 месяца назад
Make "You Tube" great again
@Mikexception
@Mikexception 2 месяца назад
I think positioning Trump who during his presidencty saved world from war for which was pushed by Korea hard in first years , ( he send then marine power to far east on one side and talked in Singapore to leders of far east, with Putin too was undertaking lot of other actions which resulted in whole world in peace for next years up to 2022) with Hitler and Putin is a sign of psychical no coherence. Another fault is that Germans had no reason for cherishing Hitler who wasn't personaly any attractive as Hollywood actors but they were in love with his ideas of being "uber rmansches". Anybody (psychpopats are easy to find and are very convincing for masses ) who would offer it to Germans would be capable to copy it.
@johnwilliams-kz4ms
@johnwilliams-kz4ms Месяц назад
I wish . 😊
@mrsherwood2599
@mrsherwood2599 27 дней назад
​@Seekwithintheheart lolol out the other side of a global pandemic and NOW "we're in a mess". 🤡
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