Mother and Son Stage Scene to Embarrass Cheating Wife | Lisa Carlson Case Analysis 

I feel like a dinosaur for not needing this explanation. Guess it's time for me to start laying eggs and start eating those zoomer mammals.

He has to explain- millennials too lazy to Google it

Dr. Grande you bring me so much joy

@@KinslayerOfDoom Ikr. Growing up, we had a rotary phone and a B&W TV on which we would play pong on a console that was purchased at Radio Shack. When we stepped into the cable TV, color TV, touch-tone phone, VCR and Atari 2600 era, it was like 😲😲😲

I appreciate that he called it a VCR instead of a "VHS player." That's a big pet peeve of mine when I hear people say that, especially young people who weren't even alive in the 20th century. Kidlets, we didn't say "VHS" or "VHS player" back then, we said video tape and VCR.

Wait until you explain a "floppy disc" to your grandkids

@@zacharysherry2910 I think I will feel super old if I have to explain what a "Sega Dreamcast" is

Same! 😳

Exactly my first thought, now I feel so old but he was probably right to explain what a vcr was, there has been an entire generation since they were used 😮

And then there's cassettes.

@@nkmcfrln Or mix CDs!

@@Flamsterette Or liking your own comments.

I wish people would talk about this more. My ex loved moving garbage people in on us. 2 couples, with kids under 5. They were both horrific. I've seldom seen living with family end well. It's just too much of an opportunity for boundaries to get bulldozed. Both those things are now on my dating lists, no excessive company, no family up in our business.

That's exactly what I thought. I am officially old. 😆

​@@patooji446 Me too ❣️😁

He shouldn't explain it. Let them look it up.

I remember when VCRs were in their prime and someone having to explain to me what Betamax was!!!! Anyone who knows what they are must feel ancient!!!

Me too!!!

I love his sarcasm. He's so good at this in every video he makes. This over very intelligent person.. definitely on my team

Light Yagami: *(sweating nervously)*

His humor is the best!

​@@setheast2773Yeah, he's one of us. An intellectual, pro law and order, and a dry, non PC wit.

LOL

Amen. If life isn't hard enough, let's go have affairs and make it worse.

I don’t think anyone participating in an affair could be described as “stable”. That is an inherently disordered and unstable thing to do

Well it clearly was not a "romantic" entanglement since that wife never loved her husband. She probably thought he was easy to manipulate and maybe thought he could earn enough money to satisfy her needs. God knows why they had kids. I don't understand why any redneck or impoverished person in poverty level has kids. The majority of them do not even want children, then cannot afford them and resent the kids then take out their anger on the kids. I just don't get it. I made a very hard decision when I was young in my profession to avoid having kids because my husband at the time was a mess and I had my own baggage that I never wanted to expose to my children (as my parents did to me and my brother). At this older age, I do miss the fact that I have no children, I always loved kids, but I think by the time I was able to deal with my demons I was too old to have kids so I believe I made the right sacrifice but still miss kids. I absolutely don't believe women (girls) who claim they don't know how to deal with the consequences of pregnancy in this day and age and in this generation of Internet etc. As young as 12 or 13 years old school girls are discussing sex and pregnancy. Firstly, they probably have their own mothers as role models on how to have babies at a young age and scam money from the government. Also, they all know about birth control, condoms, and abstinence but choose to ignore it. They know if they have sex they will likely get pregnancy especially without birth control, and have to be prepared for abortion (especially in the 1st trimester), giving birth then adoption, just plain leaving their new born at one of those shelter hospitals (terrible), giving birth and raising their child with government assistance or their family's assistance, getting married to or getting assistance from the birth father, talk to guidance counselor, etc. etc. In America, unlike some 3rd world countries, there are so many options, most importantly don't have sex and don't get pregnant. Why does our society treat pregnant girls like victims (I mean unless they are victims of rape etc.) when they clearly know what they are doing. If a girl gets pregnant and is totally unaware of how one gets pregnant (which I cannot believe) it is her parent's responsibility. I had the potential of being a young pregnant girl 40 years ago, and I knew exactly what to expect (even without telling my parents) and always managed to deal with any issues. Have people just gotten stupid?

@@commonsense2680 if you’re dysfunctional then you’re not thinking with any logic. Those young women aren’t as smart and grounded and empathetic and responsible as you were. I rushed into marriage and had children before I realized my whole family was dysfunctional. I adore my children but I was not ready or capable of doing a good job when I began to have them. I rose to the occasion but it’s been an exhausting, painful process and I learned so quickly how insane it is that out culture does not take child rearing more seriously. It’s hard! I will tell you, though, I’ve never gotten free money for being a mom. And being a parent is insanely expensive. It has absolutely not been a way to survive without working a job! I’ve never had that luxury. The “living off the government” thing is only very inner city non-white people. There isn’t enough money to go around for anyone else. I’ve hit a dead end every time I’ve tried to get financial help. There’s nothing for it but really hard work and education. Nobody is having children for pay

Listen here Uncle Elmer, cheating IS the doing of unstable people. All cheaters are liars, manipulators, and selfish, and when they have young kids it's disgusting.

I'm single, too. Wanna stay single together? ❤️

@@b.t.s.agnomen1044 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Same here! Happily single and living with my cat.

All i know is John Cougar Mellencamp isn’t singing any ditties about those two 😂

Exactly. I'll get a dog before I have children. 😆 js

Just like the mom forgot about her marriage vows 😬

@@isitoveryet9525 I think it’s really interesting and sad the amount of comments that are completely fine with murdering someone bc they cheated on you. Absolutely pathetic

@@isitoveryet9525 not like the other girls huh? Better hope you don’t get mixed up with the bad part of the 90 percent who do this.

@@ashleighsparkle8810 it's probably a guy in disguise

@@vinzen14 if you can’t figure it out, you have no knowledge in the statistics.

*Ryuk has entered the chat*

The grandparents would have taken them. Not the accomplice bit Lisa's parents.

All part of his dry humor LOL. Geez, I feel old too BTW

Uncontrolled lust lead to it there both to blame

Hello my friend. Got your messages last night, still don't know how to highlight. Love and hugs too you and your mum 😚❤💙💔🎋🎋🎋✉🎇

@@cottontails9003 Hello dear. I don't know how to highlight either nor do I get notifications but we find each other at night. Thank you for thoughts for Mum and I 🥰💖🤍👩‍❤️‍💋‍👩🌺🌼🌵🌃🌏🎋🕯

@@zenawarrior7442 Thank you my friend. It's always a pleasure. You have a beautiful sleep×××××××××××

@@cottontails9003 OK welcome friend, always a pleasure for me too...I will xoxo🛏❤❤xoxo

Says no mother-in-law ever 🤣🤣

I love Dr Grande's older videos where he focuses on just the psychology, but I also love the newer videos that have the psychology with a true crime/pop culture twist. Honestly when something pops up in the news I'll wait for Dr Grande's video about it because he breaks everything down so neatly. But I think his explanations of personality disorders are the most valuable videos he's put out. I really, really appreciate his voice on the topic of BPD. I'm shocked you're running out of videos though... he has so many! 😆🤯

Maybe he can make new intros, and do reruns like GUNSMOKE.

Don't worry, they're just going to repeat the same disastrous, since intelligence is 90% inherited

@@Menstralthat is false. At most 40 percent. A product of both nature and nurture and you are not born with a set IQ as the human brain is very shapeable.

​@Menstrel if you think that ppl only make bad decisions & have dysfunctional family relationships bc of how intelligent they are or arent, & you're not still in grade school, you're not too bright either

the unavailable one was their mother

Me too.

Definitely not living happily ever after.

Yeah it really backfired for her. She ended up dead

@Cathy I totally agree

It happens more often than you think. Gygynocentric society and family courts have eviscerated men for a couple of generations. Payback can be messy. 🤷‍♂️

@milkandcereal what an odd take. You’re just assuming this woman’s actions are valid, even though she cheated & had no problem taking her children away from their father

@milkandcereal what a narcissistic thing to say.

@@Heywood.Jablome poor men. They have it sooooo hard in society…

​@@isitoveryet9525 The word valid is not mentioned in the comment you responded to. People do all kinds of horrible things motivated by any number of kinds of weird reasons understandable only to them. That's a fact of human life. We all know that people's reasons for doing things don't have to be valid. I'm sure you have your reasons for accusing people of having opinions they never expressed. Are your REASONS for doing that particularly VALID? Nope. But you did it anyway, didn't you? See the difference between "reasons" and "valid reasons" now?

Hello friends

Hi! I’m Catherine as well. 😃

Hello Catherine! 💌

I agree that Lisa was bored and attention seeking, but I don't think the guy she traded Daniel in for looked any better. Her relationship with Daniel was a sad mix of Daniel being inexperienced and naively hoping for a faithful wife. At the same time he was dealing with her infidelity and as a double whammy she was cheating on him with his best friend. So the thought of her taking his children away was no doubt more than he could bear, the last straw, and I feel for him on that, but murder? As far as Lisa goes, who knows what her story was? Was she inexperienced like Daniel and thought maybe the grass was greener? Did she jump into a marriage too young? Did she marry the wrong guy just because they happened to work together? Was her mother-in-law a nightmare to deal with? Was Daniel a miserable husband? Who knows what led Lisa to her choices in life, but one thing is for certain, she didn't deserve to die.

i'm not 100% convinced that Daniel committed this murder. Lisa was an absolute cunt, and it doesn't seem too far fetched that there was someone else in her life that would want to murder her.

So you wanted her to take his kids out of state without telling their father?

@@dwoodstwin It would always be best to tell the father, best yet to stay in close proximity to the father, but if a woman feels threatened in some way and her life is on the line, then the wise thing would be to make her escape first. Obviously Lisa should have done it in this case, if she had, she'd still be alive.

@@dissidentfairy4264 that’s called kidnapping. Further, they don’t say anywhere on this video that she was threatened or feared for her life before the incident.

hahahaha good one

Hello friend...seeing you here again, sending hugs across the miles😊💟💞💫🙌 Goodnight 😴🦉🌷🍀🌙🌠💙💙

@@zenawarrior7442 It's crazy I'm on one continent, you're on another but we still communicate 😃❤💙💙💙💙💔🎋🎋🎋🎇

Are you the REAL EASTER BUNNY? INCOGNITO?

@@KoolT Whatever suits you! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

@@cottontails9003 I know crazy right?🌏😉😎When people want to communicate its not hard. We are 🍀 to be living in this tech age tho. Happy Sat my friend...I just got up😊🧡🧡🖐🐇🕊⚘️🧋☀️🍳💛💛

Of you double the workforce by putting women in it then you naturally halve wages.

But then you will be like me-no job skills and broke middle-aged woman.

Ma'am your name sounds like an admission of guilt for a murder case

I agree. As a woman and mom I can't say too much for a father about to have his children ripped away but I can as someone who was a child in a similar situation. My mother was a retched woman. She constantly cheated on my dad, she never took care of my brother and I, she was an alcoholic & addict. She'd go partying for days at a time leaving my dad in a state of worry. When he finally had enough she went into court with tears in her eyes and the courts granted her full custody and let he take us from TX to WV. We were supposed to get every other holiday and summers but she never let it happen. She'd just refuse to go to TX for court when my dad fought it. My mom had a string of awful men, a few molested me. One put me in the ICU at 9 yrs old. I had a bad infection from rectal tearing. I even confessed to the doctor and law enforcement what happened. My dad came to WV to save me. The damn courts STILL sided with that witch. She told them I did to myself with a jumbo crayon for attention. As soon as I turned 16 I begged the courts to let me go live with my dad. I was refused because 'yiu need to be with your mom. Girls need their moms'. No, I needed a loving parent, not a drug addicted $lut that pimped her child out for $$$. Even today the courts still rule in favor of these awful types.

@@vixxxenfoxxx3660 I’m so sorry for what happened to you. This seems to be more common across the country than people want to believe or admit. I truly hope you’ve managed to find a loving partner and begin to move on from the trauma.

@@Lady_Vengeance thank you, I doubt I ever fully get over it all but I've come very far. My dad got me into therapy as soon as I left for college. I'm now a Psych/ ER RN and use my past to help other survivors get help and be heard. I run a support group for survivors if SA. Luckily, I found an amazing man who is patient and understanding of my past and has continued to help me with everything. We recently got into fostering a few years ago and that has really helped me get through so much. If all goes well this Spring we'll be adopting two amazing kids that have been with us the past year. Maybe I just don't have as much time to think of it. Lol. Either way, I'm doing quite well. I just wish we have come farther in fathers getting more fair treatment in these custody situations. I

Uh no no excuse . I have also been cheated on. By my first. The one I trusted most. It ruined my views. Still I just wanted to flee. If you feel the need to follow this, please get help. That’s the best I can write on here.

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Neither parent cared for those children . They were possessions .

I see nothing unlikely about a son and mother conspiracy to murder a partner .

Better then her getting the kids . She didn’t work , she didn’t care for them , what’s worse then that ?

@@lonemaus562 then you take her to court? The odds may have not been in his favour as a man but that answer makes you sound like a psycho. This isn’t a win...it’s a loss for everyone, even though his wife was a horrible human being...now kids are orphaned

People get married for a whole list of reasons. Love, boredom, insurance, escaping home, ignorance, insecurities, money, sex, forced and/or arranged, coerced, religious....it's just in our American culture we pretend it's always about love and dedication.

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If Dr Grande makes a video about Garfield and Odie he'd better release it on my birthday!!! (It's July 19, Dr Grande! 😉)

@@defundhollywood3259 Dr Grande, do the right thing - Garfield video for the Cancers.

Well she was planning on taking his kids from him after f’ing his friend. Not defending the muderers but it was almost like she was trying to get killed

....and my other brother ,Daryl.

Mista Christa they can call him

Christopher always seems like it's pronounced like Christafer.