How can you expect the ex to pay for something that was already paid for by the grandmother....have some respect for her....NOW if i was the Grandma...i wouldn't pay for anything
Dads responsibility ended when their son turned 18 (& graduated from high school) If son is working full time, in yhe US thats 40 hrs week. At 9.98 hr thats nearly $400 week, 1600 a month. If hes not paying rent, then his income is more than enough to pay for car a repair. And also to make pmts to a dentist. I seriously doubt he spends all his income on groc for the whole household either. She needs to pull her big girl panties up & get her sh*t together & start making the son responsible for his own expenses. If mom needs to pay grandma back for what she paid on th bills, then thats her own responsibility. (if she wants dad to pay her for the dental bill, he should just pay his mom steaight out)
I knew a man who had two children that he never paid support on will the state of California caught up with him the kids were in their thirties and guess what he had to pay every penny the state gave his ex-wife to support those kids
Why such a low paying job. He can do less than a year program learn to do something and earn more money! Coding pays 6figures as well as other things that pay well.
Hey man at the end the father has done his duty. Child support! He paid it, the son is a grown ass man. I’m on the father’s side. How long are parents supposed to support their grown kids? 30? 40? 50? You tell me mister!
The husband really didn't say much. For all we know he might help his sons with other things. The whole thing comes down to he fulfilled his obligations of child support when his sons were minors. When they turned 18 his legal obligation stopped. His son has a job and grandma helped him with his bills. The mother just doesn't want to help her son.
in Africa 18 years still need financial support from parents because at that age he/she might be in college and is the time when you use much money on the child
Each couples divorce and support payments are different. The details are worked out during the proceedings. However, if a 20 year old is working full time and living at home rent-free, he needs to pay his own bills. He should have applied for health insurance through the ACA. It is income based, so there is no reason for him to be uninsured.
My exhusband had no legal obligation in our TX divorce. And I would NEVER go after him for my contribution. My daughter will see who helped and who didn’t.
The parents admittedly don't talk directly to each other. I think you, Zach, are inferring a lot about the dad with no basis. That older child is obviously not spending his money wisely. He works full time, is no longer in college, and his mom is coddling him. Time to grow up buddy.
