Mother of 3 Left Good Husband Because She Was "Young & Dumb" © 

Exactly, he used to be hard on the men. Constructive criticism

She sounds like a lovely person to be so tender hearted. Marry her!

None

No downside at all.

Ain't it mane. I started working 70+ a week and eating better. My mood is 100X better.

In her mind... somewhere in the deep dark twisted crevices...he did something to warrant her infidelity... because it's never the woman's fault 🤔

This is a prime example of you reap what you sow and get some healthy friends. If she had one healthy friend they would have told her don't be a fool.

Imagine that....

She wanted to keep the inner child

I only took one statement from my mom which I've seen it happen countless times "women are never satisfied " She's been married for 27 years

Totally agree!

@Lo Livingston Flewed! Lol! 🤣🤣🤣

SPEAK❗️

Sounds like cheating to me, did she say they still married, but I think he's still hitting.

Facts until she realized it wasn't all that hyped up to what she thought it was cuz all her friends wanted what she had

Ik there's women ready to beef with you cuz you chose wisely lol. Happy for you 🙏🏾

@@victorlewis7635 I got married at 19 and I didn't want anything to do with clubbing and being single with my best friend. But my ex husband left me because he also thought he could do better. Found a Spanish chick and went through with divorcing me. He didn't want to make anything work. He wanted someone of a different race and with more money. Now I'm happy and he can't keep a relationship.

@@pennyproud1621 ouch, that sucks. But at the end of the day if it happened for the better for you then shit it is what it is

glad you didn’t make the biggest mistake of your life .

Good for you. You figured it out. Think before you ride the carousel

Yea 27 is young and dumb? Like lol

That's not how she "Feel".

I think you missed the point. She was 31 when she decided to dump her husband. Marriage is a big step. For a wife with 3 kids, divorce is an even bigger one.

Right! 27 years old is a grown grown woman! She just thought she was missing out with her friends partying and stuff or she was interested in someone else. I don't know any woman in her right mind that is leaving her husband for nothing. She didn't even have to work? She crazy as hell!

Not 27...she divorced him when she was 31. Thats when shes says she was young and dumb

If you see relationships as transactional, female nature makes a lot more sense. Always looking for a better deal

Good fucking point

"Companionship" = pay day, free meals.

Hahahhahhahahhahahha

xD

most women get bored when things are going smoothly, she needed a "roller coaster" relationship.

@@jesussson3467 He had a younger female call in & she told him that she broke up with her loyal boyfriend because he works too much. He then asked her "why do y'all feel the need to inject chaos when everything is going right?".

@@tayemongreen3377 I've never understood this logic either.

@@tayemongreen3377 it must be a cultural thing. Honestly, dealing with that type of mindset is physically and spiritually exhausting; Especially after a long day of work. Men are taking notes and moving on to more peaceful pastures. No time for BS on the home front 👌🏾

@@JVP_thephobic Absolutely. I would say it's discouraging as well. She leaves you because you have a peaceful relationship? Who wants to deal with that?

Wow

Ruthless

Ouch

It’s sad that good that you walked away period good job self respect

My thing is why didn't she realize you were the best thing that happened to her, reconciling 3 times. But then want a fourth reconciliation after finding another woman?

Congrats on having full custody. You can still build a beutiful family.

Did you really need this video to realize that?

@@realSpook you'd be surprised what a few words can do.... Not saying that you should use any RU-vid video as a guideline for life... But seeing the same situation over and over on here and watching KS dissect it all can open your eyes 🤷

Updates?

Yep. Luke 16:18, Mark 10:2-12, Romans 7:2-3 all clearly show she is biblically off limits.

Could easily be a “born again” Christian. Realized that most non-religious single 40+ men are content with doing their own thing until some 28 year old hottie comes by and don’t want to play house with a middle aged baby mama

Precisely...how do you build...sacrifice for and make a family with this type of female. When she is not feeling it...she is out. Gents work on yourselves and be very choosy.

@@frussonj not only is she out, the government mandates that the husband has to maintain her lifestyle for up to the rest of her life, regardless of whether he continues to earn as much.

They don't believe the bible. They don't even know nor understand it.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thanks for making my day...hilarious.

😂😂😂😂

🤣🤣🤣👍🏼

Sad...but probably true.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣best yt comment ever

Jesus. Jesus Christ.

💯💯💯💯💯

Not as much as she hates herself for doing YOU such a huge favour. When you see her next you must THANK HER.

☝🏿Facts

Lol the joke is, she hates you for maintaining yourself and following your purpose... Women love dysfunction so damn much...

You should send her flowers and a thank you note!

Congrats!

Mr Wright I'm so happy man you didn't take her back. Praise the Lord! She made her bed, now she gotta lay in it

Sounds familiar!

👏 👏 👏

Keep sailing away cos she helped you dodge a deadly bullet

I can't even imagine not having to work

Black women SMH 🥶

They are simps Queen. I agree with you doesn't make sense.

Spread the word 👍🏼

Congratulations brother! God had to get rid of the the trash In order for him to put jewels in your life💪🏼🙏

Heck of a story congrats 😯congrats Hunter 👏

Lol would have been a nice story if you didn't lie about being a millionaire😏

@@user-bv4sg1ui3n why do you think I'm lying? I have no debt and have over a million dollars in assets.

If she had not cheated and left you you would not be the man you are now.

Yep!

BOOM 🔥🔥💯💯💪💪

They are attracted to chaos.

Asian and African women are not like that

@@jbaru648 i grew up in africa and you are sadly mistaken

It’s horrible dating in America bro!!! Lol we literally have the worst options to choose from

I think you made a valid observation, that would make sense.

Facts

Fair enough

Probably surrounded with single friends in her younger years, which didn’t help

She wanted to ride that carousel

average caller*

@@morecarstuff yeah you’re right, but she said listener so I thought it made more sense

🤣🤣🤣spot on

"I am not like all the other women" = just like all the other women.

To be fair she didn't here saying she wants a "high value man" lol

🤣🤣

Dumber

Yes, because these older women would rather get shot in the foot then to put other young black women on game

They won't wake up till they hit the wall. They still listening to cardi B

@@kinguche9208 truth... I would never have imagined so many 40-something year-old black women going to bat HARD for Cardi B Megan the stallion / WAP SMH

@@peter5336 it's almost like some women are miserable and want company.

And men!

Sadly other women will give her full credit.

Dayum Cuz I though I was blunt....I like that tho😉

Hahahaha some of you dont deserve a second chance

Swishhhhh💯🏀

You can ask for help or you can ask for sympathy you cannot have both

Stay strong 💪,she dosen't deserve you

@@cooloreo662 appreciate it.

Damn hold your head up we should has man buy land and create a village for men who going through shit like this they can have plenty shoulders to lean on and a community of men their to up help them bounce back bigger better and stronger !

That’s trash

@@TheHales what’s trash

If her ex husband move on, she'll try to poison his new relationship!

She sounds like a covert narcissists

.....Exactly.......

@@kuja5809 covert?...😂😂😂😂😂

Exactly and as a man why would I want to mess with a woman that still wants to be best friends with her ex, and 3 kids zero value/upside there

True true

He hasn’t moved on because they’re still married as she states at around the 11:46 mark but he definitely should. No other woman or man deserves to get involved in dating either of them. It’s best for all involved that they just make their marriage work. She’s had plenty of time to find out that nobody else wants her

Girl you called that one true AF!!!

Pure facts...

He is the last resort plan. She cheated and regreted.

My aunti, was jelouse single mom of 2, made sure lie and make my mom divorce my dad. My dead was wealthy. But my single mom with 3 kids, I grew up as poor child, she was jobless, emotionall abuse us. Brought my dad to court, his visa paspoort was taken for 3 years. This is true, I got true shit for no reason, this happens to a lot of kids out their. My dad became alcoholic and a depressed man now.

@@Moesie sorry you went through all that

And her life... when people say Kevin is rude, how rude is it to destroy 5 lives because you thought you could do better???

She got "Bored".

He BARELY kept it together. Barely! I was just as frustrated listening. WTF?

I pray the man does not get back to her, because the reason she left him in the first place is still going to happen, and she will never respect the man. she still thinks she deserves better. women like this will keep frustrating men, thinking he is the cause of them still being on that level, especially if they have watched movies, hear their friends of media telling them to level up.

Exactly!

@ Cyn: Facts she has no love for him, it's over if that ooeey gooey feeling is not in the mix I don't care how much money or benefits he has to offer her. Remember the end of the movie "Indecent Proposal" when the old man told the young man, "she'll never look at me the way she looks at you."

HE CANT GET HER BACK... HE HAS MOVED ON.....

facts

Married before you carry

She's a crook....

Good to see you! Corona, NY

Dude, I imagine Kevin as a prosecutor in this video. He would have ate her alive on the witness stand...

You seem snakish, mr.elder

@@propheci 100!

Most likely she had an affair with another man and thought she could do better and move on

@@Mosaickool great point

Baby#1, baby#2, and after baby#3, she realized she wasn't in love. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@@allnewmoney smh she probably cheated

@@thekorsh4230 🤔🤔 I'm sure she was....🙄 🙄

Yo. Im stealing this quote. 😎

Spoken like a genius

Exactly! That's what Older folks often said.

Truth!

FACTSSSSSSS!!!!

Yep.

She'll say she "Didn't get to experience her H03 phase!" Or "Experience Life" AKA MORE 🍆 ...Her friends on IG be everywhere xyz

Ayesha Curry

Probably still is. She most likely left her husband for another man but, as what usually happens, he didn't really want to be with her and left her. She starting to realize at 40 that men aren't interested in anything serious with her and can't understand why because they still will share a bed with her.

THATS the part right there!! Toxic as hell

Why are you leaving?? Cause I feel like it....🙄

This is trash

And the sad part is GOD don't even approve of the way the courts handle lot marriages these days the system have changed lot rules for the h--s

Idk why this is so surprising to me. I saw it happen to my brother. Wife left him because she wasn't ready to move out from home

yup

I heard that also.

I heard it too. Kevin took it easy on her! And her math is all over the place with her marriage and divorce

@@rjturnr27 that's cause she been cheating on him and telling Kevin wat she told other dudes.

Yep

That sucks, any updates?

@Jamie Co - thank you for your reply. Well, I made this comment 15 months ago. I made the court Order in October/November 2021. In April 2022, she now wants me to see our children (this was made clear at the 3rd online Hearing). We had our dispute resolution Hearing in September 2022. I can see our Children at a contact centre (close to where they live with their Mother) once a week. I have a face to face Court Hearing on 1 December 2022 - this is an update on contact so far and the next steps for extra days and other separated parent courses I would have completed (mandated by the court). The most important thing is that I have contact with our children and I can bond with them and be a good example as a father....

You winning brother?

@KrissPerspective - thank you for the reply! 2 years already! It's actually 3 years in May 2024 we first separated. We are divorced now. Our daughter turned 3 in April 2024. Our son turns 5 in June 2024. I see them every 2 weeks, and I have video calls with them in-between. I have a wonderful bond with our children after 2 years of separation. All Praises to The Almighty. Am I winning? Well, my ex-wife asked me to get back with her on two occasions. It won't happen. I am courting a beautiful sister who takes good care of me. I take good care of her, too. We plan on getting married in the next few months, Insha'Allah. Watch this space.....

Daaammm bro you are relentless. Kudo's

Thank you for noticing, keep that in mind when dealing with your husband. You can be the balance to all this nonsense....

😂😂

Trust me by the sound of it if you are this self aware it can’t be worse than most women.

lol because women communicate covertly so it throws things off when a woman try's to have an open discussing with a male who communicates overtly

It’s because women don’t know what they want

She makes me sick to my stomach

All of that. And the fact they started so young and there are no outside children was a plus too. She literally had it all. The ex husband is a fool to be talking to her daily still.

@Christian Griffin, sadly a woman will toss away solid gold, for a rumor of diamonds.

He probably didn’t make enough money so she thought he was nothing

@@moneymakin317 _Jesus Christ, 27 _*_isn't_*_ young, stop downplaying and protecting her_ - she's blame-shifting at its finest! She divorced and made her husband's and each of their children's life miserable at the very age-bracket many w0m3n _today_ eagerly want to marry but can't find any m3n who's willing to take the risk. She literally blew her own marriage for riding past that infamous carousel past 32, how f-cking delusional can one be? You can't even downplay it saying she married and had the classical FOMO, *she was riding well to 27!* It was that fem-nistic urge to break free and listen to reason.

I can't even do that anymore, he decided to marry knowing full well what the odds were, now the children, I still have the ability to feel sorry for them.

meh.....ok, a “lady” is a woman. That’s what I’m talking about. If it doesn’t describe you, then why defend the behavior? I guess you “ladies “ don’t think men are talking to each other about female behavior....

meh...it doesn’t matter. My original statement is a truth.

meh...I gotta ya! My fault, my brother. See....two women would never do what we just did! Lol....

Paola L....negative.

You have to understand that women are like children and once you treat them that way you have a whole different set of expectations and you're never disappointed

Bcz lying

Because feelings over facts ...

Theres so fucking complicated... for no reason... and bc they hate to admit they're wrong

Oh lord

Shit made me mad....I was like ANSWER THE DAMN QUESTION!!

Say that again Boss

That's their hook. Give a sob story & be the victim at all costs.

Facts🔴

A high value man looks for a person that suplement him not compete with him, a person that have a understanding of what Integrity, Discretion, Loyalty means, and he wants to see if that person lives a life with actions that confirm the person understand what living by those words Suplement, Loyalty, Integrity, Discretion, thats an absolute non negotiable requirement, a woman that do or have some things like, talk down to him or about him, he says no to those be sees spreading rumours, share intimate information, claim popularity by trying to put others in their crosshair and defame their victims on socialmedia, media, in social networking situations, if the have done it or do it right now on the expense of her partner or her partners family, friends or business associated or colleauges, it doesn't matter if it's an ex or someone associated with that person she tries to use as a source to make herself the center of attention, then she can't ever be an option for a relationship for the thinking man who wants to be succesful in his life and keep on being it throughout his lifetime, the lack of patience in partnership with wishful thinking and the refusal to putting in the right amount of effort in doing the right choices for a partner in life have brought down many good men and the fall from glory down to hardship bad been brutal for many, wishful thinking is probably a mens worst enemy in the case of relations, allways remember yourself that you don't know that other person and those first joyfull months is mostly because you use that wishful thinking to decive you with fantazys in the places were you lack knowledge about that other person, it's your fantazys dream women you hang out with in your judgement there, but you should allways remind yourself that it's your lack of knowledge that constructs that ideal women, as soon the next period starts it's her self advertised women propaganda about her being the best person in the word that tries to lead you to belive the is flawless without any faults, it's only in the third stage when you starts to see the distortion between who she really is and the to other stages picture of her you have been living with, this is the hardest stage to go through if you want a long time relation because of two times two reasons, this is a stage to mature in for both partners, or the stage you have to break up or become dead inside and loose yourself as an free individual in selfsufficiant soul/spirit/body and forever becoming under someone elses control, it's her e we need to be able to give and take constructive criticism and that goes för the other part in the relation to, but it's also the stage were you have to be able to sort out what's destructive criticism made to break someones persona down and we need reject that behaviour in our lives we can't be silent when it happens and destroy our own future by being overly diplomatic, here we must put our feets down and say stop don't cross my borders, but also be introspective enough to be able to take the constructive criticism as a hint of something that a person who start to know ja may see and tell us because everybody else doesn't tell us about it, to mature demands more efforts of us, we shouldn't take a decission about having a long time relation before we been i stage three for long enough time to start to see things clearly for what they are. Remember that a womans makeup is a replica of small facial expressions that a fertile sexual arroused woman naturally express, if we don't think twice when looking at it we are going to be hypnotized into our animalic mating season like every other male animal on earth.

@FormerDry Jacker i agree thats means she gave her sexual access to the worst of men, and rewarded hes behavior. Never take these women seriously.

Im thinking the same thing !!! wow !!

Bet she was bored

There was a reason. She just didn't want to say it because it would have reflected badly on her.

@@HandSolitude probably

Lmaoooo

@@dylan120190 what do you mean by that?

Preach!!!!!

Don’t think you get alimony for only 4 years of marriage

Preach

Did you find another girl and is your ex wife still tryna get back with u or she found someone?

She holding the capital L

She holding a big fat L

144 point, Arial Black capital L

LOL!!!

🤲🏾 she’s ignorant and now she realised that her husband was a good men .

Yup

I think you are right about that.

Yep....

That's exactly what I thought. Ain't nobody still talking to they're ex-wife everyday. Unless they still fucking.

Patrick - He want's her back, but she don't want him. She would respect him if he wasn't so nice. He needs to disappear for about a year and she'll be begging him back. He's got more power than he realizes.

That's so fukd up

Yep.

SMH

Straight up👍

Then ask for alimony because she stayed home....oh you mean that luxury lifestyle where you get to play hide and seek with kids all day and another adult pays all your bills??? You wanna get paid for that? Lmao

you did dodge a bullet

Gets worse as they age

It's sad lmao this whole thing of not being a Decent human being with morals its ruining everything

She said she was 40 then 31

They lie and lie and lie!! Lol

Bro, EXACTLY. I don’t buy her leaving her man because she was bored and thought she could get another man down the road. BS. She had her eyes already set on someone else and it blew up in her face. A woman doesn’t just leave a good dude and provider without something else in the works.

Spot on.

😂😂😂

I'm a really good man, We sr should have a conversation about the subject 🤣🤷🏾‍♂️

This is a crisis & sad. Not even realizing

I always say, if you ask anything from the other person, ask if you have those youself. If not, you have no right to ask for anything you do not have yourself.

The situation makes me sick for him and I don't even know dude. I been through some things my self having an ex husband so I feel for good ppl who get used and abused by selfish narcissistic ppl.

What is the red pill?

@@dwightedwards6681 Matrix... Blue Pill and Red Pill..

@@dwightedwards6681 the red puts you in to reality, freeing you of this dream fake world. Blue pill is the idea of a beautiful prison, to sum it up.

@@dwightedwards6681 watch alpha male strategies

@@dwightedwards6681 or ‘black ram 313’ or ‘coach Greg Adams’...

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That Part

Say it louder please!

But marriage sucks so there’s that. You have to be submissive to a man who’s cheating on you even if you make more and gives bad sex all in the name of money. Don’t have kids, work at McDonald’s and live in a cardboard box and then die. When you die you don’t have to pay bills. Problem solved.

You're not mean she's just dumb. I can't with her. She surely don't deserve another man. Why She even call. Do she want her Cake and eat it to like come on girl. 🤦🏽‍♀ we as women need to own our bs also because she's is twisted.

This is exactly what happened and still thinks she can do better than him. She is selfish and ignorant. She deserves just what she is getting NOTHING!

She will never have a good partner she’s always talking to the x.Once it’s a issue she will be telling her x everything

That's female hypergamy for ya

Then on top of that she’s still trying to find a new man and is only taking Kevin’s advice to try to win her ex husband back because he pointed out to her that she has no other options left. Kevin is right, he ex needs to run out of this and just deal with her on child basis levels

A woman always and I mean always feels she can do better. Something in the dna.

exactly.

That what I’m saying tho, like that doesn’t make any sense.

She was OLD and dumb.

This is why she was so vague with the timeline. You could possibly claim you are "young and dumb" at 27, which is the age she originally implied she got divorced. At 31? No, you can't claim that.

Seems to be these days.

Ike Turner

@Strong Black Panther agree. With no fault divorce, its not worth it. Its a ticking time bomb.

Dad Egg I just don’t get how women get alimony for a no fault as well as when they cheat. Let a dude cheat and he loses half. Make it make sense.

@@TheDCGuitar13 it don't. This society is too far gone.

@Strong Black Panther why is that? Is it that entitlement or grass is greener on the other side mentality?

Not women, little girls.

Facts

Facts 💯

@@lrbanks25 that standard deflection tactic i.e. "well she wasn't a real feminist." This is a grown person with multiple kids... if she were to ever get locked up she isn't going to juvie

They love bums and trying to "fix" a man

"Young & dumb" at 31. That's pretty telling.

She kept her foot on the “young and dumb” gas pedal . she was the average marrying age for a woman ... people get proposed to even younger than she was smh

Women don’t mature till 45 . So that sounded about right to me

K Dazee ummm .. so since they say women mature faster, you telling me you got men maturing at what ? I mean the brain stops maturing at 25

@ 31 She wasn't even young... just dumb.

I thought I was trippin when I heard that too!!!

I heard it too!

Yeah that's what to she said then she switched it up and said they still talk. He heard it but I think because she wasn't going to say it again and he can't prove otherwise there was no point in prodding it out of her. So he just allowed her to act like she ain't say what she said.

The court system already knows this. They depend on dysfunction to make money.

No reason he should pay child support

@Antonio Perez some people have different interpretations of that

A "Christian" man just like her--someone who re-invents God and His Word to suit their own sin that they don't want to give up. In other words, a fake and deceived person who thinks they are a Christian but are not.

A real Christian man will have nothing to do with her because technically she still married.

Yup that makes absolutely no sense. Any actual christian that lives a christian life knows that they are not allowed to get with someone that's already been married.

@@kenethernandez6246 technically thats wrong. “The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭7:39‬ ‭KJV‬‬

AMEN!!! Only 1 out of 4 BW get married.... Then jokers like her make the odds even worst.

Cheating 304 do not deserve a second chance. She cheated but chad did not commit.

Or, more accurately, not every woman is going to get a second chance.

Yes, he is her life line for 12 years!!!!! Wake up brother

red pill for life bro

or as the RP calls it _Monkeybranching_

If u r not in her starting lineup, you’re on the wrong team. You don’t want to be her backup boyfriend.

Yeeah she is TOTALLY disrespecting him, that is ashame she called in being deceptive from the jump, she wants a Christian man 🤣🤣🤣🤣 so she can do HIM wrong and go back to her ex hubby. She was trying to get game on how to get another dude for HER intermission smdh🤦🏾‍♀️...she was NOT slick AT ALL!

Ur comment is right On time 4 me. Ty 4 this

@@ThaRealCowboibishop my pleasure. Better for us all to be armed with information about the pitfalls of being in the wrong relationship and hanging on to the source of pain. I am glad I was able to help a fellow traveller. Peace to you.

We’re you still sleeping with your ex??

@@harrypponder7396 she gave it up every time I seemed to really want someone else. Astute observation bro.

Man..... thank you

Honestly? As much as i hate it.... Even if they were found not to be his because of him being married the states would STILL consider those his kids. Smh

Yup. Glad Im not the only one who peeped. 12 years divorced and the youngest is 12. Maybe the youngest aint his.

@@douchebaggio2349 After reading up on those kind of laws, shit is scary. I'm not suicidal but if I was condemned to having to raise another man's child, a 🔫 might just look a little tempting phew 😰

@@equivalentexchangeisalie5726 I personally know a man who did. I don't know how he did it... I'm on your side. I couldn't. I'd raise hell on earth

@@douchebaggio2349 Your friend is in a very small minority of men WILLING to do that, just remember that. I'm with you, I'd raise hell and then fall into a deep depression. That is literally prison