@@chynax7340 selfish is continuing to have children even after being raped twice knowing you can't support them. Selfish is not thinking of how distraught these kids will be. Sounds like she's tired of being a mom. While bragging about paying 1500 dollar rent which could probably house all her children. Selfish is giving your kids up and now doing interviews like you're a damn celebrity.
@@chynax7340 selfish is when you keep having unprotected sex and keep getting knocked up when you know there’s no support system! That’s just being irresponsible and lack of common sense!
It’s baffling. I’m sitting here product of a shitty mother who has chosen to NOT have kids because of my mental health BUT the entitlement these women have?! Like ‘I just fell on his d/ck! He had to ejaculate! I can’t take birth control! I must never be single! I’ll combust if I don’t have sex!’ Like wtf???? How are these women made??? Do they think all of us single and childless women don’t wish to find the right man? To be mothers? We saw how unhappy and angry our mothers were to have us, so we refuse to recreate this generational curse. We sacrifice our innate animalistic role in society because we don’t want to burden society. But…?? I’m speechless at the entitlement.
Even tho she did right by not harming them or herself she still gets beat!! Mean while men walk away healthy fine and it's men are men! Stop abusing women, blaming stop it!
Typical of the community, lack of empathy and misguided misinformation. I have to give grace as a mother myself to say this young woman’s decision wasn’t easy but it was the best decision for the children. Do you know her situation during the first two children’s lives? You are speaking on something you don’t know anything about. Are you going to go and help her with the kids? Have you not seen women annihilate whole families? Then we say why didn’t she reach out, but when they do this is what they get. She was brave to do this and do this in front of the world. I am not that brave. I endured things I shouldn’t have due to lack of love and support. I soldiered on with my children, even at my most broken. That wasn’t fair to them. I hope she gets all the help and guidance she truly needs💯
This isn’t new. I’m a social worker and see it often. They usually get them back after getting resources. I would rather they do this than harm the kids.
@@eboyd2478Same here, I'm a social worker as well and WE support and promote family reunification rather than seeing children in the system. Regardless of her current situation, the most important thing is that we protect the children from neglect in all aspects. Cudos to you for the work you do in this field of practice.
@@teegreen3909 No. I’m sorry that is not an excuse. She is in control of her fertility. She should be on birth control. It’s time for women to stop letting men make them baby mommas.
@ Sagittariusgoddess Because that was her whole intent from the jump! She wanted the freedom to run up in the clubs with the other 20yr olds! Ain't have crap to do with school or better job she wants to live the life she forfeited!
Let's not normalize dead beat Father's. She had her first child as a child at 15. It goes deeper than her, not wanting her kids. A lot of single mothers are judged instead of helped and healed. It does take a village to raise a child and she has 5. I am praying for better days for her and her children.
I work as a nurse in a mental health facility for toddlers through young adult. There is a lot of abandonment going on right now that needs to be discussed!
THIS RIGHT HERE!!!! This is why we need more women to be honest we need more women to talk about how lonely how hard and how depressing it is to be a mother at times especially when you are a mother who doesn't have help. It will prevent THIS especially now that they are revoking road versus Wade and taking our reproductive Rights away.
We also need real solutions and real communities so people don't feel overwhelmed it makes no sense to me how we have all these social media platforms but yet people are more alone than ever. We need communities for the children we need communities for ourselves but everybody's so selfish creepy vicious manipulative and weird it's hard for you to have regular helping neighbors then you can have a real community for yourself and for your children
@@dr.peppermintpatty4925 that part. I tell people a man can walk away at any moment. If I lay down today to make a baby, I’ll have to be ready to be fully responsible when that man leaves. That’s on ME. And that’s why I have 1 kid. She’s 22 years old. Single parenting is hard. I could only do it once.
Its called too much stress that leads to severe depressionand then mayeb some mental health. We all go through alme form of it when life be lifeing. Raising kids is hard.
I am a single mother of 1. It's different types of single mothers. You have single mothers that have help and support from families and then you have single mothers like myself who had NO ONE TO SUPPORT ME. It's so ironic how ya'll got all the smoke for those who handled their responsibility and not a word to say about those who abandoned their responsibility. Jesus TAKE THE WHEEL!!!
As she stated in the video all the babies daddies where irresponsible bums with nothing going on in their life. Why birth multiple children for "Irresponsible Male Bums". I'm pretty sure raising TWO children was already hard there was NO need to have THREE more. Stop having sex or use protection, those should be her only options. 💡
@Chanel: absolutely!.. like you I am a single mother of one with NO support WITH a disability. It’s hard af but my baby didn’t ask to be here so I’m going to do the best I can with Gods grace and mercy!
Male identified and also women are forced to go through it and they accepted doing it all that they don’t think nothing wrong with the men not stepping up. It is toxic .
😂😂😂You must be not right. It was YOUR choice to be a single baby mama without the dad. Take RESPONSIBILITY for opening your legs to a men you didn't know good enough to have a kid with. Your the one who needs to make him do right and not US. THIS IS ON YOU.
And she kept having kids it could’ve been that that bad ! she checked out on her kids because none of the fathers wanted her. she should have picked betters dads ! I don’t feel sorry for her! Seems like she kept having kids to land a good man the oldest trick in the book that never worked!
Can’t feel bad once u hear entire story. Can’t feel bad 5 kids. Anything after one is a choice. Bringing “ 2 grape babies “ in the world 🤔 Then have a 3 after all that w different guy is questionable. This story is crazy and all over the place.🤷🏽♀️
Well in her defense in another interview she said she was sexually assaulted as a teen and that’s how the first 2 got here. She has issues, it’s an all around bad situation 😔
She's done with the kids because her babies' daddies are done with her! Now she wants to be free! Sad ! She needs help! She should not even talk to another man because she seems to get pregnant! She needs someone to teach her about God & how to survive & get therapy & help! leave those men alone!
She’s too young to have 5 children… people take this anti choice too far… what happened to taking birth control? She’s literally being having children since she was 16 yrs old… where are her parents? I am so against teenagers having children… parents need to present in their children’s lives at all times to prevent this from happening..
Where are the dad. She could impregnate herself. Lets not be one sided about it. The father/fathers needs to be held accountable as well. Its time to stop point fingers in one side its 2024 we know better do better.
@@AdverbsAndNounswhere was the dad? Did he step out on her with 13 kids? If so its a damn shame hexdid that. Her mental nust habe been through the roof respectfully.
"Every little girl gets a baby doll, but every woman isn't meant to be a mother"! She sounds really overwhelmed with her situation. Motherhood isn't for everyone & I feel women are pressured to have kids, but they don't teach us about the mental tolls that it can take on you. I saw how other women tore her down on another influencers channel, but no one offered her any real help. That seems to be what she really need... is help. She needs a mental break. I respect her for asking for help though, instead of harming them! I just hope the children are safe & being taken care of! ❤
Thanks u for understanding on a higher level. Those dads dont get a pass for not helping her coz those kids his too. The loudest mouth ones act like the same cant happen to fheir daughtef. What makes them think it cant reach them.
Y’all gotta stop feeling sorry for females that create their own trauma, then cry for help when things don’t go their way! This girl wants her cake and eat it too, she wants to be a part time parent at her own discretion. I see manipulation and selfishness!
She had 5 children....with men that weren't stepping up, yet she kept having them. Children keep suffering for the decisions of the parents and its sad. I feel sorry for the children. I hope the kids arent abused in care. Make better decisions
I have so much empathy for this woman. I can understand that being a single mom with no help is not easy. She is at her wits end. I hope she finds the best resolution for her.
Everything about this situation is sad. It's okay to drop your kids off at a safe place if you don't want them - it's better than harming them...but we all know that giving kids to CPS is only the beginning. This situation should spark a discussion about what this type of irresponsibility looks like, blaming men and women alike. There are 5 kids growing up with the trauma that the world will have to deal with because two people had sex without protection. People, this is what immature casual sex leads to. In spite of that, I think she did the best she could given her capacity, since I believe she's overwhelmed and unfit. In one way or another, the fathers will have to answer for this. Let's have this conversation in our community - I don't want her to get clout off of this. Now we're getting to the point where casual sex is demonic. In addition, I think it's ironic that our community wants to cover her and not help the kids.
There has to be a national conversation about this.. she’s not the only one who has done this and she won’t be the last… this is just the beginning… stay tuned
So she wasn't "tired" after the 2nd child? Makes absolutely no sense to have 5 children when you know you have little to no help. Hopefully she receives a thorough mental evaluation before she gets her children back. #PartOfTheProblem
No ma’am ! I’m a mom of 7 she got 5 she KNEW after baby #1 she couldn’t take care of a kid she gave them kids away cause them dads ain’t want to be with her . I can not feel bad for her to just do that to them kids and shake on the fathers as well!!! Only people I feel bad for is the kids that’s it
Much respect to you for not making excuses hanging in there sacrificing and raising your children you should talked about on these platforms not her👏🏽👏🏽❤️💕❤️👍🏾😇😇 the wrong people are being hi lighted
Prevention is better than cure! I hope the young ladies whom viewed this video, take warning to her situation. You have to make conscious decisions when involving yourself with certain types of men, and be more selective about who you give your body to. Utilize birth control, and practice family planning. Because “Mommas babies, Daddies maybe.”
I became a single mom at 22. I'm blessed to have family that has always been around to help. The experience of going through pregnancy alone & childbearing definitely made me a proud member of the 1 & Done club. I feel for women who have no help bc not everyone has a suuport system. CPS isnt any better but atleast she didnt end their lives.
There is no excuse for her not to be able to take care of HER children. Idc if she was doing since 15, that became her responsibility the moment she chose to lay down and start having intercourse. She knew before she even got pregnant with any of those kids that there would be a possibility of getting pregnant. you don’t just wake up and want to abandoned a CHILD no matter how it’s done. It’s also obvious that the father(s) were not helping out from the start, which she acknowledged and should have not just given up on them so fast.This will do nothing but leave them children with mental issues for the rest of their lives.
I worked with a lady whom did the same after showing the court she went to receive mental health, canceling, her job, and in a safe place of living she got her kids back in two months
It breaks my heart that she has no one in her corner to give her a break, which is what she really needs it seems. My kids are young adults and I be needing a break.
I dont feel sorry for her. She kept having kids after the first one with no help. No one but the dad owes to her to help. Getting involved is sorry Real parents make it work.
There was a RU-vidr who interviewed her and also interviewed the grandmother of one of her children's fathers who passed away and it was hectic to say the least
Say what you want to say and feel how you want to feel, I completely understand this woman. Motherhood is hard asf and even harder with absolutely no help. I was almost this woman when I lost both my parents within two months of each other and had no one in my life to help….
This story reminds me of the lady who’s marriage was a lie, she ended up doing interviews, given trips, cars etc, now this girl doing the same thing, during the interview this girl was recording he self, I don’t believe her story, heard to watch, she all over the place, talking fast, no one told her to get pregnant (5) times, what happened to birth control, it seems as though she’s blaming everyone else for her responsibility, these new mothers are weak
She just needs help...everyone needs help with kids. Men dont habe a clue what a woman goes through dealing with a kid fulltime. No one csn do it alone.
Since her first two kids are from being 🍇ed she should have learned how hard raising two children on her own is. Birthing three more children for BUMS should NEVER have happened. From someone who's been celibate for 10 years I have NO understanding of why she keeps getting pregnant for multiple men who are bums. If she can't stop having sex at least use protection, this makes absolutely no sense. She had sex and got pregnant not her sister and not her mother, its her responsibility. She needs to stop dating for no less than 7 years. 🤔🙅🏾♀️
Ask a head doctor why u rhink that happen? Maybe after having two kids from a grape situation it made her felt worthless and with pretty low self esteem. I will not judge her i feel so bad for her and in terms of the kids i feel she didnt the right thing coz she could have harm them kids or just abandoned tthem without letting anyone know her where abouts.
@@shamelcutkelvin8807 this mother of 5 should have seen a Head Doctor before hoping in bed and birthing 3 more babies. A reputable Head Doctor would have told her NEVER LOOK to male bums to build your self-esteem and definitely DON'T have babies for irresponsible male bums. Hopefully CPS gave her that type of advice a Head Doctor should have given her after the 2🍇's. I do applaud her for dropping the kids off at the CPS office instead of abandoning them and leaving them at an unknown location to perish. I pray the 5 children don't become a tragic statistic in & of the judicial system.🕯️
I'm a social worker therapist. And there is just so much to unpack here. From a social services, standpoint from a communal standpoint from a generational trauma standpoint. Lack of resources lack of education poverty, its systemic.
This is exactly why every holiday when the old folks gather round and say that favorite line “when do you plan on having babies”, I respond “why, are you going to help raise them?!” … bc Chile I refuse!!!
Right, and those who are judging her, overlook that, but would they have helped her? Most likely not. So, she would have been damned if she kept her kids and neglected them, and she's damned by giving them to CPS to prevent neglecting them.
@@coolstormracismsux3221 Psychologist. Experts. It is true. Abandonment is abuse. I am currently a psychology student in school. Also, I did a 9 hour documentary on my other channel about this exact topic, I have researched this on an academic level.
I respect this mother so much. I know this had to be the hardest decision. This mother has tried until she couldn't anymore. My friend was in a similar situation. She cried and cried for help in so many ways til she finally had a mental break and tried to unlive herself and children 😢 its such a sad situation. Praying for all the mamas
You should research how kids are treated in foster care. Most of the time it’s worse then if the kids stayed with their parents. There are studies and statistics on this.
So all of these “celebrities” she named only reached out after she gave her kids away?? Not while she as crying out for help? She’s a struggling mother who is simultaneously clout chasing trying to get her rap career off the ground.
We have to understand if she don’t want her kids anymore then she doesn’t want them anymore it’s literally that simple. Now if she was to snap and hurt them or abuse them then everyone would say that is wrong.
I just couldn't give my baby away, i couldn't... And I have been low...but i definitely can't and won't judge...glad she didn't harm them physically, emotionally idk after this
She is not saying she don’t wants them, she needs help! She can’t take care of them right now. She said she is in 2 schools with 5 kids and no help from the fathers. I pray her story for her and her kids comes out a miracle
I have 7, and 2 of them is Autistic.... that has NEVER been CROSSED MY MIND. I have been following her story, and what 1 of the paternal grandmothers 👵🏼 has said. We know the system is 1 of the worst places a child can be put in. I'm a certified child advocate for the courts, licensed therapist, and Registered Nurse .I always made it work for me & mine.
So y'all would rather she be on viral crimes for killing her kids?! People please use the other functions aside from Emotional. I'm not justifying what she did or how she did it. The misunderstanding of the long term effects of not growing up with healthy relationships take a lifetime to heal and until it's dealt with it will absolutely affect ALL AREAS OF LIFE!!. So, maybe Google long-term affects of trauma before casting a stone. Church offerings were meant to help people, give them a warm meal or a place to live temporary, employment ECT! Everybody got something negative to say, she should have done this or that and if ect. It's a shame that our BIGGEST DOWNFALL AS A "PEOPLE" (using this loosely) is the inability to provide the basics for our own. I'm so sick and tired, maybe people don't think about the fact that we are our biggest downfall and remain stagnant! If our people focused on themselves and their kids, they'd be better people raising better people. 🤦🏽♀️
I used to be a CPS worker, and I will say listen to someone when they say they can do it. Regardless of what decisions the mother made, get them somewhere safe before it becomes unsafe for the children.
I’m glad she had enough awareness to not harm the children. I have some empathy but as a mother myself I had one child and realized that one was all I could handle mentally , financially, etc. We need to teach people to think critically about their situation in advance. She could have avoided feeling overwhelmed if she didn’t have 6 kids. She should have Tolbert control. Also why don’t we hold any of the fathers accountable as well? I hate that us women are given all the responsibility of children when it takes 2 people to create a child. Men also should be told not to have kids by random women over and over.
Those poor babies. I can only imagine the thoughts they're having right now. Why didn't she stop having kids? I know people told her, and she didn't want to listen. Now she wants others to listen. She wants to go viral, she's doing interviews, going out to strip clubs, she doesn't deserve those kids anyway. When she gets a job with those degrees, if the work gets to hard is she just going to quit. LIFE IS HARD.
I felt this though. I’m married now but my Husband travels for work. I own and operate a business, in the process of opening up a center, work out 6 days a week, certified personal trainer, in the process of becoming a nutritionist, working, have four mental disorders, my oldest (I have three) has mental health issues, my youngest has autism which is tiring at times, so I understand exactly what she’s going through
Friend the only reason it went viral was becuz the ppl in my city was laughing at her. Screenshot her live and was saying whatever to make a joke outta her. This is a sad fr
I feel bad for her. She’s a victim of abuse but she really tried to do the best she could. I would rather she do what she did than lose it and harm them. Question, why isn’t there just as much smoke for the deadbeat dad? If he would step up maybe things wouldn’t have been so hard
My sons father doesn’t help at all. I lost my job and now we are having to move 5 hours away back with family. I cursed at my son called him stupid and even said I don’t like you. I felt so horrible. I know he will never forget last week. I apologized and explained that I am overwhelmed and I am taking my anger out on him because it is just me and him and I have no help. I hope he can forgive me. I get so stressed an overwhelmed and say hurtful things to him I only have one son and he is 14, I can’t imagine having 5
I don’t really feel bad for this girl. 16 when she had her first. My oldest sister had my nephew at 15, she’s 30 now and that’s still her only child because she knew that it wasn’t easy. I can’t give this girl grace for abandoning her children because life gets “hard”
The ones saying why did she keeps having kids uhh too late for that question. And she’s crass and short sighted, sounds ignorant and inconsiderate. Her parents more than likely showed her no consideration or love from how she treats her own children. Abandoning her children is not a plan. I don’t know if I feel anything for her, she seems like she’s not all there mentally.
First let me say I'm glad she went and got help from CPS instead of harming them kids in any way, praise God for that choice. I'm glad she didn't hurt them. However, I have NO SYMPATHY for her. She did it to herself 5 times and then fixed her mouth to say, " why should I have to do this?" Really? Because you had them and it's literally your responsibility. I may have felt sorry for her if she had 1 or 2 but she had FIVE. People like her are what's wrong with the world.
Let’s listen closely. At the end of the day… she said… “If the dads didn’t care, why should I have to care?” Nah baby girl gets no grace from me. This really stood out to me. Just imagine if this starts to be the mentality of our young women. A baby will not keep a man. These kids shouldn’t be so easily disposable now because you’re “tired”. I would have been tired 2-3 kids ago. Single parenthood is hard with 1 kid let alone multiple. Government assistance is not enough and in this economy even people with no kids are barely making ends meet. Don’t let that 5 minutes of pleasure bring you 18+ years of misery possibly having to do it alone. We have to protect ourselves.
How do I feel? If a person mom or dad isn’t gonna do right by they kids yes give them away and don’t raise them in mess. When a child is getting abused folk hollering why not give them a way, she did and now she is condemned! On the other hand if you was struggling and didn’t have help after 1 why in the hell did you have 4 more!
It’s hard to feel sorry for someone who continues to have babies.. after the first 2, she should’ve stopped.. women really need to stop having children they cannot afford.. it’s giving, “I had these babies to keep a man but it didn’t work out and the men don’t care so why should I”
Why was she messing with dusty men? Out of all of her children's fathers, NOT ONE stepped up? Speaks volumes about her. She is dropped her kids because it was the easiest thing to do. She's not going to get them back, she's going to probably end up having more kids. Why do this on a live stream? Her kids are never going to be able to get away from the fact their "Mom" didn't want them. She never needs to get them back. What about all the trauma she's creating in their life? I had a high school friend that started having kids when we were 15, she had 10. I know it was hard, her mom kicked her out with the first one. We're 45 years old now. She's raised all 10 of her children, only 2 of the fathers took care of their kids with her. There's no excuse. Those degrees or going viral to me isn't worth it. Now that she's "free" I hope she enjoys it.....
I went to nursing school with a lot of single mothers including myself. One lady had no support with 3 kids and she handled her business smh idk what to say about this girl but my heart goes out to her children. They may even need counseling with all of this she’s abandoning them
Without knowing all the details, I believe her decision is admirable and selfless. I am giving her grace and keeping her and all single parents in my prayers. Judgment aside about the decisions that were made to produce these kids, they are here. Additionally, she is telling us that she does not have the capacity to parent as a single individual. She needs a community, support, and professional guidance for her mental and spiritual health.
Girl im tired as hell but I would never give my kids away to cps or a fire station they're aggravating as hell but my love for them overrides all of that. Praying for those kids and her sanity
