0:39 I don't think your daughter gravitates towards things that are feminine because it's engraved in our culture. She may just like feminine things, and that's okay. There's nothing wrong with liking feminine things. I have two younger sisters 12 and 9, one of them is a tomboy and and the other is feminine and they both grew up in the same environment with the same culture.
"Just" indicates a lack of information. When you "explain" that she "may just like feminine things", you're not saying anything at all. No one "just" does anything.
John Smith What I meant is that she gravitates towards feminine things because it's her preference. If her mother has given her multiple choices and she still likes the feminine things, then that is just what she prefers and it shouldn't be seen as a bad thing just because it's traditional or feminine. Also just does not mean lack of information, the way I used it it means it's how things are and that after looking at all the choices she chose something that her mother doesn't seem to agree with but it doesn't mean society has caused her to do that. there's a reason tradition exists because in the past boys and girls did like certain things. Does that mean that they a beholden to that and should only like those things, no of course not. But it also doesn't mean that when they do that something is wrong.
Zeina Ian You're using circular logic to avoid admitting that you don't know why she prefers feminine things. She "gravitates" toward it because she "prefers" it. She likes it because she likes it?
Anna and Pyeng are attractive. Luna and Pyeng look like they could be sisters. Things have changed into different versions of the same ignorance and stupidity. You can hear it in what some of the mothers are saying. A few others are in denial.
