I look back and realize the what spotlight affect did to me. Always thinking I’m the the main character or the center of attention or whatever. I feel as though it may be too late to split away from trying to be the popular one. I don’t want to have a mysterious aura about me or whatever, just not be widely known (if that makes sense). I have already put myself out there but I will not embrace it. As I grow older, I want a more separate-from-society life. ❤ to see that your channel is growing.
youll always be the main character of your own life but as long as youre doing what makes you happy; if being more spearated is what you want then for sure strive to do whats best for you, appreaciate the love 🙏🏽
I have deleted social media but I didn't tell anyone. Now it's been over 6 months and I sometimes wonder what would they will be thinking about me as I just disappeared.
Life is better off without social media. I don’t have IG, Facebook, Twitter X, or Snapchat it’s nothing but a popularity contest. It’s better mentally. Like you said the best thing to do is to move in silence.
I’ve disconnected from posting on any platform like WhatsApp. I deactivated instagram. I haven’t indicated what I’m doing like before. It’s lonely to be honest. Silence and a lot of space. Moving in silence is great as I no longer feel anxiety about who’s seeing my post or not. I’m maintaining mystery.
Deleted my accounts (aside from the ones I use to contact my friend groups and have managed to not get addicted). A few days in and already feeling better.
Great advice! “Just let the results speak for itself” especially for me as a homemaker I have felt that I need to prove that I’m “not just a mum” I hear what you’re saying about building an audience organically.✨ All the best with your channel 😌
Your outlook here is 100% on point and exactly what people need to hear. Keep making content like this and you will not only change your life but the lives of others. You will succeed and grow through your efforts. Much respect -And as always, keep going.
I needed to hear this; I always felt an urge to post a story/post, which was then reinforced by that surge of dopamine as you mentioned. This addiction to those surges is what ultimately glued me to my phone and kept me from enjoying actual life since I kept comparing my ordinary life to everyone’s highlights. I have recently stopped posting altogether and have focused my time on more lucrative activities like yoga and my side projects. Now I’ve got people wondering what I’m up to, and I want to keep it that way. Thank you ❤❤
Very insightful, as I had the exact same thoughts the last few years, & it's inspiring to see it presented in a video like this, very nice job dude, I plan on doing the same on my channel, sharing my view . This helps me in an interesting way, let's see what happens when it starts on my side, & when the numbers burst out of control here 😎
