Yes environment is so important and the people around you make a huge difference. I read somewhere that you become the 5 people you spend the most time with. I believe that. Got to be around like minded people. I love the big changes you are making as they would not be easy. Thankyou for being real👍
Actually, I’ve never reinvented myself when I moved. Instead, I moved to a place that I’m still myself, and that place reciprocates who I am instead of tears it down. They get my jokes, understand my needs, and I understand theirs likewise. It’s a huge superpower when you find it, and it’s not a one way street.
I moved to another state about three months ago. I’m learning a lot about myself. Eliminating people one by one. Minimizing the noise. Tuning into me for a higher vibration…. I’m 52… I’m thinking about being a nomad and living in my 4Runner
One of the best things you can hear someone say about you is, "I never figured you for the type to do XYZ". And you can think to yourself, "That means I'm doing this right..."
He speaking that real, I’ve been gone from home for almost 6 years and when I returned I wasn’t even regconized. Some still see me as the same person but it’s thier ego telling them you haven’t changed. I will never go back. Best decision I’ve made
In many traditional societies, it was considered the norm for children to remain in the family home and support their parents as they got older. And in those societies, the family unit was often more than just parents and children - it could include grandparents, aunts, uncles, and cousins, all living and working together. It was much more of an intergenerational, communal way of living. And of course, with industrialization and urbanization, that way of life became less common. I resent being driven out of my family merely because I am at the arbitrary age of eighteen. I think it is cruel an unhuman. It went from the family saying "this is OUR house" to the parents saying "you need to get out of MY house". It is a cruel selfishness on behalf of the parents.
Wow this so resonates with me. Moving out on faith in 3 days to another state because I said yes and focused on my goals and 3 children. I'm so at peace and I'm ready for more that's in store for me. Reinventing, starting new, no old furniture or bagged memories everything will be renewed for me even my mind. No more dead weight or regrets it's time for what I actually want in life...Not being selfish I choose me and a better life for my children!!! U can do it just have that mindset!!🎉❤
@@WillDelivered UPDATE!!!! Yes, I'm in the Dallas area moved April 1st didn't look back. Yes, an adjustment but its for the better great job and still thanking God!!!! Change ur mindset and environment and watch the unbelievable happen... FYI constant prayer and patience is also required all day everyday periodt!!!! God Bless🥰
@@UncensoredCIA I have a great job was promoted twice and with a raise, my children love everything Texas has to offer. I've said my Yes and Amen and God has been protecting, providing, and guiding our lives everyday. No more stressing, worrying, and being doubtful. We still are praying, fasting and talking to God. This move has been the answers to my prayers and all I had to do was have undeniable faith and be obedient. Yes the unfamiliar is scary because of the comfortability you know, But God will see you are doing as he wants and He WILL take care of the rest. I'm still at peace. My old state didn't have anything to offer but problems, poverty, and fear but now PEACE, PROSPERITY, AND OPPORTUNITES. Texas is my promise land!!! Pray all day everyday, God hears and he will answer in a way that will be so loud and obvious to you. Just stay in his presence and trust him. God Bless You and remember if it is from God HE WILL NEVER HAVE SORROW ATTACHED TO IT...PERIOD!!😇 U HAVE THIS and when you do your update will be amazing as well.
Moving next year and I can’t wait. I feel like being in a new place and around new people will make me a way better person and I feel like I can learn so much more about myself
This is a great video. The most relatable content I’ve seen in a while. I will be moving in a couple of months from my hometown and this video couldn’t have been said at a better time. Wishing everyone success in the own journey and victory in their silent battles!
Me and my wife has been married for 4 years, and 5 days ago we finally move out of our town and our families. I am feeling it now! There is something that pushes you to work harder, to have a wider view in life and to really find new opportunities. I just wished we moved out earlier, but it is never too late. If your thinking of moving out, it is still in your power if it will be for good or for worse. But let us be honest here, it will be for the best most of the time. You can do this!
I’m 19 right now and my parents use my dependency on them against me. I also suffer from depression which makes it harder for me to express myself without anger, simply because I feel misunderstood. I really want to move away, but I do not have certain qualifications for jobs. I am not disabled, but I fear ill move to another city and worsen my conditions.
@@effectualdeity2same I just moved here to phoenix from New Orleans I got lucky and got a job instantly making 600$ a week I saved up and live in my car now working on a apartment take the risk bro it’ll change u
I believe this video came up on my feed in perfect timing.. recently became more and more aware of how to really see changes for new opportunities and self-improvement. watching your video made me realise how comfortable i've become on living at home with family and staying in overall the same habits, routines etc. Now i know that jumping out of my comfort zone by switching up my environment and learning to be self-sufficient and fully independent will i start to see my whole life from a new perspective. In order to see your life change you have to accept being uncomfortable is all part of the process and your future self will thank you massively! Also resonate hugely with you not calling people as much as you used to, creating vision boards for success and not listening to rap music because when you start to level up and focus on yourself you realise how essential it is to pour more time and energy into yourself and you start to see who and what is wasting your time/draining your energy.. not to mention how words are spells and music is all energy/frequency so if you're listening to murder, popping substances, pimping/degrading women, worshipping material possessions etc. all the time then that is what your reality will become.. Thank you for sharing on your platform and I am going to make plans to move for work/travel from this day onwards MUCH RESPECT!
This is exactly where I am right now taking my wife and daughter and leaving where I was born and raised I’m 30 it’s time. I subbed if you ever need a ear I’m here man 🤙🏻
Thank you for this video. I’ve been wanting a fresh new start and to reinvent myself because the city I’ve grown up in offers no growth. If I were to choose to have children, my hometown would not be the place that I’d want to raise them. I’ve grown since I’ve moved out of my childhood home but I feel it’s time to take it up a notch lol. I wanna grow out of my hometown and home state.
i been raised in miami my entire life and the main thing that holds me back is my family and my vision impairment. i am allowed to drive here but if i move out of state, i maybe not be allowed to drive so i definitely need a state with a good public transportation. sea levels and cost of living keep rising but wages don’t go anywhere. it’s scary cause i’m an introvert and very anti social but being in my mid 30s living alone in the ghetto just ain’t it.
I'm glad you are looking to take that leap. Where I live I can walk to any and everything I need and public transportation is easily accessible. I would say look for a downtown area if you can near a major city instead of living in the major city itself so it can be more affordable with similar qualities.
This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my RU-vid channel 7 months ago about self development. Now I have 706 subs and > 200 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.
Great words of encouragement man! Thank you so much for your content. I’m out here hustling, working on my goals, and even went off the radar for a while to think and reflect. Take care man and keep up the good work! ❤️
You are amazing you would make a really good speaker and a coach. I really love this. Thank you so much. I hope you are doing well. How are things going now?
I'm currently 16 and this friday i'm moving to england with my mum and little sister in the country that i've been living in for my whole life i feel that i just have not taken things seriously enough that mostly being school and it's too late to focus on school now all i wanna do is to support my family and move in to the big cities hopefully ill come back to this comment one day and not live with regrets
I've been down for awhile now and this video you did helped me realize I'm not alone and I still have strength to live life . And I just wanted to say Thank You Godbless
This video spoke wonders. I appreciate these words. Currently just moved on my own & when I say it’s a rollercoaster that’s an understatement. But I know I have a purpose for something.
Just got out of a 3 year relationship w a girl I was with and moved in with my dad just 5 months ago, already been talking to a friend who I been making music with, his roommate is moving soon and he offered to let me move in in a few months. It’s two hours away and when I moved in with my dad I figured I’d be able to get my money up with the cheap rent but I’m honestly leaning towards it anyway
my brother is living outside hometown since past 4 years and i am a freelancer, since same time, he has struggled to even save some bit for himself, and me on the other have saved alot and invested alot for future, while all his income is going on rent and accomdation, and its not like i have not tried moving outside, to me its not worth it.
Currently 23 I’ve left twice and without a doubt once you leave you just never really get that home feeling again . I live in my current hometown but it doesn’t feel like home anymore feels like I’m living in the past everyday . Old associates I see from back in the day I no longer care for ,environments I no longer care for , just over it. I have to get out this mfr asap feels like I’m going insane trying to lie to myself thinking this town is good when I’m lying to myself town is dog shit and meant for people who want stability/family/nice community /just too slow for me .
Good video! I resonate with this video reached the point where I want to move. I feel like this is the year God Willing! Anyways it’s cool I have family in Maryland
I’m from Miami and I’m ready to move as well been wanting to move but never had the courage to leave … and now it’s time I’m elevating but I don’t see my self where I’m at here anymore. I’m ready for change
Duuuuude. I also moved from Miami(really Doral, but culturally its an extension), and I also moved to georgia for the same reason. And whats crazy particularly about telling people that you are from Miami, is that some people will say "WTF bro? Why did you move?" As if Miami is the lost city of atlantis or something. Ive lived there for 20 years and im tired of Florida lol, thats it. My brother hated Miami and moved for the same reason and now he lives in vancouver.
I resonate with you so much bro! I love that growth mindset you have! I def need to make myself more uncomfortable to level up. What age did you move out bro?
I recently got out of the Marine Corps and I moved back home with my parents been here almost a year I have enough money now that I can start looking at apartments in another state and I'm pretty excited obviously some nerves but I want to see something different
Look I’m 26 I visited Texas recently I’m from wisco thinking about moving there but I don’t have a place set in stone idk if I should just leave my folks behind I am fs the black sheep n I had a stroke as an infant so e-bike is how I get around I just don’t know but don’t want to get to 30 or 35 still here I’ve always worked mind you any advice
Man this was a fantastic video, right how I've been thinking recently! Idk if I want to full on leave my hometown but i was thinking of moving for 3-6 months, any advice?
Omg talk about it. I'm 33 and trying to have a plan. I have goals but it seems like nothing is happening because I got comfortable in this relationship. He takes care of me and I'm not happy living here in my very racist toxic state. Yes it's Colorado. There's no diversity here. I'm wanting to have better job opportunities that will hire black people without bias. I'm bearly happy in my relationship just enough to keep me here but anymore I've been planning and preparing to move on my own and I'm scared af at 33
Moving as a woman is scary. If you have family or friends I would same move nearby or the same complex. I would also say google or RU-vid search other women experiences with moving. Also look into getting into tech!
I'm a young man I always wanted to move out on my own I really do man my family be turning against me it hurts I getting a pain in my heart cause of it I be feeling bad mani got a speech impediment it's very bad😢
@@Demontray yea phoenix for sure I came here a year ago didn’t know anyone or anything now Ik the city like the back of my head and all the people I’ve met I got jobs lined up for me like it’s nothing. If you into meeting people mountains and cheap living come here
I have been going from job to job in the past few years. I don’t like the job market conditions. I am planning on making a leap to another city soon. Yes people told me I have a better situation here at home because I’m basically living rent free. But in reality that is not enough to satisfy me. My city has one of the highest cost of living. I always tell people why should I live here 🤔 I can get a job but am I really going to be able to afford to live here after the fact 🤔
i wanna move but dont have a car, should i get one in my current state or wait till i get to where im moving and get it in that state? (plan on leasing)
Please help me I’m stuck living at home no job only had one job without any other work experience now I have a mental illness and I’m not sure which way to go what should I do?
I don’t know much about your situation but I would say. Assess where you are and what you are capable of and once you do that look for remote positions or positions where you can get out that fit your personality and can provide you a living. Don’t give up hope! I’m not a professional so take this advice with a grain of salt. Hope everything works out!
i say once someone is undeniably likeable online getting 100s of thousands of views then move. because what good is it to me to move to vegas or hollywood if i have nothing to show for , not enough likes or views or money or status, or enough talent in the eyes of my audience as well as i can be shadow banned to hell, then what good is it being a loner in hollywood or vegas without enough money? if i had a programmer career making 80k a year then i probably would test the water but i say gain success wherever you are in the present and when or if you achieve massive success, then move wherever.
You don't need massive success to move but I agree that you shouldn't move if you can't afford it. Thats why I moved a little later so I didn't have to struggle.
Don’t follow advice from random people on instagram and RU-vid. It’ll leave you broke and more anxious. Nothing wrong with staying in your hometown or having a 9-5 life if you have stability and a strong support system. Just learn to be more content and grateful for what you have instead of having FOMO.