Becca,it is normal to feel overwhelmed and exhausted because of this process... I really hope everything will work out in the end and you will have the satisfaction of having your own place sooner than you expect. Sending you lots of love❤
"I miss Becca, the blonde girl, fully charged in life, focused, without fears and doubts. Yeah, that sentence above is a bit intense... and no one needs to be strong and confident all the time. Thank you, Becca, for showing your insecurities, for showing that you’re human. I think everyone who follows you is proud of the path you’re building. Hugs, Di 📍Brasil ( Yes, you reach the whole world )
becca we love and appreciate your transparency. i know you’ve been so consumed with buying a property in london. i know it can be frustrating to hear in the moment but what is meant for you will not pass you by, you will find the perfect home for you, will, and mochi, and all of the trials and tribulations will be worth it. sending love. ❤
I wanted to reach in and give you the biggest squishiest hug angel 💓🤍 Thank you for opening up to us and being so honest about your house hunting and the struggles. I'm keeping everything crossed for you both that you find the perfect place ✨ Will always be here supporting and cheering you on no matter what you post beautiful. Love, light and all the positivity 🤍 xxxxxx
You are most certainly not alone in this! I'm in the EXACT same position - our wedding is next year and we have just had an offer accepted on our dream house but I know it's still early days and anything can happen. We ended up looking outside of London for multiple reasons but just know that come this time next year you will be in a whole new chapter of your life and things will turn out the way they are meant to be!
Buying your first property, especially as a younger couple, takes up so many mental head space and can be so rough on you and your relationship. We eventually moved 2 months before our wedding. It wasn’t ideal whatsoever and it was extremely stressful , but it was our story and now we’re happily married for over a year and living with a view over the Antwerp skyline 😌 I know it can be so hard to believe, but everything really does happen for a reason! Lots of love from Belgium ❤
Congratulations on setting a wedding date! How exciting! That’s fantastic news!! As for the flat, just know that things happen for a reason, as hard as it may seem in that moment. My husband and I put an offer on so many homes that fell through, which broke my heart each time, but…..we toughed it out, and the home we bought ended up being the best one we could have ever hoped for. Be patient a little longer and things will fall into place for you both ❤️❤️
Not every season of life is plain sailing. We all have ups and downs. I Love aesthetic Becca but also refreshing to see real life Becca. We are with u girl through every season all the ups and downs. Sending u a big hug 🤗
I’m so sorry it’s not working out for you with this flat Becca. Sending you all the good thoughts and vibes and prayers for a smoother last half of the year. 🖤
Aw Becca I'm so so sorry to hear about the flat 😪 that must've been such an emotional rollercoaster. Really hoping you find something soon, you guys deserve it 🏡 I'm so so excited that you're getting married in a year ahh! I'm so happy for you. If you need any advice let me know hahah! X
Becca, we are here for you no matter what decisions you make. And just know we all lov's why you are the girl that comes up on my fyp every day and I love that so much.
Becca ❤❤ you're back 🎉 always so much happiness when I see your video pop in ! Don't worry about the house , you got this ! It's for the best, because you deserve the BEST :)) xxxx
I’m gonna write this is polish because I know that my English is not good. Becca ! Jesteś wspaniałą i silną kobietą ! Zobacz ile osiągnęłaś w tym roku i w ciągu tych trzech lat od momentu przeprowadzki do Londynu. Uwielbiam twoje filmy typu „ idealny dzień” „perfect girl era” ale jestem wdzięczna że pokazałaś jak wygląda prawdziwe życie. Bo życie nie zawsze jest usłane różami i są problemy. Masz nasze wsparcie i nie poddawaj się ❤ za jakiś czas usiądziesz na kanapie nowego domu i powiesz ZROBIŁAM TO. Nie poddawaj się, jesteś moją inspiracją i wiele razy Twoje filmy pomogły mi wstać z łóżka aby wziąć swój los w własne ręce. Kochamy cię !🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
So sorry to hear about the flat, I know the perfect place will find you at the right time. You definitely have not let down anyone. I’ll follow you for a couple of years now and have always loved your content no matter what it is, keep being you!!!
Sending you prayers that everything works out with buying your dream home! We are going through the same thing down here in the new forest and it’s sooo hard to get what you love with a budget in mind. Stay strong, if it doesn’t happen it wasn’t meant to be and everything will happen at the right time for you guys ❤❤❤
Your dream apartment will come to you at the right moment Becca I'm sure of it ❤ I know this must be very stressful and draining, trying to buy for 2 years is not easy! I want to say how much I appreciate you opening up and sharing this with us and I also think that it is truly important to keep some private things away from the eyes of thousands of people, it is a mature choice ❤ we will always be here to support you and how exciting that the wedding is one year away! Everything will work out the way it's supposed to ✨️💌
So relatable and comforting to see you sharing this season of your life. Wishing you the best with finding a place to call home! Sending you love from Morocco
Sorry it didn't work out with the flat Becca. I'm glad you've decided to be open about it. Not for our benefit but I know how holding stuff back can weigh on you. I'm sure you will find the flat that is meant for you soon x
We tend to make a bigger deal out of things than others perceive, right? I didn't think anything of it either way but glad you're relieved! Good luck flat hunting and congratulations on your wedding date! xo
Hey thanks for sharing. You are amazing and you'll get this goal in the future. You're very strong and very inspiring of you sharing this hard time of yours and I can tell how positive and Resilient you are. It's definitely OK to feel sad and cry about it. Sending hugs ❤
This is the reality of such big cities ... Very hard to get smth in good location with good price. Fingers crossed for you and dont worry - this is a big step and if the place is proper for you, you will get it ;)
My fiancée (before she was my fiancée) was looking for a home to buy a couple years prior to meeting me and for the last year we've been looking together. We recently found out from their adult kids that now BOTH of my landlords have passed on. We decided since at that time, the wedding was 2 months away that we would wait until next year until rates went back down and separate the 2 big events. So because of the bad news with the landlords, we are now buying the house I've rented for the last 7yrs to avoid looking and failing. That being said...the lump sum we had saved for catering, decorations etc is now being used for the down payment, closing costs etc! Our wedding is now 6 weeks away and still waiting to close on the house. The amount of stress and arguments from time to time is crazy. We haven't had 'a life' the last 6 months. I realize things happen and life can throw u for a loop but we just have to make the best of it. Let's take each day at a time and just breathe ❤
Hugging sad to see you cry setbacks hurt because you planned on being or doing something. I understand wanted to move and something else has messed up our funds I am sick and tired of companies presenting themselves falsely but i am not giving up. you don't either okay More hugs
I have noticed in the last couple of decades in my life that we are sometimes positioned in circumstances which may seem very restrictive, but in hindsight they turn out to be situations which we actually need or learn from at that point of time.
Geniun question why do you people still marry ? It s a big cost, has no vallue, I don t know a lot of people who still do ? Religion love ? Harder to break up ?