Moving to New York City in 2023? What to ACTUALLY expect. 

When I moved here, I was told that moving to NYC is like joining the Marines. You get torn apart and then rebuilt stronger. I got through some of my toughest times by feeling proud about how strong I was.

Your video just hits it on the head. I’m born and raised here. And now work for the MTA as a conductor for 15yrs. One thing for me that’s a pet peeve since post pandemic (2020-2022). Is the people now smoking (vapes, weed, cigarettes) is mind blowing. Part of the blame is the passing of the legalization of weed. Since then ppl think it’s ok to smoke anywhere now. So annoying for MTA worker.

You mean new yorkers can't afford to take a lyft, or uber everyday? 🤯 I hate driving in my city. I take a lyft everyday to work and back. I even take one going to the stores and events. I love the feeling of being chauffeured around. I ❤ New York, but it is just too expensive. After an hour of searching online, I found an apartment located on the Uppers East side of Manhattan. The RENT was a whopping $5,150 a month.😣

I don't know why but I know I'd hate living there. But for some reason I think I'm going to live there for at least a year. It's an odd feeling so I'm gonna keep setting my expectations low. That's one way I think to be pleasantly surprised by anything I guess 😅

Native New Yorker here. Safety tip: don’t flash jewelry or lots of cash. Don’t walk around with an expensive designer handbag (even a fake one). Always be aware of your surroundings (a.k.a. “situational awareness”). A vast majority of New Yorkers are really good people. NYC is like any other large city. Be smart, blend in, and you should be fine.

I lived in NYC in the mid 70s until the late 80's, NY was on fire then there was so much going on it was an affordable city for 'Anyone' a waitress could have afforded a great apartment just being a waitress at a diner, the art scene was off the charts, the combination of people was so vast, yes the city was somehow downtrodden but that only added to the backdrop it was an incredible time. I lived all over lower east side, Soho (when barely anyone lived there) finally to the West Village on lovely Christopher st. by the late 80's I moved to Europe and made my home there. Then in 2010 I moved back to NY to the East Village on East 10th st. There were several reasons I moved back, but bottom line it was a great disappointment on so many levels. My rent was outrageous for what the apartment was, criminal, still I hung in there hoping I'd find a way...I am of a certain age but had some means and the abilty to have a life there, but somehow NY just doesnt really let you have a life, unless you are a millionaire or maybe multimillionaire...The energy of the city is all about making money, the hustle of life..For a young person it can be exciting but with the cost of rents I think it is more damaging to the spirit. The energy of the street is so different, there's a dead shift or something like it...I like change when change is good, but the change in NYC is not a good one, and now with more crime whats the point? The sad thing is where to go? For a young person what other city can offer a future? I feel for young people today...I lived through the hurricane in NY, then I was in NY throughout covid and finally in 2021 moved back to Europe...No place is perfect, that is for sure, but somehow Europe has a quality of life and it is more affordable...Good luck to anyone who tries to take a bit out of the Big Apple.

If someone is trying to move to nyc cuz they think it’ll make them the person they want to be or they’re trying to run away from their past just remember you’re still gonna have to live with yourself now and the city can only change you so much especially if you’re not the type of person to make the effort to integrate into the community. New Yorkers are very community driven and people are always busy hustling to stop and be your friend. Come here with a passion and something to offer tbh. That’s my advice cuz when the going gets tough you’re gonna need someone’s couch to sleep on as you go through the waves. And learn to be comfortable with being uncomfortable. You’re gonna meet the absolute best people ever and the worst mfs in the galaxy here.

Chelsea, have to say, I love the realistic POV of what moving to this city entails. I think it’s refreshing and very well needed on this platform as often times the glamourised videos are rewarded with most the engagement. It’s a blessing that I stumbled upon this before I move to NYC from Europe in the next few months. Appreciate all the advice you’ve shared!

“You deserve a chance to recreate yourself “ that got me. It’s what I needed to hear today. Thank you

I’ve been here for 18 years. I came to the city for college and stayed through the recession. The ups and the downs. I definitely missed the beat when I should have left: 2008/2009 or 2014/2015. If you are not a native New Yorker with insanely cheap rent or a rich kid/neppo baby, or someone lucky enough to make $130k, then you will struggle. Years of multiple jobs and running yourself ragged is going to wear you down. It will. You won’t notice (as I didn’t), but you will be worse for your wares. Before you come here, make a list of all of the things you want to see and experience. Actively start crossing off those items. When you are finished with them all, look at your savings account and career prospects. Did you marry someone who makes more than $150k? No? Then move. Spending $2400-$2800 monthly on a room, studio, 1 bd with utilities at less than $100k gross income is going to bankrupt you. Retirement? Forget it. So… thank yourself for surviving and doing all things on your list and move out of the city. Tell yourself that you made it (because you did) and save your future self. So many people are edging closer to 40 and have absolutely nothing. No amazing memories and vacations. Missing time with family and chosen family. Don’t be us. Full discloser: I make $100k. My apartment is $2000. It’s not tenable without being extremely cost efficient. I remember the comfort and ease of being middle class elsewhere. City kids don’t know that feeling. We do. It’s our advantage (IMO). When I leave, my apartment will sky rocket to $4000 a month. Consider that.

Whow! This is an experience for me being a native New Yorker, to hear a perspective from someone who decided to give this city a try. Just to state in advance " I love New York!". All of my life when I have traveled to other cities and a few other countries of always asked myself at the time could I leave home and move here. The answer has always been no. After living in New York it's difficult to live other places. This city is a place of some much art, culture and information that you don't have go looking for it just comes right at you all the time. People here are so industrious and creative. It's so energizing to be around people who are always planning and moving with their next project. That brings about an quiet respect for the artistry in all of us. Sorry to say I just don't get the suburban way of existing; to me that's not getting the most out of life. I don't complain about those things non-natives complain about because I find it just as unsafe in non urban areas. Life threatening car accidents from driving at high speeds after a night of drinking at social events and being in sparsely inhabited neighborhoods at night by myself is scary to me. I am use to the protection of many people being around. The slow pace of retail service is such a downer for me and the uninformed dialogue amongst people in general leaves me socially distant. I like people who are want to make things happen and who seek creative ways to live an engaged life. So I truly feel blessed that my parents chose to move here and give me the opportunity to have an exciting life! So, to all who think that this might work for you, Welcome to New York! There's a lot of of Love for life here!

Currently binge watching your videos and as someone in their early 40s who lived there in their 20s, all this advice is super real. There are a lot of things about NYC that are indicative of living in a big city (I was born and raised in Chicago and live here now but was in NY for almost 10 years). However, there are certain things about NYC where if you’re not super rich or grew up there, it’s true that you’re going to just have to adjust your lifestyle and expectations in order to stay happy and sane. Money will always be an issue - this is also why i see a lot of couple shacking up to save on rent and have double income (even when it’s a terrible idea). You’re going to have to get used to seeing the occasional rat in the subway or a mouse in your apartment or a roach, unless your apartment is brand new. NYC doesn’t have alleys so you’re gonna walk by mountains of trash on the sidewalk. It is what it is. And the process of getting an apartment will test your patience, your speed and your resources (money, guarantors, time). I felt like a pioneer running to the nearest plot to stick my flag down before anyone else got to it. The amount of times I’d go to open houses or showings and a person is already there writing a check with a smug ass face… I do agree that the trade-off is worth it, though. Living there has changed me - it’s made me even more street smart and aware, which has helped me and friends out in weird situations here in Chicago. The amount of culture and creativity around is legit, even the street fashion in downtown Manhattan or Brooklyn is awesome. Art is everywhere. There’s a ton of stuff you can do for free. And it forces you to really get to know your neighborhood, your neighbors, the dude who runs the corner store, etc. I will push against the Midwest Nice thing that a couple of people have mentioned in the comments. I think Midwest Nice is like Southern Hospitality: it can be nice, but it can also be SOOOO backhanded and fake. I never thought NY folks were mean. I just think they don’t fuck around or bullshit you, which I appreciate WAY more than “niceness”. Because in Chicago I’ve had my chain ripped off me and nobody did anything, but in NY a similar thing happened and 10 strangers ran after the guy. They can be “harsh” but they’ll also have your back when you’re in a bad spot. I would rather have that than a warm hello or whatever.

Cool video! I’m born and raised in NYC and it seems like a lot of people not from here have this notion that it’s extremely unsafe here. Which isn’t the case! The data shows NYC is by far the safest big city in America and it’s safer than small town America when taking population density into account. Far safer now than it was in the 80s & 90s. There’s a really great article from Bloomberg comparing crime statistics in NYC to other cities and small towns with data if you’re interested in reading more into it. I personally love it here because it’s a walkable city with good public transportation, so you don’t feel stuck having to drive everywhere. Similar to European cities where walking, trains, or bikes are the norm.

moved here by myself some months back, and its been tough, even with knowing a handful of people that already lived here before i showed up. community building is hard, living comfortably is heinously expensive and meeting your basic needs is inconvenient if you don’t make a lot of money. but i will say i’ve had the opportunity and inspiration to pursue new hobbies and old passions, and have met lots of new people. and i feel like i’ve only barely scratched the surface.

I've lived in NYC for 50 years and on Staten Island for 48. My landlord ordered me to leave (no lease) and I can't find a place I can afford that will take me and my three cats. So I'm moving to Pennsylvania. On one hand, I am sad to leave. On the other hand, it will be an adventure. NYC is an expensive place for a retiree to live. And because of COVID, I've been locked down for three years. And now there's a rise in crime. People my age getting mugged for no reason. Still, I will miss Staten Island. I love the hills, The Bridge, the Ferry and Lady Liberty in the Harbor! (I recommend the free "yacht" tour of NY Harbor from the Staten Island Ferry. An hour round trip. There's a new shopping mall, Empire Outlets, next to the Ferry.)

Developing a thick skin is certainly New York. The reality is in New York you dont have the luxury you're expecting... taking ubers, door man... I grew up in Harlem since i was 6 and im 27 now. You're complaining about the things that make New York, New York. The reality is that 90% of New York is broke and not living in your fairy tail dream. It's sad to see these videos, the lack of open-mindedness in you is beyond me. You've been expecting a romanticized city. Welcome to reality. New York gives you a glimpse of the life most of us are having. Except, it has been a daily for us. Thats what makes New York, New York.

I was born and raised in nyc, my heart belongs to thee!!! But if you're not making $150k-$250k, you will stress and live a great percentage in misery. For those that are not in the category of living above the survival phase, you're there to say that you live in nyc! Not getting the utmost of what the city can give you. I live about 1½ hours away in PA and still visit this wonderful city without it sucking my life out!!!

I'm doing a "test run" of living in NYC for this month and this was really helpful to watch in advance of my mini move! Thank you!!

This video just made me even more excited for my move 😌 with its ups and downs, the exploration, the excitement, and the crying 😂 also coming from a small town and visiting a handful of times, I’m excited for the journey that I can’t even fathom what it will be like yet. It’s a new chapter for me, and it’s my next chapter. Always appreciate your honesty, and it’ll be great insight for many others as well 🙏🏻

I have been living here about 20 years and I really couldn’t agree more with your perspective. I really appreciate your authenticity in all your videos. Yes yes yes to everything you brought up. I moved here alone in 2001 and can relate to so much. Now I’m married but being alone and reinventing myself multiple times in this city has taught me a lot. 9/11 happened right after I moved here and it was equally as traumatic as the COVID lockdown.

Chelsea, I love your videos. I have commented a few times that your videos are literally the most realist viewpoint of NYC that I have seen online. This video is no different. I recently went to NYC for 5 days and I have been there before in the past. This was the first time I have been by myself and I decided to treat this experience as if I had actually lived there. By this I mean I let myself take in all of the things that I loved about NYC but also, acknowledged all of the things that would personally bother me. I left the city a bit different than I had before. My comment is absolutely not to hate on NYC at all. But I think I realized this time... I had romanticized NYC in way that was so far from reality that it didn't really fit into who I am. I've traveled to so many countries and I've been to so many cities, and the NYC subway is by far the grossest thing I have ever encountered. It's dirty, garbage everywhere, and people just jumping turnstyles as your are paying to get through - yes I did let that bother me. I have ridden some of the most cleaniest and efficient subways in the world - tokyo, seoul, taipai - and in my 5 days, I just kept thinking... this could be so much better. The cost of apartments is so high. And I think that living with other people is not something I desire and feel comfortable with (lots of personal reasons - all roommate situations, not romantic issues). And I do think landlords, all over this country, are taking advantage of people by exploiting rent. Except in NYC it's impossible unless you have a high paying job - which I do not. I know you spoke about moving many times, and I have seen that with each and every person I watch on youtube. And I hate moving... but to move just because of rental increases is just absolutely astonishing to me. Bad neighbors is one thing, but just being out-priced by your landlord is another. Now, I do love the history of NYC and the city itself is extremely unique and beautiful when you really take a look at what it has to offer. But I do not understand why the crime rate in NYC is so high. I made sure to be completely alert when I was there and not even carry a bag... I don't want to say I was paranoid, but after seeing videos of women getting their phones snatched out of their hands while sitting inside of a coffee shop and the thief ran away with it, just broke my heart. Again, having traveled to other cities, with more people, but lower crime rates, I do not understand what is going on in nyc. I still think someday, I would love to experience living in nyc... I do. I know I wrote a whole story about how my most recent trip changed my perspective, but if I had more money, I would be able to control the neighborhood I lived in and the building I lived in - especially the proximity to central park. At this point, it's really just money that would afford more freedom in a city that seems to be all over the place right now. Again, I LOVE your videos. They are the most realist of narratives that I have come across on youtube. I thank you for that. I think sharing your point of view can absolutely include those wonderful moments that you experience - and you do! But I think for so many people, like myself, who don't live in nyc, but desire to, we all get this insanely romanticized version of what we think nyc is, at that couldn't be farther from the truth. I primarily work with international clients for my job, and I hear many people describe nyc as something that doesn't exist. They have never visited and they don't have high crime rates or homeless in their big cities - or it is so small it is not problematic. When I explain to them about the garbage that piles up on the sidewalks and then show them photos - they look horrified! I watched a video also explaining why there is so much garbage on the sidewalks... but I still can't stop being grossed out by it. On a side note... while I was in NYC in december... someone... asked me for directions!!!!! And I actually KNEW where to send them!! While I'm definitely not a local, I felt pretty proud of that moment. And I also know how to pronounce Houston St. correctly. Can I be called an honorary tourist at this point???? 🤣🤣🤣 I hope you have an awesome day! If you read my novel, thanks for listening!

80 times the rent, whoa! I'm a native New Yorker that left 8-9 yrs ago. Thinking about moving back so I'm watching video to get the pulse of the city. Growing up there was really cool as a younger person, not sure if I have the strength to endure there now.

Theis video presents a lot of good advice. I moved here 18 months ago. I was lucky to have a good job with a good income. But even so, I had to really adjust my standards of living. But I knew that would be the case. I managed my expectations before moving here, really tried to imagine the reality of living here, and told myself to give myself the time to adjust. New York isn’t Disneyland. But it does offer incredible experiences, as this video states. So just know that you need to make some sacrifices but that, hopefully, what you gain will absolutely be worth it.

This is helpful to me. Truly. I won't be moving to NYC in 2023, but considering it in 2024. I have visited NYC a total of 4 times and have always loved it. Obviously, living there is completely different. This might sound a bit weird but I feel like NYC is calling my name. Now, I was born and raised in the south. The city I live in, has no opportunities for really anything. It's one of those conservative-dogmatic religious towns with a bunch of old people. (No disrespect, just trying to describe it) and I used to be very religious and right-wing, but I have shifted the opposite direction. Because of the small-townness and me leaving my religious community things have gotten very lonely. I have befriended 2 AMAZING friends but it still sucks. So, like you said I want to start over. I want to also push my self to do something that scares me. I'm riddled with anxiety, and can easily let people walk all over me. I'm the complete opposite of a New Yorker. But, I want to try, at least. The thing is because of my anxiety I have let so many things pass me by, but almost every time I've pushed myself despite me being scared, I've rarely ever regretted it.(I've also started developing a thicker skin! But still struggle) I like what you said, and if I go in with really low expectations, it helps lol. At the end of the day I'm not sure if I'll end up in NYC but I can't help but keep thinking about it. Also last thing I'll say, I've been around some very bad crime areas in my city and have thankfully survived, we have a pretty bad homeless population, and crime is actually pretty bad. Obviously compared to NYC it's different. It also helps in a way that I'm a dude. Not immune to crime obviously but definitely I feel more safe being alone (I also have one of my best friends currently who lives in NYC so that helps). Anyway, I'm going to watch your other content and see if I can gleam more info from you about NYC as I like to be as prepared as possible . Thank you so much Chelsea!

What is the payoff for living in this city? The salaries and opportunities must be stratospheric to put up with the daily stress.. of lack of safety, ridiculous rent, and trying to fit in ?

I discovered your channel a few days ago and you are officially my favorite youtuber!!!! I am binging your videos. Your content is amazing, thank you! Taking my first solo trip to NYC at the end of this month and your videos have been extremely helpful.

I was not at all raised anywhere near nyc but I always dreamed of going there and being able to restart and become the person I’ve always wanted to be and I thought as I’ve learned more about it even without living there I understand this video totally helped to like, realistically, set my mind this is how I always expected it to be, but like to hear that you can restart and it’s a good place, even with all the struggles and terrible things that happen in New York It’s really nice because most of the time I constantly see people moving away from there and I totally understand why they wouldn’t wanna live there but for me I understand all the horrible things that are going on there and for me I think it would be totally worth it to just go out there and at least try for a little bit, so yeah I think everything you put in the video was amazing and great advice . Thank you, thank you so much for sharing your perspective.

Yes, the nicer you are, the more predatory people will become. Bad things happen to good people for a reason.

Great video Chelsea! I live in Atlanta and it’s the exact same situation. Thank you for sharing and I look forward to watching more of your content ❤

This video made me tear up ( most likely due to my period) but also because its hopeful and positively realistic. Every time I watch a video on NYC I hold my breathe and think this is it this will be the video that makes me realize I cant handle living there for w/e reason. Each time I'm pleasantly surprised with myself which is saying a lot. Sorry if this rant doesn't make sense but I just appreciate you making videos on the reality and beauty of the city even when you don't have a lot of money. Thank you! Im planning on moving in 2024.

As a New Yorker I beg of anyone thinking about living in NYC - DO NOT DO IT . The city has NOT snapped back since March 2020. Rent and real estate prices are only good for people in finance, corporate law, or have a trust fund (annual income $200k plus). The subway system is poorly managed and miserable. Crime is up. Everything costs more. The city is losing income rapidly and soon will be making difficult services cuts similar to the 1970's. There is no sense of community because almost everyone is transient. The artistic and cultural scene is only good for visiting to see performances and galleries.The city is not conducive for emerging artists. My advice is to live in a smaller city that still has the positive aspects of NYC without all the negatives. (Buffalo, Rochester, Austin, Detroit, etc). If you really want to live in NYC, I would wait a year to see if things change (it always does). If you asked me in December 2019 if you should move here - absolutely, just not right now.

I love New York and everything it has to do. I was born and raised there but my family and I decided to move to Florida didn’t make sense to pay so much in rent if we didn’t feel safe in our city anymore and we didn’t agree with the strict mandates 🤷🏽‍♂️

I can't speak for anyone else but I don't understand why anyone would want to live in NYC. It's way to expensive and every time I visit in recent years, between the graffiti, the boarded up businesses, the people with clear mental health issues roaming up and down the streets and the aura of loneliness in so many people that pass by. I don't know what there is that would make people want to live there?

It's a popular myth that a big city always means you have to tolerate rampant crime and personal safety problems. Indeed it seems to be the case in more and more big cities in the US, but there's something called the world... The typical new yorker would be shocked if they ever visited a city like Tokyo. There's no shit in the streets (neither garbage nor actual shit), no anti-social behaviour, no visible drug use, no homeless encampments, totally quiet on the subways/trains, absolutely no risk of crime unless you actively go search for it (like certain type of clubs at night).

Me watching these videos even though I’m poor even by euro standards

Such good advice. I’ve been thinking about moving there solo as a 100% remote worker for some time but am on the fence. I really appreciate your thoughts on all of this. ❤

My family and I were in New York in October and we had a great experience overall. We are born and raised in LA so also from a big busy city, but it’s definitely very different from NY. We would not be able to live in NY but definitely want to visit again. Wishing you the best!

I spent 10 days in NY on holidays after backpacking around Canada and Alaska for two months solo. Not the smartest way to end my North American trip somewhere so hectic after spending months in nature. Had a love/hate relationship with it. Just found it a little too intense for me but I was also exhausted from travelling. Would been keen to visit again one day as I don’t think I made the most of my time. Ps. When travelling I always took a door wedge to use at backpackers or hotels for extra door security. Always felt a little safer as a female solo traveller.

they call it the American dream because you have to be asleep to believe it...

As a native new yorker and it being the only place ive ever called home, you really just need to blend in dont make eye contact walk fast and confidently and dont wear designer stuff even if its fake

The safety issues you shared are pretty standard across any big city. Just be savvy, aware of your surroundings, and exercise caution when walking around with valuables / at night and you should be fine.

Love your realness. I live in LA and miss visiting NYC; used to visit a lot pre-pandemic. Will get back there this year. Keep it up, ‘23 your year!

You are awesome in your honesty ! I am in my 40's and was offered a job at a university in NYC. I am from Europe and visited NYC before. I am still not sure I should do it....

Dang is it really true that your income has to be 40x your rent or 80x if you are a guarantor? That means for the average rent of $4k the average tenant would need annual income of $160k?

I truly believe that influencers ruined NYC. I feel so bad for regular people who can’t afford to live there anymore because of them.

As a remote worker for a US tech company, moving to NYC would be financial suicide. I can have a much higher quality of life somewhere else, like where I live right now in the EU. That was my stance until Feb 2023, when I finally visited NYC in real life. Those were the best days in my recent life to date. I smiled all the time, even while paying absurdly high prices for shitty coffee (I'm Italian), and chatted with so many interesting people in the span of an hour or two. It was an absolutely amazing experience. Living here is much, much cheaper. That's true. And affordability is a very important factor for someone whose salary doesn't change depending on the location. Technically speaking, I should live in the cheapest country that fits my lifestyle. But I'm thinking about moving to NYC more and more every day. Life here is so incredibly boring. There's nothing exciting happening, ever. My partner and I can barely talk to other people, since they're all complaining all the time without doing anything. There's zero energy around us. Everything feels so depressing, 24/7. I genuinely never look forward to the weekend or going out with anyone. I miss NYC so much. There's just so much I can do to justify paying less and saving. Is life easier here? Yeah, most definitely, at least for me. But do I want to wake up in the morning and go get it? Absolutely not. Sometimes I just don't even see the point in doing anything here.

Thank you for this video! I'm currently debating whether or not to move. I'm 32 and have a lot of stability where I currently live. I could live comfortably for the rest of my life if I stay, but there's this part of me that doesn't want that right now. I live comfortably, but I live in a smaller city that I grew up in. There's nothing really exciting for me here anymore, and I feel complacent. Not knowing what I really want for myself. I've always wanted to live in NYC, and I feel it's one of those things that I'd regret if I never did it. I'm just scared to start over in a tougher place. Although the challenge of it seems exciting to me. This video helps with managing expectations, and has given me a lot to think about.

thank you so much for this video, it's really useful! I am literally shocked by the 40x and 80x rule for the rent 😮I'd be very interested to know more about the work/life balance. I heard/read a lot that in the US in general people tend to live to work instead of work to live, would you agree?

I relate with that being from a secluded area navigating through life after being sheltered away my whole life. It's been a tough learning experience. I'm built for it but my morals aren't from this Era. It's rough

It was extremely interesting both as a reference and as a personal experience. I wish it was longer and you went into more detail. Anyway, this was a pleasure to watch, and I actually did it twice, because I can relate to quite a few things you touched upon in this one

i’ve wanted to move to nyc from nashville since I was 9… hopefully i’ll fulfill that when i move out

This video was sweet and truthful. Born and raised in nyc (still here) the focus is safety yet fun. Not concentrating on the rent rises, it does take a year or so to feel you are part of the community. Being proactive, staying alert and most of all enjoy the scenes. NYC does have alot of wonderful people and places to enjoy.

Never been there, wanted to visit in the past , now not so much , would never want to live there. You could be a doctor making 200k a year and you would barely be scraping by. I'm wondering what the people who make 20$ an hour do over there . Live with 5 roommates?

Thank you for the honest information. My dream is to move to NYC and from living in a third world touristy country I know that there is another side of the city that only the locals would know about what real life is like as opposed to what people see on TV and from magazines and RU-vid influencers and this was what I was looking for.

love this. very accurate. going on my second year of living in the city after moving here by myself at 18!

Humans are nomadic by nature

I am from Costa Rica I do not have a green card I already posted my resume for 23 plus going to more for as long as possible but can you please help me how can I get a job in a company that will help with the visa process and hire me with that being said I going to graduate with a bachelor in international trade

If you make 140k and have a family? This city isnt for you. Minimum you have to make 200k to 300k.

crime crime crime awful city

😅I have lived in NYC for my entire adult life (50 Years) I ride the subway everyday, I have never been robed, mugged, or.

People are stealing packages from porches and doorsteps in the suburbs.

You can move to Chicago. It’s much better. Trust me. New York is not all that.

I have a close friend who moved from NYC to live here in Oklahoma, and trust me when I say “people here are so friendly” but I feel like a part of him wants to go back. Now I’m talking to him about moving there with him, so I can experience something new and different, and he will have a friend from here with him to show his world to. I’m probably the most resilient person I know and I know I can survive the stress of changing my life to how it will be there. This video is super helpful to know some of the realities I’ll face, and I appreciate that so much!

I got an admission to a PhD in Columbia University and I got 1 year deferral to get a scholarship for the money, otherwise it'll be absolutely impossible for a foreigner to afford both the university and living expenses there. Great video.

Hi, why don't you get a ring camera so you can record who it is and then put him on blast?

Everyone I know who's a long term low - middle income earner has a rent stabilized apartment. That is the key.

I think the package thing must be a case by case basis -- depending on your building or location, I don't know. In all my years growing up in NYC, I've never once had a package stolen. Literally never. And I've lived mostly in the Bronx! The borough people are so scared to visit, LOL. I wonder if this is more of a Manhattan thing? I've lived alone in a studio apartment in my current Bronx building for over 6 years, and we don't have security here. Yet it's very rare that I'll hear of any crime happening on my block -- let alone in my building. There is, of course, a lot of crime in the Bronx. I know this. But anecdotally speaking, as well as personally, I've never been the victim of it. I do think certain locations -- as well as certain buildings -- are just more subject to this kind of petty crime. If I were a package thief, I might think twice about trying to steal a package from an apartment building in the Bronx LOL. But a neighborhood in Manhattan currently being gentrified? Cha-CHING!!!

This video helped clear my head a bit. I've been wanting to move to Brooklyn and follow just one crazy dream in my life, even if it's short-term. I appreciate your realistic perspective. My parents were born and raised in NYC and this was basically their experience, too.

4:12 I appreciate you being sympathetic about the homeless situation. I've watched other vlogs where they called the homeless "creatures" 😮 Here in SF the Bart, which is the subway here can be dangerous too but just mind your business and your fine. Also, I walk in the tenderloin a lot which is the drug area you could say, but if you mind your business and walk like with confidence they leave you be. In fact I even know a couple of them by name since I see them everyday on the way to work.

Hi, I’m a senior in high school and I was thinking about moving to NYC for college. I would be funding this all on my own (I have a job and I’m saving) and hopefully by the end of the summer I would have about 10,000. I don’t plan on living a lavish lifestyle, I really want to come and go to school here at one of the colleges in the city. I’m afraid I couldn’t do it. But at the same time, I feel like I need to get out of my hometown and be with new people, I feel weighed down by so many things here, and I just want to chance to be someone new. Any advice or opinions?

Go home gentrifiers

10:43 - 11:13 I 100% agree with you. I’ve been living in the suburbs/country for a long time and I honestly hate it because there nothing much to do. After falling in love with Korean Culture, I started to watch expats living in Seoul, Korea and their lives seemed to be so fun. But after I realized how much I would have to save if I wanted to live that kind of lifestyle I honestly just started to feel extremely sad. I really see city life as an escape from the boring mundane country life. (I know it’s not sunshine’s and rainbows but I at least want to experience it for my self).

Thanks for this video. I lived in Brooklyn NYC from 2007 - 2014 am dying to move back. Have made several visits to NYC since moving away to visit friends or solo explore, but have been unsure about the affects inflation and pandemic. This video confirms: if I move back, the way to live in Brooklyn/Queens is STILL live with roommates! Do not move to NYC to be too house poor to enjoy what the city has to offer. Thanks for the straight-talk!

I'm from Austria, I moved to NYC 2 years ago to work at the NYU Langone. I moved because it was a personal dream that I pursued for my whole life. It's tough often to life in this city but at the end I don't regret this decision. Otherwise I had my toughest battles in my life in this city. I can fully understand people that are struggling here because I often do as well.

Man I learned along time ago that if you are struggling depressed in the city you live in now you will struggle & be depressed 10x more in a bigger city like NYC but that doesn’t mean things can’t change and get better because no matter what happens or what we go through as people you will always get through it because you always have you just have to step into it for example if you cut your nails in a week they will grow back again if you cut your hair in due time it will grow back again and the same method is in alignment with life because we all have the same 24 hours a day and its nothing you can do to fix a problem from last year Yesterday or not even a hour ago it’s over! You have grown past it we are so much more capable than we can imagine if we live in the present moment

My friend’s daughter likes NYU but was afraid New York City (safety reason). Ended up going to Shanghai and Abu Dhabi campuses. Shame to NYC mayor! He couldn’t even protect its residents.

Excellent video, everything you said is true! I think that if you can live in (and adapt to) New York City, you can basically live anywhere!

Get a ring doorbell! Hopefully that would help!

I've had 8 or 9 packages stolen. It's a typical experience. Me: 😳... No.

I'm from Mexico City I visited New York and, visiting the city is great, but living in it I don't want to. No offense but the subway system is dirty and awful, even the subway stations of Mexico city are more cleaner than in NYC, even the most dangerous subway stations.

I know NYC isn't a small town and you have to take some basic precautions for your safety. But the emphasis on this issue is way overblown. It gets a terrible rep for crime even though the homicide rate is about half that of Oklahoma (and falling). Scared of taking the subway because a homeless person is sleeping on it? What about the 40,000 people per year who die from cars every year?

I was born and raised in NYC.. what is this woman talking about.. she needs to have friends and blend in more......

MTA is just the worst. I’ve seen three crazy people with knives and it’s horrifying. Typical democratic state though.

I feel like you may as well not live there unless 1. You grew up there and have lots of friends and a deep connection to life in the city or 2. You’re a multi millionaire. 3. Dream job or Uni. 4. You are highly competitive because naturally in a city with limited resources it will go to the highly competitive people. Otherwise you are likely going to have a very bad experience. Life is not about location as much as it is about connections and I mean meaningful connections. It can be very hard to establish meaningful connections in a city with very high barriers to entry where everyone is trying to survive, because that takes everyone’s time, energy, and focus.

I’m from Philly and you guys know how we love our city… But New York to me is like going to Disneyland….The ppl, the buildings….

Hi ChelseA, thank you for the insightful video. My wife and I want to enable our son, 15, to see NYC, preferably from a local's perspective. The part where you said that people come to visit you but only to see the city and that for free is not entirely true for us 🤓. I have already booked the flight from July 6th to July 20th, 2024. We cannot and do not want to afford the expensive overnight stays in a hotel. We would much rather live with a local and invest 1000 💲 there. It would also be very cool to have you as an insider person. We come from Switzerland. If you fly to Switzerland, we would of course also show our gratitude. If it develops into a friendship, then great 🤓 Sorry but our english is just 🆗

Oh! I forgot to say that I could probably come with 1.5 million if that is helpful to determine if I would be comfortable there. Thanks!

So many young girls move to NYC with these high ideals and unrealistic expectations. (They’ve watch “Sex In The City” and think that’s the reality). They may be good at what they do but they do not know how to navigate and create a network with professionals in their field. As a result, they get frustrated and leave or start looking for a rich man who exploits and uses them until they return to Ohio or some small town they came from. However, for those few who hold onto their values and develop the characteristics needed to network professionally (instead of bar hopping), stand up to all of the very difficult challenges, and stick to their goals, they do become successful. I know only two young ladies who moved to NYC from other small towns in the U.S. back in the early 80s who are truly successful here today.

For average people, you get high cost of living, increasingly dangerous environment, and nearly year-round bad weather. Humidity, snow, floods now, and potential hurricanes too. I left and don't regret it. No other city feels like NY but wasnt worth it anymore, especially if youre not taking advantage of events and entertainment

Really good video thank you , how did your landlord rob you set you up that’s crazy? Are there any break ins to homes etc? & where’s good place to stay that’s not to pricey?

I’ve been here for 5 years and OH MY GOD does it SUCK its like a third world country in NYC as of 2024

High crime and corrupt politicians?

I would take an antibodies test to check and see if you've had Covid. I find it hard to believe when people say they've never gotten it, but it's also just interesting to know for oneself.

Why in the states the deliver your package if you're not home 🤔 in south africa they don't leave packages outside they call first and schedule a time when your home or if you're neighbors will sign for you pr just take rhe package

I don't think it's too much to ask that you don't get robbed where you live. No one signs up for that. If crime is an issue for you vote accordingly or take precautions.

Los angeles (and other places honestly) has porch pirates. Ask your boss if you can receive the reasonably sized packages at work. My job let's me and it takes away that problem.

i live on a small island very very far away from new york. I liked watching this video, thanks for sharing with us :)

A move to an apartment with a doorman and security….”you’re manifesting that..” 🤔

Get a P.O Box so all your packages will be safe, AND your youtube fans might be able to send you birthday presents too...

You dont have to accept the crime, vote for change. Have the tenacity to be a populist and not a party voter. But hearing your perspective, you are perpetuating the crime and miasma.