yes me and him have discussed it earlier this month and for now we are not planning on having any kids. this is a lot of responsibility, we still have a lot to build fo ourselves and we're not ready for a mini joon or mini me. thank you for your understanding ARMY, the best fandom in the world.💕
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@@commandersleepy so rm really want to be a dad it's his biggest dream but now he is not sure about that bec he is like a kid himself who always make troubles and keep breaking thinks so he said ' a kid like me can't imagine having a child ' so you can now understand that if he had a kid like mini ver of him the world will come to an end...
How many children do you want to have? RM: Well, considering I raised several already, I’m not sure if I really need/want more. The ones I’m with are a handful.
Same thing with Stray Kids leader Bang Chan. 🤣🤣 Having the dad role somewhat thrust upon them by their groups is making them rethink this whole fatherhood business. It's hilarious. 🤣🤣
Joon have 6 kid already Jin suga jhope jimin kim taehyung jungkook take care of kid take much resbonsbliy to do as parent but you must not leave kids alone it dangerous they make a must Joon literlaey doing well as Leader his speech is amzing in united stad was great he once said he want to be a dad i one interveiws wich learn not to break things first joon so your kid don’t get hurt
When you’re young you tend to think “oh I can’t wait to have kids they’ll be so cute” but as you grow up you realize how much responsibility it really is and how often parents damage their kids unintentionally, and you start to think about it a lot less lightly. RM shows a lot of maturity here
@MissMolang Maro I relate to you girl,one day it dawned on me that I don't want kids because if they happen,my life will start to revolve around them and I didn't want that at all.
I remember when he said this alot of army's were dramatic about his decision, and it makes me upset that alot of people do not like the ideal of BTS changing. Army let's remember that BTS are not the same men when they first debuted. Their opinion is not going to be the same from years ago. Their ideal types has probably change, and etc. We should be supportive no matter what because If RM did decide to have kids. He is responsible for that child not us. I am sure he is going to be a great dad, but I don't like seeing comments trying to pressure him into reconsidering his decision on having children. You all need to understand having kids is a big responsibility. I dont care how much money these man have. Yes there children will be well off financially, but it takes more than just money to raise a child. Also You do not need to have children to be considered a family. We all have the rights to change our minds about something it is in human nature. We should support them no matter what. 💜
Like fr , I had the baby fever so bad when I was like 19 or something but now I think having a kid is a big responsibility and I'm for sure not ready for it
I actually feel so glad that he felt comfortable enough to say this. Not everyone wants children, it's ok if you change your mind if you do or don't. As a woman almost every question I get from relatives is related to children and boyfriend's when I'm literally just 16. I don't plan to have children in the future and I hope he doesn't get forced to either
"A kid like you" will be so cute , kind and intelligent.. He/she will do great things becoz your already such a great dad to us all..we will love a kid like you with all our hearts..
He is saying seeing the struggle and hardwork the child will have to do, the expectations from the society. His child will face the pressure to be as talented as him. P.S - My opinion
Bro I get that feeling so much, I am happy to see that an idol said that publicly. I feel like they are always expected to get married and have kids , it’s cool to see one say - nah don’t want to! 👏
The first thing that came to my mind was his Clumsiness and the scene where Jin was panicking and yelling at him for holding his knife in a wrong way😂, and him saying that he didn't get a driver license for World peace🤣. I appreciate him, he sound genuine, he probably wanted to focus on his career , members, family as his top priorities. Let's just hope the best for him.
I'm no body language expert but I can tell just by the way he's answering this question and his mannerisms (looking away and not staying still and laughing uncomfortable) that he's lying and he's not very good at it.
He literally sounds like my husband when we meet... 6 years later we married ( it would have been 5 years if covid doesn t hit )... i think guys like them needs time to make sure they have the right one cause they stick with one forever its nice and respectable... and they are honest like about kids i respect if a guy said no i don t want kids or yes i want maybe later or like with me he had the same answer like RM but after meet me the answer is if you want honey I want if you don t want I am fine too. And this gives me a peace of mind cause i know if we can t have he will be with me. So asking this from a single guy is a nono. I would say he is honest and did not met his one Girl. For now and forever he is his idols favourite but with time he will find the one and than he will have a nice answer for you all. Or we just laugh it off looking back at this video.
@@soriya347 its been good but u can tell he wasn’t really confident w it so he stumbled with his words and stuttered a lot but he’s definitely gotten more confident and he’s been taking more lessons
In other sense, I feel the same way as Namjoon. Looking back at my childhood and teenage years, I'm well aware that my Mum and Dad went through hell before I've become a sensible adult that I am right now. Imagining raising a kid like me makes me fear that I wouldn't be able to "save" that kid just like how my parents saved me. Am I making sense? I hope so.
if joon has a kid, they’re going to grow into such a wonderful person. i know joon would share his wisdom, teach them about the valuable things, like kindness and the positivity that the boys spread w their music
Bless his heart. My mother told me that I would one day have a child just like myself and then I would understand how she feels when I through temper tantrums. She was right. I had 1 daughter and she is a carbon copy of me. Sorry Mom I now understand and I tell my daughter the same. It is okay RM, I think that you all would be great parents, eventually. 💜🤗🇺🇲💜
This is literally me 😭😭 I went from wanting cute babies to questioning if I am ready to take their responsibility.. but I am much younger than Joonie 🤣🤣
It's literally me when I was young and immature and when I realised what is the process for having children.And the pain I have to go through. I will just adopt one .haha
ARMY, please respect his choice. I’m disappointed seeing some of the comments acting like he’s 5 years old and doesn’t know what he’s talking about. He’s a grown man and is developing his own life goals
He's not being honest here. He's saying these things to avoid answering the questions. Think about it. The man's been plagued with "secret family" rumors for years. Of course he wants to avoid stirring the pot for the people who believe in those things. He once said with a smile on his face he wanted a family and I believe that he was being genuine in that moment. Here, he's not being honest. He's fidgety, hesitant and giggly. He's lying.
Pure sincerity in his voice because of the love he has in his heart. This world is not in the best state of mind to be raising children. Bringing children into this chaotic world at this point in time is such a careless idea. Once the deep state gets taken out then we will be ready to give children a better and safe life.
Aww he’s sweet . Hopefully if he gets married and decides to have children , he will be a great dad. “ a kid like me “ he says , he will definitely know how to handle his child. He knows first hand and will have more understanding . I’m sure he’s learned the best from his parents and family which is invaluable . Take your time and live your best life now . No rush. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
"Like the tattoo" What he said about the tatto: I wanted to get one but I get sick of thing really easy so I would get sick of it and it's permanent so 😂😂😂
You may don't belive me,but i know i wrote this comment(how many children you want to have?)so i'm very happy about this becaouse i think RM answered lots of ARMY questions with my interes.we olready know RM's answer to how many children he wont.🥰🥰🥰🥰💜
