@@rainbow3649 No need to be dismissive. My life and work took led me in paths that Black men did not want any part of. Even the men in my family had zero interests in my interest. Still, I was able to observe Black men in my teens and no, NEVER met a man like this guy. I realize now how charmed and precarious a life I led. Now I am old and health-challenged, widowed after 33 years of marriage, it's wonderful to observe so much that I could never imagine.