I am having same issue so I can understand better and both the son's are doing right. She is lucky to have such heart son's taking care of her. She need to understand it's for her good only and nothing to shy. In fact I enjoy riding a scooter it's so convenient specially if you love traveling. Nothing wrong in using it.
She’s walking perfectly. Don’t make her feel like a burden or dependent or becoming a handicapped. If she has a back problem don’t make her to walk long do it in short distances. You both taking care of your mother.
She looks very unhappy. Sometimes elderly people prefer their dignity over travel. Don't force her to travel for your needs. Psychology of ageing is hard to understand. Please don't make her do this under pressure.
Agreed. Auntie ji thinking that in a long run she can’t walk , in future she has to sit on the mobile wheel chairs. So psychologically it affects on their thinking.
Usually I sometimes support the comments against them but this actually doesn't make sense buddy, they are just thinking about their mother and let them take the decision, at least they are not forcing something
TD there us age for everything. Your mother is not so young anymore . If she doesn’t want to go out and travel and want to relax at home then let it be . Dont force her to travel and that too on wheelchair. She will start feeling more depressed and she will a get a feeling of burden on you guys . We know you both brothers have baby coming soon but it doesnt mean you will buy your mother wheelchair
If they want to make their mother see the world what's wrong with that. If they will not take her with them on trips then also you guys will complain that they are enjoying their life and mother is sitting alone at home. They don't take care of their mother.
i don't think she is comfortable with it... maybe check with ladies at house if this is right decision...maybe its something she is not feeling good about.......and i think this idea was given by Mohit originally..
They are living abroad the think what's best for them, you dont comment unnecessary spoiling their mood. They definitely don't need any advice or suggestions. Go travel in western country and see their advance world definitely not for Indians
Bhai let here walk it is good for here heart and here joints........ She is very unhappy on it so it is requested don't impose it...... Stay Blessed ❤ Regards
Mummy ji sounds not good,she is not too old, best exercise her fr walk,and light food,faridbad mai rehkar mataji jyada khush v healthy rehti hai,aajkal ke bacchey jyada caring ke chakkar mai parents ko budha bana dete hai
आप सोच तो बहुत अच्छा रहे हो यह देख कर लगा कि आप लोग अपनी मां के लिए कितना सोचते हो लेकिन इस तरह आप उन्हें पंगु बना दोगे। हम भी 64 साल के हैं लेकिन चलते हैं और आजकल पहले की तरह कामकाज नहीं करना पड़ता इसलिए लम्बी उम्र के लिए जितना अधिक पैदल चलें सेहत के लिए फायदेमंद साबित होगा।
You are right but some times when you have passion in back or knees it's very convenient to use this scooter. She is not going to use all the time plus she goes for walk so nothing to worry.
@@Priya10009 hey Priya I am not saying don't buy ... I just love the way both Beta and Bahu take care and love her.. Just that this feeling is not good and u can see that on her face.. Which TD also noticed while making video and definitely the entire family will take care of that..
It's good they are making her mobile...she is unhappy but in long term she will be happy n will enjoy her outings otherwise she will be home bound. Very Good n practical thing....Aunty ji cheer up,it's wonderful n you will enjoy your trips n we will love to see you on trips
There is no need for a mobility vehicle for her at all. She will become dependent on it before time, and it is not required. It affects negatively and psychologically.
Let them buy for the comfort of Mother. If she does not use it , no worry. At least she had a comfortable tool to use. Elders r like a child. Sometimes, u have to push them for their comfort. She has accepted it, at least for airports. They will carry the scooter along everywhere, where it will be needed, she will use it otherwise it will be lying ready in the vehicle for use. Besides elderness, male and female thinking is different for a new experiment. She will mentally accept it a few times use.
Please don't make her feel so weak and dependant. After visiting the shop, in the car, it felt like 'unka gala bhar raha tha' and that was so painful to see. Please don't make her a Content piece especially TD. You know a lot of people see your and TD's videos because of her. I never drop such critical comments but she really looked sad
They really doing great for their mother after 5 year she need it only Till than she will get use to it As you get older difficult to get use to with tec stuff
No matter what others say, You guys have taken a right decision in getting a "gaadi" for your mother . It's my personal experience that even my mother was initially reluctant but the upside is that she would be comfortable and by the side of the family. When most parents shy away and stay at home and makes them cranky . It's my humble request to Deepaji aap is se apne ko dukhi mat karo. Aap jaha bhi jayenge waha aapko itni suvidha rahegi. Infact, in Usa my mothers wheel chair was a blessing in disguise. You know what i mean
Keep this mental torture to your own mother bro. Dnt make others suffer just because you chose wrong for your own parent. She's getting extremely disturbed. Can't you see?
Initially, she may feel uneasy, but it's incredibly beneficial for travel. My mother is completely bedridden because of health and she is a schizophrenia patient too, and we typically use a wheelchair when travelling with her. Auntie,. This will provide you with much comfort during travel please buy a wheelchair without thinking about much, you are not a burden on your children,aapke bache aapke liye best krna chahte hai Please ignore all the negative comments. Hugsssss
If she does not want to travel and take trips…why are u forcing her?…u want to take her with u but also get her a mobility vehicle,…😕let her chill and do how she wants. Parents raised us…we need to respect and give them space and dignity
Please don't make any negative comments. Though she's hesitant now but in the long run it's going to be very helpful. Everyone will travel except her, how it will make her feel good. These days technology has been very advanced, so it's better to take benefit of it. Specially when your children is so thoughtful and looking after you so well .
mummyji looks unhappy usually sr. citizen dont like such things when still they can manage. They use it only when totally not able to walk or stand. I suggest dont compel her. My mother is 80 still she likes to walk (already both knees replaced).
Both brothers are really excited for the baby shower & such activities together like childhood days. Mummy is observing & remembering the schooling times.
Phases of life goes jn circle ⭕️.., when a kid is born their journey starts from a stroller and when we are old our journey goes back to stroller // wheel chair 🪑..,, but this is Normal for old age people here in Northern America rather all foreign countries
I normally don’t comment but after watching this vlog I really felt very bad for Aunty for going through this situation she literally controlled tears and was speechless for the sake of making content please do not make ua parents or ua loved one face such things ever .. she is totally fine just cus she has back issue or joint pain whatever don’t treat her like that . Very sad to watch Aunty feeling so bad why you guys couldn’t understand that I really don’t know
11:40 - 42 this is what I love about Costco...vendors selling various tasty treats to snacks....so go on light stomach to enjoy their snacks shopping...when you want to make it a day at Costco 😊😊😊
Disliking 👎 the video for the very first time U should have not forced her to travel and use this kind of wheelchair which makes her uncomfortable or making her feel burden on other people
Why you giving wheelchair to your mother this is wrong . Let her walk naturally she can walk and on airports you get wheelchair facilities. Please don’t do this
I don't think it's a wise Idea to make her feel like old immobile person. You as sons should motivate her to exercise and develop her walking skills rather make her feel old, when she is just in her early sixties I think. It is bad that you are hurting her feelings 😢
All those thinking negative, please understand they are trying to ease her as they want her to travel with them where ever they go. Her children are very caring .
It's a good idea. I have same problem so I bought an air line friendly batteries folding scooter from company name drive. You can get for 3600 light weight, folding one easy to carry in car also.
lol 😂 Costco food testing.., I remember when one of our desi friends who’s office was next to Costco he never brought lunch from home and just went to costico for food testing everyday and got lunched for himself
