Man kush imagine am a single parent and my son alianza kukataa kuvaa nguo na kuoshwa na Mimi,I had to bring my brother in na Sasa ndio anamuosha,my son is my friend and I really try to be mum n Dad to him,he is such a strong man so I have to research a lot na naona vile mmesema ni fact kabisa,..he is 7years by November and am proud of him sana cz even the class teacher tells me he is a great man and they are good friends.. Parenting with the right advice is great,.thanks to my brother for coming through, my sons ego is way up hadi akicheza utajua,I told him Ata akikosea lazma we discuss about it kabla nimchape and nikimchapa yy hujiita Doshi chuma ya nguvu hua hailii,and he even tells me,"mum ulinichapa cz nlifanya hivi na sifanyi tena and he never repeats mistakes,I taught him hadi kufua boxer zake na kuosha viatu but what I had to do kwanza ni making sure nmenunua mob ndio nione commitment yake as it was a way of reward akifanya kitu poa,he respects other kids and av taught him giving,imagine maji ya dispenser nlipata imeisha eti anapeana,I had to caution him cz I think he copied from me,I give him space to be himself and I keep watch ndio nione where to correct where necessary.. Single parenting is amazing according to me when you have the right people in your life and you let the baby be himself first,..av never discussed any man with him but my guy visits us in my house and they are good friends,in case kuna kitu haezi niambie hua wanaongea and life is so far good for me as a single parent,..
Very true the man is the head and i thank God we are blessed with a deciplinian father who has never beaten mum but used to beat us. So when mum said ngoja baba yako akuje we knew tutakipata. My father is my role model even today am a grandmother myself and a single woman who plays the role of a father and a mother,both as a desplinian and loving mum. Ive Also learnt that a family that prays together stays together. We never went to bed without reading the Bible and praying together.to this day, thats our routine even in our own homes. A family that prays together stays together. I have been beaten by dad severally but to this day, he is my role model of a good family man. God bless my parents and give every parent the wisdom and authority expecially single parrents in Jesus.
Your are all men of valor and I love tapping to your wisdom. Everybody is nowadays talking about the boy child. Who is modeling the boy child? Where are the fathers and who was their role model? We must admit that we have lost our ways as a community. The problem is not the boy child or the mother. The community has deteriorate because it has lacked Godly counsel and leadership from men. It's time to deeply discuss the Male grown child. He is the problem!!!!!!
Thank you my big brother for always being there for my son's you are their role model and thanks for making sure he has become a real gentle man this month😘
When talking about authority, I wonder why violence is equated to authority and not weakness- beating wives, beating children!- Rev. Muratha speaks well of a Man being able to assert himself and give direction in the home- no mention of violence. We should rethink this equation.
Most men lack strong male figures in their lives. Siku hizi wanawake wako na pesa na power kushinda wanaume. Wanaume hawana lao. Siku izi unaona wanaume wanaomba wanawake pesa hadi za kufanya biashara. Mwanamke anaenda kukopa kwa chama ndio asaidie mwanaume.
Man kush niwa thomithia kaundu kega muno, ati itua niria mundu gukorwo e black board ya guthomwo maundu moru,ndatua itua ria guthomwo maundu Maria mega na Ngai wakwa undeithie.
Nyie wakenya mnanishangaza mnavyoongea lugha za asili wakat watu wengi wanatazama hata wasiojua hyo lugha na man kush acha kuongea kikwenu mm ni mfatiliaji sana wa video vyako lkn ukiongea kikwenu hua sijisikii kabisa
Third world mentality try that method of intimidating and threats and beating anybody, in first world countries ujiikute ndani with all sorts of charges nkt shithole countries. Huko siwezi rudi mimi.
Are you serious guyz? Advocating for violence? Domestic violence? On national tv? I don’t like ! Sorry!😡 If a man doesn’t provide why would you think about wife battering? SHE is the one feeding that silly man . I can’t even finish watching this🤮
Very very worried for unmarried women when I hear these pity parties. These men prove that men want to punish women because women are HARDWORKING. There are daily reports in this nation of women being murdered by insecure husbands (because she earns more than him, she is 'disrespecting' him), emotionally abused by husbands, infected with AIDS by husbands who maintain countless 'mpango wa kandos', but all that these people can talk about is "....the boy child is endangered...women should learn to submit..." For your information, Women have submitted TO DEATH and are still doing so, and their husbands still turn to excuses saying ati 'women are looking down on us'...May God help African women to be able to get husbands even outside of their nations if thats what it takes for them to remain safe from this male self pity.
