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Experts say 2 to 3% of the general population suffer from a type of body dysmorphic disorder in which one perceives their body shape in a way that doesn’t line up with how they might actually look.
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@nickkoryukin4949
@nickkoryukin4949 Год назад
When I started to hit the gym last year and became really serious about muscle, I started to feel this
@Abcdefg-fl9td
@Abcdefg-fl9td Год назад
Uh huh sure you did
@DarthTalon66
@DarthTalon66 8 месяцев назад
@@Abcdefg-fl9tdbased on the 72 troll comments on this channel, I can tell you’re built like a croc pot.
@chadr2604
@chadr2604 7 месяцев назад
I would like to know if poor vision could make it worse. I don't think it is purely psychological I have it and honest to God I can not judge where my body ends. I have big bruises from running into things.
@emmettyoung7603
@emmettyoung7603 5 месяцев назад
i got fat last year after a knee injury and i’ve got muscle mass and less body fat, but i still feel awful about myself. my arms are too small, my chest isn’t big enough and my stomach is too big. i try to be aware of it, but it’s still tough
@lauralorimer433
@lauralorimer433 3 месяца назад
​@Abcdefg-fl9td what do you know keep your negativity to yourself
@mr.winkie
@mr.winkie Год назад
Low self-esteem/hatred is at the core. Not feeling good enough. The gym is a coping mechanism. Body dysmorphia is the result of self abuse.
@mikeleeFILMS
@mikeleeFILMS Год назад
body dysmorphia is the result of toxic culture. men are never “manly enough”
@victorvaldez760
@victorvaldez760 Год назад
Gym is a cope when you are born with poor genetics and in the wrong race
@Alexlinnk
@Alexlinnk 29 дней назад
Buy nobody cares about men anyway
@TheMikeguy7776
@TheMikeguy7776 15 дней назад
It’s a healthy alternative to lots of other things
@mr.winkie
@mr.winkie 14 дней назад
@@TheMikeguy7776 agreed.
@teedot1186
@teedot1186 Месяц назад
I literally just said my chest is getting bigger but my arms are falling behind. This is a real thing.
@derivative7117
@derivative7117 29 дней назад
I don't have muscle dysmorphia, I have fat dysmorphia. My genetics dictate that if I don't take care of myself, I will look like an 8 month pregnant man just like my dad and my uncles. I DO NOT like this. That's why I workout everyday, eat whole foods, & quit eating refined sugar and grains. Having extra muscle is nice. Feeling strong is AWESOME, but to me it's more about the excess bodyfat.
@mattsalvatore3193
@mattsalvatore3193 18 дней назад
Same here brother. Decent genetics for lower body, back & triceps. Chest, biceps & shoulders just arent a thing in my family lol. Never had a problem gaining weight, but cutting down leaves me feeling tired, hungry & prone to frequent sickness. Following a carnivore diet has really helped to stay lean without starving myself, but I really wish I had those "skinny" genetics.
@dtnuh
@dtnuh Год назад
This is a real thing and I'm glad it's being addressed!
@endor8witch
@endor8witch Год назад
cause men suffers. for decades women have but it was dismissed a lot. you know how it is when men suffers lol
@dtnuh
@dtnuh Год назад
@@endor8witch I do, I struggled myself!
@grizzlemc1662
@grizzlemc1662 5 месяцев назад
Jesus loves you and He cares.
@wb2605
@wb2605 Месяц назад
I think the focus should be on the obese epidemic in this country instead of all this body positivity bs
@dtnuh
@dtnuh Месяц назад
@@wb2605 Good on you
@Will-no6te
@Will-no6te 19 дней назад
At first I thought I had this, but as I kept hitting the gym I actually loved that I lost fat and gained muscle. Now I really love my physique, and I'm genuinely proud of what I accomplished.
@GG-mn9ls
@GG-mn9ls 28 дней назад
i was once in a similar trap and here’s what i learned… the world will think of you what it will. it’s none of your business.. get in touch with what you want. not what you imagine others want from you. you’ll eventually find people with the same values as you. i meet more women than i ever did when i was more muscular just by knowing who i am and being comfortable w it
@mickylawless1941
@mickylawless1941 24 дня назад
This is me. Since I've been a little boy, I've always felt less than. I'm a 64yo man, I am 5'8" and I weigh 185lbs . I have a 30-32 inch waist. But I only see myself as being fat skinny. I lift weights and I do a fair bit of cardio, plus I rock climb indoors and outdoors. I ride my bike and hike up in the mountains regularly. Plus I telemark ski and x-c ski. So I am fit and strong, but still, I struggle with my body image. I try to be sensitive and aware of those around me who may be dealing with their own body image issues. Instead of complaining about my body image, I try to be supportive to those around me. I did share with a female friend that I had body dysmorphia and she had the gall to say that men can't experience that. This video is validating. Thank you.
@mari-wp5nn
@mari-wp5nn Год назад
I’ m so happy that men are speaking freely . I’m a woman and I think that just like women should find the freedom of loving themselves men also have these right no matter what .
@TheSaltySpitoon69
@TheSaltySpitoon69 8 месяцев назад
If finding freedom in loving myself means I’ll be hideous and 300 pounds like these “body positivity” girls I think I’d rather deal with muscle dysmorphia
@raoulhayes196
@raoulhayes196 20 дней назад
Thank you for saying that
@maddzm1140
@maddzm1140 26 дней назад
Muscles give longevity, high testosterone, confidence, strength, good posture, female attention, male attention, respect, mobility, endurance in bed,etc..... a bit of dysmorphia from time to time ain't that bad
@JacqueCRISCOsd
@JacqueCRISCOsd 10 дней назад
I definitely think it’s spectrum. Where a little bit of dissatisfaction can lead to better physical and mental health.
@benpeterson7530
@benpeterson7530 4 дня назад
@@JacqueCRISCOsd I've thought before that most men that have a physique that is noticeably fit, and muscular (perhaps looks like they could be a male lead in a marvel movie as an example) after around their early 20s would likely be diagnosed with some sort of disorder. Perhaps an eating disorder, or a body image disorder. It is just a lot of work to have a body like that as an adult with responsibilities and an abundance of food. Humans are wired for survival in harsh conditions, most don't handle having food always available very well once their metabolism / activity levels go down usually in their mid 20s. I also wonder if there isn't a genetic component to it (obviously there is genetics to how people look, I mean more mental views and disorders). My dads side of the family is unusually fit. My 36 year old cousin (I am the same age) has 3 children, and she has visible abs, and vascular arms (she has been diagnosed and went to treatment for anorexia). My aunt who is early 60s is the same way, lean, vascular for a woman, and actually has visible abs. I have 4 cousins on my dad's side, and all are fit. I am very fit as well. I still have visible abs, and I've got a decent amount of muscle on me (enough to bench 405 lbs, and deadlift 600 lbs). I haven't been diagnosed, but food and exercise is something I am thinking about all the time. Always striving to look better. I think on my dad's side there is just a lot of drive to stay fit. Maybe it's genetic, maybe it was some sort of conditioning by one of my grandparents or something. Perhaps it is just easier for us, but I feel I put in a ton of work (I've been consistently training for around 15 years now). I don't think I've missed more than 2 weeks, and that was for vacationing. I feel bad if I miss my workouts. A bit guilty, but really, just more so depressed. I think perhaps exercise gives some people a larger "high" than others. I enjoy exercising. I look forward to it. I don't often have any temptation to skip, because I'd rather do that than most other things.
@JacqueCRISCOsd
@JacqueCRISCOsd 4 дня назад
@@benpeterson7530 I think it’s about assessing where that depression comes from. It sounds like you’re In ridiculous shape. If you skip a workout, are you bummed out because you loved working out or are you bummed out because you think you’re gonna lose your physique. And, Like I said, I think it’s a spectrum. Being self-conscious, and upset about losing your physique is fine. In my opinion. It’s fine to have a mild level of dissatisfaction. I think that when it becomes unhealthy Is when it Actually weighs on you. And then Potentially, if it’s an obsession. I think a lot of these guys with ridiculous physiques Miss out on life a little bit. Even if it doesnt hurt them mentally. Endless hours in the gym, constantly eating And meal prepping. But hey, everyone has their hobby, I suppose.
@txbre8758
@txbre8758 Год назад
I work out and bodybuild, I have been trying to sound the alarm on the rising prevalence of eating disorders and excessive working out in teenage boys and men whom are my age. Its not just women. The teenage boys are the ones I’m more concerned about. I see it in the gym. It scares me because they are destroying themselves at as young as 13.
@DeanLion-pi7bj
@DeanLion-pi7bj Год назад
Every normal man loves, wants, needs to have a normal strong male body! Body builders are sick if you ask me, that's not a normal body! But strong toned muscles, normally built people are healthy and attractive to women, which is one of the main reasons why us normal men feel confident! Being overweight is unfortunately a big problem for your health and you are simply unattractive! I'm also looking at female models today, most of them are anorexic! There is no normal golden mean, you are either extremely fat or extremely thin!
@txbre8758
@txbre8758 Год назад
@@DeanLion-pi7bj That’s a very good analysis. I have a lot more weight to lose (I’m down 35 pounds) but what I’ve seen can be sickening.
@DeanLion-pi7bj
@DeanLion-pi7bj Год назад
@@txbre8758 How old you, Weight,tall?
@DeanLion-pi7bj
@DeanLion-pi7bj Год назад
@@txbre8758 Copy for you what I wrote on different video about losing fat! " From my experience, you can exercise every day for hours, you can walk a million miles, you won't lose weight if you eat a lot! No, it's not important what you eat, but how much you eat, so the most important thing is the portion! If you have a normal portion, then together with exercise you will lose fat and weight! So eat five or six times a day, but not a lot! Eat one piece of pizza, not three! Eat one banana, not three! one big scoop of ice cream, not a full plate, etc.."
@SpinDoc420
@SpinDoc420 Год назад
@@DeanLion-pi7bj for you, perhaps, this is true.. but i didn't get rid of the extra lbs from my youth until i hit my 40's and the job changed the metabolism and the pounds melted and yes, it has been awesome... but the exta pounds NEVER got in the way to some amazing women in my life, most being someone you apparently think are turned off but a few extra pounds...perhaps you havent experienced enough to have a more accurate look on it or it may be the circles you choose... again, not meant as an attack, but i do think you are wrong...
@badbabybear1
@badbabybear1 Месяц назад
I've struggled with this before and have slowly grown to accept my body as it is (I'm in shape but skinny). Glad this is getting more awareness.
@BathSaltBadger
@BathSaltBadger Месяц назад
see the problem is you'll never be as big as your pump
@noahtenshen
@noahtenshen Год назад
"...that progression has to be the foundation of happiness." That means if you find yourself unable to progressively get stronger for a plethora of reasons, your foundation for and ability to obtain happiness is gone. How sad. This is a set up for future depression because try as you might, it will not last forever. Happiness should not be tied to strength or image. Being alive is a great foundation for happiness. The rest is gravy on the ride and you don't stop eating because you have less gravy.
@BarrettBiggers
@BarrettBiggers 15 дней назад
When overweight people call you skinny and smirk and seem to think they are "complimenting" you because everyone is trying to LOSE weight but you are trying to gain weight...What they fail to talk about is how genetics can be a major roadblock and contribute to over worrying about appearances. Some men are just born with extremely thin builds (ectomorphs) and very long frames and struggle to gain noticeable muscle mass (despite being strong and working out all the time) and that really makes it more likely to be feeling like all the other men are bigger than you. Even if being thin is actually your "healthy weight" sadly our society makes you feel it doesn't matter it's all about how muscular you look in order to get looks, respect and validation. Plus most people are literally larger than they used to be (either overweight or jacked). It's not easy to be a tall slender or thin man today.
@WilliamPayneNZ
@WilliamPayneNZ 3 месяца назад
This is the part of gym training I can’t relate to. I have been seriously training since January and am at the gym 4 days a week. I couldn’t care less what anyone else thinks. I train to be the best I can be and to push myself. Training for me is control. Nobody is in my way. Nobody is holding me back. All success or failure is on me and I love that.
@Juggernaut-fg2up
@Juggernaut-fg2up 29 дней назад
100% the same thing I've always said unlike team sports it's all on you both in failure and victory. Welcome to the lifestyle, I think I started training seriously in September 1994. Training has improved my life and saved my life many times, it's my hobby, therapist and best friend. It also allowed me to pay my bills for 30 years
@darkcadence938
@darkcadence938 6 месяцев назад
I have body dysmorphia and its pure hell, you even hallucinate and see you're face deformed..
@fuzzypanda1684
@fuzzypanda1684 18 дней назад
We're constantly told that women are the ones who are expected to look a certain way, but at the same time the fat acceptance movement has made women who are massively overweight think they're 10's, and anyone who dares criticize a woman's body, or any man who dares to prefer thin, fit women, is demonized. But men get the opposite treatment. We're told that we have to be 6' tall, with 6 pack abs, make 6 figures, be confident and charismatic etc. to be attractive. And no one demonizes a woman for saying she wants a man who fits that description. With this wildly skewed standard, it's no wonder men suffer from body dysmorphia. As a man who's been a gym rat for over a decade, most of my adult life has been spent in various levels of it.
@CrimsonRose29
@CrimsonRose29 13 дней назад
I have body dysmorphia but it causes anorexia and I starve myself to appear as small as possible and I see myself as bigger than I am. It’s pure torture.
@NebosvodGonzalez
@NebosvodGonzalez 13 дней назад
Me being more scrawny than a stick bug is thinking yeah I don't think I have a mental problem I think I'm just weak. Lol.
@Turtleface869
@Turtleface869 21 день назад
You don’t look in the mirror more than 10 seconds or the stress of years of work will kill your gains. I don’t think I’m dysmorphic but I shame myself to motivate. The benefits are more than looks. Every month I get more of my life back. Today I realized my voice started sounding the same as it did when I was 19 / 20. My task processing speed has increased. I’ve come a long way. I play basketball with young men and they are faster but I keep up and still put up my fair share of points. I’d rather have a healthy body than a nice car. When rent went sky high I sold my Audi and went back to my beater car so I don’t have to buy cheaper food. When it becomes a problem is when the success rate starts accelerating and you end up pushing too hard and getting severely fatigued. You have to learn to contain your energy. More powerful emotions are the biggest reward so I like practicing reading people and studying behavior particularly romance. I refuse to date. I don’t have non productive hobbies and I really enjoy it. Love to love but I’m staying single because honestly I give up too much time in relationships. It’s not just my physique I’m taking masters level courses. The point is I need the negativity to keep going. It’s a sad fact of reality that being impressive pays you back more than your inherent value.
@bent8260
@bent8260 Год назад
Thank you so much for such a wonderful, informative and enlightening video!
@esoteric3242
@esoteric3242 Год назад
Nothing the msm tells us is true!
@acebasher1st360
@acebasher1st360 8 месяцев назад
2-3% is a vast understatement
@nithinravi4401
@nithinravi4401 28 дней назад
💯
@User-27559
@User-27559 7 часов назад
I keep on feeling like I’m not doing well enough but then after my gym session I usually get compliments from people and yet they don’t feel true…
@garrettq1977
@garrettq1977 Год назад
This is just as serious as an eating disorder. Not recognized, however, because the end goal is healthy. It is an addiction that can consume time and destroy a person's personality. It adds stress to their life and surrounds them with people that enable and enforce their addiction. A socially accepted form of exhibitionism can be formed, which can do further damage to their personality.
@1impetuousfiend
@1impetuousfiend Год назад
I would argue a lot of these men have eating disorders. I've seen how some guys at work eat, and all I can think is "why does that home prep meal look like something an anorexic 16 year old girl trying to stay thin would eat".
@foreva_89
@foreva_89 Год назад
I think it's just extremely low self esteem. I've been a skinny lanky dude all my life.
@scott2228
@scott2228 17 дней назад
I’m in great shape but have suffered from this my entire life. My childhood friend was genetically gifted. But I was too young to understand genetics. So I killed myself in the gym. Now at 47 I’m riddled with injuries. Great shape for my age but would push even harder if I could. I love lifting heavy weights. But my joints hate me for it.
@ladybird491
@ladybird491 2 месяца назад
I am a female and going through this. I was always super fit in my 30s and longer and now in my 40s i am kinda going through it with the body one
@CreeceMarquis
@CreeceMarquis 5 месяцев назад
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢 This is so real!!! Sometimes it takes me 30 minutes to get ready because the smallest hint of fat on my stomach makes me feel anxious. Sometimes I turn down hanging with friends... even being a certified personal trainer doesn't help.
@Truth-of-the-matter
@Truth-of-the-matter 3 месяца назад
I've always felt that toned is more advantageous then a muscular build. Most men don't need the muscular builds considering our work doesn't require that type of body. We should be promoting healthy eating first and having a strong core vs having a huge body.
@mikebarnes1239
@mikebarnes1239 29 дней назад
Thank you for talking about this! I didn't realise until I asked a personal trainer why he avoided the mirrors all the time. He said because he saw himself as this fat/skinny nerd and hated looking at himself. Yet, he looks like a Greek God
@josuefbonilla1197
@josuefbonilla1197 Месяц назад
This is very nice to see and view on this awareness.
@blizzyblaze9735
@blizzyblaze9735 27 дней назад
Bro body dysmorphia is definitely REAL
@stevezelaznik5872
@stevezelaznik5872 12 дней назад
The dilemma is that romantic prospects treat toned and fit people way better than weak, fat, and flabby folks. It’s not dysmorphia if you’re noticing a real change in how other people treat you. With anybody this thing can become an obsession.
@bfreemusic5545
@bfreemusic5545 3 месяца назад
I started working out a long time before body dysmorphia was even a thing....and 17 years later i still work out. Not because im vain and want to be big but because it helps with my mental health and being that im insomniac it helps me sleep at night. Now im 16st + (103kg) of solid natural muscle but go through stages of feeling fat or even to skinny at times, whilst everybody around me says i look great🤷🏽‍♂️body dysmorphia is definitely real but it wont drive me to an unhealthy way of living (steroids, sarms) Its the younger generation that suffer the most now being that everybody on social media is jacked, but what the younger generation don't realise is none of them are natural!!! Everybody wants to look like sam sulek (juiced up) these days but doesn't want to put the hard work in for 20 years naturally to develop that look, they would rather do a few cycles of steroids and gain it in 1 year unaware of the consequences🤷🏽‍♂️
@Duxelles84
@Duxelles84 Месяц назад
Straight Facts.
@xdproductions3087
@xdproductions3087 27 дней назад
No one is getting to look like Sam Sulek without steroids.
@jesperpetersen636
@jesperpetersen636 Месяц назад
I have had this since i was a teen. Now i focus everyday on what i am able to do instead of what i look like. This works. But i had to realize and accept that i had muscle dysmorphia to be able to move on🙏🏻❤️💪
@Pipiglande
@Pipiglande 19 дней назад
Every single body builder has this because they only work based on aesthetic, not health. You want to saw wow that's discipline but I say oh that's a mental health issue.
@alexDumont2020
@alexDumont2020 19 дней назад
Why do ppl think respect and admiration should come out of nothing? Is it better to feel good about yourself the way you are instead of putting on work to improve?
@h.l.6156
@h.l.6156 Год назад
I've been saying this over and over but sometimes these gym guys who criticize people for not working out or think the gym is the end all be all of health and wellness sound exactly like the anorexic girls I followed on tumblr. The way they talk, the way they think about themselves, the way they are unwilling to be vulnerable because it will project that they are not in control.....its all the same
@DarthTalon66
@DarthTalon66 8 месяцев назад
Anorexic and on the verge of dying isn’t the same as this at all. I get this too and feel small even though I’ve been going to the gym for almost 3 years. I know I’m not small but when I look in the mirror I don’t always see that. I’m not binge eating or doing anything crazy. It’s just something that comes with it.
@h.l.6156
@h.l.6156 8 месяцев назад
@@DarthTalon66 notice how I didn't say on the verge of death anywhere in my comment because not every anorexic person is on the verge of death. I'm talking about the "discipline", body dysmorphia, judgement of others who are not in the same situation as them and constant comparison of themselves with ideals. I'm personally talking about the extremeness of it all. Your less intense experience doesn't negate the fact that certain "gym bros" still literally sound like anorexic tumblr girls when they talk about their fitness journey.
@DarthTalon66
@DarthTalon66 8 месяцев назад
@@h.l.6156 oh so promoting a healthy lifestyle isn’t ideal for you.
@h.l.6156
@h.l.6156 8 месяцев назад
@@DarthTalon66 idk if youre just not reading my comments fully but clearly you are taking my criticism of the unhealthy extreme side of fitness/ orthorexia/ body dysmorphia personally so i would suggest you seek out therapy
@allahakbar59
@allahakbar59 24 дня назад
​@h.l.6156 M en being vulnerable and w omen being vulnerable are two very different things. Can't believe it even has to be pointed out.
@CogitoErgoSum2024
@CogitoErgoSum2024 Месяц назад
Cause everyone and their dog is on drugs or “trt”, and it isn’t an even playing field. It’s sad
@phalcata572
@phalcata572 27 дней назад
Men are meant to work. If we can’t get jobs, we’ll workout. It’s in our nature.
@Piccolo_Re
@Piccolo_Re 21 день назад
I’d like to dig into stats on how many body builders are dying before their 50s or 60s. I’d say a lot all because of steroid use, TRT, HCG, HGH, etc. Too many people taking roids and PEDs today.
@eugenyyy3053
@eugenyyy3053 5 дней назад
I went to the gym and started running. Got shredded. Not as extreme as some of the fitness influencers, but good enough. Feeling amazing. Most people will feel much better if they lose some body fat and get fitter. This video is about 2% only.
@andythenpc
@andythenpc Год назад
I feel me and MyCock share similar issues.
@baronmeduse
@baronmeduse 16 дней назад
He could have just changed his name by deed poll.
@winteru4159
@winteru4159 20 часов назад
The grind never stops!!!! 🔥🔥
@matineyang
@matineyang Месяц назад
2-3% of the general population vs 40% of the adult US population being obese? Yeah muscle dismorphia doesn’t seem to be as much of a crisis.
@tlamelokgosimalebe3119
@tlamelokgosimalebe3119 29 дней назад
The word obese comes from the World health organization..it was created in order to market anabolical substancea or steroids and weight loss products The companies selling the latter is a billionaire franchise. The world health organization also has some ties to companies that also sell junk foods.
@ResistanceQuest
@ResistanceQuest 24 дня назад
2% of 330,000,000 people is 6,600,000 people. So, like, maybe it does matter?
@Jj-mu6hg
@Jj-mu6hg Месяц назад
Nope this ain’t changing me I’m hitting the gym harder tomorrow 🤣🤣🤣
@CashflowMeDaddy
@CashflowMeDaddy Месяц назад
Look, people, I'm one of those guys that work out all the time. I say this. I'd rather have muscle dysmorphia than being obese.
@Eric.Fitness
@Eric.Fitness Месяц назад
Facts
@aroundandround
@aroundandround 13 дней назад
The focus on size never made sense to me. Human body aesthetics are largely driven by shape, not size (unless you are so skinny or obese so as to be shapeless).
@nickolaslincoln558
@nickolaslincoln558 Месяц назад
It's awesome to see this video. 😢 To know there's other men suffering, too, means a lot. The gym has become a drug, and I feel fat and ugly every day i don't get to it. This has a lot to do with modern women's standards. Our grandfathers and fathers weren't obsessed with building muscle and being lean because they could actually buy houses and provide for a woman. Nowadays, men are all broke from inflation. Looking good is all we have to catch a woman's interest.
@mikeshafer
@mikeshafer 15 дней назад
100%. The difference I get with women from being in good shape versus not is night and day.
@tylergnosis2581
@tylergnosis2581 Месяц назад
This hit very close to home
@Okgeneric
@Okgeneric Месяц назад
this type of thinking has made me SO INSECURE about having a nice body. literally every day i have to wake up and performatively show the world that i'm not insecure about my body by literally covering up my body....its so weird imo. otherwise if i work out in the park without my shirt on people will act like im trying to do some big flex as if im trying to prove to them that im a man....its so like lolwtf. and so literally everything is a sign that you are insecure, as if my insecurity is derived from me thinking that other people dont think that im a man, this is not the case at all, i dont care at all really if they think im a man or not, what i care about is them believing that im treating myself with care and positivity because im trying to "show off", "flex" or be "dominant" or something. its easier to just hide your body so people dont judge you than trying to mentally overcome the idea that selfcare = insecurity
@rafaelquinones222
@rafaelquinones222 Год назад
Got opposite issue left 5 times & checking myself in mirror think, damn, damn I look good.
@cogitoergosum9069
@cogitoergosum9069 Год назад
Well, I'm happy for you! It sounds like you have a positive relationship with your body, kudos!
@agibson0826
@agibson0826 21 день назад
We’re always trying to chase are pump haha and are pump will always get bigger. It’s a never ending game 😂
@NeanderthalNatty
@NeanderthalNatty 27 дней назад
Most guys that think they are small are right...most guys that think they are big are wrong. Use objective standards to know what you are.
@leobethge6002
@leobethge6002 4 месяца назад
Yes, I want to be ripped in my shirt, but I also want good mental health and reduction of PTSD. I keep this in focus. Be good to yourself!
@Joe-xj2tb
@Joe-xj2tb 29 дней назад
I've had this problem, I was 120lbs in 98 when I started working offshore drilling, I made it to 165lbs four years later and went back down to 155lbs and that's where I e stayed it doesn't matter what I eat or how I work out I simply cannot gain weight muscle nor fat!! I HATE THIS KAGE IM TRAPPED IN!!
@theguy4615
@theguy4615 28 дней назад
I'm the same. Your body has a certain set point, it's very difficult to change that. Accept it and make the best of it.
@FlippedSociety
@FlippedSociety 28 дней назад
Swole is the goal. Size is the prize. 💪💪
@DS-Slug
@DS-Slug 27 дней назад
God damn right brother 🤙
@AD-jc9sj
@AD-jc9sj 6 месяцев назад
I have this, I’m tall and I train my legs so hard but they just don’t look big, it makes me so mad :(
@adamk4733
@adamk4733 20 дней назад
Wear pants bro
@jorad4887
@jorad4887 29 дней назад
I used to think in my 20s that I had a physique problem, waste was 28 and thought I needed liposuction until one of my friends told me the magazine's body builders and models use air brush to make them look ideal, this was at an age where Adobe and RU-vid wasn't around yet, after he said that I did everything naturally
@user-bc6ll5mt4j
@user-bc6ll5mt4j Год назад
The man in the thumbnail could have avoided those muscular imbalances if he listened to Athlean-x.
@robertmarley8852
@robertmarley8852 Год назад
Muscular imbalance is real. When we are in kindergarten they don't encourage us to use both hands to write ... Why is that? We are all ambidextrous
@rubenluna7865
@rubenluna7865 Месяц назад
Do you mean the guy who eats one slice of carrot cake a year because he can get fat?
@tammyc2852
@tammyc2852 Год назад
Extreme is how many hours their putting in on a daily, consuming their world
@Mr.aAdDies
@Mr.aAdDies Месяц назад
Ooook I’m self-diagnosing myself with this now😅
@muscleboystud5291
@muscleboystud5291 26 дней назад
Great video
@Lucysil1970
@Lucysil1970 Год назад
I don’t see many people with this disorder. Most guys seem fine with looking sloppy and fat.
@jamesjacksoniii2400
@jamesjacksoniii2400 Год назад
It's with us men that workout. Like we could look like our body's been chiseled out of marble but it's still never enough.
@marianna1513
@marianna1513 Год назад
You play a reason as to why men think like they do. You're going to call guys sloppy and fat. Put a picture up of yourself.
@ethanwiles1798
@ethanwiles1798 3 месяца назад
@@jamesjacksoniii2400 weak mentality, you care way too much about what you on the outside, the only muscle you should ever be training is your heart
@jamesjacksoniii2400
@jamesjacksoniii2400 3 месяца назад
@@ethanwiles1798 I feel like the heart goes hand and hand with lifting weights. Even some people that do cardio and "workout their hearts" still have heart attacks and heart failure.
@ethanwiles1798
@ethanwiles1798 3 месяца назад
@@jamesjacksoniii2400 well anyone can get heart attacks regardless of fitness levels, but whats the point being big and buff if you cant even do basic cardio or endurance training?
@kylenelson3128
@kylenelson3128 Месяц назад
I have the opposite of muscle dysmorphia. I see myself a lot more in shape than I actually am and my wife reminds me of this all the time
@Informant_is_back
@Informant_is_back 6 месяцев назад
7:10 His thinking the brain is a muscle is a metaphor in itself.
@ResistanceQuest
@ResistanceQuest 24 дня назад
When he mentioned the tongue, I thew up a little
@Juggernaut-fg2up
@Juggernaut-fg2up 29 дней назад
I have severe muscle dysmorphia which i use to hate but i can say at 51 it saved my life more than once. I wouldn't be here right now if it werent for my dysmorphia. Let me add that it also allowed me to pay my bills most of my life
@adamk4733
@adamk4733 20 дней назад
G4P?
@michaelderenne9838
@michaelderenne9838 5 месяцев назад
The actor guy was in shape but no where near a big guy
@DomViktor
@DomViktor 21 день назад
I’m not shredded by any means but I like the look of my body in the morning. At the same time I see guys way more muscular than me post themselves online and get absolutely torn apart by the comment section. I think social media does play a big part into this body dysmorphia issue as well.
@Gregski3
@Gregski3 29 дней назад
"In order to be desired by females I had to look good..." yeah no shid😂😂😂
@JamminJ-xe2bd
@JamminJ-xe2bd 20 дней назад
Social media makes this worse , every guy on there has perfect abs , chest arms etc. makes you feel like you have to keep up.
@DJstorxm
@DJstorxm 2 месяца назад
For anyone struggling with this, please seek help its a similar disorder to that of an eating disorder and might develop into one please don’t normalize being “toned” or “aesthetic”!!
@philmikehunt9664
@philmikehunt9664 3 месяца назад
Legalize cannabis federally
@aroundandround
@aroundandround 13 дней назад
This seems like a particularly American male problem. In most of the rest of the world, there just isn’t as much pressure on men to be buff.
@tonydryden5277
@tonydryden5277 Месяц назад
Thats why Dragon Ball Z was popular, we all want to get swole just by getting mad.
@josephrocha142
@josephrocha142 21 день назад
Enjoy your young, healthy body no matter what. It's a gift! In an instant it can be taken from you. Be greatful for today. Tomorrow is not guaranteed.
@likewise4Gaming
@likewise4Gaming 22 дня назад
Body dysmorphia is actually horrible. Ironically I never had it when I was overweight and out of shape. But now that I have got back into shape, I have it pretty bad.
@bobbob-vw4cc
@bobbob-vw4cc 20 дней назад
b/c you see things you can improve on. it's not dysmorphia. If it was bad you wouldn't have your body as your image profile. lol
@ctestare2625
@ctestare2625 25 дней назад
A wise man once said “I say never be complete, I say stop being perfect, I say let... lets evolve, let the chips fall where they may”
@thefreshprinceofnohair9703
@thefreshprinceofnohair9703 Год назад
The difference between men and women is muscle.
@jiujitsujim
@jiujitsujim Год назад
No one admitted to steroids..lol😅😅
@danieldelacruz7305
@danieldelacruz7305 9 дней назад
They ungrateful being that in shape is awesome and they should be grateful because it doesn’t last in their older age
@Bouncingballwilly
@Bouncingballwilly Месяц назад
I think the dysmorphia comes from looking at yourself too much, and one will tend to look at themselves a lot after they’re seeing the sort of results they’ve been seeking. Seeing those results often times leads to vanity and obsession.
@defenderofdemocracy2231
@defenderofdemocracy2231 18 дней назад
The US military can discriminate against unfit people. It’s okay to set image goals for men. It’s healthy for their body, we just need to focus on good mental health as we push our male population to be more fit.
@Demareeem
@Demareeem 23 дня назад
I would feel small until I stood next to people who I saw as muscular and made them look small next to me
@Booster85
@Booster85 Месяц назад
Comparison is the thief of joy
@Me_Caveman
@Me_Caveman Месяц назад
I have the opposite problem.
@bobbobertson7568
@bobbobertson7568 21 день назад
If you look like this, and you have this issue, it means you need to develop other interests, skills. Your whole "identity" shouldn't be wrapped up in being a boy toy or eye candy for some ingrate.
@mrbobo86
@mrbobo86 Год назад
There's nothing wrong with wanting to look good
@witchingbrew3
@witchingbrew3 Год назад
Okay but this is about how that can get out of control. The dysphoria is almost like anorexia and/or bulimia, where no target or goal is ever enough. This is basically bringing awareness that MEN have physical insecurities as well. Eating disorders or work out bulimia, and muscle dysphoria.
@DarthTalon66
@DarthTalon66 8 месяцев назад
@@witchingbrew3body dysmorphia at most
@anakatana777
@anakatana777 6 месяцев назад
But there is definitely something wrong with distorting your image whenever you look at a mirror.
@EbonySaints
@EbonySaints 4 месяца назад
True, but body dysmorphia is the epitome of, "The perfect is the enemy of the good."
@allahakbar59
@allahakbar59 24 дня назад
​@@anakatana777Do you have the same energy for gender dysphoria?
@bobbob-vw4cc
@bobbob-vw4cc 20 дней назад
5'8 lift weights 200lbs 5'8 lift weights 150 lbs help me choose, boys.
@silviashefa4097
@silviashefa4097 Год назад
What Are You Afraid of and Why? I am afraid of nothing anymore. In the past, I was afraid not having enough time to complete everything that I wanted to in life. That passed a long time ago though. What is there to fear? If we would see the truth, then we would have no fear of anything at all, because we would then see that we are in the hands of the good and benevolent upper force. Also, we would see that we have no control over our lives, and we thus have nothing to fear. In short, we have nothing to be afraid of.
@SUGAR_XYLER
@SUGAR_XYLER Год назад
True, we have no control over our life, so yeah I don't worry about it. Nothing makes sense in this world anyway 🌎
@meghan42
@meghan42 Год назад
Jiddhu Krishnamurti's essay on "Fear" is well worth the read.
@MrProcrastinator007
@MrProcrastinator007 28 дней назад
I found this interesting, but am totally irked that the guy at the end said he thinks the brain is a muscle. Too much time hitting the weights instead of the books I suppose. 😂
@skyking6989
@skyking6989 Год назад
Hell i know im suffering. I wish i was bigger i swear im going bald (im really not) i hate the way i look i wish i was taller etc etc
@Allen-a-tor
@Allen-a-tor 22 дня назад
I’m 60 yrs old, started working out when I was around 12yrs old. I know some of you will not understand what I’m about to say, but…..starting to workout in my younger years, playing sports and living for Jesus ( yes, I said living for Jesus) kept me out of trouble.
@TheMikeguy7776
@TheMikeguy7776 15 дней назад
Good. Struggle. Work harder Men should feel this way.
@nicholasaird8420
@nicholasaird8420 21 день назад
My gym is literally 100% full of guys like this , except me of course 😏
@Lukeanthony82
@Lukeanthony82 26 дней назад
Good vid!👏🏾 Thats why the key to wellness is [believing the right things] (life-giving thoughts) about yourself based on Gods Love of u. Have a good heart towards yourself and others. Exercise for fitness and let muscles be the result 💯🤙🏾 "There's [no muscle] that can change insecurities"
@Lukeanthony82
@Lukeanthony82 26 дней назад
I speak as someone who struggles at times too seeing "skinny muscle" at 188-190 or hard receiving compliments of "looking big". My value is in who I am as a person w/o the muscles.
@Mikgwerd
@Mikgwerd 4 месяца назад
*Jack Hanma enters the chat
@paulreynolds2569
@paulreynolds2569 29 дней назад
It's too bad that discussing the real benefits of increasing muscle mass thru PROPER training are being sidelined in this report. We need to get back to basics on why keeping strong and fit are so important in the functioning of our daily lives and how being more fit will beneficial in so many other ways, mentally and physically.
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