If you talk to a kid calm these days they will try they best to run over you... My mom talked to us like that and I realized why she did it.. She wanted what was best for us, if she didn't hell the police and everybody else would... I appreciate all of the rough discipline she gave us... Some of these 2000's kids are a different breed, they don't care about nothing.. I know some ppl won't agree but you can't judge if you have never been in that situation.. I lived it first hand I have 5 daughters and I go through it also, just last week my child thought she was grown and I put her back in her place.. Don't no child run me I run the child... Tough love is a must sometimes, first thing first you can't be your child's friend.. That's when they run over you and say what they want to, and what are you going to do???
Maybe it was just me, but when she threw those tissues as an example of what he did & she didn’t go pick them back up really annoyed the hell outta me. 😂
If your child is ADDING ON to your problems. THEN IT'S A PROBLEM. She ditching school KNOWING her Mom can go to jail. I'm not going to jail for NOBODY. CPS come to my house. She can go with them PERIOD.
@@khalil6307that’s sick as hell to say. If this lady was on her shit she wouldn’t have these problems at all. When you have kids that’s suppose to make you wona go harder.
@@khalil6307you do realize this child was raised by the mother right? You do know kids mimic and repeat what they hear and see, not what you tell them. You do know the momma laid down and made the daughter, right? You do know the momma is the problem, right? You do see the momma is irresponsible, immature and cold as hell to her daughter, right? You did watch the ENTIRE video and hear how she’s calling her daughter names? This momma hates this girl and hates that she can’t control her like her own momma controlled her…. The way you think makes me know you’re JUST like her. Blame everyone else for your own actions and your own bad decisions and lack of parenting skills
I didn't hear mom blaming the daughter for adult problems.I heard her explaining that the behavior of her daughter is adding to the already problems. Not going to school and trying to date at 14. Last thing people need is CPS in the life because you skipping school. That's a choice.
Wow!!! I know a lot of people are gonna jump down the mom’s throat, but I feel her pain. The mom is hurting a lot and so is the daughter. Prayers to both🙏🏾
Omg I went thru hell with my daughter,she from my previous marriage, destroyed my new marriage ,2 years she passed away,I take care of her daughter,I feel dis mother's pain ,pls God help the mum😢
Raising a child isn’t easy. I hope people look beyond all the negatives and learn the lesson. Folks need to breath, think and get help. I hope more young folks are helped with skills to think down the road and make positive choices.
I am definitely crying for that mother.... I am in her position right now with finances and housing. I thank God everyday for my 16 yr old son. He is a God send!!!! Helps so much with my other 3. I tell him everyday what he means to me!!!!
Our problems are NOT our kids problems....period. Financial issues has nothing to do with calling your child out their name, cursing at them like an ish on the street, lower their self-esteem, saying their unwanted. She can talk to her child about their issues and LOVE AND POUR into her, not deplete her. I'm a tired single mother too, but we owe it to our chuldren to NOT be THAT.
I have no sympathy for the mother ..first of all she has no respect or empathy for her daughter, secondly her financial troubles and housing issues have nothing to do with her daughter if she has multiple evictions and bad credit that’s on her …it’s always give single mothers empathy when they have yet to give their child(ern) grace and understanding.
I can’t feel bad for a mother who’s admitted to calling her daughter out of her name because she as mother cant deal with her daughter’s feelings, calling other kids out of their names , not giving her daughter stability (and blaming her for it ) and to top it off the way the mother glares at her daughter it seems like she doesn’t like or even want her daughter around her !
I have no sympathy for a parent who regrets being a parent and treats their child terribly, demeans their child , and try’s to paint themselves as the victim when they’re in situation that they’re in because of their actions! The mom dosent deserve grace because she hasn’t did anything besides traumatize her child.
Your so on point with this comment. My mother used to look at me that same way, blaming me because she couldn’t do what she wanted to, and taking her anger out on me like I asked to be here and deserve to pay for her immature mistakes. She even kicked me out at 17 so MY boyfriend could live with HER(he was already staying with us and I wanted to break up with him) Anyways I never seen her since. I feel for the little girl in this story , our stories are similar except I used to get beat badly for doing basically nothing. I tried to commit suicide at 14 years old 3 different times and one time I was in critical condition, so situations like this need to be taken seriously. Luckily for me I was admitted into a psychiatric hospital and given years of therapy so now I’m better than I ever been and away from the toxicity, but think about the little girls without a therapist, and no love.
The mom is rough around the edges, but I feel her pain. She is struggling, but she is expecting her daughter to handle adult struggles like a mature adult, and the daughter is not capable and shouldn't be penalized for it. The daughter wants to be a child and live the life of one but can't. They can't handle their emotions, and life is continually dumping on them. The mom needs some support, training, and a new start. I'm glad Karamo is proposing to help. The daughter needs a huge boost in self-esteem. She could model or get involved in activities that will propel her forward in a positive way.
This is a spot on comment. The mom is expecting her daughter to have everything figured out and be this perfect teen, when none of us were perfect as a teenager. She wants her to be an adult because she is struggling and trying to provide. She is not giving her daughter grace. She is only 14! What adults need to understand, you're still trying to figure out your life, why do you think a child is going to have it all the way figured out.
This was such a good way to say this! The fact that she said it would be better if she were a boy means (to me) she would have given more grace and have more leeway. She didn’t get help when she did what she did so she thinks her daughter shouldn’t get any. She is a mirror to her mom and her mother hates what she sees. 😢
If she was in the right environment she would thrive as a teen. Life is hard for her mom and it's trickling down to her daughter. They are all each other have. The daughter wants security and safety and it doesn't seem mom has ever had that for her.
I'm trying to understand this because he is making no sense. He keeps saying they weren't together but she's cheating? But he opened with the fact that HE was sleeping with other people? He is walking himself in circles.
Some people don't realize the stress that single mothers have to go through. They have to survive and be resourceful in order to feed, clothe, and provide shelter for a child or children. This woman seems kind of broken from the stress. Hope that the mother and daughter find peace.
We all handle stress differently. This mom is so broken and stressed. Plus, with everything going on, this young girl is of child bearing age, and it was stated she had a boyfriend,another stressor, mom is drowning and has forgotten she knows how to swim! I feel her pain.
That dosent excuse the mother for her terrible behavior 🤷🏽♀️ Mothers don’t realize how words impact their children, how their actions impact their kids , how blaming their struggles on their kids , if you’re a single parent and your stress you don’t have the right to take out your anger on your kids! It’s doesn’t matter .
It still does not give her the right to take it out on a child, This girl is hurting because of her parenting lack of as well. They both have an attitude Problem.
She is not a good kid 😂. First she old enough to have a part time job to take care of some things she wants. Like getting her own hair done instead of missing 10 days of school.
14 yrs old is a freshmen in high school most likely. I had a part time at that time. Most grocery stores hire at 14. If missing school for 10 days bc her hair isn’t done she needs to baby sit or something for a few bucks. It was just an excuse for her to miss school and have sex. Bad kid!!!
Tokyo Toni seems jealous of her daughter and feels like she owes her something. This lady just needs to learn how to talk to her daughter and control her temper
I totally felt that mom's pain!! Especially when her daughter skipped school & she got penalized & had to pay money that was for the bills. I'm a single mom too & have no support system or village either. Been there for everyone but got hurt in 2 car accidents & no one was there for me. I still went to work hurt to provide for my 2 teens. It's been very stressful but you have to lean on your faith & go within & dig deeper to pull through. Realize no one is obligated to help & you need to figure out how to save yourself. I pray they can fix their relationship & work together & thrive. Maybe some counseling would help. 🙏🏾🙏🏾💕
I hope the mom and daughter were able to reconcile and do right by each other... Karamo is a great listener and always give great advice... I watch his show every chance I get
Never degrade your child period. The word states parents do not bring your children to shame, wrath, etc... I pray for both of them that God mends their relationship.. 😢😢
The mother for the first segment is very problematic… and the fact she felt having a boy would be easier is the problem with the community now… thinking you can be lenient on a boy and him not having any guidance is why there are so many who lack the discipline and behaving better..
I don’t understand why people think it’s ok for a boy to run wild when they’re chasing someone’s daughter. Make it make sense. Responsibility is needed for parents of boys and girls.
#1 Raising children is not for the weak. I didn't like the mom's language in public, BUT I liked that she was transparent and stood on her truth. I heard and felt everything she said. Sometimes emotions get the best of us, and we can't express those feelings, on top of being frustrated with life. I have a son and daughter, and when I had my 3rd child, I prayed for another boy. No, it's not easier, but it is different. Especially once they hit puberty, and a girl start her menstrual. Hormones can be a factor in behavior. I'm sure that was the quietest the daughter has ever been. She tried to make her mom appear delusional. Like I said, I have a 17yr old daughter. She will continuously poke the bear with ignoring me, attitude, sarcastic remarks, eye rolling, not following directions, or completing chores. When the volcano erupts, she's standing back like she didn't do anything...smhlol Ima pray for them and myself 🫶🏼
@sharond642 because for so long society told us boys will be boys and men will be men. Essentially saying men and boys behave a certain way by nature, so we really can't expect better. Instead of telling little boys and men "ur actions are problematic and u need to fix it". But as soon as a little girl or woman does something we hold their feet to the fire. We tell them when they're wrong. Which is a narrative we have to change.
@@nicolesmith583 so basically you don’t have to give as much emotional support and energy to the boy….. got it… boys till have emotions at that time, which is what I was referring to, but parents aren’t there to give that emotional support to the boy… then we wonder why there are so many men who lack emotional intelligence and how to deal with their emotions… sorry but this is apart of the problem
Sheesh! The mom is so aggressive, dear Lord. I’m sure it’s based on her own experience, but I can see why the daughter would feel the need to meet her where she’s at, I.e. defend herself, “buck” at the mom, etc.
She LITERALLY talks to the daughter like she’s someone off the street! Talks to her like “an opp,” “enemy,” etc. She is 100% a product of her environment.
Momma has so much up against her and it's not helping that baby girl is rebelling. I wish they could step back and see what the other is going through so they could get through this rough patch together. They only have each other 😢 I really hope they can get to a better place.
This is the first sensible response I have read! People are so quick to judge however unless you are in this situation you can’t judge. You never know other people’s story, it’s sickening how are these other people respond instead of seeing what they can do to help in other situations like this maybe in their community. However everyone has an opinion that doesn’t help anyone!!
Agreed. He's feisty. He had rights to be suspicious though, clearly 😂 Unfortunately with him, he thinks trying to limit her access and control her access to men will fix things and it never will. Once someone cheats it's either leave or forgive and move forward.. however that trust will never ever be fully there. I understand why he's feeling that way. Though part of his logic about the breakup is ridiculous lol
That Mom is hurting her daughter with her own issues. She said she’s drowning, but your drowning from your own past where you didn’t work hard to pick up the pieces fast enough and now you’re making your daughter drown. Karamo can pay for her debt, but this daughter is not the problem; the mother is. Once that money is gone or spent up in the wrong places - she’ll be back at blaming her daughter. I’ve been SAed, in a deep depression, jobless due to my severe depression, lost my fiancee 4 months before my wedding, I was once an addict to hydros and I’ve been almost 8 yrs sober - I’ve never took my anger out on my son. Have I been tired? Heck ya. But MY SON IS MY PEACE. Everything I do is for him. I never want him to worry about my struggles. He will never know any of them. He won’t know his Dad left me 4 months before our wedding, broke my heart by telling me he never loved me and just felt bad for me, was with a new girlfriend (someone in his phone he told me to never worry about our whole relationship) 2 weeks later, put me into the deepest depression to where I felt when my son was at his Dad’s I needed to abuse pills to numb the loneliness. He won’t know that one of those nights I took pills one of my best guy friends SA/Red me in my sleep. He won’t know this. But here I am almost 8 years sober, with a damn good job, my son gets everything he needs and more. I co parents 50/50 equally, as best friends with his Dad to make it work for him. Put the past in the past immediately with his father so I could have a healthy co-parent relationship with him. My pain doesn’t matter, his happiness does.
Thus bullcrap!! I can tell you dont have kids. The child is this big because the mom did the best she could with thw little resources she had. If you cnt see the mum did her best and still trying to, your spoilt yourself and until you have children, you will never understand. Pay a bill and providing for a child is a fulltime job. If it wasn’t for her mum, that kid would be in a care home. She doing her best! Prayers to both of them. Damn yourself for sitting in your high horse
When that momma start breaking down about her struggle as a mother I felt that. I think she taking her anger out on her daughter not on purpose but the ppl who really deserve it ain't around to take that accountability.
She has to realize her mom's been through a lot she needs to stop calling her a bitch and say hey I've done a lot going through a lot please help and respect me a little
He needed her to come back cause he needed her help wil bills and ik she cooks for him. And why did she go back so quick. I would have hung up the phone on his controlling ass. Tf outta here bruh.
The mom is a narcissist. All of you in the comments defending her are the reason why the black mother, daughter relationship plight has not healed. You do not talk to your children like that. Look how calm this little girl is the whole time. Look how much the mom is provoking her and basically defiling her feelings as “You don’t listen, you’re acting grown” terrible. Karma to that lady.
Right . Idc how much I’m struggling as a mom I’ll never rebuttal if someone asks me if I love my daughter let alone say some petty stuff like that in front of my child.
@@TishaTaylor-z9f Whether a person have kids or not, something like that should never come to mind. That's her DAUGHTER. Not her friend. Not her enemy. HER DAUGHTER. Kailey's mother was just embarrassing that child on that show. And if a parent feel like they about to get really disrespectful towards their child then they need to think before they speak, they need to break away from the problem before it escalates really bad. This is why some kids don't even talk to their parents even after they move the house .
I’m a witness to a mother who’s child is very disrespectful, these new generation kids are very disrespectful. I’ve heard these kids today call their moms out of their names and try to fight them as well… With no help every person will come to a breaking point.
@@chandreab5096 respect is mutual if you talk to your child like they’re nothing and taking out all your frustrations on them they’re going to disrespect you. When you raise a child right and TEACH them respect by respecting THEM you will have no issues. Children are mirror of the people raising them. You have a problem child you are a problem parent. She should’ve never had her if she knew she’d struggle tf is you making that her issue cause you’re struggling and miserable. Suck it up and be a mother and love your daughter.
I agree. I went through this same thing with my mother as a child, it’s not fair . My mom used to look at me that same way, I used to run away too, she barely looked for me. She even kicked me out of the house so MY boyfriend could live with her. Never seen her since and I’m good with that. I feel for the little girl in this situation. And you were so on point with your comment
God bless You Karamo. Your pockets will never run dry. I can't stop crying because I knew the mother was trying her best to raise her daughter well. You heard she said she was a good child but doesn't know what happened since last year. I hope she will feel better now that she has some help. Keep well.
#1 Raising children is not for the weak. I didn't like the mom's language in public, BUT I liked that she was transparent and stood on her truth. I heard and felt everything she said. Sometimes emotions get the best of us, and we can't express those feelings, on top of being frustrated with life. I have a son and daughter, and when I had my 3rd child, I prayed for another boy. No, it's not easier, but it is different. Especially once they hit puberty, and a girl start her menstrual. Hormones can be a factor in behavior. I'm sure that was the quietest the daughter has ever been. She tried to make her mom appear delusional. Like I said, I have a 17yr old daughter. She will continuously poke the bear with ignoring me, attitude, sarcastic remarks, eye rolling, not following directions, or completing chores. When the volcano erupts, she's standing back like she didn't do anything...smhlol Ima pray for them and myself 🫶🏼
As a mother of two men one biological one stepson and I raised my brothers son, so I raised three boys, yet I came from a family of 3 girls and one boy. I’m the oldest, girls and boys are definitely different boys cling to there moms or the female counterpart in the family. Girls in my opinion are raised and not nurtured like boys. My mother made sure we knew to be clean, keep ourselves up, taught us manners etiquette, real shit for the most part. I must say I keep an excellent home due to my mother and the things I learned along the way in life. A lot of times girls can’t be creative, use there imagination because mothers are making sure they are busy and ready for the world. Boys get to frolic, be boys as they used boys will be boys, they’re allowed to be boys. Many parents utilize there children for help, not to teach them responsibilities, and kids know the difference. Kids are human to, because they’re not adults doesn’t mean they don’t feel and have emotions. The mother is not just frustrated with her child she’s frustrated with life and the choices she has made in the past. I can definitely feel her pain
@Luxordolls Sounds like you're projecting your experience on to me. My daughter and I have a loving relationship. It's not perfect, but the issue we have are growing pains and nothing more. I could talk about all of her many accomplishments, but that's not what this episode or my post was about. And she right next to me, driving the car I bought her for graduating with honors. She has scholarship offers already, so I don't have to pay for college. So, I highly doubt she'll become estranged.
Thank you Karamo for helping this family with a bit of financial help. When you are struggling as a single Mom on your own, it's the world on your shoulders. God is Good - ❤
She not innocent either tho. Don't get me wrong I feel her on how she feels disrespected bc of the way her mom talks to her bc I went through the same thing with my dad. However, the daughter knew her living situation. She knew she had no job,she knew her mom would be at risk for going to jail due to missed school days, and she knew it was only her mom taking care of bills. Still, she decided not to go bc her hair wasn't done....dats not a valid reason at all
@@jaylahcheeves3209 the thing is how do yk they are not? Everyone is responsible for their own doings. She may not be responsible for how she got to this point but being that she's a teen and old enough to know right from wrong, she is responsible for how she goes about it.
All these women sympathising with the mother, Your kids secretly will despise you. You speak to your children with respect or you do not demand nor do you expect respect back if you cannot do so. The way she spoke to the daughter was disgusting, and it’s a shame the daughter is so well spoken 😕. Children are human beings, not your therapist, not your saviours, not your burdens and not a pet or something you pick and choose when to be nice.
I just want to say right off the bat. Boys are not easier , so she needs to get that out of her brain right now, Mom is supposed to be the adult. No matter what her problems are, you! Don't take them out on your child and then maybe your child wouldn't be acting out this way , And it's not her fault that you picked a man to Mess around with and he decided to not come back. They both need some serious help. 5:41 This little girl's acting out because of her mother's attitude towards her, She needs to put herself in her shoes and think about what her daughter is going through. And the fact that she's ready to give up on her only child at the age of fourteen , She's not cut out to be a mother but she is the one that chose to do grown up things and get pregnant!! Abuse is not the answershe should have spanked her while she was a child and gave her consequences for her actions but not straight up abuse. That's never okay only a Monster would hurt a child or an animal! 6:25 I would have made mom leave this stage while he questioned the daughter because she is being intimidating. And rude on stage in front of everyone to her own child. To any child is Wrong ! 14:17 Clearly they're both struggling , but mom needs to get help and stop taking things out on a child and understand that this is too much for kid if it's too much for her.
Yesss I love this episode I literally was crying you never know who is going through certain issues and we still keep pushing and blessing others and Karamo reminds you their is still good people out there who are willing to listen to your problems and be more than a helping hand…Amazing man you go Karamo I’m such a huge fan !!!
Please take this child from this woman. She should've never had a child. She can't even take care of herself. Mom, being homeless is stressful for your child....she doesn't need you making it worse.
You’re lucky you have a daughter. You’re lucky you have a child. Whether girl or boy, it’s a blessing . A boy won’t be any better. You have to do better as a parent.
I think the girl feels hopelessly lost. Because who needs a mother who says... she would have been better off being a boy. Just because she didn't manage to be a woman. She puts her problems on the girl. Just because she can't handle it. It's not the daughter who is out of control. She cries out for help, for acceptance. Nothing goes wrong with her. She was made to do this 😊
But yet Karamo still didn’t say nun to her being cheated on. He loves to validate a woman’s feelings over a man’s, specifically black men. But Karamo is a beast at what he do. He has a gift!
WOO WEE!!! 😮 Mom & Daughter angry about 2 diff things or the same thing but they're handling it differently. They're clearly frustrated but shouldn't be at each other. Mom needs to fall back because her daughter is seeking refuge because she doesn't know what to do but lash back at her Mom for lashing out at her.
Keeshauna: Karamo, my daughter is loud and disrespectful and I don't know why. *Keeshauna proceeds to be lound and disrespectful 5 minutes later* Hmmmmm I wonder where she LEARNED this behavior????🤔
I'm married and I don't go thru my wife's phone I have her password she has mine knows my social media login and I know hers as well TRUST is what is gonna save you. Temptation is always around it's up to you and your partner to choose each other every time
Rather than authorities take people children. They should offer parenting classes and counselling for the parents. Don't make it easy for parents to give up on these future adults.
If you have broken up with someone but you're still having relations and what not that's not a relationship you just friends with benefits so no it's not cheating
she is so right..DONT EVA ADMIT nothing to him. He knows she will stay with him regardless of what he does, so he could afford to admit. But he is saying the reason he cant trust her is becuse she wont admit to what she did when they werent together..Thats BS. He is looking to for info to hold against you and to justify his own actions. DOnt tell him shit..If he willing to move on he should move on..what u did or he did when broken up is a choice to tell
Lord Have Mercy 😧😢 I feel for any parents dealing with a disrespectful child 😡 I do understand my daughter is now 22 years old and still disrespectful we don't even talk because she still doesn't want a relationship with me but I always continue to 🙏🏽 one day we can talk and have a mother/daughter relationship , my adult kid's still thinks I'm strict but they don't understand the people in this world means no good. .
1st episode had me sad. I felt for both the mom and the child. Karamo, you came through for them financially Thank God. We all know that More counsel and guidance is needed needed. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿. Help God. Help.
In the first situation with the “so-called” Disrespectful Daughter. If you’d ask me the mother is more “Out-of-control!” Than the daughter. I don’t know if the daughter’s just being this way for the show or what? But she appears to have more discipline and control than the mom who’s more temperamental and needs anger management. When she called the daughter that awful name that literally blew me away! Wow! 😢
But now that I’ve watched the entire show they really both love each other they just bump heads a lot just like the daughter said. AND FOR YOU MR. KAROMO?! I LOVVVVVVE!!!!! YOU. FROM DAY ONE!!!! YOU’RE THE BOMB! ❤️🙏🏽👏🏾💐💕😍🤗
Karamo need to do some Update Episodes.....I really hope this couple does indeed stay away from one another. He said he wasn't breaking up though so I hope she stands firm and is truly through with him. His hurt is truly TOXIC!!!
Wow He Is Control Her He Does Not What To Talking To Any Men At Work. He Is Trying To Take Over Her Life. She Does Not Need To Be With Him. He Is Acting Crazy. She Need’s To Have Her Own Life
Karamo I have some words for you 'self-fulfilling prophecy' trying telling your guest this because I don't understand how some men will wine about there partner cheating and stay with them.
So if he didn’t want to break up after he was upset about the people she was with when they were broken up, what did he want? He wanted her under his strict rule and wanted to be able to continue to browbeat her. He wanted to dictate them being a couple, control who she was seeing when they were separated and now cause her hell.
Yes, the mom is loud. Yes, the mom shoulda, coulda, woulda made better choices. No, she shouldn’t be talking to her daughter certain ways. Yes, kids internalize that stress as well. I get it. Mom is out of pocket for saying a boy would’ve been better (not true, by the way), and she probably raised her daughter to be the entitled child she is now, but come on yall. That little girl is taking advantage of the stress her mom is going through and causing more issues. We’re in a day and age where we want to make sure children are heard, and that’s absolutely fine. I respect that and think it’s important we create spaces where children’s feelings are heard, but that child has to get it together, too. She didn’t want to go to school because her hair wasn’t done? She couldn’t pull it into a bun and call it a day? I was teased mercilessly from k-12. I know what it’s like to not want to go in because of what kids might say, but not going to school cuz your hair isn’t done is not it. Running around with little boys ain’t it.
Second Story Wow so this is where were out people complaining about there partner sleeping around while there broken up. Do people exspect once they get with someone that person should just wait on stand by for them.
Akaramo,you are the best.I understand what that lady and her daughter is going through .I was a single devorced mom of 4 children no child support.i went back to school got a degree bought a house and now all my children has graudiated from collage and they are all working.my key was Prayers and church.
When it come to kids you have to reflect on yourself. Kids act out because of their environment, parents or emotions. She can’t just blame her baby. The momma needs to check herself
Karamo you are such a beautiful soul. May God continue to bless you always 🙏 ❤ Bless you for helping the mum and daughter, they both were hurting and the pain was unbearable. Bless you for helping them 🙏
