That’s a lesson learnt ✅as a woman be independent and have your own money ✅Veronica looks so young and beautiful 🥰it’s not always about the pain,God will change her story of tears to a story of blessings and happiness 💕💕💕
hahahaha Anna Nyaguthii we would be loosing focus of the guest's story. But you have a point, we appreciate that Wambui is not hiding this her pregnancy journey from us. All the best Wambui wa Mwangi
We as Africans need to kill the perception of white men are wealthy, we should never allow to be intimidated in our own country regardless of who we are or what we have. Ladies out here before you get to know someone, obey your instincts and never ignore the RED FLAGS, be financially independent and no one will ever degrade you. As fr you babygal, you are beautiful, intelligent and talented, pick up the pieces and move forward. May you shine like a queen👑. I wish you nothing but the very best🙏
Exactly our sisters fall prey of wealthy men just because of being desperate unaware of the repurcusions behind it , it's high time they learn to be independent.
Mum wazungu don't give money coz ulaya kuna equal rights. He is expecting you to work and help each other. I am married by mzungu but nafanya kazi ili nijifanyie mambo zangu
Aki how can someone live with a person who sees you as useless and nothing, someone who does not value you and he is your husband or wife, just love your self more and value yourself.
I have a white husband (he is 36, I am 32. We have been married for 4 years after dating for 2 years). When we met, I already had a masters degree. After marriage, we moved to his country and because he wanted to empower me, he encouraged me to go back to school and he paid for my 2nd master’s degree (May I add that we’ve always had a joint bank account because he did not want me to feel like I was lacking anything). He would even take days off from work to stay with our baby, while I study for the exams. My first job interview, he rehearsed with me for hours! I got that job(in a field I am very passionate about) I had not even graduated when I got the job. He believes in me more than I even believe in myself. I honestly think being white or black does not define an individual.
Hey siz don't mind about that mzungu husband of yours claiming you take a matatu about Uber simplicity is the best thing ever remember you yourself where you come from and where you are heading to
My sister you are married to gikuyu guy. He must be born in cities. Yes when you are married by a luo guy but not a gikuyu. In gikuyu culture men speaks women make food and children.
I Truely second you JH, it depends on individuals who choose to be human or in human, we cannot put everybody in the same sac, but we should consider red flags
@@priscillanjenga7581 wako better 100% times than gikuyu men.mzungu can cook for, clean house for you.they are very romantic compare with gikuyu men commander in chief .they put their ass down waiting women to cook. I hate this!!I can live without a mzungu
It's important for our young girls to learn that Jesus only recognises the first marriage. Dont be cheated by any mam who is already married or divorced. Those who are not truly saved, have demons and will continue to cheat unless delivered. Veronica accepted to stay with this mzungu knowing very well he was married. Dont expect to be the special woman. In addition, our girls should finish their education first, get a good job and get married when mature like from 26 yrs. I hv watched many of Wambuis show and other shows and noted that girls are getting married at the age of 15 & 19 yrs thinking they are running from financial problems but end up miserable. Accept Jesus as your personal saviour and only depend on Him not men or people. Pole sana sister.
so we should wait till our partners kill us in the name of "God only recognizes the first marriage"??? there are so many marriages that are working even after they had divorced before ...
May will not agree with you but it's true that's was someone's husband she engaged with knowing that's very well,it's not right for what the guy is doing but is also good to reflect back on what you did ,repent,forgive yourself and ask God for guidance.
Well articulated but it's like you have a perception of how things should work .. there are exceptions, for example she didn't wish to not finish school ,also circumstances kinda forced her when she lacked the basic need of shelter and food....
I think by virtue of a long cohabitation with kids to boot you could be considered married. Your relationship was never based on love from both parties so I suggest you continue to persevere there for the kids sake but try to get something to occupy yourself and get some money. You are both using one another so get as much out of it as you can . Jaribu muwende kwenyu ama Kwa dC
I have raised my 4 kids alone since my hubby died for more than 20 yrs now. When he died they took everything including money and l was a housewife but l thank God this far he is Ebenezer. I have sold fruits. Hawking, washing clothes etc and l thank God Atleast l didn't depend on a man. I can do any job as long as l don't depend on anyone. So sorry beautiful. Thank God that rent , food , fees are met...sisi nyumba tulizoea kulipa na fees na unga
Sister and aunt from the devil. Whatever you sow you will reap. I hope that guy does not steal those kids from her. May the God of justice fight the battle for you.
Let me give you a little advice marriage does not matter mzungu, African or American what matters is who you get married to,you can even get married to your tribe and face more troubles than what you are going through
True! But i think there is a bizzarre fixation on 'mzungu' by some people, I think they think white people are special in some way? It's embarrassing. Watu ni watu..skin has nothing to do with it. Kama mtu ni mbaya ni mbaya, despite their skin colour.
This is so painful. This lady either ignored all the red flags from the word go from that hypocrite of a man or didn't see them, but all hope is not lost. God will make a way in your favor.
She didn't ignore anything. She saw them all but was driven by poverty & desperation. Mzungu was even an upgrade, just b4 that she found herself sleeping with a useless kisii cop (Nyakundi) whom she had just met thro her friend. That's what happens when girls become desperate. They sleep around with anything & anyone for survival!
@@breeymwworld8379 I listened well. Go to 11:50 minute mark usikie mambo. A Kisii man can never house a woman for free & not demand sex from her. They are best known for that😏
Most of Wazungus don't give women money..girls should be cautious...but if she could find her way to live in Netherlands she has all the rights and support being a mother of Dutch children.
court injunction to bar him from taking children out of the country without your consent and involvement is an urgent matter here please let's help her get a count order or we get pro-bono legal help or via government ombudsman.✍🏽📖💪🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
This lady is so great if she can just get to being up her kids on her own no matter what she may go thru' my advice may b is if she can just decide to start again without fear of facing it especially the kids, just hide from the man n b safe with your kids , it may seem soo hard but has no regrets in future, try girl try n all the best you are a worrier
I feel sorry for you little gal, I can assure you that not all mzungu are bad, I was married by a Kenyan and I went through hell for a whole year. He was bitting me like daily after a small argument, everything I bought in that house with my own money he could make sure he break them every time we had a fight, sometimes he could hammer my toes, throw a knife to me, sometimes he could pour the food I cooked on the floor, ... The list is endless.... , I saw I was not worth or this disrespect and I left, but I can say by good luck I got a boyfriend from Netherlands and he is soo respectful, caring and loving.He has taught me how to be independent, how to love myself again, computer skills, driving, how to do business and through him I got back my self-awareness, respect and at this time I can't allow any bullshit or disrespect from anybody, irregardless whether you are my friend, family member my happiness comes first. I can say that it was a bad luck for you to be married by an animal, this is not a human being, he just wanted kids from you and nothing else. Don't allow again people to bring you down because you are the one who is giving them all freedom, take heart and start a new life.
God is good your comments gives me hope been through the same and more he could brought in women to the house we we're splitting rent,countless times I slept at chief office with my daughter..it's 2yrs now since I walked away and vow never to look back..may God remember me also and bless me with someone who will love me unconditionally 🙏
@@Shikuwanjoki trust in the process dear, the God who gave you courage to leave your toxic ex-husband will provide you with your other half and its good that you have learned what you want and what you don't want in a relationship, love yourself more and always enjoy life whether you have money or not, peace of mind and freedom is priceless. Take care and good luck
Muthungu ucio ti muru Tondu Niragura irio wee niwe kiguta urenda guikara maisha maiguru.tena ujue huyo mzungu ni kenya kimbo amechanuka sana.hawezi kuwa fresh ideas. My dear menyaga uhikitio ni njoroge ti muthungu ucio ni muchanuku muno
A man will get away with whatever you allow him to do. You allowed him to play you, you allow him to control you, you will continue to suffer until you take control back from him. One of those ways is earn your own money.
I'm surrounded by single White men who want to have a relationship with me, while I'm desperate for a Kenyan man. I'm in the U.S, I have a great job and I know these people very well. There's nothing special about them. It's okay to fall in love but don't look at skin color
Many women think a mzungu is a demi god😌empower yourself first before giving yourself away to someone..if you have nothing going on in your life, you will stomach any B/S from anyone
Wazungu are simply the best because of their culture despite they don't give you money. They help you to look for a job and have your own thing different with gikuyu men.gikuyu men want to control you never haver have anything you own zote ni zake na akipata pesa ana marry second wife mzungu don't that
@@cytkl yes wazungu they are pure evil because you don't know their culture. Wazungu and their culture are simply the best.in wazungu culture women are not given money because you don't own.it is abusive to give money to a woman. In wazungu culture woman and men are equal. I am married to a mzungu 21yrs and he doesn't give me money infact I do help him to pay bills because I work and I am left with a lot of money.
@@janewangombe5668 thats why He is with you because you are foolish. 🤣🤣🤣 unasaindia mzungu Saindia waafrika wenzako. But maybe wee ni aria mahoyaga jesu muthungu. Mentally enslaved selfhating fools
Its not about the mzungu, men are men! The moment you put your self worth aside and decide to sleep with anyone just so you can be accommodated and maybe cover yourself from the shame of going back to your parents you've lost it and it will take you more than you can imagine to regain your dignity in that mans eyes, him sleeping with your relatives and you still there🙆 wangekuwa wangu they'd be in Kimende Primary. Wueeeh! You got strength mama. May God see you through.
African women have the wrong perceptions of how romantic white men are but having lived with them they are the opposite otherwise a very beautiful lady and a good story teller
The first time this guy saw you , he knew he can manipulate you because of who you are . May God open your door. He knows exactly what he’s doing. Ps for all those commenting here that she was after money , listen to the whole story, he went looking for her . He needs to know his day is coming . There are good men out there and there are bad ones . May God locate you .
wambui I can't believe i am watching this 2 years later and feels good still. Hiyo ngombe in background chukueni panga mwende hapo kando ya bárbara mufyeke manyasi mrushe thru fence itawapea peace and love❤
This particular one seems to be taking advantage of her lack of knowledge on many things. She doesn't even know the true nature of the man's job he could be a human or drug trafficker, disguising himself as a tour guide.
@@cytkl so true.. someone disappears for days, comes changes clothes and goes away again.. seems like hana ofisi.. how would she establish exactly what he does. the guy knows that he can get away with a lot of things.
I would rather get married to mzungu than my fellow okuyu. Sarah stayed in comfortable zone thinking is for her.kama mimi ni Sarah ningekuwa na Mali mob kuliko huyo mzungu uojorithie na pesa kidogo and you reach hata yy akuheshimu.unakaa maisha ya kizungu na Huna pesa zako.i am richer than my husband. I used him to buy 12 plots .saa hii kenya na earn 40k so nikirundi nina hela zangu bila joined
We as an African sosciety need to change our mentality that "wazungu" are rich or whoever is in a relationship with a "mzungu" has unlimited access to money/riches....it's a lie. They are equally struggling just like us. There isn't much difference between the struggles we face and what they face.
Haki what a complicated story. Sasa ikifika hapa mtu hufanya nini? Watoi in an expensive school so huwezi toka kwake. Now what to do? Mungu tu afungulie njia
Please advise your friend asimake mistake ya kwenda ulaya na huyo mzungu ati akifika huko atajipanga anajipanga aje surely in a foreign land na ameshindwa huku? it won't be as easy as she thinks ananyongewa Kenya abroad atakufa for real, risks zingine ni za upuzi aki.
For now thank God for whatever little assistance you are getting from him. If he is not torturing you physically, hide the kids documents and teach them to be contended with what they have. "bibi ya mzungu" isikusubue saana develop shock absorbers and say there is no difference; whether black or white all are men.
Haha Dunia ni ndogo😂😂...Vero tulifanya marketing Vikings uchumi house tukiwa na Ivy and the rest😂😂😂...such a bubbly and cute lady ...Vero ukisoma hii comment salimika sana.
@@gracemaina673 I would advocate for this too coz in Holland, schools are free, insurance is affordable, support from the state is available and she can look for a job or train in her preferred career. I hope the children have Dutch passports and if not, they might require an acknowledgement of paternity to establish if the hubby is the father more so if the children were born out of wedlock.
Mami ulikosea kuleta wageni kwako.ukiwa na relationship na mzungu ni wewe but not your friends and family. I never invite wageni kwangu wengi wao ni wasaliti.next time stay with your kids
It is important to realise that wazungu are normal human beings like the rest of us, there are good ones and bad ones. unfortunately, the recent narratives in the media show that some who come to Africa seeking spouses are sexual predators and they know they can get away with a lot in our countries. I do hope you get a good lawyer, I would not trust that man with any child.
That’s true this one has no boundaries he will molest with kids ..he won’t try that in his country..best to leave him he is too much..he is an embarrassment to wazungus aki
They were both immoral. The man for sexual favours the woman for comfort. There was no marriage, just a convenient relationship as with many others we have nowadays
Mrembo, Ata wewe uliajiliwa na mwanamke mwenzako akatoka kwasababu ya shinda labda kama hizo unazo pitia naukaona heri urundi kwamume wake, ulkosea saana na ndio hayo unalipa, mke wakwanza wamtu ndio mke wake, Sasa wewe kumbali kunywea hicho kikombe tuu, kimboko chakujichapa hakina uchungu.
Wooi Wambu andu aya matimenyagirwo,nii ndakorire mundu utari tukianjia thi nake no riria agiire ndigana gutamburwo onake anjiririe kwenda nginya sister ciakwa na akihikania na bado akora my niece kuria ndaikaraga no aramwenda ona tutiganite
