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My Birth story + Meet my son!!! 

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I haven't forgotten about you guys. So here is a much-needed update of everything that has happened to me in these past months which is a lot so get ready for a very long storytime.
Sharing my raw and detailed experience of labor, birthing, and unexpected postpartum struggles. Also had to do an official introduction of my baby boy kyro. Our most special gift and miracle.
We're so proud of all the new milestones he achieves every day. And it's been bittersweet seeing him grow so fast. Almost ready to walk and talk !!!!!
Besides the recovery issues, Motherhood is so so amazing. Hope all of you get to experience it one day.
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@maifolau6996
@maifolau6996 2 года назад
ive been watching you since 2013, middle school years. I'm now 24. God Bless your beautiful journey!
@christeenduhk6772
@christeenduhk6772 2 года назад
Thank you so much for this HONEST account of your childbirth, without glossing or skipping over the bad parts!!! I've never had kids, but I never really get the full disclosure like this. And I learned, you know, it's ok to be scared.
@SuccubusEyes
@SuccubusEyes 2 года назад
Have you gotten a second opinion? Lots of women experience tearing in the urethra area from the trauma of birth. If you feel like something is off, keep looking for the answer. Childbirth is a crazy ride, I’ve had multiple children, and it can take a toll. I’ve followed your channel for 10+ years, we don’t know eachother, but I care ❤️❤️ your son is beautiful by the way xx
@dope2111
@dope2111 2 года назад
I had a urologist check me out too. He did a pelvic exam and said he doesn’t see any prolapse but recommended to try a pessary
@SuccubusEyes
@SuccubusEyes 2 года назад
@@dope2111 I might inquire about trying pelvic weights (when your doc says it would be safe) to do your pelvic exercise with. I hope you feel better soon girl ❤️
@DariaKalm
@DariaKalm 2 года назад
@@dope2111 what about a urogynecologist?
@leblanchairstudio
@leblanchairstudio 2 года назад
That giggle at the beginning was so cute! congratulations to you and your family!
@BbGun-lw5vi
@BbGun-lw5vi 2 года назад
I am so sorry you’re going through such a hard time after giving birth. I really hope you heal.
@maytongvang916
@maytongvang916 2 года назад
Awe!! I have been waiting for this video..baby is so adorable and cute!!
@dope2111
@dope2111 2 года назад
Sorry for the latenesss.. 😆
@maytongvang916
@maytongvang916 2 года назад
It’s never to late. We are just glad to see baby and his cutie pie smile and laugh..congratulations and make more videos with baby
@tamarathurstan5547
@tamarathurstan5547 2 года назад
@@dope2111 i happy and proud of you and I been watching RU-vid makeup and for baby he is so cute and aww
@luanminitti1177
@luanminitti1177 2 года назад
What a woman. Despite the pain and discomfort you’re going through, you still step up and be a positive influence to your baby boy. He is beautiful, and I wish you the best in your (not so) new journey
@haleymosher6943
@haleymosher6943 2 года назад
i’m so happy for you! i can’t believe you’re finally a mother, congratulations ❤️
@jessicamessicak
@jessicamessicak 2 года назад
Thank you for being transparent about the postpartum. We need more true vlogs 💙💙💙
@wilkarysocasiootero3271
@wilkarysocasiootero3271 2 года назад
Right!! I’m glad that she shared everything! It makes me look forward to have an idea when I give birth! Right now I’m overdue, I was due May 18, 2 days ago, and still haven’t got contractions, waiting at home excited to see my baby for the first time!
@JazM5890
@JazM5890 2 года назад
Baby Kyro looks just like you😊 As someone who hasn’t had children yet thank you for sharing your experience & I wish you well 💕
@moonlightorchid2800
@moonlightorchid2800 2 года назад
Dear Promise, I follow you since you started posting your first videos. Even my husband knows about you. We were so happy when you said you are expecting a baby. I have a 5 year old kid and hearing your birth story feels exactly like mine. As if I tell my story. You changed into a wonderful mom and seem so calm and happy. Baby made you so happy and like a soft and warm and loving wife and a mom. Maternity is wonderful despite all the hard times and I promise that it becomes so much easier when they grow. I tell myself now i forgot all hard times at the first 2 to 3 years and no sleeping and all. Wish you the three all the best! ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@cchaesworldd
@cchaesworldd 2 года назад
oh my god ive been watching her ever since i was a young child and now im a teen.. im so happy for yall
@RoseGolden0
@RoseGolden0 2 года назад
I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Give yourself time to heal! God is good! You will recover 100% 🙏🏾
@DayZGirl101
@DayZGirl101 2 года назад
Also dearest, praying that you are able to continue in recovery! 🙏🏻🥰 Your body is so beautiful and strong. You’ve got this! 💙
@Nickajix89
@Nickajix89 2 года назад
Congratulations again! He’s so beautiful.
@SarahMonkay
@SarahMonkay 2 года назад
He is such a cutie pie!! Thank you for sharing him with us! I'm so sorry you've had a tough recovery. Sending you lots of love and healing!
@ZueSweet
@ZueSweet Год назад
It’s been a while but congratulations!Baby boy is super handsome and adorable. I pray that you feel better from any symptoms that causing you pain.
@210DesTexas
@210DesTexas 2 года назад
Congratulations Promise and Steve I've been watching your videos for 10yrs motherhood is glowing on you Kyro is a beautiful baby.
@christinagoulart1611
@christinagoulart1611 Год назад
After each child i had (3) i was having the same feelings! The doctor saw 'mild' prolapse in my bladder, uterus and rectum but it literally felt like my insides were falling out and like you, i felt like i had to sit and lay down often. Luckily i had been going to a pelvic floor physiotherapist and she was able to help me afterwards each time. No surgery needed! The internal physiotherapy isn't the most comfortable thing in the world but that's how they know you are engaging your pelvic floor correctly and can help release the internal pressure. Hope you can get the help you need to feel better momma!
@skyler7430
@skyler7430 2 года назад
So happy for you! It’s crazy to see you as a mom after watching you for all these years.
@iflostpleasereturn6135
@iflostpleasereturn6135 2 года назад
He’s so cute and adorable omg 😭 So happy for you and Steve!
@aprilshorty4094
@aprilshorty4094 2 года назад
Aaawww he's absolutely adorable and I'm so happy to see you and yes you're truly missed but you have to take care of yourself 💞💞
@Alice9NoBara
@Alice9NoBara 2 года назад
Oh my goodness! He is absolutely adorable 💖
@kimbycurtismatthewswinstion
@kimbycurtismatthewswinstion 2 года назад
I can't believe how big Kyro is, he's so precious
@LadyDiXO
@LadyDiXO 2 года назад
Congrats! Having a child is the greatest gift of all!!
@khouvang5677
@khouvang5677 2 года назад
As a labor and delivery RN, im so shocked to hear you say they made you wait until 6 cm to get the epidural!! I have patients who are cramping and at 1 cm get the epidural! I'm glad everything worked out well in the end for you (minus the whole pressure in your bottom feeling. i hope PT works for you!) 😊 He's so darn cute!
@leomama
@leomama 2 года назад
I had to wait also & never heard of anything different! Would’ve been nice to be able to get it in the beginning.
@beomgyuniverseofficial
@beomgyuniverseofficial 8 месяцев назад
can’t believe my childhood already has a baby 😭
@colombianaenoklahoma
@colombianaenoklahoma 2 года назад
Welcome back Promise! Your baby is perfect!💚
@HonestSpiritual
@HonestSpiritual 2 года назад
I had almost the exact same birth story except my son came 1 month early. My water broke because for some reason the sac tore, but I wasnt dilated enough for a long time so they had to give me pitocin to get me to start heavily contracting and dilate. Man it makes your contractions really hurt. after giving birth I found when I had pressure down there that one of those post partum maternity belts helped me. My insides felt all loose after giving birth so it felt like gravity was pulling all my organs out (like my uterus...Kind of where the bladder is) which created that pressure especially around 3 months. After using that belt I started to feel better around 6 months. I was lucky though that I only tore up to the muscle and not the muscle itself, but not so lucky as I somehow had broken my tailbone while pushing so hard on the birthing table. Hurt to sit for a long time. Had to go to message therapy to break down the scar tissue.
@wilkarysocasiootero3271
@wilkarysocasiootero3271 2 года назад
Hi! Promise! I love to see your videos and stories. I’m pregnant, but I’m overdue, I was supposed to be in labor Wednesday May 18, and I still not feeling contractions. I appreciate all the information about your experience with your birth; it makes me look forward to mine and be prepared for anything like that. Looking forward to see my baby for the first time too! :)
@findingmeaning1241
@findingmeaning1241 2 года назад
Hey dear! any update?
@wilkarysocasiootero3271
@wilkarysocasiootero3271 2 года назад
@@findingmeaning1241 Hi! I gave birth May 22, four days after my due date! It was 9 hours of labor, since I started my contractions every 2 minutes at home, and the I went to the hospital. It was a little bit traumatic for me because I didn’t know it was going to cause that much pain during labor. They gave me Demerol, but still felt every pain of the contractions and by then it was too late to put me the epidural because I was like 8cm dilated. I also had an episiotomy and was very uncomfortable when I had to walk and sit too. Right now I am recovered. The only thing I’m dealing with is the breastfeeding, that is also painful and frustrating. Im not making a lot of milk, so I had to combine it with formula. My girl was 7.14lb and 20” long. 🥰
@myqueen0402
@myqueen0402 Год назад
@@wilkarysocasiootero3271 Congratulations I wish you and your daughter a happy, healthy and peaceful life
@agirlnamedchuck
@agirlnamedchuck 2 года назад
He is adorable!!! I love when he did Superman!! 💗🫠 I’m sorry that you had so much pain after. I hope it will get better. 🙏🏻
@vivikoulouri
@vivikoulouri 2 года назад
Omg your face reminds me of my childhood and now YOU'RE A MOTHER, i'm crying 🥹 Proud of you & your baby is the prettiest 💜
@matischodowski5468
@matischodowski5468 Год назад
Awwww every once in a while I’m remember you and I come back so shocked to find out I had a baby
@Sn_Takami
@Sn_Takami 2 года назад
OMG I CHECKED UP ON YOU AFTER SO LONG AND I AM FILLED WITH HAPPINESS FOR YOY😭 you are literally my childhood✨
@kirstiewallace7260
@kirstiewallace7260 2 года назад
He's so beautiful. My birthing experiences weren't always easy. It's hard work being a mama but having to heal also can make it feel impossible.
@ebsssizzle4730
@ebsssizzle4730 2 года назад
You are one of the first RU-vidrs I’ve watched ! I hope you are well and happy. You have been such a light on the internet
@maggiebg1989
@maggiebg1989 2 года назад
So happy you’re making videos again ❤️ I was genuinely worried when you hadn’t posted in so long.. Even checked your channel a few times. I hope you feel better and your son is beyond adorable!! 🙏🏻😍
@xxalidaexx7499
@xxalidaexx7499 2 года назад
Omgoodness, he is such a cutie! Congratulations!!! I am due December 10th and it's my first so I am kind of nervous but very excited. I really appreciate these kinds of videos because they help me prepare better.
@madalynmull1681
@madalynmull1681 Год назад
Awe...it takes TWO YEARS!! to fully and truely recover from carrying and having a baby. Take your time sweetie❤️ and just let recovery happen at its pace.
@chandrama29
@chandrama29 2 года назад
I am following you since very long time and really happy to see you with your healty son much love❤️❤️from🇭🇰🇳🇵
@sarahbeloved6066
@sarahbeloved6066 2 года назад
He looks like a baby doll!🥰
@unsteriorey
@unsteriorey 2 года назад
Thank you for the much awaited update about the birth and gorgeous baby Kyro! Hope you'll continue healing well 💕
@gulEzehra0
@gulEzehra0 2 года назад
Oh my! He's the cutest!!!!! His superman move is everythingggg! I've been off RU-vid ever since my first born and just cake across your video after my second born (use to watch your videos a lot) and this is such a happy surprise! Suuuuper happy for you!
@Triplets_Boys_Hong_Kong_333
Same
@elys9650
@elys9650 2 года назад
so sorry you had to go through all of this, hope everything will go back to normal soon! ps your faces while you smile are identical, this is sooooo cute 🥰
@mariagarcia-villasenor8772
@mariagarcia-villasenor8772 2 года назад
PROMISEEE I've been watching your videos for forever and IM SOOOO SOO SO HAPPY FOR YOU!! you're GLOWING! Congrats to the new parents and God bless you and your family tons
@TruthOrClaire
@TruthOrClaire 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story, Promise! Your son is beautiful! I hope that you continue to recover and heal!
@notconan8145
@notconan8145 2 года назад
AHHHHHHHHHH IM SO HAPPY! I HAVENT SEEN YOU IN SUCH A LONG TIMEEEEEE!!!!! Ma’am, do you understand how much of an influence you are on me, like seriously you make me so happy and inspired to be myself with makeup. I love your outfit too!! Also if anyone knows who Conan gray is, he is subscribed to her……… IM SO PROUD OF HERRRRRRR 🥲 I hope the baby is healthy 💜
@7amdaisy272
@7amdaisy272 2 года назад
omg! i am so happy for you!! baby kyro, ur mother has always been a childhood inspiration of mine 💘. u guys deserve all the happiness and blessings in the world ❤️
@Akiraamariee
@Akiraamariee 7 месяцев назад
Girl I’ve been watching you since I was a little kid 🥺 I’m so proud of you and your son is beautiful ❤️
@roy110791
@roy110791 2 года назад
I've had hard post partum as well... everything started getting better after 9 months. I just wanted to tell you you can do it!!! And everything will be back as it was if not better 😘 stay strong promise!!!
@Eviepossible
@Eviepossible 2 года назад
So sorry your recovery has been so hard! I will be praying for you!!
@itsgraciemoon1068
@itsgraciemoon1068 Год назад
HOLY MOLY I REMEMBER WATCHING YOU 5 YEARS BACK AND YOU HAVE A SON NOW?!?! CONGRATS!
@itsgraciemoon1068
@itsgraciemoon1068 Год назад
Never mind I checked it was 8 years ago 😭
@cha4050
@cha4050 2 года назад
Glad to see you back. Praying for both you and Steve that things will get better with your health.
@andreapatane4204
@andreapatane4204 Год назад
Congratulations, Promise! You and Steve have become the parents of a son named Kyro Phan. Good luck with your parenthoods.
@A.personn..
@A.personn.. 2 года назад
I used to watch you in 2015,2016 etc I now came back and ur channel changed so much(for me)
@BraidsByMichelle-dream
@BraidsByMichelle-dream 2 года назад
We missed you!!! Yay I'm glad you're back 💙 Congratulations on baby boy , he is adorable 😍🥰
@paa770
@paa770 2 года назад
omg I love all your videos my daughter and I would watch them together congratulations on your sweet baby boy and sharing your beautiful birth story!🤍
@tacocat4162
@tacocat4162 Год назад
found your channel after 10 years (i rmb watching you when i was like 4) and OH MY GOD congrats!
@Jay100.
@Jay100. 2 года назад
Kyro looks exactly like your dad, promise!! He’s adorable
@emmajoseph6310
@emmajoseph6310 2 года назад
Woah!! Promise has a cute little baby boy now! 🥺🥺 I can't believe the journey i travelled with you, you were always my childhood fav youtuber and you having a baby boy now makes me cry 🥺🥺🥺🥺 Congratulations for giving birth to a wonderful angel!! Lots of love 💓
@pauliephets9676
@pauliephets9676 2 года назад
Your genes are strong ! He looks just like you. Sooo cute! 🥺💙
@reignann9280
@reignann9280 5 месяцев назад
I can't believe that my childhood now have a baby... time really goes way too fast 😮🤯
@justlovecoffee
@justlovecoffee 2 года назад
Awwww Kyro is super cute! So happy for you Promise. Being a mom is so rewarding! enjoy motherhood 💗
@kalauj
@kalauj 2 года назад
Aweeeeeeee! I just love him! So adorable!!!!! I’m glad you shared your story. So many women go through it and provides good feedback to others. Blessings!
@BishtrainerTai16
@BishtrainerTai16 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing your story as a new mom. It's amazing what a mother's body is capable of adapting to the needs of a baby.
@deanavang
@deanavang 2 года назад
Awwwww how exciting Promise! You’re an awesome mommy. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that. Your RU-vid family loves and supports you! I wish and hope that you are able to feel better. ❤️ Love you!!!
@mintsai6746
@mintsai6746 2 года назад
Congratulations! Your baby boy is absolutely precious! And thank you for sharing your story!
@C00KIE0538
@C00KIE0538 2 года назад
Omg, what a cutie, many blessings to you and your whole family. Really wish you feel 100% back to normal. Thank you for sharing with us.
@christophersalgado4139
@christophersalgado4139 2 года назад
Aww... He's so very adorable and cute!
@wedatokyo1967
@wedatokyo1967 2 года назад
it's been a minute since i have watched you but i been there since the beginining i used to watch all ur makeup look's you would post every week so glad to see ur a mother so happy for you
@emmaa5759
@emmaa5759 2 года назад
Awwweee. 🥰 he is so adorable promise. We missed you so much, but your family and yourself always come first.
@clauuetc5181
@clauuetc5181 2 года назад
I had my second baby in December at 35 week emergency c-section. Here, they have a different process: we can take the épidurale at any point of dilatation, they don’t put anything in the urethra even if you have an epidural and they have bily blanket so we can hold the baby ♥️ my second was in the Nicu for 3 weeks and we could hold her with the bily. So glad you are all ok ♥️
@dawnmariereyes3734
@dawnmariereyes3734 2 года назад
We had to do the blue light too. And we just cried and cried. Because we wanted to hold him so bad! My heart goes out to you!! But it makes all those struggles now even sweeter ❤️
@taheerammoore6729
@taheerammoore6729 Год назад
You needed to take it easy! Don't worry, and rest a lot❤❤❤
@Itsmya-tocaboca13
@Itsmya-tocaboca13 2 года назад
I was the first to watch this video! And he is soo cute!!
@08baby25
@08baby25 2 года назад
Awww congratulations! I'm due in November 12th 2022. Thanks for sharing 💙💜💙
@lynnaizawa5055
@lynnaizawa5055 2 года назад
Omg I’ve been waiting ahhh I miss your content so much I love your videos so much
@CristinaNunezTV
@CristinaNunezTV 2 года назад
Kyro is so cute! Congratulations to you and Steve!🤗❤
@bethechange1226
@bethechange1226 2 года назад
Awwww!!! I’ve been watching you since the beginning and it’s so cute seeing you start your journey to motherhood 💕 so proud of you promise!! Best wishes
@Naynaysmiless
@Naynaysmiless 2 года назад
Congratulations beautiful!! I had my daughter June last year and I fall in love with her more everyday!😍😍
@vidhuvdkbiggestfan3820
@vidhuvdkbiggestfan3820 Год назад
Soooo happy for u was waiting to see u as a mother for more than 5yrss sooo cuuute he isss❤❤❤ stay happy always
@nahkajima
@nahkajima 2 года назад
Awn he is so adorable
@Katzykeens
@Katzykeens 2 года назад
Congrats on the child~! I'm sorry the birth was so difficult and I hope you have a speedy recovery ✨️💖🌈 tell the kiddo (is his name spelled Cairo or is it different?) we all said hi back!💖💖💖
@forgotmyun
@forgotmyun 2 года назад
I love finding you in random spots💖
@stannctorbeasquare
@stannctorbeasquare 2 года назад
I am so glad you are doing better now and your baby is healthy and happy. You went thru a lot!! You are a fighter
@s0Shi
@s0Shi 2 года назад
Congrats on the baby! Wishing you all good health and happiness
@joraldb8362
@joraldb8362 2 года назад
It's been years ago since I watched vloggers that inspires me to do makeup and now it is my source of income, and seeing you having a baby my gosh I am so Old!🤣 Everything has change.
@gracesadventures7485
@gracesadventures7485 2 года назад
Your Son is so cute. You are going to be a great mother to you child.
@lollsazz
@lollsazz 2 года назад
Hi! I have a 1 year 3 month old baby. Also had a lot of pressure for a while. GynecologisTS (yes, multiple) said everything was OK. However, I'm in a study about birth complications, and the gynocologist there did different pelvic scans and said I had a slight prolapse of the back wall of the vagina. So I guess not all gynos see things the same way. Also: hypopressive training helps pull things back up into the body and strengthen the connective tissues - it's not talked about enough, although it has helped sooo many women!
@dope2111
@dope2111 2 года назад
Wow sorry you had similar issues. Mine is more on the frontal wall. So pelvic scan would help. Just need find someone that would be willing to do it 😩
@lollsazz
@lollsazz 2 года назад
@@dope2111 Sounds like it might be the front wall that's rhe issue for you, yes, from what you said about the bladder issues :/ I think it was very weird going from lots of scans, doctors visits, tests, to... almost no help after I gave birth. Kegels strengthen some tissues, but they aren't really that effective when it comes to lifting all of the organs (hence hypopressive training - lot of free videos of it on RU-vid). Things usually become better over time, but training really is necessary. One woman where I live said she was constantly peeing herself, and the type of training helped her so much that she has no issues any more :) Hope you can find someone soon who takes these issues seriously.
@user-wn3fe3ee5s
@user-wn3fe3ee5s 5 месяцев назад
He is so adorable
@glittergirl956
@glittergirl956 2 года назад
Congrats on your baby promise!!! He’s so cute and I’m so glad you’re back on RU-vid!!!
@wonwowow
@wonwowow 2 года назад
Ure my childhood 😭 now u have a baby ready!!!!! Time is flying so fast...
@dinonuggies5551
@dinonuggies5551 2 года назад
Omg I haven’t been on RU-vid in a while so I missed this upload!! So so happy for you guys :) ❤️❤️❤️
@jesse.piinkmann
@jesse.piinkmann 2 года назад
I USED TO WATCH UR CORPSE BRIDE MAKEUP OVER AND OVER WHEN I WAS SM YOUNGER OMG
@lexaa5032
@lexaa5032 2 года назад
Congrats he’s adorable;)
@jordynlee7610
@jordynlee7610 4 месяца назад
He's so adorable 😍
@mrdsn189
@mrdsn189 2 года назад
Congratulations! Sending concern and best wishes for a full recovery!
@JennieDCuteThings
@JennieDCuteThings 2 года назад
Aww you delivered where I work!! I hope your Hospital stay was memorable in a good way ❤️ he’s a cutie!!!!
@kaylasecoy295
@kaylasecoy295 5 месяцев назад
He is such a cutie
@MrsLoretta
@MrsLoretta 2 года назад
Promise, your son is beautiful!! God is good!!! Sorry you had problems..You look great!!!xoxo Loretta
@francheskadeguzman298
@francheskadeguzman298 Месяц назад
He looks like you! Beautiful baby boy!
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