My ex husband brought men to our house, they forcefully slept with me😥…all because I was childless 

My aunt is 50yrs old and has no child, she went through a lot and finally accepted she can't have kids and it's not a ticket to heaven. She now loves herself and living her best. It wasn't easy though....nilimtoa kwake cha nguvu because she was even suicidal. These days yeye husema I gave her what nobody else ever did.

ladies, let wisdom prevail....mwanaume amekuchapa, karibu akuue over and over alafu unarudi uko...na hauna ata watoto na yeye?? girls don't wait for a second beating or second miscarriage or alete bibi mwingine!!!!! Enda oshea watu manguo and then u rent a ka - small room uanze maisha!! This is not meant to hurt the guest, no, this is to challenge women to wake up!!

Mimi ni mwanaume Lakin mabo zingine siwezi fanyia mtu mwanamke ni Baraka

Am in my 20s struggling with infertility married to the best man trying to conceive for 3yrs + my case is primary infertility where by have never conceived not aborted even once.....am still believi g God will show me and everyone struggling with infertility mercy.......in Jesus name....Baby dust to anyone looking for a child including me❤

Monica- your shows are amazing, they educate and inspire❤

I feel for her she ha gone through hell. Imagine your relatives supporting your man to mistreat you. May God heal her n give her peace

This is an example of the Stockholm syndrome. When an abused person gets used to abuse, they somehow regard the abuser as a saviour. It is mental distress

This man ad his family wanajua mahali walikuwa wanapeleka watoto.

The abuse start gradually, people get used to it . They keep hoping that things will get better, but they get worse. .

Adoption..... can also give you peace. My thinking 🤔

Nani Ali danganya watu... Eti watoto ni license ya ndoa😭😭😭😭Ooh my God... Kumbuka wamama wote wenye wana struggling to get kids🙏🙏🙏🙏💔💔💔

Big hugs Mary, thank God you're a live. Family isn't always blood & can be toxic. It's the people in your life who want you in theirs. Take away ladies, love yourself enough to walk away. This is very traumatic, children do not define us, find your healing first and focus on yourself Mary. Its ok to cut off toxic people from your life including family.

We're the parents,,let's teach our girls their worth May u heal mama

Of all The stories Monica, this is The sadest of all. I hope that Mary gets peace. Monica.. could we all women cheap in And support Wanja go for IVF.

I don't know why people are so evil including her own family who rejected her. Wanja i would tell you to take heart because our God does not sleep and sees all you've been through. I hope Monica can source a therapist for Wanja coz it seems the pain is still raw, she needs to heal first. 🙏🏾

Hugs 🤗🤗🤗 Mary may God remember you..... Above all God loves you n you are his daughter.

Everything happens for a reason...may God meet your heart desire...wenye wanaringa na watoto do they know what future holds for those kids? They might regret having those kids.. God sees and hears

The shocking thing is the so called "servant of God" saying he has gotten tired of her What a shame. Uyo ameitwa na God au alijituma??? God never gets tired of us. Men can get tired,but God will never get tired. God will never leave you nor forsake you Cleave to God

Very sad story,May God see you through...that man will never die before he pays for all that 😢😢

A very sad story. Mary may our loving Lord give you healing. Asante Monoca for this awakening story!!!

Saddest story this year😢. God have Mercy on her and ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾

May God punish that man…and for her family gosh betrayal of the highest level this is very sad and painful 😢may God see this lady through

Woi this lady has gone through alot, may God heal your life and give you peace. 🙏🙏🙏

God intervene I pray this woman to testify

Am not doubting her but I have some questions? 1.Alisema her dad died after mimba ya tatu then akasema her dad was mrefi na walimfukuza saa nane usiku? 2.was married in 2014 which she was also not sure...nine years down the line"alikaa na her husband for some years,2 years bila Mzee,2 year in the 2nd marriage,2 years in the 3rd,na alipata mtoi wa 4 husband alikua nursery na alimuasha class 2 last year"is my masematic not working?

@Monica Kagoni....I feel your frustration and anger. And by the way Ms. Mary is in total denial and her mind is stuck kwa IVF. And until she gets preggers and holds her own.....😭😭😭😭. She needs all the counselling in this world.

Woii, Wanja pole sana sana kwa hayo yote umepitia. May Almighty God bless you with a baby. ❤

Very sad indeed! I listen to her story and it’s really sad. Sometimes we blame and believe on the culture’s belief and we conclude on untruth things. To me this lady was suffering from endometriosis. She was getting pregnant but the inner lining of her uterus could not hold firm the baby unfortunately. I 100% blame her family for not supporting their child. So sorry for what she went through. I pray God for her to see her through 🙏🏾

On the introduction I support 50% and do not support 50%. Why? You can call yourself your name and mama your father or mother as per our traditions. Also mama the name of the mtoto you want to have wa kuzaa or for adoption. Let us celebrate motherhood as per our traditions and also give our real names as we introduce ourselves. Oo nawe Kagoni haria uikaraga kana school witagwo Mana..... let's also encourage adoption cos it also makes one a mother. Tusichelewe sana to make decision on that.

Sad story indeed, may God give you peace mary n may he bless you dear

He's God of second chance. Please God deliver Mary from pain.

Woiye Mary pole sana for what you have gone thru

very unfortunate story. I also think that Mary does not understand her infertility problem. its not that she cannot get pregnant (she got pregnant five times), her problem is carrying pregnancy to term. Medically, I believe her problem is with the uterus since her abortion happened months after conception. As such, IVF won't help her since she still has to carry the pregnancy to term. what maybe can help her is a surrogate with someone else egg or her own egg if she still have her ovaries available for egg harvesting

Monicah keep it up 🌹🌹🌹hizi ndio tabia zinafanya tuko na kibindi cha "WATHIREKO" "Mary God is working Wonders

When the pain's excruciating till it's hard to shed tears..sadness and depression are written all over her face, she has been tortured psychically,spiritually and mentally..all can tell her is that having infertility issues doesn't define a woman she need to accept herself in order to start her healing journey which is going to be a process also she need to completely cut of negative and toxic people from her life.. Then seek deliverance for that spirit of rejection.

What I understands mtoi is additional to marriage juu hkuna watu wakiona Kwanza kuomba wapate mtoi nikujikuta na mimba na si lazima ukipenda mtu don't expect mtoi it a God will kaa na mpenzi wko kma unapenda

Some times ladies tujipedage kwani lazima uzalie mtu 😢😢😢😢 mimi nilizalia mwanaume watoto watano na tukachana dunia inatakaga aje nimestragle kulea watoto watano peke yangu 😢😢15 yrs

Na rîkorûo Mary oimagarire o erûo nyûmba ciao no cioyûo tondû nîakîremirûo nî kûgîa ciana.😢 Mwathani aromûmîrîria.

God bless her heart and soul..Monica I have stayed up listen to this moving sad story..I wish she could just adopt a child❤❤❤

I understand what she goes through. Am in the same predicament. It's too painful. Mary, Pray for peace in your heart.

So sad,, but l think,, ugetafita nyumba ujikarishe and start from scratch,, kusema hauna kwa kwenda sikuelewi😮😮

Huyu mama tuliishi na yeye kariobagi na alikuwa na kijana wake aged 10 alikuwa anaitwa davy aaaiii nimeshangaa

God help me never to been a witness to a person who can mistreat my family member unjustly

I have no words but just justice for Wanja.She has gone through hell.May God help her heal quickly.

Monica you have soo many questions like most of us why did she continue staying there? So painful 😢😢

I feel for this woman lakini mimi sielewi mtu akuletee wanawake kwa nyumba, akufanyie ujinga zake and naunaendelea kufungua miguu, aaiii hiyo nguvu wanawake hutoa wapi. Anyway pole kwa yote

May God raise you from the darkest point of self pity and misery,may the Lord heal your wounded Heart

Yaani anatafuta IVF akuwe single mother who said kids are achievement😮 mimi am already regretting being a mum mwingine anaomba mtoto kweli Mungu hapangiwi…vitu nishawahi pitia na mtoto wangu niliishi kutamani ningezaliwa tasa but all in all I still thank God

May God intervene in this case..

My aunt didnt have kids but they agreed with my late uncle amtafutie wife aoe wapate watoto but they agreed my aunt was the one to stay with the kids and raise them n they are all happy!upto now they are all grown ups !huyo mwaname ni mjinga tu saana my dear you can adopt one!!sorry mary!!that is why dennis mutara alisema tutihikanagia niundu wa ciana,ciana ni kiheo kuma kwi ngai!! Pole

That's true kagoni..aconite miguee uria woka 😂on a higher note..tell her to be strong and to stop crying ❤❤❤❤

Thanks God for giving me children is very painful to stay without baby hugs you mamaa

Wueeh! Niko Kwa hii shinda lakini sitakubali kufika hapa. Naelewa Chenye huyu mama anasema Kwanza hapo Kwa kutengwa na kujitenga. Pole sana kwake.

I wish ungejipenda na uondokee hayo yote kitambo

Grace to you Kagoni and to wanja double Grace and self love 💕

I would love to know the whereabouts of such men who mistreat their wives because I know that there is a God in heaven

The infertility story aside..... What with the family ,your own family ... This is what leads to cutting off family completely... God remember this woman heal her wounds

Ngai mwathani ahe mutumia uyu thayu

Ngai 💔😭.... May God give her peace 🕊️

Pole ni nini mbaya na wale watu mmesaliwa pamoja na wazazi wako uhai kwani na vile wazazi wanapenda watoto wao Mungu awaone kwasababu niwao wamekupatiana kwa mzee huyo juu ya pesa

Ipo siku..... May Lord see you through Mary. I love your determination n u wll b blessed

May God heal this heart from rejection

We need to name and shame such men! Why cover for such a monster?

Power of words, power of giving power to someone, people society to speak in your life to stop seeing you whole first before getting blessings from God. Susan please be very clear you want God's will in your life. Kindly remember you are a Mum, it does not make you a Mum coz a child went through your baby. Heaven has recorded those who are in heaven are your children and even the ones you tried your best to raise when they lost their Mother. Part yourself in the back, love yourself. God loves you so much, been here alive says you have more work to do for him. Please seek Gods guidance to give you true friends who will walk this journey with you and give yourself permission to get your self esteem back fully coz discouraments are taking you back and forth.

The reason why I am single today my former husband asked me in between argument " Kai utari kwanyu Niki wikaga guku na nduri wa kirathi giakwa😢.nililala nikipanga manguo with a 2 month old baby wanawake tujipende

That perseverance is on another level

Why forcefully stay in such none existing marriage !? what if he hit you badly to death 😮!? isn’t it better to go be employed as a house help somewhere and be in peace !!⁉️Onawe wari na rwaku 😮

May God give you peace mamie...ni Mungu pekee anajua roho yako tu na ni Yeye pekee anaweza ponya roho yako...hugs gal

Shocking 😯, woi woi, that abuse and then perseverance , God have mercy on 😢her.

this is the saddest story ive heard in a long while,i blame the ladys family,total snakes,watu hawawezi shikilia mtoto wao?what have people become aki,just because the husband was spending a few coins on them?

I feel you mary and may God give you peace for your desire to have a child may God fulfill your heart desire.....pole sana and God loves you

Lazima ungekaa huko na wewe na hizo mateso,huyu sielewi ni mwanamke wa aina gani ama nikutojipenda,jua kujipenda wewe

Pengine the amniotic fluid inaisha before 9 months she can go to Kenyatta hospital watamueka bed rest na they monitor the amniotic fluid when it reduces watoi mtoto apelekwe nursery. Had a friend with the same problem

Wa utuku ucokagio utuku Was told that n i told a in law hata hao 2 nko nao sikununua. Aliyempea kaninyima. Their son will marry... Sio ye wa kwanza harakisheni Nkt God b with u ..Shalom Shalom shalom Glory to God with a thankful heart. Halleluya Family family family.....history n God will judge u harshly

Monica namesake -your shows are amazing and educate and inspire me alot❤

I feel this lady amerogwa . Mungu amkubuke tu . It's so painful

Wooiye. Kagoni this s a painful story. Let our sister know that there s this option of adoption. Me I have a sister who after 12yrs n marriage without a child , they adorped & r happily married. Ajiamini maisha n yake & God's knows all these.

May God strengthen you wanja you are a strong woman everything becomes beautiful at the right time

Wuuueh karibu monica umwage chozi aki, she made me cry also but why would pple hate you that much including yua own parents n siblings nawewe pia ujichukie kiac hio ya kuletewa watu wakurape? That was so gross!! Ulifaa kujipenda Wanja juu hio chuki ya huyo mwanaume ilikuwa too much. Why??

May God see her through en fulfill her heart desires 🙏🙏

Mary God is with you have be meeting beasts coz my Friend does have a kid she is happy married Wanja tosheka na mungu mtoto si everything

The spirit of rejection is following you mama Kombolewa

Ile mistake alifanya ni kusolve spiritual matter physically. Ile tyme alianza kupoteza mimba alifaa aende kwa magoti mwanzo aulize GOD first nini mbaya na yeye before aende kwao ama kwa kinabwanake.coz yeye (GOD) ndio anafichuaga yaliyo ya siri ambayo wanadamu hawajui.but i i am sorry 4 wht you went through na Mungu akupe nguvu za kuendelea na life.

That is too much pain for a human being to go through 😭😭😭

I don't want to judge u bt u were desperate, fast love we espect from our selves fast 😮how can someone keep on mistreating u still ua blibe by love which is not working 😮ua lucky he wasn't that toxic to kill u, Sijui wanawake anakuanga na shida gani coze once I see red frag twice is enough for me to workout, ona sasa watu hujiletea, who said MARRIEGE is the end life 🤔🤔🤔😏😏vitu zingine ni mtu ujitakia anyway I blame u & sorry for Wat u wanted to go through let us learn from this 😥😥

Very painful, but all in all Mungu mbele 🙏🙏. May God give her peace ✌️💓💖💖

Woooi,Ngai,nie no gwirire wiitikire na umenye ngai ndacenjagia namesake

Its true, let's stop introducing ourselves as mama so and so. In America, we're known by our first names, no matter how many children we have

Kagoni , am very furious with the story. Why would some suffer like this in the hands of a man. Mary hakujipend aki. Let empower our gals,na wajipenpede Mimi aki nimeshindawa kumaliza hii story But all in all my mungu akusaidie

i know her woiye,when did life get this tough aki,its well

I feel very bad for her but don’t say you have nowhere to go, enda ata utafute kazi ya nyumba

😭😭😭😭 May God give you peace

Riu muhiki athirekagia muhiki mwenzake Niki? This is bad.aciari kafa mwana onjio tondu nimurateithio😢😢

Kagoni ur not talking bad we need t9 have vichwa good n leave all to God kugìa na kwaga mwana nì wira wa Ngai

Lord remember her she has purpose on this land of the living. 😢😢😭

Being barren is painful people judge you as if you chose to be barren I suffered the same but God gave me children miraculously God over ruled every word spoken and gave me new tubes am a mother of 3 girls .....Metha ya Kagoni . Host me one day I give my testimony

Aki what people go through juu ya marriage may God heal her heart

Weeee.hugs mama

It's a very sad sad story. May our living God glorify himself through Mary Wanja. May she come back here to testify in Jesus Name.

She can also consider adopting a baby..