My Ex - That Library Show 

"How to Apologise" and "No more Assholes". the book choices my gosh

Y’all leave that poor lady alone she should not be back w him the whole ep is literally showcasing how bro has to heal a lot of his own things to even think of a relationship

I think it’s so healthy to be able to talk about an unhealthy relationship later and laugh about it

the whiplash of going from "aw they should get back together" to "woah, i'm glad they can move on" was craaaaaaazy.......

apart from the comedy of it all this is such a serious and intimate conversation and putting it out there to see how much you both have changed and grown is awesome

This video is a very good example of why it is so important to communicate and be vulnerable in a relationship 😭

everyone's going on about how he's fumbled or some shit but the man is putting some of his biggest insecurities out here just for us to be entertained by. massive balls. i'm so glad y'all are friends though and can laugh about it now

he's such a red flag but at least he's aware of it 😭

dude that is a crazy ass intro

'You're making everything about you' - brutal on your own YT channel

I can totally see the issue they said she was having. When he asked her "how long did you wait until you seen someone else" and she completely froze and was thinking of not saying it. It was all strictly to protect his feelings. now imagine that as a whole relationship. every little thing you do... damn.

"I had your feet in my mouth, all the time. I- it was great." STOP I CRIED I COULD FEEL THE EMBARRASSMENT FROM HERE

Guys stop saying he fumbled. Good people move on from relationships. You don't have to be with someone just cause they're a good person.

Dude fumbled astronomically, he was dating björk 😭😭😭🙏

19:16 “it was you…” she’s so real for that. It was you she wanted to be with, no one else.

This is probably the rawest video ive seen in a long time. The maturity is next to the best ive ever seen. The acceptance, open-ness, the understanding and attitude to each other is amazing to see. Its not typical to see people who were once together be like this afterwards and to listen and accept the faults they had during the relationship. Its inspiring. such a great all round video. Thankyou.

I've never really thought about how intense relationships must have been that were founded during covid

no but she seems like such a genuine, good person

This man has the personality of Kuzco before he gets turned into a llama. 😂

Nothing hostile just human beings appreciating each other and raw honesty. This was a wonderful watch.

The way the self-centeredness revealed itself throughout the video 😂

I absolutely love the raw honesty from her. It’s so refreshing. I definitely sensed the self absorbed nature from watching multiple videos, so I’m glad to know my instincts were confirmed. Bro definitely needs to be more selfless in order to have a more true bond with another person or else it will be a vicious, empty cycle. Nothing will be real or lasting if it’s all about one person & not both. ❤

she seems so sweet i think she slightly resembles Björk so pretty

"it's more like...you're so lucky to be with me". I LOVE this girl!!!

she is literally so beautiful

bro spawned the unthinkable

I love how the thumbnail implies it's going to be an angry episode but the video is actually one of the sweetest things I've seen in a very long time

“it’s been 3 years i’m sure you grew” “😬” LMAO- i’d consider that in itself some growth

“the 1” by taylor swift is a BRUTAL song for yall to both feel about each other

this is one of the most painful things i’ve ever watched, liked and subscribed

"do you think it´s fair to blame me for that" 🤣 that is the most self-centered gaslighting question i´ve ever heard

They both are so mature to talk about everything like adults with honesty, it makes it so interesting to watch

not the betterhelp sponsorship :(

The book choices 😭

From man man to man, thank you for being so open about your emotions and vulnerability especially online man, this really takes balls. And the fact that you are so honest with yourself really shows you’re a great person, regardless of what insecurities you might be dealing with

I recently went through a breakup of 3 years and this really hit home. Thanks to both of you for being mature enough to have this deep conversation, despite all the history, and post it for all of us to see. I wish the internet saw more of this side to a breakup. So many of us are so quick to post a roast over some minor thing that got us heated and then get lost in the instant gratification of strangers. This video gives me hope 💚

The self centered conversation was amazing self awareness on both ends, wow. LOVED this convo.

As a person that has been dumped in truly awful ways I’m always excited to see exes that have a good relationship 😊

I don’t know why, but watching them feels like watching an 80s film

i looooved this conversation! i’ve watched the majority of these videos and this one has got to be my favorite because of the sheer vulnerability. it’s so beautiful to honestly see a conversation reflecting on a relationship that has passed with such honesty and clear communication! and you guys are hilarious together and although you shouldn’t be together, the chemistry was off the charts

she is cool as hell and looks like an amazing friend

show amazing but I'm starting to think he's the problem

Man this episode slaps! The chemistry, the honesty, the insights... Also really funny. I think we would all greatly beneftit from having these types of conversations with our past romantic relationships. Keep it up Derek, this video will pave the way for so many healing conversations!! (Also LOOOVE the book choices. So on point!)

Bro.... you fumbled. This girl is angelic I mean holy fucking hell my guy.

Even having taken separate ways, I can see love and consideration in this relationship and made me happy to watch this conversation! It's so hard to talk about many of these things when you are dealing with a breakup, so having this "post mortem" type of discussion seems such a good way to learn from each other. Derek you also showed yourself more authentic and vulnerable, thanks for sharing

I like that you two are so confident talking about these difficult things, and the way that it seems like you have gotten over all this and just enjoy remembering those moments. Amazing. Thank you for sharing the experience with us.

I love how emotionally vulnerable and honest both of you are, it's really difficult to be that transparent about the way you view things and feel.

Can we appreciate the communication here ♥️ the fact that they can conversate and still have a friendship. Very mature, great job guys!

Bro this is probably gonna get lost in the sea of comments but. I recently broke up (6 months ago) with an ex who I thought was the love of my life, kids, marriage the whole shazam. And A part of me watching this made me hope that if we never do get back together that I can have a convo like this with her. But the biggest part, and dont take this the wrong way... It made me realize how much more she has healed and worked on herself than you have. And Seeing 2 sides of the coin in 1 video. It really does give as a viewer perspective , and I am already working on myself, but again hahah, not to shit on you or anything, its really cool you did this, but healing and working on yourself isnt easy, but its nessacary, and I realized that and I realize that even more now with this video. thanks for doing what you do man. It does help alot of people.

This was such a pleasure to watch even with the small tinge of discomfort that came from reflecting on the past. Thanks you two for being so vulnerable. Also, she’s beautiful. 😍

This was refreshing to hear two people have an elevated self aware conversation drenched in honesty. Not everyone is capable. You two are beyond your years❤ wish you both love & happiness

This is such a brutal watch because it’s very raw. Hoping you guys are doing better.

This was so freaking raw. THANK YOU for making this

Broo this video was so good, it was so interesting to watch. I think it’s really cool how Derek just opens up about his flaws. You both sound so mature tbh

I love the placement of the books. Derek "How To Apologize". His Ex "No more A-holes" 😂😂

the emotional intensity of this conversation, this video was really very striking and it is beautiful to see the depth of their perspectives and how they deal with their own emotions

Watching this makes me wonder what my ex would be thinking of me and I wonder if she would be wondering what I think of her as well.

I didn't know the existence of this show but thank you Derek I got addicted to it, your honesty and simplicity talking to the others is an example for me

what a mature and genuine interaction that reflected some of their qualms in their past relationships and I hope they find happiness in their future relationships

holy shit dude. a reading break for a sponsorship... is genius, W gateway. and good stuff on getting sponsored! you're making it.

LETS GOOO ANOTHER LIBRARY SHOW VIDEO

Can’t believe I watched the whole thing. I loved this episode and I realized that I have more healing to do. It’s so nice being able to see a more honest, representative picture to a relationship.

she’s needs to comeback, she’s such a genuine person

This is my favorite interview. It was so honest and cute.

this was so healing to watch

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Watching hard conversations and taboo topics navigated well is so good, I wish everyone was capable of talking like this

I think its so cool how you actually do a lot of self discovery by doing these episodes. You constantly get confronted with your past mistakes and analyse what you did/do wrong. Great opportunity to become a better person from this.

I usually hate how RU-vidrs do ads but the way you did the better help ad was really good.

The clearance and understanding you bring to each other is touching my heart deeply. You both reveal each others weaknesses and yet they seem to be superficial, cause all that conversation is really about in every second is the willingness to be united and vibrate in the depths of it all. Here now, in love. Thats all that is. If you would take away the story of each other and the label of ex, it would be even more obvious. Only love left

Love that you two didn't work out but are still able to talk and laugh and assess the relationship my ex moved on maybe 3 days after we split and we were together almost 5 years lol all my exes can burn 😭 glad you two have that connection still it wasn't wasted time ❤️🙏

i had 'the 1' playing low in the bg while watching this after they said that was the song and damn vibes were vibin (i'm crying)

beautiful conversation, i could relate a lot to what she said in the beginning of being so focused on how her partner felt and trying to be the best partner that she lost herself in the process.

this is the first vid im seeing on this channel and i genuinely can only say that the communication style of this conversation is something i wish was a way WAY more common thing. direct, and vulnerable, but with a high level of maturity and understanding, as well as the acknowledgement that feelings about past situations and interactions arent an attack on the present character of a person. i LOVE this so much, notis on for the channel for sure.

I loved this. I didn't want it to end. It's also been 3/4 years since my first and only relationship. I am still looking for closure and am hoping the conversation will go something like this. This definitely inspires me to seek that closure.

I love how even after breaking up 3 years ago they're laughing together so much. Seems like a healthy breakup that shows you don't need to have any beef with your ex and they clearly are compatible even if that's platonically

mhmmm so it wasnt just a coincidoink that we had a dating coach last episode

they way they were communicating and describing their feelings but listening and being mature is omgg i love

I appreciate how raw this video is. Enjoyed watching it and made me reflect on my own relationship and recognize places that I’m coming up short and what I can improve on.

the chemistry is immaculate bro, i loved it Derek :))

It's always the one that you could be so real and honest with that ends up not workoing out beacuse of some odd situation or personal life. Its so bittersweet because you always have good opinions of each other but its just never gonna happen again.

Man I loved watching this. It reminded me a lot of the mature people in my life and I’m so grateful. You guys are lovely.

She's literally the one that got away because the wasn't at his best and this is so beautiful. The respect and tension that's still there while also both of them knowing they care about themselves and eachother too much to go there again is just *muah*

First time watching, and honestly good episode. I like when people can be vulnerable and honest with a hint of accountability!

This really feels like a healing moment for her. I don't know for you.. but what a mature conversation to have. ❤

This is by far the best video I’ve watched in 2024 so far 💗 so raw and unfiltered

Not gonna lie , i really thought Derek would have said "lets give it one more try". Lol Derek has changed so much it's really inspiring.

the thumbnail/intro scared me but this was so refreshing to watch hahhahha

Bro fumbled horrendously. No other girl is gonna top her

I love how open you both are, so healthy😌

My only complaint with these is that they're too short! Always goes by so fast and I want more!

The more I watch interviews, the less I like him. Not in a hate sorta way. Just in a “oh, this kid has a lot to learn” which again, isn’t bad. We’re all learning and growing. But I remember being in his state of mind at one point and i have no interest in watching it. Even tho the people he has brought on have been, fairly interesting. Keep growing dude I’m sure this channel will grow. It’s a cool thing going on. Just not for me

OH SHE'S FROM QUEBEC!!!

The Quebec accent goes hard in french ngl, i really really enjoyed this episode ! I felt sadness, nostalgia and happiness, to see you two speak so frankly and amicably about something as divisive as a separation, it really touched me, thank you for this and every other video you make !

This was honestly such a great conversation !

bro please drop betterhelp as a sponsor 🗣

Damned that ep is soooo good ! I mean, all your eps are, but getting to hear two people talk about their past and mistakes in such a mature way is incredible, and so rare ! It makes me want to keep growing so I can reach that level of maturity. Also Lisy seems to be a really beautiful soul (I would love to have someone like her as a friend), and it was very fun to hear a bit of french here (at first I thought my brain had return to it's natural mode XD) Annndd I also loved the part about the sponsor for once, I think it conresponded really well to your content and it was so well done with the book and all, you did put it in a very fun way ; ) Anyway I really enjoyed this ep, I just love your content, and I wish you will produce more and more of this type of content, because I feel like its making us (the viewers) grow from your experiences too. PS: be kind if not everything I've said was clear, I'm french and my english is far from being perfect

Lowk didnt want this to end like as painful it is to watch its acc so nice to see two decent ppl having a civil conversation ESP as exes like yall r amazing hopefully u find ur person soon or j heal soon yanaw?

loved this episode man! really pointed out stuff that It hadn't crossed my mind before.

LETS GO DEREK KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK AND I LOVE THE CONTENT