I cannot conceive of this conversation going this way. No man is going to be this calm in this situation. Saying you're against something but do as you please is not the same as saying don't do it. Wife was definitely wrong, but husband was playing silly games and did not even consider saving his marriage. When, pray tell, did he have time between gathering up all his stuff and moving out to buy cameras and set them up before wife came home? These stories bugger the imagination.