My fairytale boho bedroom is finally getting lamps 

Completely understand, privacy is vital for your safety and mental health, Elise. We are here for whatever, no obligations, no stress, and just even showing your town has been so nice to see. Please take car of yourself, that’s what is most important to us. Enjoy the miracle of Christmas, my dear, and we will enjoy the miracle of you, whenever you choose to post. Wishing you many sunny days to warm your heart this month. 🇺🇸🥰🌞🌻🌞🌻🌞

You don’t owe us, your viewers, anything more than you are comfortable sharing. I see in the comments that most of us agree that we will watch whatever you put out, whenever you put it out. We watch because we admire your style, creativity, work ethic, thrifting and gardening and decorating skills, etc. etc. Keep being you and we will keep watching. ❤️❤️❤️

Elise is gonna win the grand prize in her scratch off advent this year. Let’s collectively manifest it for her!!

As an interior designer I would put the floral bed spread under the duvet spread then foldable the duvet down to show the flowers it separates them and it will look amazing then throw your pillows on ❤🙋🏻‍♀️🥰

Whenever I worry about not living up to others' expectations I think of the saying "those that matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter." Maybe that seems a little harsh but we, your friends, want you to enjoy the Christmas season too, and we will be here to watch whenever you pop up in our feed. Wishing you many holiday blessings, Elise!

You don’t have explain yourself at all. Seeing you every week is enough to expect of you. You always come first and do what is right for you ❤

You have accomplished so much in a year Elise. You should be very proud❤❤❤

You do not have to apologize for having a balanced work and social life. Your life belongs to you, not us. What you choose to share with us is a treat. I really enjoy your videos and gave you a thumbs up. Oh, and I see you are wearing your new sweater :)

An 18 minute video will be just fine! No need to worry about Vlogmas this year! I enjoy your videos just the same. Great to see your city at Christmastime and I hope to see more this year. The scene of beautifully colored fall leaves under your feet was classic!

I absolutely respect your privacy 💯. Your bedroom is beautiful.👍🥰

I love what you’ve been doing with your bedroom wallpaper and the new sheets… But I think the roses are fighting with the wallpaper on the wall. It would be fun to find another pattern or just plain green for the throw. I love to watch you decorate because I’m into decorating too. Love from North Carolina.

I will look forward to your December video schedule. So glad you didn’t commit to Vlogmas when it felt like too much. Your mental health and actually enjoying the season are more important.

No pressure about Vlogmas Elise ❤Whatever you decide to create for us is appreciated. Definitely put your own mental and physical health first!!

We will enjoy whatever content you want to share... whenever you choose to share it! Enjoy the Holiday Season with your friends and family. Happy Holidays Elise!!!🎄🎅☃

Elise, it would be best if you had a solid bedspread. Glad you finally found the light fixture and beige sheet. Cheers

You are amazing, love how self sufficient you are. Good for you have a great weekend.

I love being independent fixing up my home the way I want it- working in my flower beds. Luv your independence too. Nice light.

I have a lot of RU-vidrs I follow and I have never watched anyone's vlogmas every day. Who has the time to make them or watch them? A once a week vlogmas from my favorites would make me happy.

You have made a wise and respected decision re: not filming everything and everyone ... Thumbs up to your ceiling light .. Love the video .. Think of you as a cherished friend . You are so lovely and your style excites and inspires me. So happy I have found your videos again .. Look forward to hanging out with you this holiday season ❤

Very good, well explained: you don’t owe anybody such a unnecessary pressure. It’s you who is allowed to enjoy December as much as possible.

Elise ❤ " Less is more; because it keeps us anticipating what is next !!! Enjoy your private time & good for you that you keep yourself & your friends & family preciously to yourself. That is a good thing. (Bedroom idea) Have you considered putting your " dressing table" at your window where much more light is available & putting your clothes rack behind the door? I'm a good one for trying things out. One more "idea" about finding the right man; I have a belief that although "opposites do Attract they aren't always Compatible " Elise I'm 73 & have learned if you can find someone "Enough like you" they are more likely to have the same principles & standards & the better a relationship is. Love grows over time & passion & desire comes with being precious to someone. A woman needs to be truly loved & a man needs to be respected! It is better to have NO ONE than the WRONG ONE!!! You are a beautiful young woman in & out !!! Infact you are extraordinary, above ordinary & you are wise & intelligent in the way you're living your life. I will go so far as saying there are many that envy your singleness & your being pretty self-efficient. You ARE a magnificent woman.

Your roses bedspread is so pretty, but it seems busy with wall paper. I was thinking maybe you could fold it at the bottom of the bed, so just a little of the spread is shown. Hope you don't mind my opinion. Love your style!

Totally understand not wanting post every day, that is too much for anybody. I do not think we need or want a video every day. What I am looking forward to is more cozy content from you Elise, cooking and baking, decorating, maybe Christmas shopping in vintage shops. I particularly enjoy you showing us around your city, it is so charming and full of cozy winter spirit already!

i think a chandelier with crystals would look beautiful in your bedroom

A beautiful lamp for your bedroom! I for myself am looking forward to your videos, but I do not take them for granted, but am grateful that you are sharing a bit of your life with us. Do not feel stressed, share what is possible for you, not more, and enjoy your life beside of youtube. 😊

Would your roses blanket work as a throw on the couch? That way you wouldn't have to part with it! It might look nice across from the floral embroidery pillows, to kind of echo the flowers. :)

Elise, you absolutely do NOT owe us an explanation nor apology! You need to do what's best and healthy for you.

A cream matelasse coverlet and big euro shams would be pretty on your bed! And that floral cover could be folded across the foot of the bed! Then a few decorative pillows! I’m one of those “You can never have too many pillows” kind of person! 😅

I love the floral bed spread. Keep it! It gives off that maximalist vibe we all love :)

Your bedspread goes so well with your wallpaper it’s incredible. Both different patterns go together so well!

Elise I love your new light shade and the standard corner lamp. Cozy idea. Your new beige/taupe bedding is warming too coupled with your new big duvet. Maybe add a green or pink velvet blanket on top of your bed spread. The vintage collection is beautiful. Please don’t stress about producing daily vlogs over Christmas. We wouldn’t want you to feel worn out. If you have time to do two a week that would be enough and great. Maybe Christmas decorations making demo, Christmas cooking/baking demo, painting pictures demo, decorating your tree demo, wrapping presents demo. Just a few ideas to show us. We love the idea of celebrating the Christmas warmth with you whenever you are able but please don’t let it stress you in any way. Thank you Elise 💖

You could lace a chain or silk vine through the cord also they make a stick on tubing that goes over the wire that sticks to the surface like the ceiling and walls.

I’m so glad you whitewashed the brick wall-a huge difference in the lighting in the living room. Love your videos as always. 👏👏👏

Elise, don’t feel bad about taking care of yourself and keep your privacy for your safety and being able to enjoy your family and friends. We will watch whatever you post! ❤️

You go girl!! Do what makes you feel good. Always fun to watch!

Im happy with whatever videos you put out. I actually don’t always immediately click on them when posted bc I so enjoy the vibes of your content and I find them so unique that sometimes I save them for when I know I need that inspo to relax, enjoy life, or feel inspired. Don’t feel pressured to pump out vlogmas content, enjoy your life, not everything has to be filmed or captured.

I don’t even know what vlogmas is…. But if it’s making a video per day… that’s much too time consuming and unnecessary. I enjoy your Thurs/Friday videos… so anything more is a sweet bonus. I think you’re wise to keep most or all of your personal relationships & info private. You’re a sweet & lovely young lady. May the LORD bless you, dear Elise.

I think an olive green type through blanket will look super smart with this bedding and wallpaper.

It's amazing! Who would have told me that you were capable of connecting the electrical wires of the ceiling lighter to the wall and placing in a perfect way the lighter on the ceiling!!!! In my country (Greece) these are men's jobs and I couldn't imagine myself doing anything similar! BRAVO, Elise! You are getting the thumps up!!!! You are full of suprises! As always you are very creative and recourseful with the items you are picking up for your decoration and you are adding a nostalgic note to your personal environment! Love you!!! This is Christine from the north suburbs of Athens/Greece.

I and your followers appreciate your honesty with us regarding Vlogmas. It's a big time commitment and we want you to enjoy your holiday. We will enjoy whatever content you share with us. 🙃

I think a tall vintage lamp attached to a "what not table' would be perfect for that spot in your bedroom Elise :)

Please do only what you can as far as Vlogmas....I totally understand your position and I really do not think it is expected that you shoot Vlogmas videos every day. I am home bound and never get to get to Christmas fairs or bazaars or drives in the country. The videos you post always makes me feel that I am right there with you, and for a girl who never leaves her room, that is such a wonderful thing! I hope you will share your Christmas baking, your Christmas tree shopping and decorating, your gift wrapping, and the Christmas shopping trips you make to the beautifully decorated shops and towns!!! And of course ...thrifting videos! I appreciate all you share with your viewers, Elise, and I want you to know that I respect, admire, and love you very much. Thank you for lifting my spirits and putting a smile on my face!!

Thank you for talking about the privacy aspect of posting. I'm glad you're setting boundaries because people feel like they should show everything and everyone in their life. I think it's generous enough that you share about your decor and home buying process and your clothing business. I hope everyone will support you and respect your need to take certain times for yourself. ❤😊

Your bedroom is so romantic and beautiful 😍

The new lamp looks very charming. I admire your electric skills! Enjoy the christmas time and do whatever makes you happy. Private time is precious, so are intimate moments with family and friends. These are non of our business, that is my opinion. You already let so many people into your personal life, people you don't even know. It is very nice to watch your videos, but it is good to hear, that you are keeping your social life to yourself. It is your very own treasure.

I don't see how any body could film everyday especially at Christmas time. I look forward to your videos every week. 😊

Elise please don't feel pressured into doing vlogmas. Your right, it's your private life and if you don't feel comfortable doing it then don't. We love your channel anyway, and we will be here long after Christmas x

The smile on your face when you said “I’m going to have my own Christmas tree” ❤️ Regarding Vlogmas; only show what you’re comfortable and can manage showing. You are in control of your life and what you choose to share with us. Never let anyone take that power from you.

Love the look of both the lamps. I'm especially fond of the more antique looking lamp in the corner.

Elise, don't burn yourself out with vlogmas. Enjoy the holiday. Stay healthy.

I would fold the floral blanket in half at the end of the bed. You could still see the beautiful pattern, but it woul look more intentional.

I don’t believe a persons personal life needs to be put on camera for all the world to see!! Good for you that you are taking care Of yourself and the people in your personal life!! Love the clothing and the new lamp is great!!🤗

Hi Elise, You dont need to put yourself under any pressure for your viewers. We are happy to watch whatever content you provide. I love watching the way your home and garden have developed since you moved into your new house. You should be very proud as you have achieved so much and developed such skills. You just look after yourself, enjoy the run up to the holiday season and do whatever you want to do.

Love your attitude, your videos, your humbleness.

I’ve finally realized that your bed spread is the same pattern of a dress I had in the early 90’s. It was beautiful, with short sleeves with a ruffled edge, to the ankle, and buttons, not one alike, down the center. I actually saved a piece of it and put it into a Cathedral Window quilt.

Thank you Ellse for taking the time out to make your videos sometimes other things become more or less important you have to prioritise your health and wellbeing. Enjoy the seasons and stay cosy. 🙏💚🌹

Elise, I stopped the video at 4:19! Have you considered using a gold chain instead of the white chord? That was very popular back in the 1970's, and would be truly vintage! I think I even see those today on Pinterest. Also, even though I loved your bedspread, the white comforter really looks great with the rest of your bedroom decor. OK, back to the video! .

I'm a little late to this party but as someone who lost his small business during the Covid lockdowns it's crucial to support small businesses. I'm glad you mentioned it my dear.

I love that green jacket you have with the embroidered flowers very pretty. I Loved the dreamy happy look on your face when you said you were getting your first home Christmas Tree, best feeling ever.

I LOVE the mix of patterns of the wallpaper with the floral bed throw.....BEAUTIFUL.

People don't realise how much work goes into filming and EDITING go into vlogging. Do what you can.🤗

I do believe vlogging everyday for Christmas season is too much for you. Do what you can to celebrate Christmas, teaching us about your traditions, but also give yourself the personal time to enjoy the season with family and friends stress-free. ❤

I have never liked vlogmas because I know how stressful it is for everyone. Don’t worry about filming everyday. Just take care of yourself and enjoy your Christmas with family and friends.

Sounds like a wonderl personalised vlogmas to me that suits no one better you.

I don’t mind the videos being shorter. I am happy with whatever you are comfortable doing, as it seems everyone who watches you feels too. Doing a Vogmas everyday sounds exhausting. Just happy with you doing whatever you enjoy producing. Even bits of you making your stars or a view of town or shop windows is a treat…. Glimpses of the Christmas season. Especially since you love it so much, there shouldn’t be stress around the holiday season. I agree that a lamp is lovely to have in your bedroom. The one from the shop looks beautiful when lit, but whatever you chose will be amazing. I do really like the ceiling light. I like that it is a fabric - soft addition to the room. With your bedspread…. What if it is folded at the end of your bed so you can still enjoy its beauty without it competing with the wallpaper? That soft coloured new bedding is such a warm colour. I always think of beige as having a more yellow sandy tone too.

Totally agree - support small businesses and not the behemoth which is Am azon.

Whenever you are on it’s a pleasure. Blackness in s too much to do for holidays. After all we’re busy too. I love what ever you do when you do. It’s beautiful to watch you do the things you do. Your radiant and to me your private life is going right. That’s what’s important. Gif bless you and thank you from across the pond!!!

The duvet cover is a perfect match to some of the fruit pieces of the wallpaper and your curtains and I think it makes the rose blanket harmonize even better with the wallpaper when it has that warmth next to it. I really like the lamp you picked it nice and neutral and soft so it's not competing with the other things in the room. And the light bulb color you picked really shows how it can make a difference in how the shade looks, it adds the perfect amount of warmth to the space.

I had a thought about your bed cover. Instead of flowery print maybe a thin stripe using your favorite color from the wallpaper design. Always enjoy your content. Taking care of yourself is always the most important. Debbie from Georgia 🇺🇸

I would love to see you making your own Christmas decorations! The holiday season is full enough that you shouldn’t worry about doing a video a day. I enjoy watching you thrift and decorate!

100% appreciate and support you having some privacy. You are enough.. I get it Elise. Even just twice a week would be nice

Ack! Just finished the video, you poor girl. Your loved ones and health always come first. It's so important you enjoy your favorite time of year with them -- and I've noticed you get sick either during or right after Christmas every year. That's from exhaustion and stress. Do what you can but if at any time you feel it's dragging you down, take a break! We will all still be here and we want you to be as well.

You should always do what works best for you. And I like that floor lamp by the vanity 😁

Whatever you do, we will watch & appreciate 💕 Maybe start filming recipes, cooking, making ornaments, decorating & gift shopping, etc… Do short videos for December just prep & edit in advance to give yourself a head start. Just an idea to take the pressure off. Next year start in October? We won’t know when you actually opened the days on the Advent calendar lol!

Best Lamp for that BEAUTIFUL bedroom Elise❤

A beautiful solid green comforter would be pretty,I think

You are such a lovely and loving woman. Everything you present is so uplifting because it's all so colorful but also because it is so human. I love that about you. Thank you for all you do to bring cheer and creativity to the world.

The ceiling bedroom lamp is awesome, love your bedroom,especially the wallpaper. Totally enjoyed this video and for heavens sake take care of yourself. So happy you are being reasonable about what you want to do and what is best for you to do. Thanks Elise for sharing your creativity.

I am so proud of you for making time for yourself, family, and friends! You shouldn't always be working and filming! You need a break just like everyone else during the holidays!!! Its a time of rest, and focusing on the people in your personal life that are important ❤ I think I speak for the people who truly love your channel, and care about you when i say this!❤️❤️❤️

Nothing wrong with modern/ Grandma combo. You just described my house.

I totally admire and respect your personal decisions. It is important for you to take care of yourself first, both physically and mentally.

Completely understandable, of course, but I have to say I really miss videos with your family, your interactions with your sister especially tickled me. Really love watching you open your advent calendar treats too. I look forward to watching whatever you decide to share and I appreciate all your hard work. Thank you

Your bedroom wallpaper is so dreamy!

Here’s an idea, repurpose the bedspread by making a couple of aprons or pillowcases.

I love the flower bedspread with the wallpaper. Lots of character!

Your videos are such a treat. Please vlog when it’s comfortable for you. No one would want you stressed out. The holidays are meant for joy and peace. Thank you for giving of yourself as you are quite amazing to spend time with. Elise please take care and vlog when YOU want to. Hugs and love to you lovely! ♥️🌹🎏

I just have to say that with such ‘busy’ wallpaper you need a plain cover on your bed 😊 ❤

Elise the Electrician!! Nicely done, miss. Independence looks gorgeous on a woman. The "beige" sheets really brought out the pink in wallpaper and tied in nicely to your rose hallway without being overdone. As beautiful as your bedspread is, it may have to go into storage for guests because it really competes with the walls. Or, have you thought about folding it down to the foot of your bed, with a couple of needlepoint pillows at the head? Whatever you do I'm sure it will be as inspiring as you always make it. The studio tree is so adorable! Can't wait to see your home tree. I remember my first -- I took in a roommate right after Christmas and we decided together that the tree was so pretty, we left it up until the lights died 2 months later.😂My excuse is that we were both thousands of miles from home.

What ever you want to do! We are happy with a video whenever you want to make one! It’s fine no problem no pressure Elise! You don’t have to explain! Or feel guilty. Sending big hugs from the Uk 🇬🇧 ❤🩷💖💙💛💚🧡

A Danish city at Christmas is so charming! Those few moments you showed if the storefronts were so pretty! I like your lamp. It looked so warm when it was on. I get how you feel about the pretty bedspread. But both that and the wallpaper have a white background. A floral with a green or pink background would go better it there, or, a green on green design comforter, or pink on pink, and then your pretty floral comforter folded at the foot of the bed. That’s my idea. I know you get a lot of ideas and I’m sure whatever you end up doing will be beautiful! I agree with you about vlogmas. You have to still have your life and take care of yourself.

I’m so glad you are setting healthy boundaries and I really hope you enjoy the holiday season! Your bedroom is coming along so well, I love the new color bedding!

The wallpaper in your bedroom is lovely. Like sleeping in nature 🌱 🌸

Elise, I completely understand how busy you’re going to be through the holidays. Leave yourself time to enjoy your family and friends, you don’t need to blog all of that stuff. I just love your videos so much that even if you didn’t edit them or blog everything I would enjoy relaxing with a cup of hot tea and watching. You actually make me want to visit your country someday, It looks so beautiful and I know somewhere in my roots part of my family were from there.❤❤Judy❤❤

It's always wonderful to see what you're up to dear Elise! I think It's so important to set an example of a healthy balance between content creation and personal life. December is a time to join the festivities and be fully present with our loved ones. Life goes by so quickly and all those chances to share with our family wont last forever. Nonetheless I'm really excited to watch some cozy christmas videos!

Hi Elise I love the bedroom vibes! You look so rested & well! Have a great weekend ! Greetings from Dubai!!!!!!!

I look forward & very much enjoy your vlogs - they make me feel good & calm. You being stressed does not appeal at all. Whatever - literally, whatever you chose to share is wonderful ❤

Nice Elise💡Your sheets look like they are a beigy soft pink on camera, like the pale leaves in your wallpaper and I like the cozy mood your "Grandma" lamp gives to your bedroom. See you when you can, no pressure❣

Don't feel bad. It's very important to have and set boundaries we understand. Just know that we live your content, and your past vlogmas content was fun, that's why we ask. You're a delight to watch. Take care

We will enjoy what every you choose to share with us. Don't stress to much. Just go with the flow.

Whatever and whenever you choose to post it's a gift. Keeping personal and professional life separate feels like the smart way to go, and I usually prefer it. I could never keep up with a Vlogmas schedule, so I wouldn't expect anyone to provide that for me. I'd be more pleased by knowing that you're enjoying the season and resting up for the new year ✨