I get my husband from my Dad as well is true that our fathers have the blessing they see the future so any woman who is close to her Dad and listen to advice is wise and Father's knows I'm greatful to my Dad because indeed my husband is a good Man and I love him soo much
I got someone like her she told me the same thing I over care I respect allot so she don't like such guys so she has blocked me am praying one day she will get change of mind and come to me again
sometimes check what you call "care", some men are clingy and overly present because of insecurities and fear, giving no privacy to their partners. What you may be assuming as care may be overdoing, so I suggest you do an introspection and see if there's any need for redirection or improvement
What she is saying is true. Ghanaians hates to see someone’s happens. As far as jobs goes, it depends on the state that you leaves in. State like Virginia, Maryland, New York, New Jersey, Pennsylvania life is hard.
Book knowledge about America is not the same as on the ground. If you rely on what you have learned on RU-vid and books alone, without the input of the experience burger/s, you are bound to make some very costly elementary mistakes. I was a seasoned 5 years Europe hustler before I arrived in America in the 80s and I hit the ground running fast. I married and papered in under 8 months, but I still listened to the old burgers that came before me! All nationalities do that with the newcomers! They show them some of the ropes.
Sometimes you will know the person in and out it will still not work. The character of the person is more important than the circumstance. You can meet someone you never knew and it will still work.
Her multiple reasons for leaving the first guy is quite interesting! From no long distance relationship to hearing reports of the dude going to the beach to him being a moslem.....smh lol
I would comment from the perspective of a woman. I have realised that some men who live abroad are so prideful and disrespectful towards women who live in Ghana or Africa. They often look down on such women and instead of identifying the values in them, all their attention is on how much they spent to bring them overseas. It is always, I brought her and she left. What about how you talked down on her or disregarded her just because you brought her overseas? Mutual respect is so necessary for relationship to last. Let's value people over money
DJ, I watched your interview. Your premise is wrong. U can’t stay in America for few years & think that u know more than someone who has lived here for many years. There’s a lot to learn. The most important thing is to keep your eyes on the prize. Listen to your instinct & have a plan. Most importantly, obey the laws & don’t use short cuts. Been in stateside for more than fifty years & still learning 😀 😂 Retired & enjoying peaceful life in Texas
