My Fiancé Demanded I Put His Family First, Even At The Cost Of My Sister’s Health....- Reddit Family 

My Fiancé Demanded I Put His Family First, Even At The Cost Of My Sister’s Health....- Reddit Family
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My Fiancé Demanded I Put His Family First, Even At The Cost Of My Sister’s Health. Now I’m Reconsidering Everything.
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A 28-year-old woman (OOP) faced a turning point in her relationship with her fiancé, Rob, after he demanded she prioritize his family over her own, even at the expense of her sister Kim’s health. Kim had suffered a serious eye condition, requiring emergency surgery, and OOP chose to be by her sister’s side instead of attending a family dinner with Rob’s family. This sparked tension, with Rob insisting that she put his family first, particularly after marriage. OOP stood firm, but the situation escalated when Rob told her she needed to prioritize him and his family over hers or their relationship wouldn’t work.
After days of reflection, OOP decided to break off the engagement, unable to accept Rob’s selfish demands. She sought legal advice to evict Rob from her house, which she owned outright. With the help of Rob’s mother, Sandra, and his brother, she successfully had Rob removed from her home. During the fallout, OOP learned Rob had secretly reconnected with his abusive father, whose toxic influence fueled Rob’s unreasonable behavior. Rob’s relationship with his father ultimately caused rifts in his family, with his brother cutting contact and Sandra deeply disappointed in her son.
Rob later showed up at OOP’s house, homeless and seeking her help, but she refused. He continued couch-surfing with friends, but his behavior, influenced by his father’s misogynistic views, led to his friends cutting ties with him. After a violent altercation with his father, Rob was arrested and spent Christmas in prison. He later pleaded guilty to assault charges but received a suspended sentence.
OOP moved on from the relationship, blocking Rob and maintaining no contact. Rob’s mother and brother also distanced themselves from him, and OOP focused on her own well-being and supporting her sister during her recovery. Though rumors surfaced online suggesting she had reconciled with Rob, OOP clarified that she had no intention of reuniting with him, firmly closing that chapter of her life.
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