Hey guys💘 Wow it feels good to post a vlog... I really hope you all enjoy it ! Thank you for all of your incredible support as always, you truly are the best. see you all soon! Molly-Mae xxx
Me and my partner couldn’t help but laugh at how relatable you guys are! We certainly wouldn’t of paid £17 for parking.. it is ridiculous! But it’s even funnier cause you guys are in a G wagon and Tommy was wearing a dior coat 😂
I believe it’s free parking if you don’t have a National Trust membership. However I do agree with your point in the view that they flaunt luxurious items that yet won’t pay towards a UK charity organisation.
I'd recommend you guys spend the £150/year to support the National Trust, all the maintenance costs associated with keeping parks looking so lovely all year round and with the added bonus of easier access 🙂👍
@@montyharrison-stirling1457 you want them to spend their money so badd. It’s their money not yours mate. Simply because they’re rich enough doesn’t mean they have to. 17 pounds for a parking spot is ass
For any mums breastfeeding out there, please be reassured that your period coming back, fussy behaviour, long feeds and sucking hard is not an indication of low supply, but completely normal behaviour for a 6 week old baby. Saying that however it is absolutely your choice whether you with to carry on at that point (or any point) and 6 weeks is Still an amazing amount of time to BF, as is 6 hour or 6 months :) just please don't worry about low supply because of these things xx
Totally agreed!! I went through all of that. It’s definitely not an indication of low supply. Just kept going and it got so much better. We are 19 months still breastfeeding. I think us mums need more help and support with breastfeeding, it’s actually more rare for a low supply to happen apparently? It just seems like we have low supply, especially if you try pump and barley get anything. That’s what happened to me but my boobs never reacted the same with the pump as my baby that’s why I wasn’t able to pump a lot I think! Truly hope these comments help other BF mums to push through if they feel like they want to. It is stressful thinking you have low supply but most of the time we don’t ❤️ the newborn stage is hard for BF but it gets so much easier x
Totally agree. My periods came back after about three months but i breastfed until my baby was a year old with no problems. Not an indicator that your supply is running out.
Thank god someone said it! Breastfeeding can be such a hard journey - I'm so envious of everyone who finds it easy as I haven't! But I'm persevering. Insinuating that you have to stop breastfeeding because you've started menstruating can be really damaging to someone who might not have support or information.
She’s getting low supply because she’s restricting the night feeds to her newborn baby! It’s so sad and harmful to baby not just developmentally but also for bonding too 😢
A ten week old BABY shouldn't be denied food. Stop being lazy because you want sleep.. This is disgusting and horrible. You can't tell a ten week old baby no milk. Your basically saying that it's ok to have a baby crying starving hungry because you can't be arsed to feed at night.
Congratulations on the baby! If she’s still waking for feeds, feed her. 10 weeks is still very very very small. She will still cluster feed until she’s about 4 months.
Wow you know you made it big when RU-vid comments on your videos!! Can’t imagine my 68 subscriber channel ever being that big but you are such an inspiration ❤️
As other people have said its way too early to be dropping feeds in the night. My son is 18 months & he still has night feeds & this completely normal. Please don't make her go 8 hours without a feed if she's clearly hungry. I'm not mom shaming here I just think you need to be educated.
2 year old daughter in bed, husband watching tv downstairs and I’m in bed with an easter egg, checked your channel just in case of a new video and you have no idea how happy I was to see this! 🥹 you’re doing absolutely incredible Molly, both you and Tommy should be so proud of yourselves. Bambi is beautiful ❤️
It is NOT an accomplishment to starve a 10 week old from 11 pm to 7 am. I am horrified. Seek knowledge please, this is child neglect. I hope and pray that after reading these comments, you start feeding your baby during the night. I felt sick to my stomach when you said she wakes throughout the night wanting milk but you do not give her. That is scandalous. Your baby is 10 weeks for God’s sake and is NOT supposed to be on a schedule like that and be forced to wait until 7 in the morning. What the actual ****!!!! I genuinely feel sorry for the little baby. You are supposed to respond to HER needs and feed her whenever SHE wants, not the opposite. You seem like you are rushing a “routine”, talking about nighttime bottle and stuff. There is no such thing as nighttime bottle at 10 weeks, it is FEED WHENEVER SHE WANTS.
I agree with this so hard! No such thing a bedtime routine at 10 weeks old. I mean it's helpful to have a general time each night that you aim to have her asleep but Molly please don't put pressure on yourself or your baby to have a routine because guess what.... when she goes througha sleep regression its gonna hit you like a tonne of bricks.
So great to see you doing so well ! It's a huge adjustment becoming a mum and your doing amazing, wishing you and your family all the happiness in the world ❤
The misinformation is dangerous. I'm a huge fan and also have a baby but I must say your videos are becoming very unrelatable and damaging to new mums. On a step trainer literally days after birth ? Great way to encourage girls to give themselves all sorts of damage post birth such as prolapse and exhaustion. Trying to diet whilst breastfeeding is madness. Dropping night feeds way too young so you can sleep is very dangerous for Bambi, weight loss, SIDS risk and phycologically for her. I know it's your job to have this 'perfect' image but your platform is huge for you not to be considering the ramifications.
For all the new breastfeeding mums out there worrying about your supply or the length of your feeds. At 6 weeks old 2 hours is normal. It's called cluster feeding. And you can absolutely get your periods back when breastfeeding and this is not an indication of low supply. I got my period back at 6 weeks post partum and I'm still breastfeeding 8 months on. Molly I'm proud you breastfed for 6 weeks but please be careful of spreading misinformation! Also 6 months is the norm and what is adviced by medical professionals for starting to drop night feeds for formula fed babies, not 10 weeks. So all you mummas out there who's babies are still waking for feeds... It's normal ❤
Yes cluster feeding is totally normal, the baby is going through big growth spurts and developmental milestones at that age. Go with your baby, the more you feed them the more milk you'll produce. It does get easier, sleep when baby sleeps😊
I’m so glad someone put this out there, not going to lie it made me mad that she put this out there, not being horrible but other mums are going to think this it true facts, should def look things like this up before putting it out there
Omg molly if she’s waking up wanting a feed, please give it to her, she could be going through a growth spurt and your denying her food to help her with that 🙈 if a baby wakes crying, it’s because she’s either hungry, has wind, needs a nappy changing or she’s teething (a bit early for that though) I feel like your really need speak to a health visitor for advice 😬
Yes, you need to offer milk every 3hours until 8 weeks and night feedings should be offered until 6 months. Definitely speak with a neonatologist before cutting the night feeding at such young age!!!!!
This is so sad. Getting a period is not an indicator of supply! Im still feeding my 4th child hes 11month he still feeds every few hours in the night iv NEVER stop that and tell him he wasnt having it wtf 😢 a 10 week old baby doesnt know routine. Babies wake for a reason
If you a new mum watching this and you baby is feeding for two hours, it’s not because there is no milk there. It’s completely normal they are cluster feeding to up your supply and breastfeeding is so much more than just getting milk and just because you have your period doesn’t meant to say you have a low supply. Also at 3 not even 3 months old a baby shouldn’t have night feeds dropped if they are waking. I hate to be negative but it can be detrimental to a breastfeeding journey to hear information like this.
“Everyone should go for free, it’s a field” had me laughing so hard hahaha so happy to have your videos back to look forward to!! Bambi is so stinking cute and your little family is just beautiful 🥰 much love to you guys! 💜
I was looking for this comment I was dying when he said that 🤣 too bloody right too, £17 is a shambles! Yes it may be for a charity but with the amount of people they could have there everyday the cost should be lowered a little for people like me who struggle more and don’t have £17 for a walk around the field, love you molly and tommy! both doing amazing with little bam bam ❤
If you weren’t an influencer social would have been called and would have checked on that baby. It’s not okay to refuse feeds when the baby is waking frequently. Your poor baby is waking to be fed and you’re telling her no. It’s cruel. Starting your period is in no way a sign that your breastmilk isn’t where it should be. You can still have periods while breastfeeding olease done post misinformation.
It’s biologically normal for babies to continue to wake through the night. You shouldn’t drop their night feeds. 10 weeks is too little to stop night feeds. They are growing.. they need food! It’s actually recommended to slowly drop their night feeds at 6 months.. but even then they still wake up hungry. My baby didn’t start sleeping through the night until 10 months and stopped night feeds at 8 months.
I got my period back at 2 months postpartum. I was exclusively breastfeeding and have now for 14 months & counting! Your period is not an indication of how much milk you produce. Mummas please don’t think this!! Go to a lactation consultant if you’re concerned.
Absolutley! Really sadly the pressure to make babies sleep through is societal and honestly just adds stress for mum and dad! It is so normal for babies to wake be it for comfort or hunger or just because they have immature circadian rhythm. All babies will sleep through when they are ready. 😊❤️You’re doing just great! Xx
@Morgan williamson many of them have received their information from nurses or midwives though, if they are parents, or through research. Plenty of reliable NHS backed resources out there - la leche, etc.
You need to educate yourself on breastfeeding and stop misinforming young mums who look up to you. Your baby would have been cluster feeding, which helps your supply to build up.Your milk supply would have stopped because you stopped night feeding, it’s got nothing to do with having a period. You produce your milk supply hormones most during the night so spreading this misinformation to young mums is so damaging. You definitely need to address this. Night feeding protects your baby against SIDS. I have been been breastfeeding for 4 months and had 2 periods and my milk supply is fine, the reason your supply has stopped is because you stopped night feeding. Please feed your baby at night time, she is too young to drop a feed. For all young mums out there, you can breastfeed during your period it does not effect your supply. Dropping feeds effects your supply, especially at night time where your prolactin levels (the hormone designed to support milk production) is at its highest. Molly mae shame on you for not educating yourself before making this video.
There is so much misinformation here that I hope you can correct in a future vlog. First of all, it is very rare for a mother to not produce enough milk. Your baby was cluster feeding, which is completely normal at that age to increase and establish a good supply. You are actually supposed to breastfeed very frequently in the newborn stage and it is completely normal for your baby to seek the breast very often. I would sometimes breastfeed half an hour after the last feed, and maximum 2 hours between feeds when she was awake. It is exhausting, but rewarding ♥️ Secondly, I am really curious who told you to drop night feeds at 10 weeks? I’m sorry, but your baby is waking up to have milk and you are depriving her.. for what? Please Molly, seek knowledge about this. This is alarming. You are NOT supposed to drop night feeds until 6 months (unless your baby does not wake up, then you obviously let her sleep).
I am so glad someone put this out there, it made me so angry, it’s like a form of child neglect, refusing to give her milk at this young age “if” she’s waking up for it. I have 3 children, first two woke up for feeds up until 6ish months, 3rd slept through from 3 weeks old, put plenty of weight on (constantly fed through the day 😅) such dangerous misinformation 😬
Honestly you bring such a calmness when you upload! Can just relax with a cup of tea and enjoy 30 mins watching the most genuine beautiful family, you should be so proud of what you’ve achieved girly! ✨
Just letting you know you did have enough milk, it sounds like Bambi was cluster feeding and it takes a full week to up your supply for your child’s next developmental stage
She was cluster feeding to establish your supply. It is exhausting at the start and feels like they aren’t off there. But it does get better once supply is established. It is extremely rare to have low supply. Studies show even women in poor nations have good quality breastmilk.
This is so hard to listen to, because of the misinformation in this video which is being spread to millions. I don’t blame Molly for a moment, because she doesn’t know what she doesn’t know, but a few facts for anyone who wants to breastfeed: • Sometimes a feed will last 5 minutes, other times (when your baby is trying to increase your milk supply), it will last for hours. This is normal & essential for increasing your supply. It’s like your baby sending a signal to your brain which says, “More milk please!” Your milk production will respond within a few days. I didn’t know this either as a new mama, because lactation education is so poor. • Some mamas, me included - do get their period back within weeks & it has nothing to do with your milk. It is not a sign that you are not producing enough. It could be a symptom of not feeding on demand 24/7 of you have put your baby into a routine at such an early age. Responsive, on demand feeding is recommended for the first 6 months of a babies life. If you are away from babe for more than a few hours in the early months, you are more likely to see your period return quickly. • It really is risky to leave a 10 month old baby without a feed for 8 hours at a time. Please, please speak to a medical professional about these choices 🙏🏽
Your Sleep should not be the priority, they need to feed, shouldn’t drop till atleast 12 months as milk is what they need till 1 years old!! And cluster feeding is why she’s drinking loads🤦🏼♀️ go see a breastfeeding professional
How would you like it if you woke up hungry but to be told no you can't have anything for few more hours? It's same concept, she's still only so tiny! Feed the baby, get over yourself because you're lacking sleep, that's parenthood for you
She’s incredible. But don’t aspire to standards of those you don’t know how much help others get. I did and it drove me to depression because I didn’t realise people got more help with their babies than I did and I struggled massively ❤
Having your period is NOT an indication of low supply. This is false information. Babies SHOULD still be feeding during the night - this can happen until they are 1+ years old.
The way you described drying up as she was constantly on the boob, this is actually very normal and is called cluster feeding where she goes through growth spurts and ups your supply and it can sometimes mean baby is constantly on the boob. You would’ve still had a supply ❤
Completely your choice that you decided to stop breastfeeding but complete misinformation that because you came on your period it meant you had no milk. I have been exclusively breastfeeding now for a year this month and had a period 6 weeks after giving birth and regularly every single month since. Yes, it’s uncommon and most people don’t get a period but in no way shape or form is it an indication of your supply.
If you don't want to breastfeed anymore that's totally fine, own it, I get it but please be aware there is a lot misinformation in your recent videos suggesting you had to stop due to your periods returning , also regarding cutting her nightfeeds which is misleading to other mums who don't have the resources to do so safely. Perhaps you could do a bit of research clarify in a new video with resources for your impressionable young followers what you were actually trying to say 💖
Babe are sure that you can drop the night feed? Especially if she is consistently waking up wanting milk? Might be worth still doing one during the night until she starts solids.
Oh my goodness feed your 10 week old baby! She’s waking up because she’s hungry. This is completely normal and you shouldn’t deprive her of that. You Should definitely watch where you are getting your information from as that’s definitely incorrect. Made me so sad to think she was waking for food and must be hungry 😢
Bless her, if she’s waking then she’s hungry, her tummy is so small. She’d sleep better if you gave her a bottle, especially around growth spurts she’ll wake even more for milk
@@lucyclark4881if she has a bottle at 11 but refuses to give her another till 7, she’s waking because she’s hungry…. So she’ll obviously sleep better if she isn’t hungry?
This is a very inaccurate information that if you have your period you need to stop breastfeeding. I had my period and I’m still breastfeeding. The same happened to my first son. I did that for 2 years actually. I don’t know where she got this information from but it is totally wrong. I can understand to say that it was too overwhelming to exclusively breastfeeding and decided to do bottle feed because it’s normal. I’m cluster feeding my second and it is great because I’m not too tired if I would have exclusively breastfeeding because it is quite tiring and difficult at times. But please don’t spread misinformation for new mums or mums to be. Also a baby needs feeding , especially at 10 weeks. They don’t understand that you are tired as a parent but they do need food. My second son still wanted milk but he would not wake up 4-5 times at night but just at 5 am or 8 am from 10 weeks . However, whenever he would wake up I would feed him. Xx
Please do some more research regarding night feeds, 10 weeks is way too young to be stopping your baby from having night feeds. She will let you know when she’s hungry or full but she should have the option, 4 months is the youngest recommended date to be stopping night feeds and even then this is just a guideline, most mothers go beyond this
Like molly stated each baby is different and if Bambi is able to be settled without milk then she’s not hungry and just needs some comfort- she knows her baby better than anyone else and she’s clearly a good mother and Bambi is well taken care of😊
The milk supply dryed up because you wasn't consistently breastfeeding. To build a milk supply you should be feeding every two hours and throughout the night. There's no such thing as my milk dryed up.
The baby is 10 weeks old ffs, it's 100% normal for a 10 week old baby to feed through the night. Babies that young feed every 2-3 hours! Im concerned 😟 Yeah it's hard, you want you're old life back, you're desperate for rest, but your baby comes first now!
For a 10 week old baby they should be feed a few times in the night! It's helps they development! She shouldn't be going that long without a feed. 'From a developmental perspective, babies are able to sleep through the night - defined as a six- to eight-hour stretch - without eating when they're between 4 and 6 months old. In this age range, most babies reach the 12- to 13-pound mark, the weight where they no longer metabolically need nighttime feedings.' Xx
I completely agree, I have a 6 month old she sleep from 7 til 7 but I still dream feed her at 12oclock I know I don't "need" to but if not then she is absolutely STARVING when she wakes so it just suits us better 🥰
I’m not sure where she’s getting the info that around 10 weeks is when they drop a feed! It’s fine if they drop it naturally but you shouldn’t deprive your 10 week old through the night for 8 hours 😢
My baby is the same age as mollys and I mentioned to the health visitor that one morning I woke up in a panic because he didn’t wake for a feed (I hadn’t set a timer as previously I had been and he always wakes before the timer anyway and he was always really on point at waking himself) and she told me that I don’t need to worry too much through out the night if he wants to sleep through he will wake when his hungry?x
10 weeks is too young to go without a feed if she’s crying for it. Eeeeek.. speak to your health visitor Molly because this isn’t the correct information. Good luck. X
Molly please please do not ignore night feeds. I have a maximum of 2 hours sleep a night my baby is my 4th and she's almost 15montjs old. You did 6weeks which is incredible. But please still give her feeds at night you may find she only wants 1 feed if she's waking up through the night especially a great deal please understand she's hungry she's in pain. It's not just something she fancies she's needs the feeds. Hunger is pain. That needs to be acknowledged. I feel like you really need some decent support. She's your first baby it's so hard and you are doing great but mum's aren't perfect. We all need help whether it's our first of fifteenth nothing is easy. Please get some accurate support. And Give her night feeds to avoid her pain
Please feed your baby during the night. They need the milk/comfort and it is protecting your baby against SIDS. Gosh I hope other parents don’t follow this misinformation. So sad for you and your baby and so scary.
Your incorrect about the period. I’ve been exclusively breast feeding for 10 months now and had a period after 6 weeks. You can still have a period when breastfeeding and still be producing adequate amounts. I kinda feel you were waiting for any reason to stop breast feeding. It probably doesn’t fit in with your lavish lifestyle
At 10 weeks if she wakes in the night you need to feed her thats super ealy shes still a baby baby....she's hungry you can't just say no wer not feeding you😳 you need to feed her ... she will slow down feeding when she's ready you can't just make that decision for her .. she must be so hungry thru the night bless her🥴
2hr feeds are normal, cluster feeding in the early days are a thing and definitely normal when it comes to breastfeeding. Well done on feeding her all that goodness in the first 6 weeks! I think it’s totally normal that at 10 weeks she’s still waking up through the night for milk I wouldnt deprive her of it 😢❤
So glad people are saying this. Iv breastfed 2 of my 4 kids. Im still feeding my 11 month old now.. he still feeds alot during the night. Iv never dream of denying him that! Its just not normal to think that to say your not having milk until morning like 😢 a ten week old baby cant be forced into a routine wtf
@@simplyytips i'm glad you and some others picked up on this and commented. I don't know who is advising her to deny her 10 week old milk for 7 hours but its terrible advice. Because we live in a time now where more mums than ever are working, things like sleep training and schedules for newborns is being normalised when its infact so damaging to babies and will affect their development in many ways as they grow. Before women have children, they need to be very aware that they have to adapt their lives around the baby, not the other way around.
Thank god someones mentioned it honestly she shouldnt deprive the baby of milk i know its hard waking up through the night my baba is almost 6 months and its gone from 6 times waking up to now once which is really good
Think it’s down to social media.. there’s so much about babies sleeping through the night for 12 hours a night, people then begin to believe it’s not needed to feed during the night 🥴🥴 which isn’t true, and for a lot of babies isn’t the case!
I really enjoyed this video! But being a new mommy myself if your baby is waking up multiple times in the night then please feed her, my baby is nearly 6 months and still wakes up once in the night for a feed so its totally normal 💗💗
Getting period is not the reason your milk supply fell, it's actually because you stopped with night feedings. They are very important to maintain a milk supply. Soo much misinformation in this video.
Please feed her if she’s hungry. There is so much info out there and it’s overwhelming for first time mums but 10 weeks is tiny! Some babies still need a night feed up to a year old! If she’s sleeping through on her own without a feed then fine but if she’s waking hungry please don’t deprive her 😢
Beautiful baby ❤ Just please be mindful of the misinformation you are sharing re breastfeeding and night feeding. Everything you have described is normal for a breastfed baby and not an indication of low supply at all! My period came back immediately and I continued to feed. Cluster feeding and fussiness is so frustrating but totally normal! Night feeding is also normal and 10 weeks is too young to wean. If she is asking for milk I think at this age it is important to follow her lead ❤
Please speak to a HV/Healthcare professional before cutting out night feeds where baby is waking and crying. Feeding on demand is a well established principle in little babies. It sounds like Molly-mae is getting some very outdated advice/ideas. And the no snowsuit in car seat isn’t just about overheating - it’s primarily about not getting the straps snug to baby to keep them safe during an impact. It’s so important for an influencer of such a large following of impressionable mums not to be promoting unsafe and unhealthy practices.
I am absolutely horrified that you are denying your baby of milk at 10 weeks old! Seriously? I think you are amazing but you need to be educated. You have a baby, they are meant to wake during the night! Tough luck if you don't like it, and don't get much sleep, that's what it's like having a baby! It'd not a matter of opinion here, or mom shaming, it's a matter of fact. If your baby is sleeping all the way through and not waking, fair enough. But if your baby is waking at 10 weeks old and needs settling, that is because she needs feeding. And sorry to sound harsh but if you are refusing her milk at this age and trying to settle her instead, that is child neglect. If a normal person, for example myself was doing this and bragging about it, I would be reported to social services. You are a very popular influencer, so you need to watch what you say in these videos. To be telling such a massive audience you are refusing to give your baby milk in the night is very irresponsible. So many people could copy what you are doing when it is totally wrong.
Encouraging longer stretches of sleep at this age, especially as a formula fed baby, increases SIDS risk. Night waking and night feeds are developmentally normal for 6-12 months, to ‘train’ her is completely wrong.
Molly you look like you’ve taken so well to motherhood but please don’t deprive Bambi of those night time feeds, she needs them! 10 weeks is far to early to be dropping those, whoever has given you this information you really need to go back to them and confirm because this is not correct medical information and could really hinder Bambi’s key growth. She’s still so little and needs those nutrients form her milk. If she’s waking and you’re having to settle her, she will be waking for a feed not just a cuddle 😭💔
I love seeing your videos/posts but I must say I’m actually nervous knowing that you’re only feeding your baby to suit your night time routine at this early stage. It’s critical you feed through the night regardless of how much sleep you’re getting or not getting. The baby’s development is paramount. I hope you get to speak with a professional about this and they direct you properly. Much love ❤
The back peddling is interesting, you are now saying that when ever she is hungry of course you feed her? But in your own bloody words you have said she wakes up like “I want some milk” and I’m like “you aren’t getting milk now”… so what I’m hearing is even when she is doing the supposed “hunger cry” and not the “comfort cry” you still don’t feed her? This is literally child abuse and when someone try’s to educate the poor people who have to listen to your horrific parenting you go snarky and don’t even listen.
From Molly and Tommy meeting on love island to watching them have there own house and a child honestly gives me so much joy. Mollys voice is so soothing and make me feel less anxious coming from someone who dealing with such bad anxiety it’s like a god send🥹laying in bed at 2am struggling to sleep and catching up on mollys video is the best feeling❤️keep doing you Molly! You’re both doing so amazing and I can’t wait to see your little family grow and see Bambi grow up to be as caring and career driven as yourselves!
I relate to everything you’ve said here hun, her voice and videos help my anxiety so much too, especially at night when I really struggle with sleep issues, she’s just amazing 🥺🥰
Breastfeeding mummas, please don't assume your supply is low if you've come on your period.. this isn't true I've been bf and expressing for 8 months and had my period from 8 weeks pp!
Do not mean this to sound preachy, mum of a 4 month old here and barely making it exclusively pumping! But. I didn’t think bubs could make it through the night without a feed until 4-6 months? Before that age she should be getting a feed. Maybe I’m wrong, any midwives out there with the facts? ❤
It’s true that babies are supposed to be fed at night until 4-6 months, usually even longer. It depends on when the baby is ready for it, how much solids the baby has at daytime etc. Dropping night feeds at 10 weeks while baby is waking up crying actually makes me, as a mother myself, really sad. No need to rush things, babies will sleep through the night when they are ready for it.
It all comes down to what the baby is like, my first two woke for feeds until 6ish months, my 3rd slept from 3ish weeks 10 / 11pm til 7ish, it all depends on baby, but if baby wakes crying for a feed, you give that baby milk, no ifs or buts, not until solidly feeding until 6ish months xx
Delighted you are back with your first vlog since the sit down update video. Your content is always authentic and positive you are just a Ray of sunshine. Such a great way to end a Minday! Hope you Babi and Tommy are well! ❤🎉
I don’t usually comment on these but as a new mum myself (6 weeks old) I will not be weaning him off milk at night at 10 weeks old! If the baby is waking for milk which she clearly is feed her.
Who told you to stop feeding your baby at night from 8 weeks!? That’s insane. You’re starving your poor baby. It’s not recommended anywhere to drops night feeds until 6 months. This is 4 months too early
Who told you that. It’s not your baby and every baby is different. The quicker you stop breastfeeding the quicker she sleeps. If bambi would be “ starving ” then she would eat more in the day
Hey Molly, just some advice about the suit in the car seat. The risk isn't as much Bambi overheating, the reason babies shouldn't wear coats or car suits in a car seat is because the seatbelts are going to be sat on top of a layer of padding, rather than against the babies body, causing the harness to fit incorrectly, so if there was a collision or crash, bambi wouldn't be safe. A collision can happen 2 minutes away from home, and even if you're a safe driver. An unsafe driver could crash into you. Please research why coats/snow suits shouldn't be used in car seats for Bambi xx
Loved this as always! For everyone commenting on the breastfeeding and night feeds, every baby is SO different. And every mum knows their baby. Both of my babies were sleeping through by 6 weeks and all health visitors and midwife’s said it was fine as my girls were getting enough milk through the day. Your doing amazing Molly ❤❤❤
So true! people love to jump on other Mums like every baby is the same and they know it all. We have a 7 month old and she also has been sleeping through the night since 4-5 weeks old. She was born a tiny baby but since then a perfectly healthy weight and we don’t feed her for 11ish hours at night as she’s asleep.
It’s because it’s a national trust property. So the payment goes to preserving the grounds and cafe etc. Should get a membership so it’s cheaper. We love ours 👍🏻
You definitely need to feed Bambi during the night. From 11pm - 7am is a really really long time for a 10 week old baby. Also 2 hours is super normal for a breastfeeding session. If you’ve decided that you want to use a bottle that’s completely fine but you need to make sure you’re feeding her properly. It’s like not feeding you all day she’ll be starving and not get the right nutrients or development without milk for 8 hours. Please please talk to your midwife / care team about this.
I thought the same baby’s change their sleep routine all the time , mine sure did and he slept through some nights and some he wanted a bottle and I wouldn’t never stop him from having one and he’s 6 month I think for a 10 week old baby that is ridiculous x
@@elliemarie3786 100% agree. The fact Bambi is waking for milk and she’s not giving it to her is awful and upsetting. People make mistakes but you can’t afford to with a new born baby!
@@livvyoj4509 thing is too she’s giving out some wrong advice to new mothers who look for this sort of information especially the part wear this is the time they start going off their bottles in a night , when it really isn’t at all and saying baby’s can’t wear a pram suit in the car seat cause they will over heat but it’s because if there’s an accident the seat belt of the car seat with not support her properly due to the extra room from the thick clothing xx
@@elliemarie3786 Yeah it is worrying. I hope someone will educate her. If I was in her position I wouldn’t mention anything online unless I have got the information from my GP/midwife as like you said new mums might think they’re doing something wrong because of the advice she’s giving out
I love how normal you make pregnancy and newborn life seen, it’s easy to make it seem so scary nowadays but you’ve made it seem like it can be okay and not terrifying 😊
Baby’s really shouldn’t be having night feeds dropped so young it’s far far too early, she must be so hungry! It’s usually done at 6 months but sometimes not until 12 months
As a mother of 3 small children I can say. They will tell you when they don’t need feeding. She’s waking up because she is hungry… looking for milk. Just feed your child in the night.. simple as that. I know it’s hard being up and being tired. But it goes so fast and before you know it and they are sleeping through..
Still waking here to feed (breast still) my 1 year old. Not “necessary” but I’m responding to his needs and when he’s ready, he will sleep though. 10 weeks is WILD. Motherhood is tough but they’re the priority, not our sleep needs.
A 10 week old should not be refused feeds. Night feeds are biologically normal and if they are waking for feeds they are clearly hungry / thirsty/ In need of comfort ... but ALSO them waking is actually the bodies natural fight against SIDS - If your baby wakes for a feed and comfort then you FEED and comfort your baby! Also the return of your periods does not indicate a lack of supply. Offen women that are breastfeeding periods can take longer to return and this is due to the prolactin the hormone that causes you to produce milk) which can delay the return of your period. HOWEVER women get their periods back at all different points whether breastfeeding or not. Periods returning should not be taken as a worrying sign at all and definitely should not be taken as a sign that you are not producing enough milk. The ONLY way to indicate whether your baby is getting enough milk is through weight gain/nappy output. Cluster feeding (especially in the first 6 weeks) is very normal and very common for babies. Breastfed babies cluster feed (have small feeds frequently) for many reasons. This is likely to happen more frequently at night because your body produces the most prolactin during those hours. Please don't be alarmed or concerned if your baby is waking up frequently in the night for feeds, this is not a sign of them not being filled up on your milk. It is very normal and actually a very healthy sign for a baby to be waking frequently In the night for feeds. This goes for formula or breast fed babies! 🫶🏻❤️
☆ Cluster feeds and night feeds should be baby led on demand. Till they start newborn/infant solids so 4mths to 6mos depending on Pediatrician Doctor, baby, and parents. ◇ Also the thick suit in car seat is not so much for overheating as it is for safety in the straps. The thicker outfit means straps are not as snug to her. If she wore that to bed at night then yes overheating could be an issue depending on weather. ♡ Getting a period is not an indication of low breastmilk supply. Everybodys hormones are different so everyone gets monthly cycle back at diff times. How much she was getting while nursing is usually different to how much comes out whilst pumping. That doesnt mean she was not getting enough milk. That means that is how long feeds take her. □ My 2nd baby was same always attached to me. My sanity went bezerk but it was what baby needed for emotional affectionate bonding. My firstborn wasnt much easier. They are 7 and 3. Night wakes dont always get much better depending on ec kids personalities. What we want as parents goes out the window unfortunetly and we tend to our children how they Each Individually Require it ALL. 🥰😇😍🤩
no hate at all, but the snowsuit thing, its not just because of overheating, its can also compress when in a car crash, the snowsuit doesnt allow the straps to be tight enough to her body, so its more unsafe during a crash. theres pages on facebook about car seat safety, and rear facing too. loved the vlog too x
I’m a trained breastfeeding support peer. The most important feeds are between midnight and 5am because this is when your prolactin levels are at their highest. Prolactin is the milk making chef and our babies know this, so it’s natural for them to feed at night. Nope, breastfeeding does not deny a period returning, especially when you don’t breastfeed for hours at night. Gosh this girl has lots of followers to be giving this incorrect medical advice. If you’re in the first 4-6 weeks, then baby needs to be producing 2x£1 coin sized poos per day and six heavy wet nappies. If you’re in doubt as to what’s going in, watch what is coming out. Feeding for hours is called cluster feeding and it’s normal - unless it’s not normal. So if feeding is pain free and there’s lots of nappy output then yep, normal. Very tiring but happens during growth spurts and when they’re adjusting to the fourth trimester. Optimising latch and adding in breast compressions can support with how long feeds take. Please follow IBCLCs for breastfeeding information. Not influencers who don’t have qualifications on the subject. If you’re denying milk overnight, I’d suspect the baby will make up for it at some point so two hour feeds seem reasonable from the babies POV. Just watched further on. 🤦🏻♀️ we don’t put puffy coats in car seats because they fly out their seats in a crash. Not because of overheating - although that is another good reason.
Oh my god first you leave Bambi on her own on the changing table then you starve her the entire night. Please can someone educate you on how to.take care of a baby because this is AWFUL AND ABUSE
These uninformed people drive me nuts! Please if youre a new mum whos breastfeeding DO NOT COPY WHAT THIS PERSON HAS DONE! Its normal even for formula fed babies to feed at night!! Shes depriving her baby of food!!
A 10 week old baby needs to be fed during the night at her feeding cues if breastfed, if not it’s every 2-3 hours for the few few weeks as per your healthcare professional should have told you, if you are not feeding your 10 week old baby during the nighttime then you are leaving her hungry , 10 weeks is way too young to start weaning her , seek professional advice before doing anything like that
Please don’t stop feeding her in the night yet 😩 10 weeks old is far too early, I’m not sure where you got the misinformation from that 10 weeks was the right time but it isn’t
Love it when you upload but It wasn’t funny finding out things about Molly since I read certain things and I didn’t like what I saw, in my own "about" tab is better explained, anyway. Thank you so much for sharing everything with us 💞
Please don't spread misinformation about feeding babies as if they're facts 😭 there are a lot of first time Mums probably following you and this can be very harmful. Getting your period and your baby cluster feeding are both perfectly normal and nothing to do with supply. It's completely okay to switch to formula if it suits you better, though. 10 weeks is also definitely not when they "drop the night feeds" at all, where did you read this? We are due the 4 month sleep regression very soon! My youngest Daughter is 4 days younger than yours and she is sleeping well, but if she wakes up I feed her. Feeding her is the best thing you can do to get her back off as well, so you'll actually sleep much better in the long run. Babies go through so many growth spurts they need extra food for and withholding food can be very bad for their physical and mental growth. Maybe check in with the health visitor to see what they think. Xx
@@kirstireed1056 but she literally said her baby wakes because she wants milks and she doesn’t give it to her? She literally said that in her own words in this vlog? Explain that to me please?
