My Girlfriend Is Trans - But I'm Not Gay | LOVE DON'T JUDGE

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WHEN Jesse slid into Cassidy's DMs, the pair hit it off and quickly fell in love, but not everyone was happy with their relationship. Cassidy is a trans woman and it's something that Jesse's friends and family struggled with. Jesse explained to Love Don't Judge: "I was brought up around a very masculine family. One thing I was definitely taught was that a natural woman is who you're supposed to be with - and if you're with anybody else, if you're gay, if you're ever with a trans girl, you're going to be out of this family." Online, the couple often receive trolling, with Cassidy admitting: "I've received a whole lot of hate comments being like, 'You'll never be a real woman'". In this episode, we'll see Jesse's friend, Jordan, reveal how he really felt when they got together. Speaking to the duo, he admitted: "I was very apprehensive and shocked." Keen to share their love with the world, Jesse said: "Our message is, don't be scared to embrace who you love."
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@patrickg6032 8 месяцев назад

How is this not gay? I dont get it

@peppergirlrocks 8 месяцев назад

It's them trying to confuse us. But we will not be tricked.

@Candykiss33 8 месяцев назад

She has a penis, if he likes women and this one doesn't have women parts, he's gay. If he loves her and they are happy that's great but don't say your not gay. You both have a penis.

@vladislavruttgers2791 8 месяцев назад

It is

@ash3878 8 месяцев назад

It is. Two males. Same Sex.

@jacopo373 8 месяцев назад

I'm gay and I'm attracted to masculine men, I wouldn't be attracted to her, and I'm gay all the way.

@madmartigan1634 7 месяцев назад

"You pretend I'm a woman and I'll pretend you're straight"

@Princesseva8818 7 месяцев назад

😂😂😂😂

@stinkygremlin267 7 месяцев назад

She's a woman and he's straight

@momfromnj911 7 месяцев назад

Lol

@stuff1784 7 месяцев назад

LITERALLY!!!

@gbecks3672 7 месяцев назад

🤣

@au.outlaw70 3 месяца назад

The gayest thing he did here was call himself an alpha male 😂😂

@chantalstiffen107 4 месяца назад

When he said alpha male attracted to femininity his friend on fce time looked at him like he had ten heads 😂

@Delicate_Disaster 8 месяцев назад

I genuinely question anyone that calls themselves an "alpha male."

@psillyspirit420 8 месяцев назад

It’s hilarious, the group that loves to make fun of “the alphabet people” is actually using the alphabet as an identity.

@Delicate_Disaster 8 месяцев назад

@@psillyspirit420 right!? 🤣

@BasicDefense 8 месяцев назад

For real, "alpha" but dates a dude and takes synthetic testosterone (steroids) 😂

@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286 8 месяцев назад

She is a woman.@@BasicDefense

@bannedmann4469 8 месяцев назад

@@psillyspirit420 The silly shit the alphabet people do, far outweighs this. Also these people are both actually..

@abehaile2659 5 месяцев назад

They sure spent a lot of time clarifying he's not gay... calls his friend for validation 😂

@MrManfly 5 месяцев назад

"I'm not gay I'm an alpha male"....

@Person-jn8pf 5 месяцев назад

It’s so fuckin weird 😭😂 like idgaf who anyone dates but it’s kind of weird how he goes out of his way for the validation specifically for someone to say he’s not gay 😆 Like he’s trying to convince himself

@amantedelcane420 5 месяцев назад

This is some of the gayest shit ever.

@ItaloRican7 5 месяцев назад

Male attracted to another male in a costume.... Umm He's alpha gay. 🤷

@Jk21053 5 месяцев назад

@@amycurtis535.are you disabled?! a trans woman is a man 😂

@Pokepowerx3 Месяц назад

It’s crazy how people will say “don’t worry there’s someone out there for u” then when they find them turn around and shame them for it.

@valentinoesposito3614 7 дней назад

This guy is so in the closet he’s finding Christmas gifts 🎁

@nintendolover114 6 месяцев назад

If you have to tell people youre alpha, you're not alpha

@Thetruth-hr6rt 6 месяцев назад

Finally, someone who gets it

@nellienel5140 6 месяцев назад

That tells me he's insecure all the way

@kmcc2355 6 месяцев назад

The videos of self proclaimed Alphas and Sigmas are funny and the info they give is not even close to being right !

@GrimKnight12 6 месяцев назад

Pretty much lol

@stonearecool2645 6 месяцев назад

yeah i never kissed a girl in my life and might be seen as a loser and whatever and yeah go ahead but my hands dont @@kmcc2355

@ginopanthers5070 7 месяцев назад

"Why are you gay" is the greatest question ever asked by an African news reporter

@rodneystanger1651 6 месяцев назад

Based.

@clarence_claymore. 6 месяцев назад

” I’m not gay but my boyfriend is “

@Titidallah 6 месяцев назад

@@clarence_claymore. Damn my lungs

@hetmanjz 5 месяцев назад

Gross bigotry.

@martinwalters8677 5 месяцев назад

@@hetmanjz that lifestyle is the only thing thats gross

@sheneaymauney4085 25 дней назад

From Webster dictionary... Gay is defined as someone who is sexually for romantically attracted to the same sex. Sooo.... Webster says you're gay 🤷🏼‍♀️

@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286 19 дней назад

@ravenlee1968 16 дней назад

Exactly 💯

@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286 16 дней назад

@@ravenlee1968 no

@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286 16 дней назад

@@ravenlee1968 no

@ricopyro9282 День назад

I had a friend in high school whose mother told him that if he's gay, he is no longer her son. That's a big problem in our society.

@Unknown16537 8 месяцев назад

The friend is lowkey still not comfortable with it 😂

@BenishaMcFerrin 8 месяцев назад

I heard it in his voice…he ain’t down with it.

@Unknown16537 8 месяцев назад

@@BenishaMcFerrin facts 😂 100%. I'm sure they catch on to an extent but you can tell he loves his friend too

@driverkeido 7 месяцев назад

The friend be wondering if he’s next 😂

@Meeko2689 7 месяцев назад

Yes as a friend I would just tell my friend that is okay to be gay and he can come out whenever he’s ready

@mickfitz76 6 месяцев назад

he getting piad to be on TV.

@Epoch-vu8cj 6 месяцев назад

Leaving s3xuality aside, this guy is overcompensating. He needs to be more comfortable in his own skin. Just live for u bruh, forget about other's expectations of u

@BeyondmyselfIsrael 6 месяцев назад

He gay

@ogierthedane6025 6 месяцев назад

pleasseee come out of the closet :)

@Willowtree82 6 месяцев назад

He's on roids so his hormones are all out of wack too and they get really horny and lots of alpha guys oh roids often trans too

@user-zh8gd3gd6u 6 месяцев назад

@@BeyondmyselfIsraelhahaha projection much? You have a google image of male abs on your RU-vid profile. We all know what’s in your search history 😂 Edit: he changed the picture after this comment 🤣

@BeyondmyselfIsrael 6 месяцев назад

@@user-zh8gd3gd6u good to know you like staring at me

@simplemeals1540 2 месяца назад

He was in prison so that makes sense

@yazmin9483 День назад

I came here for funny comments like this :)

@pikachupower5844 6 месяцев назад

Douche: I ’m not gay. I’m alpha. Maury: the lie detector proved that was a lie.

@roccosteo8328 6 месяцев назад

That’s funny

@letgomyeggo8767 6 месяцев назад

Deceased 😂

@user-hw6xi9ho4w 6 месяцев назад

You went to far lol

@briandhoward6137 6 месяцев назад

Haha legit

@JDMvids1105 6 месяцев назад

i would love to watch this episode

@silverdropstang 6 месяцев назад

Them muscles dont make you any less gay, 😂

@Robert-vf6ny 6 месяцев назад

Right? Closet cases like this are everywhere in my gym. They don't fool me, as I'm a real bi dude who's naturally butch. My being masculine and into vagina, doesn't make me straight.

@Lp-ru3z 6 месяцев назад

It kinda make him more gay

@Alien_Nukes 6 месяцев назад

Facts steroid users and body builders tend to have high population of gay people per capita

@ILoveTheAllCreator 6 месяцев назад

Muscle dudes are main gay dudes, surprise no one pick that up by now

@aprilchow-chee5281 6 месяцев назад

He's overcompensating for being gay

@russellrunninghawkk7692 4 месяца назад

I was open about it when my girlfriend & I first got together. She understood that not everyone would agree with her being transgender. Turns out all my friends and most of my family respect our relationship. We make it work and take it day by day. Going strong a lil over a year now. I’m happy for you two 🙂

@noattentiontostupidity2677 3 месяца назад

So u gay too?

@russellrunninghawkk7692 3 месяца назад

@@noattentiontostupidity2677 no use trying to explain. So yeah I am gay, if that means loving my girlfriend for who she is

@noattentiontostupidity2677 3 месяца назад

Why is it so hard to say you love your man

@russellrunninghawkk7692 3 месяца назад

@@noattentiontostupidity2677 I love my girlfriend.

@noattentiontostupidity2677 3 месяца назад

Whatever floats your boat mate

@FiddlinWithYourCerebellum 4 месяца назад

Damn, we got the self proclaimed alpha not gay guy here.

@brightwinter9334 3 месяца назад

I think he's an FTM.

@ddnick 3 месяца назад

☠️

@Kgio-2112 6 месяцев назад

A life defined by tattoos and kid sized shirts.

@royfr8136 6 месяцев назад

🤣

@YeeHaww 6 месяцев назад

Seem like a lot of lives today are like that

@RickTheBoss98 6 месяцев назад

And homosexuality

@ILoveTheAllCreator 6 месяцев назад

That's the main look for sub culture for gay men.,.

@monicadelreal8212 5 месяцев назад

😂

@clarence_claymore. 6 месяцев назад

This has “ I’m not gay but my boyfriend is “ energy

@demarques1911 6 месяцев назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@Leo-Galaxy 6 месяцев назад

What makes you think that gay men would wanna date someone with female attributes?

@mmaybrown 5 месяцев назад

exactly!

@elkillerx 5 месяцев назад

LOL I know right?!😂😂😂

@reesevendetta 5 месяцев назад

“they keep calling me gay but i’m not that’s my boyfriend he straight but he really attracted to men”

@TheFirstCause 3 месяца назад

This is a unique situation that is of course very confusing to outsiders and hard to classify in the gay/straight/what do we call this kind of way. For me I'd say at a minimum, at least in this unique situation, there seems to be some level bisexual comfort as long as the other person appears feminine. Like he doesn't seem to have any interest in males under any other circumstance. Most men do not have this even if a male presents as female so 'gay' starts to come to mind. These two just hit it off and have something very unique to them. I wish them the best of luck, true love, and years of happiness.

@narubro1438 7 дней назад

Noticed how he didn't say his father open up to them being together but his mother and other family members did

@kro0018 5 месяцев назад

One plays stereotypical woman, the other plays alpha male 😂😂

@sophiepooks2174 4 месяца назад

So all female women who look and act like this are "faking it" then? And masculine male men with muscles and tats are also? 🤡

@user-to8qw7ur9h 4 месяца назад

False stereotypical woman is alpha strong independent woman

@FC-ku4ez 4 месяца назад

Very performative, for sure.

@kbanghart 4 месяца назад

@@FC-ku4ezI love woke

@alexcuellar2957 4 месяца назад

Para mí ellos dos son la representación de la valentía dentro y fuera del mundo LGBT+ y el heterosexual

@VinceG18 7 месяцев назад

he calls himself alpha and uses toxic masculinity. 😂😂

@pouringblue7 3 месяца назад

He found a dark loop hole so he can say he's not gay.

@dvaunt3516 3 месяца назад

Is the irony lost here? The person who feels its necessary to say "I'm not gay."---------> NO ONE is judging harder than the person who feels the need to say that.

@thomasromano9321 2 месяца назад

It sounds like he's uncomfortable with his masculinity. He didn't need to say that. It's understood he's a straight male who's fallen in love with a transgender woman, and accepts and appreciates her.

@dvaunt3516 2 месяца назад

yeaaaaah. Speaking of un-necessary.... Dunno why you gotta stomp the cringe gas pedal to floor with all that.

@anitagofradump5195 Месяц назад

^tell me youre bigoted without telling me youre bigoted. No one who supports any progression in human rights would choose to leave that as a comment.

@dvaunt3516 Месяц назад

Excellent! This is FANTASTIC way to demonstrate that you have no idea what an actual [right] is. So first, go read the bill of rights, Quixote, the tell me which right is denied to people in western society, or which right I've denied anyone in this thread, then come back and tell me which windmill you think I am.

@yazmin9483 День назад

@@thomasromano93212 males getting their freak on is not a straight act hahhah hahahaha

@mr.meeseeks2310 7 месяцев назад

Using the term “alpha male” the way he is…is sus within itself

@davidcook680 6 месяцев назад

Than you got the whole double Weiner in bed.

@YoutubeChannel-ei1pp 6 месяцев назад

100%

@wisdomknowledgelover6293 6 месяцев назад

He ain't Alpha Male!! He is a GAY BETA!

@YeeHaww 6 месяцев назад

Pleasee causes I thought it was only them little teenage boys on social media and them “alpha” wannabes on those podcasts that be saying that shhht😭😂😂

@PaulsAdvocate 6 месяцев назад

More like alpha fail. This video is either AI and/or using crisis actors..all part of the agenda.

@Zodibear 8 месяцев назад

“I’m an alpha MALE and attracted to femininity” 😂😂

@ajlive6419 8 месяцев назад

Lmao 😂😂😂

@kakegurui524 8 месяцев назад

Lol😂

@Jake-bk4wh 8 месяцев назад

What’s wrong with that? I mean besides the fact that she’s not feminine. She’s a dude

@salvadorromero9712 8 месяцев назад

@@Jake-bk4wh OFC no one should say such a thing under any circumstances whatsoever, but these particular circumstances make it especially amusing.

@mtbiker4life918 8 месяцев назад

When she's spooning him he's thinking " I'm alpha I'm alpha "

@katiepartin7291 2 месяца назад

I “feel his energy” alright 😂

@mbc9249 3 месяца назад

I'll refer to Peter Gabriel's Nov/'23 release of "Live & Let Live." Who really cares what this couple does? I could care less as long as they're happy - go for it.

@ethanku 5 месяцев назад

So ....the least important part...IS THAT IM NOT GAY!!! NOT GAAAAAY!! totally not gay....did everyone get that?

@exquisitebiscuit 5 месяцев назад

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@SupportTheArts-yo8ox 5 месяцев назад

Got it

@nck4888 5 месяцев назад

Gaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

@tinkerbell717 5 месяцев назад

Lol he said that? Must of missed that 😂😂😂

@nck4888 5 месяцев назад

Hesssssssss gaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyy

@-Nobody-1 5 месяцев назад

He found the psychological loop hole he needed to be comfortable.

@Robert-vf6ny 5 месяцев назад

Sad. Denial is horrible, he still knows he's gay and afraid to admit it to himself.

@noragarvey7224 5 месяцев назад

Haha nahhhh….gay dudes don’t f with boobs, smooth skin, femininity….they f with gay dudes

@melindaroop1346 5 месяцев назад

Yep. He is gay and doesn't want to accept it.

@david_gamer262 5 месяцев назад

@@Robert-vf6nyHe's not gay

@Robert-vf6ny 5 месяцев назад

@@david_gamer262 Two penises/males together defines homosexual. Take a biology class and try again.

@leviyouler3362 3 месяца назад

My guy is dazed 😂😂😂 "special kind of women" 😮

@yukimatsuda5400 6 дней назад

It's ok denial phase will pass

@BlitzinMackGaming 5 месяцев назад

Dude ain't no alpha. Not even close. Which is why he reminds you how "alpha" he is every other sentence. Just because you get tatted up and have muscles doesn't mean you're an alpha.

@disneykidsforever4450 5 месяцев назад

Precisely. He's an alpha male because he chooses authenticity and love over conforming to expectations of others. The muscles just make him hot.

@user-fw5gp2me9b 5 месяцев назад

neither r u

@coreyking5619 5 месяцев назад

This man is a classic repressed homosexual. The concerning part is that if someone confronts him on his blatant homophobia, he’s clearly the type to become extremely violent

@coreyking5619 5 месяцев назад

@@disneykidsforever4450 A male claiming to be a woman is the opposite of authentic.

@nordicskibunny 5 месяцев назад

Most beta reply ever.

@phillipyee7705 20 дней назад

I bet you any money if the cameras where not there and it was just a convo between two friends.. the best friend would be roasting him

@tomoliver8921 6 месяцев назад

Regardless of his relationship status, the guy has a ton of baggage from his childhood and I kind of feel bad for him.

@watchmanexpert День назад

If u are not gay , I am astronaut 🧑‍🚀

@SunnyOliver7799 3 месяца назад

He is 200% a gay

@yazmin9483 День назад

300%

@Beyonder1987 8 месяцев назад

He is gay 100% for sure

@garybregel1572 2 месяца назад

For me, if she still has the male plumbing then yeah he's gay.

@sigcinondlela8385 5 месяцев назад

When he said he's an alpha male, that answered all of my questions

@SupportTheArts-yo8ox 5 месяцев назад

Did it really?

@lovelocked5385 5 месяцев назад

It means he's top or power bottom

@markfox6356 5 месяцев назад

Yeah.....

@eyecandy4546 5 месяцев назад

He’s alpha gay

@TheVirginGary 5 месяцев назад

He's sooooo q -eh.

@Thunda1986 3 месяца назад

I went to his twitter he's definitely gay, but he's happy and that's his life

@corycarpenter5873 3 дня назад

That's not a woman at the end of the day.

@coughdropper 3 дня назад

@J-R5790 5 месяцев назад

You know his friend got off the phone and laughed his arse off

@TheVirginGary 5 месяцев назад

Bible says fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. If you don't even have the beginning of wisdom, you will likely not even know what your own ( * ) is for.

@maurogonzalez2999 5 месяцев назад

Am laughing right now

@J-R5790 5 месяцев назад

@@maurogonzalez2999 me too my friend, me too

@Couldnotcarelesslmao 4 месяца назад

And? I don’t think they care

@M4PAT 4 месяца назад

😂😂😂

@airborne392hemid8 5 месяцев назад

He's not gay, but he is gay friendly. 😂😂😂😂

@lilac624 5 месяцев назад

Temperament and character is far more important not gender...

@FiveDORRA 5 месяцев назад

He gobbles it every Day

@iloveit9468 5 месяцев назад

Very friendly

@elelelel9822 5 месяцев назад

@@lilac624Whatever!

@weirdo1083 5 месяцев назад

All depends has this trans woman had the chop.

@niviagomez4712 4 дня назад

His family knew before he came out to us in this video

@SteveWillNotDoIt1984 3 месяца назад

Yo Jordan. Am i gay? Jordan- "I want you to be happy bro"

@TheConsummateArtist 5 месяцев назад

I just saw the JP Sears parody of this. I thought at first he was taking license with the original material just to ham it up. Now I realize his parody was more like a documentary. 😳

@RidinWithMyLocsOn 5 месяцев назад

A crimescene reconstruction xD

@JenzBenz207 5 месяцев назад

Same. I had to look up these guys after that. 😂 The comedy writes itself.

@maggieflos5715 5 месяцев назад

Same. I just had to see the original. He's clearly a repressed gay or bisexual.

@exquisitebiscuit 5 месяцев назад

Thank you for bringing that brilliant piece of parody to my attention! LMFAO

@oktomcat 5 месяцев назад

I decided to look this up after seeing JP's parody also. Lol

@abileneaugie8961 7 месяцев назад

The song “Jessie’s Girl” will never sound the same.

@DeterminedZone 6 месяцев назад

No, don’t ruin it for me, I love that song!😂

@notyetknownuk7416 6 месяцев назад

😂😂

@ILoveTheAllCreator 6 месяцев назад

😂

@Mikey13Morales 6 месяцев назад

He's in love with,,, Jessie's giiiiirrrtthhh ,, yes Jessie's giiiiirrrtthhh 😂

@islandprincess4648 6 месяцев назад

😂😂😂😂😂

@miktmikleson4891 3 месяца назад

Liking bussy makes you gay my guy

@desayuna9148 4 месяца назад

They're both consenting adults, as long as they're both happy, who cares?

@DARTH_KALIBER 3 месяца назад

Me LOL

@TylerChamb 3 месяца назад

I don't care what they do, it's just telling me this isn't gay that is the problem. Yeah, it is. And there's nothing wrong with being gay, they can be as gay as they want and nobody would care. The problem is insulting all of our intelligence and trying to tell us 1 plus 1 is 76.

@axelfoley1406 3 месяца назад

Nothing wrong with these two men in love. However, don't masquerade it as a heterosexuals relationship.

@JamesL-88 3 месяца назад

This is america

@Checkeroute 3 месяца назад

99.99% of humanity cares

@billsmafia7769 6 месяцев назад

If it quacks like a duck and walks like a duck….. it’s a duck

@shawnbaker3245 6 месяцев назад

Quacks.

@MonkeyBlab 6 месяцев назад

So she's a woman then

@Blueden_ 6 месяцев назад

Trick question, What happens if it a boy duck and a girl duck and the boy duck decides to be a girl duck is it still a duck??

@roxxibelle4 6 месяцев назад

Well this trans woman doesn't look like a man, so why would a gay man date her when she has female attributes? You make no sense.

@cradica 2 месяца назад

I was actually born with extra webbing between my toes (which BTW is more rare than being trans) so I am basically just a duck.

@athenaathena675 4 месяца назад

Just 2 gay dudes .. move along nothing to see here

@Shadow25720 4 месяца назад

And if he was dating a trans men, would he then be hetero?

@mexicanoaliendrunk5987 4 месяца назад

Is gay no matter what america going to hell 😂

@nisse18 4 месяца назад

You are being offensive to the pronouns 😠

@monkezoid125 4 месяца назад

@@nisse18 bro shut up hes gay

@thetree9399 4 месяца назад

It’s not gay because it’s the femininity he’s attracted to.

@ismalife32 3 месяца назад

When they break up he'll just date another dude and pay for the surgery so he can date another woman in his mind.

@lifeisgud 7 дней назад

they tryna confuse us, but gay is gay

@Chad-Giga. 6 месяцев назад

He's right, he is NOT gay at all! He is SUPER GAY!

@Robert-vf6ny 6 месяцев назад

Why bother to be with a chick if there's no vagina? I'm primarily gay myself, but I'm bi, because I like women with a vagina. Hello? 😂

@jwgreen101 6 месяцев назад

Facts

@RobertHeart-zs2dw 6 месяцев назад

And hes way more stronger than y'all and he's alot more happier I say good on this guy whatta ledgend

@jwgreen101 6 месяцев назад

@@RobertHeart-zs2dw strength does not matter in a land of 🔫 guns my friend.

@RobertHeart-zs2dw 6 месяцев назад

@@jwgreen101 nope but it matters when it comes to how sexy you feel and how good you look lol it doesn't matter if bullets don't Bounce of you when shot at.. atleast you die looking strong and good and the shooter remains being a lil bitttcchh

@laurenharris9832 8 месяцев назад

I appreciate her saying she was born a man right off the bat. Don’t play with people like that

@LL-ji2fd 8 месяцев назад

Born a male not a man

@bluetotoros8513 8 месяцев назад

its not playing with people. :/ you gotta understand too, us trans people risk our safety when we disclose this about ourselves

@marciapenney2286 8 месяцев назад

⁠@@bluetotoros8513I totally understand that. However If you want real love with your partner you can’t keep big secrets. A relationship will not last. They are both stand up ppl. These two are brave to put it out there to everyone, but the fact is when you really love someone. You want to be truthful. If they really love you they will accept who you are! I would think anyone would put themselves in just as much danger by not telling a potential partner early on. I don’t personally know. I’m sorry we have so many shitty ppl in this world that claim to follow the Bible, but clearly never read it! It says we humans are not the Judge!! It says love thy neighbour. I can quote vs after vs, but ppl tend to twist things into what they think it means. I wish you Love!

@Citizen876ix 8 месяцев назад

Him*

@My.HumbleOpinion 8 месяцев назад

@bluetotoros8513 I can't imagine the turmoil you must feel in that situation, but if you do it up front (specifically via the internet as in this situation) there's little risk to your safety. I'd imagine it would increase significantly if you DON'T tell the person you're communicating with up front and they find out they've been lied to. Especially by the time there are feelings involved or certainly any level of intimacy.

@GeneralHAWXX 3 месяца назад

At least they are both happy. In the end you make choices and you don’t look back.

@tinafatbottom8069 4 дня назад

lucky u found each other because being alone sucks

@Rekaert 7 месяцев назад

With no judgement attached, if you're having sex with a male, and you are male, then by definition that is a homosexual relationship, as your partner is the same sex as you. That's precisely how that works.

@kevinllanto 7 месяцев назад

Transwoman was still a guy and transman was still a girl. Nothing can change my mind.

@shawnhayward8152 7 месяцев назад

When cassidy says she transitioned I'm assuming she had bottom surgery ? I feel like that's an important distinction between the guy being clearly gay and maybe just bi.

@ChrisJones-rm7uu 6 месяцев назад

@@shawnhayward8152 Don't matter still a man

@MamaMia-mf7ei 6 месяцев назад

@@kevinllantoNo 🤦🏼‍♀️

@vr6one 6 месяцев назад

@@shawnhayward8152lol no, no no no. That's still 100% gay. No problem with that at all but seriously, call it what it is.

@TrayneTracks 8 месяцев назад

He’s 100 percent gay. That’s cool just say it bro

@vinnyvega2g 8 месяцев назад

Lol

@LL-ji2fd 8 месяцев назад

I’m gay and I don’t like trans women because they look like a woman might as well just be straight

@yasiem6245 8 месяцев назад

Finally, a sane person in the comments. What is with these closeted men always using excuses to justify that they aren't gay?

@Lyagani 8 месяцев назад

@@yasiem6245toxic masculinity

@Robert-vf6ny 8 месяцев назад

@@yasiem6245we are afraid of accepting ourselves because of internalized homophobia or biphobia. I'm at peace with my bi orientation to myself now, but I'm a closeted bi man.

@buddyfett1341 4 месяца назад

As Ice T said "That means you're gay"

@TheHumanTryp0d 3 месяца назад

I didn't drown, the water was just over my head and there was no oxygen.

@heathersmith5237 2 месяца назад

Your example fails to make any point. Try again.

@BlackNerdist 7 месяцев назад

Technically, he is gay. Sexuality is determined by sex not gender.

@bennconner1195 7 месяцев назад

I’d say bisexual but more skewed towards the feminine. I am no expert but I assume bisexuals don’t always like either sex 50/50.

@Shinsanity87 7 месяцев назад

There is no technicality to this

@retronym4353 7 месяцев назад

Ironically this dude has a more feminine face than the "female" in the relationship, look at the jawlines. The second he withdraws from the roids he's going to be half way towards being a trans woman himself, I'd be interested to see the follow up in a few years, wouldn't be surprised it has become a "lesbian relationship" if they are still together

@tomeast0 7 месяцев назад

You can’t be “technically gay” this man is obviously straight.

@stinkygremlin267 7 месяцев назад

Factually you are wrong. Sexuality is defined by gender. Sexuality means you are sexually attracted to something. Not the sex

@rosbel4119 8 месяцев назад

Ice T be like: “I got news for you, that means you’re gay.”

@yazmin9483 День назад

Love is love…especially with a gay couple like this 😀

@Theloverboy2987 3 месяца назад

“You pretend I’m a woman, and I’ll pretend you’re straight”

@josephglenn4688 6 месяцев назад

At 2:45 he says his family already warned him if he's with someone other than a real woman he would be kicked out . In other words his family already suspected him of being g@y and they were right !!

@brittanyjoseph3485 5 месяцев назад

Right

@trevorwilson5496 5 месяцев назад

This is B.S. Scripted..... actors.

@chorizoramen93 5 месяцев назад

Meh just sounds like he had a hole parents. My mom would also say unprovoked weird crap like that. His family members were like the ones repressed...

@josephglenn4688 5 месяцев назад

@chorizoramen93 In other words your family feels that way about you and your boyfriend got it 👍

@chorizoramen93 5 месяцев назад

@@josephglenn4688I'm a woman...you seem obsessed with gay men...

@shawnas.4459 6 месяцев назад

I don't think people in the comments care at all that they are dating each other. The video focused more on him trying to prove he wasn't gay than it did the actual relationship, so people are responding to the focus of the video, not necessarily the relationship.

@nck4888 5 месяцев назад

Yup, really hard trying to convince himself that he's not gay yet he's dating a man with mental insecurities.

@janmusil4537 4 месяца назад

@@nck4888It's a woman Now..

@Checkeroute 3 месяца назад

Oh we do care, in fact 99.9% of humanity cares very much

@VajraDhara-bl9cw 2 месяца назад

This was the only mature comment on here. Thank you.

@berrymilk123 8 дней назад

@@janmusil4537 no

@stevenvivar7238 2 месяца назад

No he isnt he's straight or pansexual. I doesn't matter love whoever you wanna love. Rooting for you from orange county California.

@chrisabuso5856 2 месяца назад

I identify as a politician do I now have a license to steal lol

@pete1003 6 месяцев назад

So I have a friend that custom built his 80s Camaro to look like a Lamborghini! But guess what? When that car breaks down, does he bring it to the Lamborghini dealer? No! He brings it to the Chevy dealer cuz it's still a Chevy! 😊

@peckgardner 6 месяцев назад

Yeah cause humans and objects are the same. Good one there bro

@pete1003 6 месяцев назад

@@peckgardner The point is , you can make something look like something but, it doesn't make it what you want it to look like.

@peckgardner 6 месяцев назад

@@pete1003 the moment u realize gender is in the brain and not the genitals cause that’s how biology works your brain is gonna explode

@tekcomputers 6 месяцев назад

What does this have to do with anything? People aren't cars, nor is this even comparable to the concept of different car manufacturers. Human tissue response to hormones is the same irrespective of chromosomal sex. You inherited the same androgen and estrogen receptors from both your mother and father.... and your bodily systems will respond to hormones in a very similar way that it did to your parents. Women and men aren't some separate specifies which respond completely differently.

@anastasiaboltt1203 6 месяцев назад

A car and human being are not the same thing firstly. And secondly saying all this is like saying a women cant donate blood to a man or share an organ trasplant with the opposite sex.

@ku3325ku 5 месяцев назад

This reminds me of the end of Scary Movie when Ray is like “I’m not gay” lol

@rjkessler 5 месяцев назад

Great reference 😄

@nicolasapellido8884 5 месяцев назад

😂😂😂😂

@3amDayDreamer 5 месяцев назад

🤣🤣🤣

@ltsjustchris 5 месяцев назад

“ i wanted to go shopping”

@Welshy 5 месяцев назад

that was based on homophobia and so is this, as if being gay is the end of the world..

@BABYMONS7R.OFFICIAL 2 месяца назад

MMMM DELICA YAMITE KUDASAIII I'm a TWINKABOO looking for my ALPHA TOP here

@NiNiD80 8 месяцев назад

Sooo most alpha straight men don’t go around declaring to themselves and everyone else that they’re “an alpha straight man” over and over …who are you trying to convince? Us or yourself? I couldn’t care less if you’re straight/gay/bi. As far as I’m concerned you have nothing to prove to anyone. You’re both consenting adults and that’s all that matters.

@JesseSchwenker-zx8wr 8 месяцев назад

Actually sweetheart, if you actually listen, I did not come on here to convince anybody. I did not come on here to get Instagram followers we came on here to help other men or help other couples like us, or help other men like myself, be able to embrace who they are, and not be scared of the reputation that he thinks he needs to hold because the world thinks that alpha males can only talk to natural woman so I came on here to help people so that’s who I am I like to help people so they don’t go through the things that I went through so do you have something to say now or do you understand that I came on here to help people and I have had over about 1000 people message me telling me thank you so much for this video. This made me feel so much more confident, etc. stop trying to knock down someone’s. What are we out here trying to help people.

@Lyagani 8 месяцев назад

@@JesseSchwenker-zx8wr”Alpha males”, whatever that is, can’t be gay?

@emilyhemsworth77 7 месяцев назад

@@JesseSchwenker-zx8wroddly enough we are woman, we don't know anything about men. However, I had multiple male friends to hang with. Plus, I am an asexual. I had tons male friends. Really, and I assumed alpha is for sex term only or just being dominant whatever. But, still its boring to hear. No offense.

@loren5432 7 месяцев назад

@@JesseSchwenker-zx8wrIt's all good dude, but the problem is that you're shooting yourself in the foot by saying that you want to help "alpha males" embrace who they are while at the same time stressing the fact that you aren't gay, you're giving mixed messages. It's like you are saying that we shouldn't care about labels when it comes to love, but at the same time you are literally using labels by saying that you aren't gay, so which is it?

@ov7spears 7 месяцев назад

@@JesseSchwenker-zx8wr I actually feel bad for biological women. A lot of closeted "straight" men have abandoned y'all because it's easier to go for a trans woman nowadays. At the end of the day men understand men.

@bmjv77 5 месяцев назад

All I can think of is Captain Jack Sparrow saying "you just keep telling yourself that."

@rogueshadow7 5 месяцев назад

Bro lol

@chrissmith8198 Месяц назад

Yassss

@pandorasbox7152 3 месяца назад

I'll make this simple, he's bi!

@x-latetv-x6816 3 месяца назад

Has he dated woman before?

@Korum211 3 месяца назад

@@x-latetv-x6816He's a little confused but he's got the spirit

@user-uq3ix1tm4i 3 месяца назад

A man can’t be bi let me just clarify that if you’re a straight man you will understand this to the fullest

@pandorasbox7152 3 месяца назад

@@user-uq3ix1tm4i yes you can! You can be attracted to both men and women.

@quokkashine3358 3 месяца назад

@@user-uq3ix1tm4iwhat a stupid thing you are

@pigeonramier6898 3 месяца назад

This is 100% gay, its not a problem at all being gay mate. Live your life as you want just being honest, its gay and its 100% ok.

@zambimaru 7 месяцев назад

Just admit you're Gay. You'll be much happier in the long run.

@lboogie5452 3 месяца назад

What a breath of fresh air your guys story on here is beatiful. Alot of the episodes seem to be about sexual content etc...which is fine, but it was nice to see your story because to me it was real and beautiful. ❤

@xoxoMoonChildxoxo 2 месяца назад

Saw them on an episode of The Hot Seat. He said they were in the adult film industry so I had to look. Instead of what I was looking for, I found their IG's and on an interview Jesse clearly states he's been with both men and women. So yeah, he's not gay. He's bi. 🤷‍♀

@AddMoreQuarters Месяц назад

Half gay.

@sloozetang4863 8 месяцев назад

Soon as dude knew it was actually a man pretending to be a woman and choose to Pursue anyway it made him gay

@stinkygremlin267 7 месяцев назад

Men pretending to be women are drag queen's she's not a queen

@danbragg2918 5 месяцев назад

i eat chicken and pork....., but im not a meat eater. i write with a pen in my right hand...., but im not righthanded..... hes GAY.

@Xindi86 5 месяцев назад

Nope, you are close minded

@Nick-zt6sk 5 месяцев назад

@@Xindi86 you're so open minded that your brain fell out

@Fluffyolphert 5 месяцев назад

@Xindi86 you're so open minded your brain fell out

@3amDayDreamer 5 месяцев назад

@@Fluffyolphert🤣🤣🤣

@iloveit9468 5 месяцев назад

I never leave a comment….but here it is! He’s gay!

@LP640LP670 3 месяца назад

I bet 99% if y'all did not know Cassidy was trans, then you would it be just fine. So as long you don't know, its not bad. Weird world.

@Checkeroute 3 месяца назад

It's a pity you don't realize how ridiculous your comment is. Why wouldn't Men be fine with someone that they assume is an attractive woman 🤦🏻🤦🏻

@cummywummiez 2 месяца назад

so if we thought they were just a woman itd be fine? heres the thing thats a man in a dress with implants. bro got a masculine face and hands just as big as the "alpha"

@bogiboglin2702 2 месяца назад

Cassidy looks like a dude

@mckenziebooogren 2 месяца назад

I must be the 1%. It's very obvious to me

@johndoe8287 2 месяца назад

So you should life in a lie? That doesn't sound fulfilling

@hodedo7803 3 месяца назад

Could not be gayer. Not that there's anything wrong with that

@KRterrorKR123 7 месяцев назад

He immediately gave me gay vibes as soon as he spoke.

@Rockymarciono731 6 месяцев назад

Most definitely

@Itskylewalker 6 месяцев назад

Yeah same.

@ratherbeonthemoon 6 месяцев назад

bc he's gay.

@mstyles2667 6 месяцев назад

Facts

@musicfangirl685 6 месяцев назад

She's more masculine than him. So why is he saying he's not gay?

@rodneykelley2917 7 месяцев назад

How to say "I'm lying to myself" without saying it.😂♾️

@MrProzacmilkshake 2 месяца назад

its only gay if you kiss i was told at school

@mariateresa6134 3 месяца назад

You can be anything nowadays, I lay in my garden sometimes and pretend I’m a carrot 😅😅😅

@ryebaldy8479 3 месяца назад

On the weekends, I'm a dog. But Monday thru Friday, I'm a turnip. But I only have sex with straight turnips, but when I'm a dog, I hump boy or girl dogs. Lol. You could call me versatile, because I also hump human legs.

@Valo-Ran63 3 месяца назад

Valid point 😂

@Godsmercy-y8f 3 месяца назад

😂😂😂 hilarious

@ramonbennett1994 3 месяца назад

Me too 😂😂

@crystalo3550 3 месяца назад

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

@NostalgiaOscuras 5 месяцев назад

His friend said I didn’t know that… he wanted to say he was gay 😂 he took it back real quick

@bcowtan6866 5 месяцев назад

There is no way his family said "if you're ever with a "trans girl" when he was growing up. Trans wasn't a thing in Jersey shores circa 2000 🤷‍♀️🤣

@christinechilton9069 День назад

I think Jesse is a great person, genuinely. I wish the best for this guy

@genesisbustamante-durian 2 месяца назад

Sooner or later they will break up or divorce. The things he did not considered now, he will reflect and consider them later.

@oktomcat 5 месяцев назад

Saying the words "toxic masculinity," "I'm an alpha male," and repeatedly saying, "I'm not gay." Tells me that he is confused and probably needs some counseling. I find myself feeling sad for him.

@SNESpool 5 месяцев назад

So you heard some of your trigger words and then you just stopped listening. What a snowflake 😂

@Electricslam77 5 месяцев назад

GAYYYYYYYY!!!!! 😆

@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286 5 месяцев назад

He isn't@@Electricslam77

@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286 5 месяцев назад

He isn't@@Electricslam77

@kullulillu 5 месяцев назад

@@nkemnoraulmanfredini7286 yes he is. No question about that. Cheers pal.

@marktanario1405 5 месяцев назад

If you two are happy it's your business and no one else.

@angela-ji1cg 4 месяца назад

But they are making it our business by sharing their story online.

@bad_writer 4 месяца назад

@@angela-ji1cg they are not, you ever heard of free speech? They can share their story and you can ignore it, no one is forcing you to listen/care. You are doing that entirely voluntarily

@lightyagami5317 4 месяца назад

@@bad_writer they can live their lives but why do they have to keep saying "i'm not gay" "i'm not gay " why can't just be happy and honest

@bttm4u 4 месяца назад

@@lightyagami5317because that’s your opinion. Not the truth… it’s your concept of what is gay and what is not. Being straight means you date women. She is a woman by all means, both physicallly and legally so if you wanna force your opinion to others that’s on you. But they’re not forcing you watch this video and comment anything.

@An_ony_mous 4 месяца назад

She cant get pregnant. Not a woman at all. @@bttm4u

@jonathancabrera7543 3 месяца назад

What Ever He Needs To Tell Himself That His Not Gay To Be Able To Sleep At Night

@RafaelGarcia-fz4xs 3 месяца назад

When you’re gay but you don’t know…

@reflux043 5 месяцев назад

If they both aren't gay, then im a male lesbian!

@user-tj6je3of4f 5 месяцев назад

If you saw them on the street, would you think that they were a gay couple? If Cassidy hadn't come out as a trans woman, would you have noticed it by yourself?

@user-to8qw7ur9h 4 месяца назад

If you are a male lesbian Dennis rodman is your boyfriend