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Angel is a child, she acted like her age Years from now, she would look back and bit herself up for messing up this opportunity. Such a pity

This video cracked I and my mum up it also reminded us of some crazy experiences we’ve encountered 😂 people take kindness for weakness lol

Nj earned more of my respect for the aftermath. The fact you took everything is it for me, great job 👏 👍

Chai!! anytime I remember this story eeh, it still shocks me🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️

I will always come back to this video as a reminder to be strict . Because I have the tendency to loose guard with people. And over do

Hi NJ, The problem is that you started off wrong - you didn't set boundaries right at the start. I believe in being nice and kind always, but your relationship was of an EMPLOYEE and EMPLOYER. Unfortunately, Angel took liberties and "ABUSED" your kindness. What a wasted opportunity!! No doubt she's now realising how foolishly she acted. She took advantage of your kind nature. Just remember if there's there's a next time to always set boundaries. Sorry you had such a bad experience.

In fact, you see that your resolution, that is the same for me after i also learnt my lesson. Someone I welcomed in my home, shopped for, treated for eczema and low blood level, in fact a lot things. She enters her room by 7pm and wakes up after 6am. My mum who had come to assist me because i had just given birth was working more than her. This girl got the guts to insult me and my parents (my over 70 year old retired doctor parents o) because she heard me tell the agency that i could no longer work with her because she was lazy. She knew she was leaving anyway so she just started misbehaving. The things she said shocked me to the marrow!! I have one now and I am trying not to be too nice. It is hard, but once bitten twice shy sha!

Boundaries are very important and not to be taken for granted and compromised.Love and care for them but ensure you are not endangering yourself.Never get to the point whereby you are too relaxed.Where possible,let them not leave with you.They love being free.I have my stories.God be with you sis..

You didn’t do anything wrong. Even if she had a phone or not I’m sure she always had it in her to do something like this. It just baffles me how people spoil opportunities for others because you’ll never try this with another help again. I try to make it my prayer point everyday that “Let no one hurt the spirit of whoever is destined to help me before I meet them”. You’re a wonderful person and I know God will give you exactly what suits you ❤️.

I love the decision you took by keeping d stuff for the next person, she wanted to fool you but she will definitely regret her decision

It's good you listened to the advice of your sister's 😂😂😂😂nice sharing ❤

I had a help 2020 who stayed for 5 months. We made her comfortable to the best of our ability to the extent that people said we over did. Long story short, she left to make and sell broom, work from one restaurant to the other. This person who was eating what she wants would call her people in her language and complain of hunger. I was mad when her parents told my mom her report which were all lies but I was HAPPY within because I gave her more than she had ever had and a better look than she came and was weeks after she left! I have learned my lessons and told myself that the next person would not have such privileges yet I wont be a MONSTER !!

You are just a nice person I see it in your videos. don’t just let anyone make you feel bad about that.

This is so sad. I feel really bad when ladies mess up good opportunities. I really pray she’s able to forgive herself.

See how Angel lost her biggest opportunity to stay with Kind NJ.

You did well my dear. Her mum is a culprit also. If the woman didn't support it, she would bring the girl to your house and tell her to apologize.

You’ve gained a new subscriber 🥰I just like your vibe❤️

I really enjoyed watching. This a big lesson to other people who don't understand what life is about.

Nj please we need more sitdwn stories let diz biko , e d sweet person 😊

Hmmm You literally told my story about my experience with my help in this episode. I'm glad you shared. There's something about feeling pity for these helps and granting them as much freedom and everything they need including smart phones, social media, etc. It backfired in my case, she'd get so distracted with my baby that all I do when I'm at work or working from home is watch CCTV. Insult me, what didn't I see. No one told me how better it is to rather be alone than live with someone who's so bitter and not exactly appreciative. I learnt that it's always best to define what you want from the start and create necessary boundaries whilst being nice to them regardless of them being paid and all. Thanks for sharing, I'm glad you learnt from the experience and we the viewers learnt one or two too. Blessed week ahead.❤

I have learnt to set some boundaries no matter how much I like you, to avoid see finish. I also went through similar situation ,also spent a lot before Mmeso came.

I thought having live-in helps was luxury until I had my triplet. I've seen shege but thank God my kids are growing and have started daycare. I now have one help and we are coping. She's not perfect but she's willing to stay.

Very good.Infact,this one of collecting everything back is goodddd!Come on! Let her go and see how out side is.The guy will just use and dump her She is saying she ia sorry about what happened because the guy don dey show her shege.It's not what she expected that she is seeing.It's too late.

😂😂😂😂 I had a similar experience, she woke up one morning and left. Of course, the estate gate turned her back. I took back all the clothes I bought and she has been going around complaining to everyone that I took the clothes from her. The thing really pained her. I said yes na, the next help will wear it since we all want to be unreasonable.

I enjoyed your eyes rolling and facial expressions ❤

Your spirit was calm not because she was a good person but because you are a genuinely good person. It was you all along not her.

Nj you're a sweet soul, please dont stop been good to people ❤❤

Hi Nj, I knew it; with all of the niceness you spoke about that the story would end up this exact way. There are people like her scattered all over the world. When you are extremely nice to them, they usually feel that they don’t deserve it and you know this saying; ‘to whom much is given, much is expected’ people like this just have this feeling inside of them that they can never give back to match the other’s kindness. It’s not about the work or any work. She just had to excuse herself that way than to feel disappointed if she doesn’t meet up with expectations Much ❤

Hmmmm That’s sad some people misuse opportunity that others are looking for.

You did well by taking the things back , we are proud of you😂😂.

Nj Ur eyes eeeh😂😂😂 fear just dey catch me! Omoh this story eeh😢 some helps sha may God have mercy on them

NJ oooo..... 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 Just learn. No one is saying you shouldn't be nice but there should just be a limit.

See your eye expression when you were talking about the phone stuff part. Omo😜😜😜

Dang Angel! She just messed up big time. Unfortunately, Angel decided to mess up the good things coming her way. NJ, I am so sorry that you had to experience such behavior from Angel. You definitely did the right thing. God bless you and your family ❤❤❤

I have noticed that nice people are not lucky when it comes to house help but you see all these wicked madams, they have the best of house help, I don't know why.

Na she loose... Glad you listened to your siblings advice. Don't stop being good dear ❤

Wow 😮. Her response to the text message you sent to her shocked me more.

Some house help can be so ungrateful. I like the way you handled the issue

Hmmmm.... Well said sis! Actually the wicked ones have helps that stay long with them. Weldone, you tried you did your best, I love the courage you had to collect the clothes. I'm still trying to set boundaries with my househelps. Like, you just spoke like me right now coz I think I have a heart for young girls. I ensure I treat them well. They eat what I eat etc but most of them still misbehave. I have had my own fair share of the househelp palava. I have had one insult me when leaving and many of them take one's niceness for granted. It's a long story.... Most of them are actually after men, they don't want to work for money, they just want men to give them money. Just recently, my cousin told me that my relationship with my househelp is making her take me for granted which is true and my husband once said something, he said that I care so much about the lives of these girls but they care less about me and my family. Most of them, no matter how nice you are to them are just very selfish and would only do the things that would suit them. I have so much to say about this coz in my 4years of having househelps ( coz of the nature of my job), it's not been so pleasant. Can't wait for my kids to be grown so that I can do without having a help. I am still trying to set boundaries but it's sometimes difficult because of my nature. I pray for wisdom on how to handle them. Househelp ish can be stressful. I remember a pastor in my church once said that they had to really really pray about the househelp thing and even sowed seeds in church and God finally gave them someone that stayed with them for 8 years. I pray God give you wisdom on how to handle the househelp and I pray this particular househelp stays with you for long. My advise is that you keep your househelp off your channel to avoid issues. You can't trust these people, most of them are ungrateful and impatient, you don't know their next line of action. Right now, I ensure my househelp does the job she is employed to do and I ensure she does it well cos, I have really really stressed myself in the name of "I don't want to stress my househelp" but they still end up leaving or sometimes we have to send them away coz of their behavioural issues. I now ensure I utilise them, afterall, they are paid to do it. Thank God that my husband is firm, it has helped me coz I'm so soft that I get taken for granted but my husband sits them up. I'll do my best for my househelp, if they choose to leave, fine. I know I have tried. For phone, I can help you fix your spoilt phone but to give a new one or my old phone, you have to stay with me for like 1 year plus. Coz these days, I noticed that these girls are phone addicts, instead of doing their jobs, they'll be on phones... I can keep typing about this but in a nutshell. While they are around, utilize them, do the best you can do for them, advise them about life, hygiene, their future etc. Don't carry their problem, including their family problems on your head, do the best you can do. Be ready for any shocker, If they choose to leave, move on and don't depend on them for everything. I'll be glad to know more about how to set boundaries coz I'm so open and free and I hate it, I'm working so hard on overcoming that.

NJ, God delivered you frpm her. Thank God for strange deliverance

I trust Nelo Okeke to do a good job in taking everything back🤣😅😅 She was definitely the best person to be there at the right time & place🤣😅 House help stories are just one that you will keep swapping till you find a good one. Please don’t be too quick to do a YT video with them esp the ones that’re social media friendly. Your grace & personality will get you a good person eventually. As for the lady, she missed out on a great opportunity cuz we all know how stories like this end. NJ, biko block her number if you can & great job on taking everything back. No time! She dey call you mummy & dey plan exit for back. Mummy lachakwa ya nti ebe’ono! Thank God nothing even happened to her. All these kidnappings happening in Nigeria… yet they will never learn. Odiegwu!

Nj your right!!!!!! It’s nice people that this helps show shege, I agree

You have a good heart, Nj! Angel lost big time. Someday she'd realise it but it could be too late.

Nj you are niceeeeeeeeeeee. Kings come to your rising. this is more than nice. It shows INTENTIONALITY. that you are thinking of a person. That you put yourselves in their shoes

Thank God that you collected your line back. Its very important 😂😂😂😂

There is no maybe Nj. No room for regret. You did your part really well. Whoever will stay will surely stay ❤

Aunty NJ..I should come and be your house help because I can’t be treated well nd misbehave like this😊😀

Lmaooooo I literally laughed out loud when you said you messaged her after a while Chaiii You truly a nice person Maybe it was the bf that responded to you at that time or she truly wasn't an angel. She was just waiting to leave her parents house to fly 😂

Children of nowadays. With all the horror stories on line of girls been killed by men they met online. I don't know if they don't read such stories and learn from it. May God help us and our children that they don't neglect our teachings. Nj Nwanyi oma thanks for praying for her and wishing her well. Time will surely tell. She will grow up someday and deeply regret her actions. Nne you did well by collecting everything you bought for her . Do take care my sister and keep been you, you were created specially by God to be a kind hearted woman. Lot of love.

Wow NJ I am soooo sorry! Eiiiii Angel see how wild she is! Bad girl oooo the way she really faked who and how she is. Thank God she didn't bring anyone to your house to place you in danger. Glory to God nothing like that happened. Sorry ooo NJ she took your kindness as a weakness.

The girl played her age, truth be told, she loves and respects you. Just that the guy in her life is a destiny killer

Thank God they didn't use her for pepper soup! Her mum would've accused you...obulu ka isi mee ogo kolu okwu.

Me watching similar things my mom experienced with her girl and even more. The girl actually left today today. My mom was still feeling bad that she sent her today. I told her not to feel bad, after all the good good things she did for this girl. They are never grateful, no matter how nice you are to them. Very wicked people. It is well

Heeeeeeeeh... The ending shocked me o 😂 The way I shouted "Heeeeiiii".

I enjoyed this story time too much 😂😂

NWA! You did the right thing obviously.Anywaysihave missed you ooo NJ.

So sad, she was not well guided, if only she was more focused. Funny video, I appreciate the little funny clips inserted. You even tried to reach out to her again even with the rude response 😅😅. Small pikin sense, one day, she would know better

I’m so glad you have cleared your name. Give it a few months, we’ll see her on nezeville

Chai, aunty NJ I experienced almost the same thing (betrayalof trust and confidence). It was painful eh. I was nice and kind but maybe not to the extreme like you. I cried the day she left because i was like 'after everything?' You see that ' I collected the things I bought for her' I did the same and I don't regret it, eziokwu. Her mum was so mad that I took the things I gave her. Some people were like i shouldn't have, yea, but I did... I took the clothes and stuff to the church for welfare because i don't think I'm getting a househelp any time soon.

This story is interesting I think I will be the director, where are my cast we need to act this for others to learn a lesson 😂😂😂😂

Imagine the Mum calling to tell you nonsense, instead of her to call to apologize and scold her child for been misled by a man, she’s calling for her clothes(mtchewwwww) . NJ you really have a big heart o, you still messaged her after awhile and the human-being even had the guts to be rude to you(SMH). She has seen it that life is not the way she thought about it and calling back, she’s not even serious and trust me she might not even have this type of opportunity again.

Ah! What do people really want??!! All these young girls! NJ your story sounds same as Nazom's😳😳😳. And that's how Angel has spoilt the road for others🤦. NJ you're such a sweet soul❤❤. Thank God things didn't go wrong(I mean, an implicative scenario) before her slimmy side got revealed. NJ, I reiterate! You're a sweet sweet sweet soul❤.

Nj,its her loss,there are lots of pple out there waiting for this opportunity, thank God u are over it now, she will definitely regret her actions.

When my help acted her drama, people made me feel bad saying I spoilt her and gave her leg The clothes I bought, the gifts to her sisters It’s well I just told myself, next time my boundaries will be stricter

Ah this story is close to the one I had with my househelp o those girls ehn

Best story teller😂😂😂😂😂

It's a mix of good and bad out there

Nice people find it hard to get a good help.

She did eat made her happy, so u yoo do wat makes u happy. No one will die for another.

They are on the same Whataspp group, so glad i don't have to deal with them, great Job for taking it all back, the next person will rock it. Thank God you dint fall my hand,LOL

I like that Nenye featured in the intro😂😂😂😂

You did well. May God help us all and save us from ingrates.

I've learned too early not to be free with helps. If you give a phone. Inspect it regularly.

This woman can not be serious I swear she used to call me mummy 😅😅 thank God nothing happened to her because the story would have been different Nigeria people sabi talk

welcome back NJ!

NJ, If you can recall, the first thing i asked u was "What abt that phone you bought for her. That girl does not deserve good. She was bad to NJ upon the treatment you gave her as real angel.

It's so unfortunate that Angel didn't know that you were the best thing that had happened to her.

I think she's not a Bad person,but she allowed herself to be carried away by youthful exuberance.

I don't blame you for taking all the things you bought back from her, apart from the toiletries. Some people don't know what they have until they have lost it

I had the same experience with my helper after 2yrs of working for me i did everything i could to make her happy i bought new phone very expensive i was paying her so well i make sure i give extra cash to cover her transportation, eat anything you want as food is not a problem for me, she went on holiday was unable to come back because of cash i paid she came back , one beautiful morning i was waiting for her as usual zhe sent me a message saying i travel to johannesburg so i wont come back. Try calling no response asked her friend what wrong no response i was so so disappointed it wasnt easy for me the whole situation pain me so much.. Not a good expérience especially when you trust and love the person. I took the same decision you come for work i treat you as a worker no extra no pamparing. Let keep it there even if you leave it wont affect me. So my dear NJ just forget about her.

You gree give me this gist because trust me to tell you I told you so 🤪 make i dey watch

Glad that you have also found a better help.

I have had my fair share of ordeals with live-in helps…. Now I am done…l & my kids will continue to manage ourselves

lol. My help dt I took like a sister. Anytime I caution her in presence of my husband, she wd retreat into her shell. Not wanting to eat or associate. She wd say mummy I dnt like wat u said…in tears!!. I’m like…😮I’m ur boss, I correct u when u are wrong. She’s 35 wit 3 kids and separated from her husband. She packed her bags and left my house one Sunday morning. Maybe she liked my husband or maybe she feels too big to be corrected. 🤷‍♀️ I’ve discovered that those maids dt have sisters in same town as where they are working dnt blink an eyelid…they are tired of d work they pack to their sisters place.

Thanks for the amazing story

You see all these helps ehn 😂 I stopped trying to act nice to the one in my house because she's rude, saucy, doesn't know how to talk,if you ask her to do something her expressions will change,I think she has changed now after my dad scolded her that he'll send her out if she doesn't change. Something told me to check her torch light phone 😅 This girl is 17 and she has like 3 boyfriends that she's managing, I was just saying "heeeh" as I was checking her phone😂 I checked her bag and I found a pregnancy test strip( I didn't tell my parents tho), she's always on the phone calling her men,we can't hear whatever she discuss with them because we don't understand her language. She even had the guts to ask for my parents to buy her an android phone and that they should remove it from her pay (scope 😂) She's going home for Christmas and my mum said she's not going to allow her come back She has done a lot, I wish I can do a vn because 😂

Nj nwannem, it is well with you. I love your heart, you are a very good person. May the Lord send good people your way always.

Well done my dear not every body have luck for house helps thank God she did not stay modern that for me i will help my self with my sister's for now

I don’t have house helps but if I do, the person will NEVER have a phone, that is the condition I’ll give to the person bringing her. Davido’s son passed because the help was on the phone. SM is very addictive, I’ll rather fill the house with books and encourage her to read but you see mobile phone NEVER.

I have had a terrible experience with my nanny, i just sent her away last Saturday. I treated this lafy like my own sister, bought a lot of things for her until people around me were complaining that im too kind to her but the way she treated me ehh

Nawooo this little girls dis days can overdo

It is well. I love your hair ❤❤❤❤

You did very well by doing what you did ❤❤❤

Hahaha! You even have time to check on her. I block and delete immediately they step out of the gate. They are not worth my time.

Some househelp's are just unbelievable. Aunty NJ you look beautiful as always 😍

I love story time

Chia i feel so sad very disheartened story. This children of this days wow.

Hmmm...What a Story!! It’s only God that knows the innermost thoughts of our hearts. Good thing you took all the things you bought from her, she surely did not deserve any of it. Very educative video. Really enjoyed watching ❤️💕

Oh my goodness 😮😮😮😮! I hope she is not regreting right now ? 😢

Meanwhile, your facial expressions did the saying for you on this video 😊.