My ex had been cheating on me,kuambia mamake akasema mtoto wake hawezi fanya hivo.I told him one morning "ukienda job ujue jioni hutanipata" its been 9 years now raising my son alone bila regrets.Heri kulea mtoi solo kuliko kutreat infections kila saa
The fact that she thinks she is responsible for that grown man weuh...Mtu ako na meno 32 years anachukua choices mbaya na unafikiria ungemsaidia? Gen X/older Millenials Kenyan women are unsalvageable. He made that bed, let him lie in it..If he changes, good for him, if not, his loss..He thought the grass is greener on the other side, but learned the hard way...Hey aki tulee wasichana kwa kuwapea assurance that they aren't responsible for any other grown up..Otherwise they won't be mothering grown men..Tondú it is badly anyway...
I second you! 💯💯💯💯💯💯abuse is abuse,cold war usually results to suicide due to frustrations, so just because he does not beat you physically he is torturing you psychologically with silent treatment,leave if a spouse abuses you physically or psychologically PERIOD! Men cannot take this kind of treatment but yet don’t take accountability,they project it when they get caught, most of them lack emotional maturity it’s plain disgusting 🤮
@@gw7768 Just giving them the basics.. Mwenye hataskia iwe shida yake sababu hauwezi peleka punda kwa mto na uiforce kunywa maji..Watakuwa kama huyu mama who is still stuck in the past..Haja move on and she thinks she can save that dude, which is impossible..
Monica huyu let her meet Madam Wakiama she will forgive him nawanze maisha tena as a family . Uyu 90% amefuata all the advises madam wa kiama atuiraga 🙏
You're a great lady may God help you take care of your children. But hiyo advice ya kuambia ladies wavumilie kwa marriage, hapo sijaona kama tunaelewena.
Waoo..,am so… inspired and ve learned so much from Emma. She’s young and has a lot of wisdom. Single Mother’s who ve been abused and frustrated in marriages should learn from Emma. Congratulations Monica.
This woman should never be an intersessor or help women who are having difficulties in marriage. She is the kind that's enabling bad behavior exhibited by cheating husbands.she needs to heal from her own break up.Apone hiyo kidonda kwanza ndio asaidie wengine.
Rosa I won't agree with you cos what breaks marriage you know very it usherati and that's what happened to Emma's. She has a right to share what she has gone through also to be a intercessor Ngai ndaturoragira githithi ta mundu wa thi.
There is need for education, everyone deserves to be in a healthy marital relationship. If it’s lacking, love yourself more. Women are not slaves of poor treatment from their spouses. You are beautiful mama, love you more and you will be ok. You deserve everything good ❤
Very humbled wife, but don’t feel bad or make excuses for him, that’s why many of us women are suffering, men are supposed to be strength of family not weakness, move on and there plenty of good men out there, whorrs are plenty and few good wife/women 👊🏼
Most men from Embu and Meru are very disrespectful, proud and irresponsible for real...i went through a marriage with a meru man, it is like i was single woman but married..it only by the grace of God that i educated my children and feed my children... I had to walk out of the marriage for my happiness....
Aiiihhh! Decisions have consequences! Mtu aliacha watoto, and thought the grass was greener! Wacha pia asomee kitabu ya 'life'! Doctorate degree proper! I hope more cheaters deal with this! I wonder what Wakiama thinks of this 🤔 😂
Christianity life is hard, despite kuleta mtu kwa nyumba utamserve hadi chai without any harm further more, escort her, Emma you left marriage in peace without violence, yenyewe salvation life is hard... God will reward you and God will not allow your beautiful girls go through what you have been
I don't think this woman should blame her self because that man gave her all the reasons to quit.are you a rehabilitation center of a badly raised man.if I were you I can't regret.
My mom keeps on saying those words l wish l knew, singetoka kwangu,my dad died like garbage 😢,hiyo story ya pombe it's not normal but trust me mwenye aliplant hiyo pombe Kwa life ya ur hubby ata vuna coz sisi huona na my half brother wako hopeless
Mungu akikuripishia kwa mwenye kukupea uchungu tena unasema heri hungetoka..chunga usipitishiwe majaribu mengine mungu akuondokee..nothing to regret there. move on na maisha yako coz maybe ungekua huko ungekua kingine..God took you out there with purpose umushukuru.
8 love the chapter of that book that sometimes " rejection by human beings can be protection".Even the painful death sometimes, it is protection.Isaiah 57.
Emma please do not regret. You did the best thing. Everything happens with a reason. If God wanted you to live with that man, huyo mzee angekukujia also kama ungevumilia kwake labda ungepatana na mabaya kama magonjwa ama aanze kuwa violent.
Monica ati niunyuaga kindu 😂😂😂. One thing I know for sure , never ask the other woman a question about anything to do with your husband, a man is the one who makes the decision to break his vows . When he told you you have a co-Wife that would have been the end of asking questions of where are you going or where were you .
Emmah you’re a gold that man didn’t deserve you ,coz he couldn’t keep the gold 🌟 And you’re such a good and beautiful lady,what I ask you is to stop thinking of that man and start a fresh and moving forward so that God will fill that gap of him because if you keep him in your thoughts ❤ no vacancy Wishing you well and happiness with your beautiful gals ❤❤❤ Monicah uratuma ngatheka dona ta urasamuka tanie nikimagine ati muhiki atine gwakwa dimune saii 🍵 😢😢😢😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
God gave us all self will to determine good & bad,you are not responsible for his actions period! He made choice to break your vows & disrespected you,even the Bible clearly says you can part ways due to sexual immorality or death,he was not willing to communicate nor repent,if it was the vice versa he would have probably hurt you physically then leave without turning back, men can’t stand being disrespected why should women take it,don’t regret your decision Emma provision from a man that does not love nor respect you it’s not worth it,God probably saved you from some nasty illness
Better you atleast you have kids......wangu was so impatient and he left even after kumvumilia as a narcissist because i loved him sooo much.......still healing though waiting for divorce
Monicah those men get bewitched by those second women and they hate the first wives, then when they are dumped these witches are unable to do the evil they did to them. May God give this man a second time. This is a very brave woman and she is very honest
I tend to disagree your own personal happiness and fulfillment is key..why stay with a man because he is providing. . perhaps angeambukiWa magonjwa or even die of depression akose kulea watoto....jipende kwanza
Wangu ilesiku nilimshika na mpango wa kando hapo ndio nilijua ndoa yangu imeisha sikipoteza time nikamuondokea with my three kids na hata sijawai fikiria kumrundia,I love myself too much
This lady is giving my mom's story,9yrs later,my dad is in my inbox telling me to help him reconcile with my mom,men what goes on in your minds surely?
She doesn't understand that high emotional abuse is such a bad thing. Its better to choose self than that kind of disrespect. Mum you also need to understand that every kid suffers identity crisis, she surely needed to meet her dad and have closurer.. again feeling like you still feel responsible of his waywardness is very wrong he could lead you into depression or infections. I can't allow such a person back into my life.
@@reginandirangu4816 aki. Na watu wao hua hawajali atleast wakuje na wazee waongeleshe watoto wao wabadilishe. Pesa zao ni za starehe na ukitika kwao you are on your own
Mental torture, physical torture..kunyimwa pesa, madharau this man had captured her brains,... can't give excuses for him.... she has never healed...ni ile title mrs who ....ni vile anaogopa what people would say na Emma ni mtu wa church...my peace of mind is what matters
