This is why we say in the Caribbean, "see me and come live with me are two different things" ... You never know the true person until you live with them ... Pray for a spirit of discernment.
This story/testimony is a true definition that we serve a living God. Diana is alive because of God's love and grace. To God be the glory for everything
@@sebicana3634 Hi, I think she meant she was pregnant for a guy who tried to trap her down and cage her by telling her to stop her education and she had to leave the man because she sees it as a red flag and it's been 12 years since she left him and she is happy she left the relationship.
It seems like alot of Kenyan men like to mistreat women. The women are getting more civilized but the kenyan men are slow to change washamba ndio wengi sana. The society needs alot of change
I am a man.but even embarassed to say it.surely men we can be that bad? That inhuman?surely.God guide and forgive us.and the way am in love with my girlfriend n sijawai fikiria kumuumiza ata kidogo.men we need to respect our women and treat them well.they are our blessings.
I'm following from Italy, I feel very Sorry for women in Kenya. This things happen all over the world. In Italy too abusive men are presente at all levels of società you wouldn't dream about. I'm with you...
@@blasiomuhinda5913 Not witchcraft but mental health issues. We don't address them and that's how people end up committing these types of crimes because their mental health issues go unaddressed.
Demonic possession is real folks!!! Don’t be fooled by a cute smile. The word of God says: test every spirit. Call on the name of Lord, our help comes from the Lord.
Sorry for your horrifying experience, I am not a widow, but when our realise your husband of 29 Years has another family outside of your relationship is devastating my family broke down and I went into a deep depression,But when I learnt about Narcissistic abuse and How to overcome. The trauma, I realized African women especially needed to be made aware Because a very high percentage of women are now left to lead. I miserably after being used and abused And then discarded by their other half when they need them most, in old age. Let's work together to Improve our circumstances through awareness and healing.
Marriage is a gamble. Imagine investing your resources and emotions towards having a successful family with a man or woman yet you can't clearly understand the real agenda of your partner?.Kuna wale wakutumia wengine kwa marriage, kuna wale wa kukalia wengine nakadhalika..Its like playing casino! If your marriage is successful, count yourself lucky. People are really suffering in marriages
You were not foolish but naive. However, he wasn't clever but deceptive.and had you on his own agenda. Kudos to you for being able to forgive. #PowerOfForgiveness.
Now the other day i was arguing with a friend,,was telling him men can hide their true selves for a very long time and he was saying no..imagine leaving with someone for ten years and not realizing he has another family...God help
Pls dont say dat my dear.. Marriage is very good if u are with the right sensible guy....but u need to know urself first so u dont settle for less.....
@@biggrhymees88one the fact tht women have a biological clock the society will keep on haunting us n since there those women ata bora they get killed but be with a man ndio inaharibia wengine....
@@josiepinky177 True, I agree, but what wrong did this woman do? Fine ,maybe she trusted to quickly , but she also said the felt the care from her husband. I mean even her husband consulted a gynaecologist just for her. What if the man could JUST, ONLY JUST reciprocate what was done to him by his wife?? What if the man could just love her alone and only have the life that the wife is aware of? The only pain she would be going through right now, is maybe her fourth labour pain.
When the abuser speaks, everyone believes him, but the most unfortunate part is that, when the victim opens up on her pain, no one even care or wants to listen. It is extremely important to listen to what someone is going thru. DO NOT TAKE SIDES, because you maybe supporting a DEVIL. Never be a devils agent by supporting an abuser.
And parents should teach their children too. Especially on values to look for in a spouse . Most people marry /get married without the knowing the important qualities to look for in the significant other.
The moral of the whole of the story cuts across all generations, there is a lot to admire about this sweet lady. Courage of no common order is displayed here. Mad love Tuko
Oh Lord. What a heartbreaking story. The thought of finding out my husband has another wife is scary. What a strong woman. I am so thankful for my husband. I can imagine how tormenting abusive c relationships can be
I'm really sorry for what you went through. No woman or man should ever go through that. FYI, men can seek consult from Gynaecologists who have specialized in male fertility.
I remember I was deeply loved my husband I could do anything to make him happy bt waaah wanaume the last tym I stop forcing my self to hi n. kulekwa police na dem yake,akalala na sister yangu, kunichapa ,, nkarushia mikono as for now I have another baby with another man hahaha na sasa anataka niwache uyu tuko na yy n rudi kwake hehe njipate nlipata first born na yy nkiwa na 17yrs
Anne Mwende pole dadangu usikaribishe relatives kwa nyumba yako waje kuishi hao ndio wa kwanza watakuvunjia nyumba b4 nilikua naambiwa hivo naona wakuniambia haniadvais vizuri lakini nilipokuja kujua na kuona kwa watu wengine nilielewa loud and clear ishi maisha yako na mume wako na watoto tosha relative akija nikutembea.your firdt hubby alijiona mwerevu but amekuta alikua mjinga aliacha mtu wa maana usijali ndio maisha its too late niasonge
i thank my grandmother soo much she told me in my life never mistreat or fight my wife/children, but some of these cases comes from jealous background family
This is the saddest case of wife abuse I have heard. Thank God she is a strong, Christian woman. Thank God for her. Keep on being faithful Sister. Much love to you and your family. Blessings for the work you do helping other abused women.
I am a Gambian from West Africa living in Germany. Thank you very much for enlightening us. I love all my fellow African both in home and abroad. I am watching this with a big shock and sadness. I am very sorry my dear sister
You mean in Gambia men are different? Most Gambian men in Germany the majority are only interested about making money by selling dangerous drugs ,even though they have wives in Gambia, they still father several children with multiple German women in different cities, they usually end up in prision and deported back to Serakunda for drug dealing and staying in other peoples country illegally
@@zedianerkatwishi3930 can you read what the guy said, he did not mention anything about gambian man are different, maybe you have issue with gambian men selling drugs!!!
@@zedianerkatwishi3930 gambian are not the only people that sells drug, yes he's shock 🤯 because he's a human and he felt it for the lady, why we Africans always like to point 👉 fingers to one another!!!!
@@yasmine2raay19 my brother I am not surprised by this idiot. He doesn't understand English and he just jumped to a different topic. What has Gambians selling drugs has to deal with this issue. As you rightly said maybe he had an issue with a Gambian. Let's just forget about him because he's a run away soldier
story of my life He wasn’t. He was living a lie. He wanted to kill this family because he was paranoid that she might be doing something behind him plus he didn’t want her to know that he has another wife somewhere. He was plain evil and selfish
Michelle Muraya lmao what are you people talking about?? How is being plain evil to being mentally ill? This man wanted to hide the shame,he wasn’t man enough to face the problem he created,so he had to plan killing one so he wouldn’t be bursted.
@@Angie_Linaa For 8 years was he not afraid of being busted? I am not discrediting your statement that he was evil, I am saying he was definitely mentally disturbed. Mentally healthy people do not resort to murder and suicide when they suspect their partner is aware of their infidelity.
Michelle Muraya I get your point too. Of course that’s a strong point too. Just like criminals plan their crimes,armed robbers don’t just get up and rob,they plan,strategize,then strick. He did exactly that. As for the killing,with the brutality,his last result was killing himself.
Ngai mimi nilipigwa na mathiokure na nilikuwa muciiri😢😢😢woiiii... Those beats was me 2002 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢. N what i went thro😢during that time, only God knows. Hugs madam kamande tumepitia mengi
Thanks Diana Kamande for sharing ur sad story,, it's scares me yet I'm in a relationship which I don't know if will bare fruits to me,, haky pole,, to Lyn,,,thanks too for ur channel,,immediately I arrived at my motherland,,, I will call Dianah for guidance & counselling #strengthofawoman,, will watch this again & again.
Who s back here after watching her new life ,new marriage, shinning like a star,there s God oohhhh,Diana I love you more,thank God for her n ashaming all her x in-laws,n enemies.... continue shinning my dear.......
Many young/old women in Kenya are going through alot aki in their marriages most of them stay just because of their kids please women speak!!! out most of them are living in tears just for the sake of their children
The pain of a woman "I'd rather die than my kids die" I'd do same madam "Love is blind,but marriage open eyes...." Well said God loves you so much because you had in HIM in your HEART,your FAITH was STRONG and HE couldn't ABANDONED you during your DIFFICULT TIMES and especially those 2 LOVELY ANGELS......you were to young to DIE a DEATH that God HADN'T PLANNED for YOU..... PRAISE HIS HOLLY NAME
The blood of Jesus Christ upon you and all your children, your family members. Diana God bless you all in Jesus Christ name, the Lord has put work in your hands now. Go gal, Don't ever LOOK BEHIND but at the Calvary. The Cross of Jesus Amen
Your co-wife had something to do with witchcraft in what happened, en the way she had the courage to tell you how you sent 11k to her during her sons delivery
Watching this 2021 ...thanks to tuko, have learnt a lot from their stories, heri nikose pesa ya lunch but have bundles za kuwatch tuko ....I'm even afraid to get married .... But Diana Kamande thanks , you're a strong woman.
My husband wanted to kill me and our children | Tuko TV When Diana Kamande married the love of her life, she knew she had hit the jackpot. But ten years later she would wake up to him holding a sword ready to kill her and their two children.
Movie makers needs to make a movie out of this story. In USA, there's a movie channel called lifetime's movies. All them movies are from lifetime true stories.
Teresia Wachira lol not all of them are true stories 😂😂😂 Have u watched Acrimony by Tyler Perry? Lifetime might want to make a movie out of this, but theirs it's too rushed. They should let Nigerians act it since they won't be ashamed to leave nothing behind and it will be long enough. Tyler Perry would do it, but not sure if the critics and his fans would like to see so much graphic content at the same time. What do u think?
Tuko I think this is the same thing that is going to happen to me, I have a very abbusive husband mwenye anakubebea panga ,kuna siku he told ukijaribu kuniacha nitachukua watoto kill them and kill myself,imagine mtu mwenye anaenda akitusi his mother-in-law na si mara moja amezoea till I remember the last time my mum called me akaniambia mbona bwana yako ananidharau na akilia,just need help what do i do with such a man
@@yudelleanlisatajirikenyana4519 . Why can't we make our own movies in Kenya. When I said movie makers I didn't mean other countries I meant we kenyans.
,,,even the scars are so healed...both mentally physically and emotionally. God is surely the author and preserver of life. To Him be all the glory amen! Yea , forgiveness.
Watching this is extremely sad.What a strong and brave beautiful woman.That‘s why I have and will never date Kenyan Men.That‘s my personal view at how I look at this.Women can never change full grown men who abuse their families.Someone do justice for such cases.No one should be allowed to abuse anyone regardless which form of abuse.
what I can advise her if she ain't married... she should get married to a Muslim in coast. They don't kill they love because faith lies on God n paradise under feet of our mothers, this lady is a mother I feel for u mum and am so sorry for what happened I love u so much and proud of u in deed... stay strong as usual. Ma Shaa Allah
Life!!!! Wawawawa!! Wacheni mungu aitwe Mungu Society they always have say things they don't know about until you hear a story from the horse's mouth. You're a strong woman 💪💪 keep up with empowering such victims.
Wow! This is really inspirational. God spared your life to do what you are doing now. Your pain has become gain to so many vulnerable persons. Thank you very much Diana. Continue to serve the living God. 👏🙏
To be honest no words l have fr u.bt Almighty God has saved u frm that devil called u r husband. I m sorry fr ur pain. Bt what can't kill u makes u strong n stay strong dear.bless
