My inheritance from my Father is continuously calculated in Child Support Orders

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Plaintiff's objection to Uniform Child Support Order Modification
objection and provide any testimony
my objection to the modified order for child support
directly reflects our incomes
imputed income to minimum wage
childcare can be provided at my house 24 hours a day
mental or a physical disability that prevents us from working full time
my inheritance
calculated in the previous child support orders
child support manual
gifts and such and it's not considered income
imputed and potential income
inheritance treatment for purposes of child support
dispersed monthly by a trustee
I'm not trying to not pay child support I just
free childcare
full time minimum wage
hospitality industry
DHS saying that my health insurance was I was no longer qualified for my health insurance
that inheritance money as a supplement to his income
motivation to work
actual tax documentation
I'll issue a written referee recommendation in order
Mom imputed a minimum wage

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@kristief.8574 2 месяца назад

I am blown away by the fact that she believes she is entitled to his inheritance… BLOWN AWAY!

@corrycorry6734 5 месяцев назад

You cannot afford to put your child in every extra-curricular activity they want to be in. Telling a child “no” is part of the parenting process.

@TheTaekwon3 4 месяца назад

she thinks its a need smh

@Reaper6913 4 месяца назад

She knows the little girl is going to quit the extra curricular in a week. But she won't tell the husband and pocket the difference.

@jeremyusry6705 3 месяца назад

She's a bad mom

@dawnyoung9231 2 месяца назад

My ex didn’t support my child. She had two e tea curricula activities, of of which was free by the school (soccer) and the other (swimming) taught by childhood friend - no charge on both. She wanted to play the piano but I couldn’t afford it because I would have to pay for that and transportation to and from; she understood.

@zoeemiko8149 Месяц назад

2 is not excessive.

@ssjohnson62 2 месяца назад

Inheritance is not considered in divorce and should not be considered in child support

@tanya334 5 месяцев назад

Inheritance should NOT BE IN THE EQUATION of child support !!!

@purple81butterfly 5 месяцев назад

Why not?

@tanya334 5 месяцев назад

@purple81butterfly Inheritance is given to your child . As a spouse, you are not entitled to Inheritance in a divorce, so why is it added as income for child support ?

@Spaethon 4 месяца назад

Never unless inherited during marriage. This is beyond ridiculous. She's just jealous.

@tanya334 4 месяца назад

@Spaethon Even during marriage ! That money that is left by your to YOU should not even be considered ! The spouse is NOT part of it unless they are specifically named !! Yes, she is just mad she won't get any, but I'm sure the children will 🤭

@eko4749 4 месяца назад

@@tanya334it's strange that it seems like the court seems to favor giving money to they parent that won't spend it on the child

@user-fx2sh6pk9u Месяц назад

If a Child is 50/50 care...THEN NO Child Support should be Paid

@lonettehendrick9836 28 дней назад

You would think but the courts do make the parents pick a permanent custodian. My son and his wife did that and he was sole custodian and she had to pay 50. A month. But he never took it.

@brandonlong2796 25 дней назад

Exactly cmon now

@briandonaldson7357 24 дня назад

I knew a couple where when she had the kid he paid her then vice versa, which the only reason I can figure is the courts wanted their cut..

@MikeS-7 24 дня назад

Exactly. That must be the starting point. 50/50 shared custody and zero support. Divorce is a separation of income so this equalization stuff must end. You get a raise she gets a raise -- hell no.

@3chordGrifter-et4qe 21 день назад

Spoken like a true dead beat

@JustMe-pu3xm 5 месяцев назад

This dude did his homework before he came to court..👍🏾

@krissy0894 5 месяцев назад

Hopefully more men will follow suit. Too many get railroaded!

@carebear1731 5 месяцев назад

@@krissy0894too many get away with not paying any child support as well!

@morsanbrorsan1 5 месяцев назад

@@CBourn48223 Yeah and she also has food assistance, and still had the audacity to complain about dads inherited house that would have lowered his monthly expenses 🤯😂

@nicolelewonkenobi 4 месяца назад

He sure did. Initially I thought he was an attorney. He's well researched and well spoken.

@MrDarkjustice30 4 месяца назад

@@krissy0894the problem is the courts allow the mother to either have a court appointed attorney or push her lawyer fees onto the father while the father has to foot his own bill. The courts are HEAVILY in the mothers favor every step of the way while the father is expect to simply figure it out.

@lisacole690 5 месяцев назад

She’s not entitled to his inheritance even if they’re married.

@Texas500 5 месяцев назад

I see why she doesn't WANT to work 40 hours! Because of her "food help" and medical. Gurl I know the game. You ain't fooling me 😂😂.

@CH-gt3wi 4 месяца назад

I think she works housekeeping, not defending her but in housekeeping at motels/hotels/resorts they do call them off at random depending on occupancy.

@rosenars6665 3 месяца назад

I laughed 😂😂 you mean food stamps ??? Lol

@abbyynorman2874 2 месяца назад

@@CH-gt3wiDude she admitted wanting less hours for fear of losing tax payer HC & FStamps 😅

@Judi_tousy Месяц назад

She's a pathetic mess! She doesn't need to be getting any food stamps and free medical. She's well enough to work full-time job and pay taxes like us. She's talking about him not having motivation to work a $50,000 job, how about you? You ain't working but few hours here and there. You need to get your motivation too and stop reeping tax payers money

@likeorasgod 14 дней назад

@@CH-gt3wi He said they both work retail and she seems to have a tourist related job, she doesn't seem to be the house keeping type. Prob just a receptionist or something.

@Flat_Stanley 5 месяцев назад

Basically, mom is mad because dad was blessed with a gift that allows him to spend last time at work and more time with his family and be comfortable while she can’t even fully support herself because of her choice to work a part-time job.

@cybersal7 5 месяцев назад

I worked two time full-time jobs. A woman can still do that. Thank God I had my mother to help at the house.

@ScottDreyfus 5 месяцев назад

Accountability is a bisch! What a miserable slag.

@sylviacastillo3953 5 месяцев назад

Right! She said she wouldn't go into the management position because it's not fair to her daughter but expects him to work more for her needs. She's such a hypocrite.

@kellysaunders8770 4 месяца назад

It’s a gift that keeps on taking. Upkeep, taxes, insurance, utilities and the like often cost more than rent.

@ScottDreyfus 4 месяца назад

@@kellysaunders8770 the joys of home ownership

@jaredkeith53 5 месяцев назад

She doesn't just want his Money$ She wants his dad's Money$ too!!! (Mr. Ruh's inheritance) smh

@anthonyplayground1402 4 месяца назад

Maybe her kids are his dads kids

@Judi_tousy Месяц назад

@@anthonyplayground1402oh hell 😦😦😦

@franknitti1190 5 месяцев назад

She’s mad because he’s living great without her😅women expect men to do bad without them.

@TheKnightofAwesomeness 4 месяца назад

It's always funny when the guy thrives without her, then they snap as a result 😂

@Ninnjette- 2 месяца назад

The comments from women I see in this comment section, are on the dad's side. Women will call out stupidity, when we see it. Well normal women will.

@domk2993 Месяц назад

🤣🤣🤣right

@barrieracc7634 Месяц назад

@@TheKnightofAwesomeness Women don't age well and those who are narrcistic need the validation that their ex is doing poorly.

@rogert.belger3990 25 дней назад

@@barrieracc7634 👍👍👍

@tinajoerossignol 5 месяцев назад

It's not the dad's responsibility to pay her rent, utilities, food, health care or transportation. His responsibility is to HELP pay for the child's school, clothing, medical, after school activities. And his inheritance is not up for her to dip into, regardless of how he spends it,or how he receives it.

@melstarr1864 5 месяцев назад

Actually, my brother and I grew up in a divorced household and my mother had full custody. She did have to use some of the child support to help cover some of the utilities and food.

@kaddy2 5 месяцев назад

@@melstarr1864 so.. she used it correctly? lol legally fyi, child support once it hits the recipients bank, can be spent on anything, even mummies new shoes, so long as the children have base needs met, your mother could have taken HER child support payments to the casino, and thats legally fine, so long as the kids have a roof, lights, water, food, medical and attend school.

@whitejodeci8926 5 месяцев назад

@melstarr1864 so she used the child support to suppport the children? Woah, mind blown.

@tinajoerossignol 5 месяцев назад

@whitejodeci8926 no. She used it for herself. She couldn't afford to pay childcare for her to work AND party, and decided his inheritance should also be hers. He was using his inheritance to pay his bills and pay for his kids and paid child support from his job. She wanted child support to be based on his inheritance, which it can't be.

@maryedwards8114 5 месяцев назад

Actually c.s. is intended to allow the children to have the same level of lifestyle as if the parents never split. Both are responsible for the children. But child support is used for anything for the benefit of the children i.e. transport, shelter, food, gas, sports, clothing, clubs, and any other needs/lifestyle of the children. Medical/Dental/eye is a separate issue and the parents can choose to split the bills equally, pay per portions, or one be solely responsible.

@hotsoup1001 5 месяцев назад

So, he's perfectly capable and expected to find and maintain a high salary job, but she can screw around working in seasonal hospitality? 😂

@SensationalFinds 5 месяцев назад

Seriously! And have tax payers pick up the slack😂 He had to lose both parents to get the inhertience those things dont compare

@jorgebarriosmur 5 месяцев назад

And she also blames him for not having debts! She should just quit her job and get a better one, or work an aditional one that complements the one she has! But I guess it is easier to leech her husbands inheritience

@allycat8755 5 месяцев назад

Yuyyop

@trekgirl65 5 месяцев назад

@hotsoup1001, really? Shaming a mother, but not a dad who wants to be a deadbeat and no pay for his obligation, for the child did not ask to be made by this bum of a father. Father should have thought about things before having sex with no protection. Mother is raising the child, not the father.

@chowchow2386 5 месяцев назад

And somehow she is considered the more fit parent 🤔

@kaliesainz 5 месяцев назад

Wow I’m impressed with dad’s presentation!

@SensationalFinds 5 месяцев назад

I thought so too! Typically people speak from emotion and he really took the emotion out of it and gave facts.

@BobJone-ve7ig 5 месяцев назад

Maybe he was smart and watched videos like this, or consulted a lawyer.

@kali-wolf 5 месяцев назад

Yeah much better than average. He fell prey to it a little at the end but I can imagine it's difficult to hold your tongue when somebody is talking about you (especially if you disagree). I think this could go either way, it sounds like mom got cut a lot of slack while dad got slapped hard and neither of them understand why. I was pleasantly surprised to see so many people agreeing that its crossing a line to demand a cut of his inheritance, if not legally then at least morally!

@mariongreen9065 5 месяцев назад

Me too.

@mysticalwolfakela4131 5 месяцев назад

She is absolutely wrong for thinking she is entitled to his inherentance. She can definitely get a job that pays 50k a year. She can also get another job to offset the short hours. She definitely wants the easy way out. Shame on her.

@Bunny-ur8fd 5 месяцев назад

She’s working the system… getting TANF for food and Medicaid for insurance. Go work full time like the rest of us with kids.

@CatKnipND 5 месяцев назад

Actually, she is getting SNAP by. TANF is money that can be used for rent, utilities, clothing, etc. SNAP was formerly known as food stamps.

@elmagnificodep 3 месяца назад

@@CatKnipNDNeeds to SNAP her butt to a more stable job.

@MikeS-7 24 дня назад

Not true... Women's court system judges go after cash payments when the wording includes a benefit for the beneficiary and their beneficiaries -- typical wording that usually provides protection.

@dtoad48 21 день назад

@@MikeS-7 You didn't watch the video.. go away and come back when you have.

@MikeS-7 21 день назад

@@dtoad48 I watched the entire video...

@landonmiller5882 5 месяцев назад

He briefly mentioned they have the parents basically have the childs time 50/50 yet in her mind he should have to supplement her living. What a mooch and the state enables and enforces this. It's gross.

@Reggy2000 5 месяцев назад

Nobody likes having a broke person’s hand in their pocket!!!

@indirastone7382 4 месяца назад

⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

@booostedtc 5 месяцев назад

The whole child support system should be completely redone

@MrsKravitzz 5 месяцев назад

How would you change the current system? Very complicated issues fraught with emotions. Not for the faint of heart.

@whitejodeci8926 5 месяцев назад

@MrsKravitzz not complicated at all. Calculate it off how much it actually costs to raise the child. Make joint custody the default with the exception of abuse, neglect, or a parent that simply cannot or will not do their share boom, easy.

@MDBredBeauty 4 месяца назад

@whitejodeci8926tgats a subjective number. It would change depending on where you live what you make extracurriculars. You can't determine what someone else needs to raise their child

@whitejodeci8926 4 месяца назад

@MDBredBeauty Yes you can. We already have averages, EXTRAcurriculars are just that, EXTRA. A man shouldn't have his kids taken away from him along with 25% of his income. If you receive child support, you can claim it as income for loans, apartments, houses, TAX FREE, along with government assistance. If you pay child support it is DEDUCTED as qualified income so now you qualify for less places to live, loans, and you DO NOT qualify for any government assistance.

@GrillMarksBud-S-n-P 3 месяца назад

Child support should not be solely based on income.

@Craigthomas322 4 месяца назад

She said something that caught my attention. She said that she wants to give her daughter everything she needs. Parents sometimes confuse giving the child everything they need with giving them everything they want. If you're struggling financially, you dont need to put the child in multiple expensive extra-curricular activities. Maybe put them in one activity or let them find things at school that they can get involved in that dont cost a lot of money.

@motherofthreeb6337 3 месяца назад

....or school activities that cost nothing! Most sports in school don't cost anything, music programs and clubs.

@CahliaShay 3 месяца назад

Good point!.. It's crazy to me that she lives in low-income housing and has her daughter in all of those expensive activities. There are plenty of free activities and clubs she can put her daughter in.

@Craigthomas322 3 месяца назад

@CahliaShay yeah, makes me wonder if she's actually wants the money for that reason.

@kgrimes842 2 месяца назад

Exactly! Not all extra curricular activities cost either. Idk why she's claiming she doesn't make a lot but she's got her kid in 2 classes totaling $225..... She's full of crap

@thomasgirty6397 Месяц назад

she spends MORE a month on her kids EXTRA activity's than i LIVE ON A MONTH !!!!

@davidf3869 5 месяцев назад

She needs to get a real job if she concerned about the needs of the kid

@jgyrwa 5 месяцев назад

Exactly. She want to work a minimum job, but wants him to work his ass off, and pay her.

@ppumpkin3282 5 месяцев назад

She hasn't even gotten an income to buy a car.

@ritcheymt 5 месяцев назад

Am I the only one who is wondering why Ms. Ruh enrolled her daughter in Tae Kwon Do for $75/mo if she's making somewhere near minimum wage?

@indirastone7382 4 месяца назад

She’s using their child as a weapon formed against him because she’s BITTER! She’s using their child as a means to get her grubby fingers on his inheritance.

@derrickshamble2580 4 месяца назад

Yep

@Hateires 3 месяца назад

$75/month is cheeeeeap for TKD. I was wondering about the $260/month dance lol

@ritcheymt 3 месяца назад

@@HateiresI guess I missed the cost of the dancing, but you're right. Honestly, either one of those luxury monthly expenditures seems crazy to me under her circumstances.

@jerusalemspeaks Месяц назад

My mum didn't enroll me in anything! Sensible mum.

@MA-mh1vs 5 месяцев назад

You have to love the bias shown by calculating the mothers hourly wage down at 35hrs a week and keeping the father who works in the exact same industry unchanged and at 40hrs a week as if his income is not permitted fluctuations like hers is. Then list his inheritance money as a family gift so they can include that too. I certainly hope the judge sees through the BS and fixes the suppoet order.

@movingforward2570 5 месяцев назад

What evil. Don't worry ai is going to take over and it won't be partial

@TriggerTravels 4 месяца назад

Judges salary is paid for by child support pool... He has an incentive to issue high child support orders. His paycheck depends on it. He's probably not even a real judge he's a magistrate.

@glass1258 4 месяца назад

That’s insane

@dbears1603 3 месяца назад

@@movingforward2570still a worry if they're coded by biased people look what happened with Google Gemini

@JTScott1988 2 месяца назад

@@movingforward2570ai will be partial. Its proven AI is racist

@abarr1726 5 месяцев назад

These vids should be mandatory viewing for all students in high school

@koopa74 5 месяцев назад

she got alot of nerve . as long as he is paying his child support from his job. your are getting what's ordered. stop trying to dip in stuff that you're jealous of. greed a definitely in the air.

@danielrn133 5 месяцев назад

Yes it is very honorable of a guy to whine and bitch about supporting ghis kids. She is taking care of them..making sure they get to school...up with them all night when they re sick. But...lets ll focus on th guy who gos to court to try and figure out how to pay less. This dad thinks he should pay 194 a month? Unreal.

@Ponce2170 5 месяцев назад

@@danielrn133 he has one less day than her a week lol

@status_elitegaming9523 5 месяцев назад

@@danielrn133and you are assuming he isn’t taking care of them?

@janetmoquin7828 5 месяцев назад

Mom is greedy. Mom wants to live beyond her means. She gives other women a bad name

@bobdole6416 5 месяцев назад

Women are naturally greedy. Anything you earn or have they deserve to have. How dare he have a house that his parent left him. How dare he not take the money he was paying to a mortgage and not gibs me some of dat

@campflyingdragon2863 5 месяцев назад

She only has the kid 4 more nights a month, and still wants $400+ per month? That is crazy.

@linkingwithnaz1295 5 месяцев назад

I have equal over nights and pay over $300 a month. And she out earns me now too.

@jonnysalami692 5 месяцев назад

I know a guy who has full custody of the kid and still pays $1,000 a month child support because she claims she isn’t working. She got a job as a stripper after they split and he showed the judge a video of her stripping and picking up all that money as proof she is working and the judge just threatened him with stalking charges and kept the child support the same.

@MarkMYoung 4 месяца назад

I knew of a situation where the mother and father shared 50%/50% custody, YET the noncustodial parent was STILL required to pay the custodial parent the minimum monthly child support DESPITE the custodial parent making more money than the noncustodial parent!

@jeremyusry6705 3 месяца назад

It is crazy.... He shouldn't be paying child support unless she's passing for the healthcare.

@jeremyusry6705 3 месяца назад

@@MarkMYoungthat's bullshit and that's what's wrong with the system

@loganbarr853 5 месяцев назад

TO THE WOMAN THAT ARE SEEING THIS……YOU WONDER WHY MEN DONT WANT TO GET MARRIED….. EXHIBIT A.

@laundrygoddess4 2 дня назад

I'm a woman and I'm in the same position as this dad. Except my ex makes 6 figures and is pleading poverty and I have kids fulltime

@beckygraham5041 5 месяцев назад

She just wants part of the inheritance. Greedy

@patrickprendergast9589 4 месяца назад

can u say ho

@BlaineShire 5 месяцев назад

She needs to get a full-time job with at least 40 hours a week.

@Mewse1203 5 месяцев назад

The judge asked her if there's ever a time she works more than 35 hours. She said yes during the busy season. That busy season lasts 8 months out of the year. So she is working more than 35 hours for at least 8 months out of the year. And the friend of the court had the audacity to put her at MINIMUM WAGE, which is half of what she makes.

@sarasays...850 5 месяцев назад

@@Mewse1203So then she’s lying about her wage to the state. If she’s making what you say, then she doesn’t qualify for TANF, SNAP and possibly Medicaid.

@Mewse1203 5 месяцев назад

@@sarasays...850 sounds like she is lying to me.

@raymondmerchant988 4 месяца назад

If she's a server or waitress her hours are dependent on how busy the workplace is. I worked in a restaurant where we were sent home at the manager wishes.

@mtnmann72 Месяц назад

She’s concerned about herself not the kids.

@user-eh5cr4or6k 5 месяцев назад

So she's pissed that the new wife gets to be a housewife and believes that she should be able to benefit from some of those benefits without putting in the wifely work

@robertandkristinhall5006 Месяц назад

Sorry but one thing I do not agree with is that just because my ex gets remarried I should have to agree to allow the new spouse to suddenly become the babysitter and raise my kids while I am at work. That being said I also do not expect my ex to cover child care cost during my parenting time. I will figure that out and what they choose to do on their time is up to them.

@naer-g437 5 месяцев назад

She is crazy! She said she works 40 hours a week peak season February through October, so she should have never been calculated at minimum wage.

@kevinbeach8915 2 месяца назад

Inherited property is the sole property of the recipient! The wife should NEVER receive gain from it! Not even the children are entitled to it until the PARENT is gone! This is ridiculous to even consider benefits from something that would NEVER be yours and never was ever yours in the first place! The system is corrupt

@joey3947 18 дней назад

And even then the parent could choose to will the inheritance to someone else and not to the child

@kevinbeach8915 18 дней назад

@@joey3947 agreed. When I divorced I set up tax free savings accounts for each of my children, I the liquidated my funds and divided them equally among them. I then showed in my will this was their inheritance, I maintain control of each account until my children turn 25, making it a 2 signature system…my x then tried to sue me for the money, the judge actually laughed and told her she will have to sue not just me but each child as well..she also told her it is legal AND because 1/2 the money was ours because the divorce was recent, not a judge would overturn my decision…the only downside is if I touch that money even with the child before they are of age(25) she can take it all… It will however cost her our children, they live with her and disagree with her lifestyle…they see EVERYTHING… Yes I was broke for a few years, I am doing well again now…I will never marry or even cohabitate again..learn from my mistakes.

@callumanderson2645 5 месяцев назад

Wait…she’s wearing designer clothes and has her hair freshly done…and she’s on food stamps. Something ain’t right…

@BobJone-ve7ig 5 месяцев назад

Keep paying your taxes for her to look nice

@MrsKravitzz 5 месяцев назад

This.

@sixxygrrl 5 месяцев назад

This. Plus I would bet the makeup on her face isn't from the dollar store or from Walgreens. Plus those nails she has, were not cheap.

@SilverDahliaHearts 5 месяцев назад

Why do you assume people on food stamps should look like slobs. You also don’t know she’s wearing designer clothes(could be thrived or is a thrifty shopper) or that she went to the salon instead of doing her own hair.

@sodman4874 5 месяцев назад

Someone like that is called American Excrement.

@Letsdolunch2023 5 месяцев назад

I was a single mother, no child support, no alimony, no child care. I worked in food service, had my own place, car, took care of my child. I never asked for anyone to help me. If I needed more I cut expenses, worked more or got another job. It’s not that hard. It was worth it, in the long run, as I taught my son to be responsible. I refused to live off my ex husband. Or even ask him for money.

@MDBredBeauty 4 месяца назад

Well your child deserves that money..I understand women think this is nobles but I'm sure your child would have benefited from you getting help that she is owed

@bearball49 Месяц назад

I got a whole $10 once for child support. Always an excuse. Didn't want to give me money because he was sure I would spend it on my step child. The step child dressed like a king from his mom's family. I just wanted help with school clothes for our daughter.

@BigDaddyJinx 28 дней назад

Man, even her face screams "DANGER WIL ROBINSON!" Perma-frown. She oozes crazy energy.

@CindyCockerham 5 месяцев назад

Why doesn't SHE get a $50,000 job?

@bobdole6416 5 месяцев назад

Because she’s a woman and women don’t have to?

@topshelfbullys7889 5 месяцев назад

Exactly

@jorgebarriosmur 5 месяцев назад

Because she is a stunning, brave and independent queen that is entilted to live out of her exs income......... thats why!

@callumanderson2645 5 месяцев назад

@@jorgebarriosmurhere in Canada that’s the norm unfortunately. Women are a protected class…so men are the personal wallets of women.

@ifynwamma 5 месяцев назад

@@jorgebarriosmur😂😂😂😂

@perryrush6563 5 месяцев назад

Fighting over money isn't something I want to do....yet here I am, fighting for money.

@fanuvgamez8754 2 месяца назад

Translation: “I don’t like to argue about money but the court won’t give me what I want and my ex won’t Obey me.”

@kentprince4851 5 дней назад

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@tanneradams20 5 месяцев назад

Woman. You are not a single mom if your ex has the child 3 days to your 4. You’re just a mother that isn’t seeing anybody

@NickyNeff92983 5 месяцев назад

She should spend this much time and energy looking for better paying jobs to support her kid.

@nuavecmoi 5 месяцев назад

Mom doesn’t want to work. She wants the dad to pay.

@stevebelt1661 5 месяцев назад

Mom is bitter because he got somewhat of a windfall after they separated. As far as extra curricular activities are concerned those are not the reponsibilty of the parent that doesn't have prime custody to pay for. They can willingly help but it isn't a requirement to.

@queenreenie-yd8ht 5 месяцев назад

& a new family!

@jillgott6567 5 месяцев назад

Depends on the divorce decree

@GetCraftyLemons 5 месяцев назад

Child support can help with that.

@user-xh2yg4uv9q 5 месяцев назад

She is upset because he moved on and is happy with his new family while she remains single.

@angeloftheland4210 3 месяца назад

Actually under most states blanket rules they do if the costs go over a certain $$ amount. I could have gone after it numerous times but I landed on my feet post divorce and he did not, he paid his ordered amount and was a good dad with visits and time spent, did all the dad things I asked of him. Was he great to deal with, no, but we made it work so neither of us had a burden we couldn’t bear.

@elizabethknedler7292 4 месяца назад

If they have split custody why is he even paying child support

@kimmaried.7313 5 месяцев назад

She wants her bite of the inheritance 😂

@bobhopemaryjane2 5 месяцев назад

She can't afford the child, then send her to the dad. Problems solved, mother able to afford her child now. All good, or is it not about the child and it's about the mother being subsidised because the father has more than she does. Greed, jealousy and infantile belief that her ex husband is her daddy!

@5thdimension625 5 месяцев назад

Exactly! She has the idea that they should have parallel assists. She’s deluded

@trekgirl65 5 месяцев назад

That is not how custody works and child support. Someday this will be you and things change, for the kids do not live on air alone.

@thehorseyourodeinon2041 5 месяцев назад

I am only halfway through the video, but I have to wonder if she's jealous that the new girlfriend, with whom he has another daughter, lives in that $300,000 home that is fully paid for (except, as people mention, annual property taxes, insurance, etc.)

@BobJone-ve7ig 5 месяцев назад

Her ego will not allow that.

@bobhopemaryjane2 5 месяцев назад

That is how custody works. You can't take care of your children then the other parent should. If she can make the baby she should be able to afford the baby. Or is it just men that are expected to be responsible for their responsibilities.@@trekgirl65

@Kennedy4ever 5 месяцев назад

"I feel"...how many times did she say that? I feel she is still trying to control him despite the divorce.

@rumakingthatup 5 месяцев назад

"Thinking" isn't in her vocabulary

@BobJone-ve7ig 5 месяцев назад

He has facts, she has theories.

@applehead498 5 месяцев назад

She does not want to work.

@KatrinaRoseT 5 месяцев назад

She’s BIG mad she divorced him too early and then he got enough $ his new fiancé stays home and she doesn’t. Nasty.

@YvonneMelvin 5 месяцев назад

That’s what my husband just said. 😂😂 He said too bad so sad, but move on lady. 😂😂

@amyh7554 5 месяцев назад

Hell my ex husband’s family inherited 22 million and that had nothing to do with me!! I have never been hateful about that, nor did I try to drag him to court for that blessing!! It had nothing to do with me. This lady is grasping at straws

@xoangelicaf0523 3 месяца назад

Bc you’re not money hungry

@Wolfe-Tone- 3 месяца назад

Thankfully there are still decent women out there yet they are getting harder and harder to find! I'm sure you aren't angry because you know the father will spend that money on your child/children, and I'm sure has no problem helping out in other areas. Any normal parent would!

@amyh7554 3 месяца назад

@@Wolfe-Tone- that means a lot to me. I needed that today. Thank you!

@StalkThisBish 5 месяцев назад

This mother is a Karen!!! How does she feel ENTITLED!! to his Inheritance?? That is absolutely disgusting! He has the child just as much as he does, He also provides the child with whatever they need. She should seriously be thankful that he is even paying his child support! So many people are ordered to pay child support and they don’t pay a dime!! They hide, jump state to state, work under the table Ect. Take it from someone who is owed almost 200k in child support. I never took my Sons father to court for child support he took me to court for a DNA test swearing I cheated because he thought he was sterilize, long story short he’s NOT!!! I never ONCE!!! Took him to court for contempt or anything else. This woman does NOT! Want to have to pay for anything for her own child, She wants Dad to pay for everything.

@snakey319 5 месяцев назад

it sounds like the father died after their divorce, so she shouldnt.

@victormccollin5894 5 месяцев назад

That sounds like a husband deal..lol

@trekgirl65 5 месяцев назад

Wrong, for father is responsible for the child he created, for it takes two to make a child. She is grateful he is paying, but when he has another income, it counts on the Child Support. Take it from a child of a broken home and a dad who was a deadbeat parent and was never real a parent, my father.

@jenkor513 5 месяцев назад

@@trekgirl65 no. being a single mom and the father was a deadbeat dad, I still would not have tried to go after his inheritance. Especially if I knew that the Dad's family is most likely going to get cut off by the family. She admits that inheritance is typically not counted in child support.

@StalkThisBish 5 месяцев назад

@@trekgirl65Ok if you read my entire post my Sons have a deadbeat dad too.. She is greedy and feels she is ENTITLED!! To his inheritance! Just like someone else commented He got the inheritance after their divorce which makes it where she is NOT! Entitled to any of it!! So she is trying to find any loophole she can to get her hands on some of that money. This man pays his child support, she is involved in his child’s life and he also pays for some of her extracurricular activity expenses. There for he is NOT a “Deadbeat” dad! And she is just a Greedy entitled Bitter Baby mama/Ex-Wife!!

@fbrown983 5 месяцев назад

That's crazy that she thinks his child support should increase because he got an inheritance smdh

@mq4626 5 месяцев назад

Unreal, how could this oppression be allowed. It's bad enough he is forced to pay child support but then to try to rob him of his families inherited wealthy? The father of the father isn't child's biological father. To do this to a person is unreal.

@lostineggsaisle 5 месяцев назад

Why does it matter if he's actually physically working or not as long as the child support is paid? She's just mad that she doesn't have an inheritance.

@morsanbrorsan1 5 месяцев назад

Exactly, as long as he can pay child support and provide everything his daughter and the rest of the family needs. I hope the judge saw through that bs, she wanted him to make more money so SHE will get more money! I would be happy my daughter gets to spend time with her dad instead of dad having to work the bigger portion of daughters awake hours. The gall on that lady! 😒

@AlwaysFallingFromTheRight... 5 месяцев назад

Because if he is only paying support based on part time, he is willing under employed

@morsanbrorsan1 5 месяцев назад

@@AlwaysFallingFromTheRight... Well I mean so is mom, she's also the one complaining so maybe she should get another job or a second job if she wants more money!? She stated she turned down a manager position because of the hours but then turned around and said she's staying at that job because of her chanses of landing a manager position 🤷🏻‍♀️ Many judges, referees, attorneys and so on, in America seems to be 40 years behind when it comes to child/spousal support. It's ridiculous!

@degrerickjenkins1617 5 месяцев назад

Just let him have the child already

@aztec0112 5 месяцев назад

When her argument starts with, "I feel like..."

@lorilouwho6804 5 месяцев назад

If you are struggling to support your child and getting government assistance for food, how is the kid able to do all these extra things??

@paulabroadworth2504 4 месяца назад

She did say the child was going ro start the next weekend. Also the dance costumes can get expensive and if he is purchasing them he could easily spend more than she pays for her to take the lessons. But yeah she said she was just starting so almost sounds to me like mom decided hey as added bonus lets add money for activities. Dance and tae Kwon do on same day. Thats over exerting the poor child and why i say she did it purposefully.

@rvwilliams100 3 месяца назад

Why is he not providing more support for his child. The mother has been literally tied to poverty.

@Ash-nk8lk 2 месяца назад

The ex is obviously mad that his new fiancé is a stay at home mom lol

@Basbhat 2 месяца назад

😂😂😂 Oh you know it lol She’s gleaming with bitterness

@rosalindastourian3985 5 месяцев назад

She really wants SPOUSAL support. And yes, she should be working more

@walterhorn5567 5 месяцев назад

It’s disgusting that these women feel like they have the right to continue to leach off the man that they didn’t want and let go. After the divorce a man’s job to take care of his kids not you honey.

@MikeS-7 24 дня назад

Exactly... Income must be irrelevant after divorce. That is the purpose of divorce. The courts use the legal system to equalize income (no!) or penalize men for profit via Title IV D reimbursement at .666 cents for every dollar extracted per month from men.

@user-jz9ke7yu7u 9 дней назад

They are MAD when you move on.

@justwannaname 5 месяцев назад

She said she was up for a manager position, but had to decline it due to the hours and then a minute later said in order to get that management position you have to be available 24 hours a day. So she basically just admitted she would never take the manager spotbecause she might potentially get called in at any time. Maybe it’s time to find a new job that’ll work with Hours

@frank8348 5 месяцев назад

shes a special kind of women.

@BobJone-ve7ig 5 месяцев назад

She also stated the kid had extra activities he should pay for, that start next Saturday. Can’t make it up😂

@justwannaname 5 месяцев назад

@@CBourn48223 didn’t think of that aspect of it 😂😂😂. She’s playing fail at life and depend on others 3d chess!!

@ppumpkin3282 5 месяцев назад

I noticed that too, I hope the judge catches on. Logic is not her strong suit, she works on emotion "it's all for my daughter".

@allynlewis7093 5 месяцев назад

@@BobJone-ve7ig and what's to stop her of by chance she get the money for these activities that she has the child discontinue them and she has 335 dollars on top of the 200 dollars to use.

@Jamesieboy426 2 месяца назад

Bahahaha she is full of it!!! 24 hrs but have been there for 4 years! Lol thats such a laugh to me.

@perryrush6563 5 месяцев назад

Isn't odd how many kids on child support have all of these other monthly activities

@thesun-N-moon8885 5 месяцев назад

Where is her motivation towards getting a 50,000 dollar a year job…. 🙄 So she chooses her hours… “I do work at least one 10 hour day”… She said it right “I don’t need it”…😂

@melmajor90 5 месяцев назад

As long as this father is paying child support taking care of his kid the mom needs to stop being greedy

@samanthawitzman5252 5 месяцев назад

She looks pissed off 🤣 greed isn't a good look

@Frontpagefab 5 месяцев назад

Expenses related to extra curricular activities are optional. My wife and I had to say no a few times because we couldn't afford the additional activities from both kids.

@BobJone-ve7ig 5 месяцев назад

Did they always start next Saturday 😂she was clearly lying.

@melstarr1864 5 месяцев назад

I agree, but if parents can afford these enrichment activities, I think they are important.

@Frontpagefab 5 месяцев назад

@@melstarr1864 completely agree.

@arycosta7293 5 месяцев назад

How’s is inheritance even in the question, isn’t child support based on income?

@hoghs1 5 месяцев назад

Courts do not care you agreed by signing the marriage contract. Your money is the courts money its a question of how much will they let you keep.

@arycosta7293 5 месяцев назад

@@hoghs1 she’s mad the other women is benefiting from the trust instead of her.

@djcheamor 5 месяцев назад

Inheritance is the classic way of wealth transfer - folks Earn the property though merely being born. Lotta hard work there. Does Paris Hilton or Donald Trump deserve their riches? Debatable.

@sandraduffy8053 5 месяцев назад

Shouldn’t be.

@thomasdalton1508 5 месяцев назад

Because he's receiving the inheritance as a monthly income from a trust fund rather than having received it in one go. She's saying it should therefore count as income.

@scottymorris5319 5 месяцев назад

It's his inheritance, not income. It's protected in a trust. How he uses his monthly check is his business. Dance classes aren't a necessity. So stop signing her up for activities that she can't pay. She should speak to ex about these activities to decide if child can do these and he helps payment. He paid for her dance outfit.

@vinciblewarrior6431 5 месяцев назад

She got lucky. In a lot of places, turning down a promotion could cause the judge to use the salary of the promotion as your income based on the amount that you could be earning if you had accepted. She could easily have been the one paying child support instead of getting an increase

@salaciousBastard 5 месяцев назад

She happened to be in the possession of the correct body parts for slacking off.

@Philippinesbound42 5 месяцев назад

They happens only if you are a man

@tamidavis6850 4 месяца назад

100% !

@loricaler3515 5 месяцев назад

he said he gets his daughter anything and everything she needs, so what do you need him to pay you more.

@perryrush6563 5 месяцев назад

Because she can't take it and spend on herself. He he he

@wh3052 5 месяцев назад

She admitted that she gets her shift covered all the time and her manager must cover her shift if she can’t come in. I see why her hours vary lol her shifts are optional apparently.

@stgermain1074 5 месяцев назад

As a person who always paid her own way, always worked a full-time job, paid taxes, etc., the fact that this mother is getting housing assistance, food stamps, probably free health care for the daughter, while working less than fulltime and turning down promotions and fulltime work is infuriating. I (as a taxpayer) pay for her housing and the food in her mouth while she sends her daughter off to dance class and tae kwon do.

@annettedebellefeuille714 5 месяцев назад

It is the father’s failure to pay enough child support including after school activities that is the shame here. He doesn’t need to live in section 8 housing. He doesn’t have to borrow a car. And children whose far wealthier fathers don’t make sure their child is properly supported don’t deserve any classes that serve to socialize and enrich their lives bc mom is doing the best she can with what she does? Wow. I sincerely hope you *never* face financial hardship. Shame on you.

@marci6846 5 месяцев назад

@@annettedebellefeuille714mom should have thought about that before having children. If Dad died, what would the mom do? It isn't up to Dad to provide all the support.

@dandrelewis814 5 месяцев назад

The Kid Can Go Without Dance & Karate.... Mom is Struggling But Can't Admit it to Herself....The Damn Nerve...

@Crackrocksteady 5 месяцев назад

@@annettedebellefeuille714 it's also the mothers fuckin responsibility to im so sick of seeing shit like this women expect men to pay for everything while sitting on their ginormous ass

@nancismith7705 5 месяцев назад

😢

@brianswitzerbbmw 5 месяцев назад

“Honestly, (scoffs) fighting over money is something I prefer not to do.” And I hate her already.

@status_elitegaming9523 5 месяцев назад

Bad misconception of what child support is, is that one person pays more to support a kid just because they make more. The idea is it’s an equal 50% to each parent so if one parent can provide more for a child it will be cost offset for the time the child is with the other parent. Here it seems the time is fairly equal. Child support is not a supplemental for one parent not making an equal income. It is time, money, and care cost for the duration the child is with that parent. Very simple but sadly there are a lot of rules that can be twisted to cause one parent to endure that majority cost.

@rollinOnCode 5 месяцев назад

that is why it should be actually a separate trust account and totally itemized and scrutinized every month

@flaggov6949 5 месяцев назад

In my state, by law, child support is related to total family income. Both the amount of overnights and each parents income and expenses are used in the calculation. If parents share custody 50/50 but one parent makes more that parent will pay more. This helps equalize the child's standard of living and lessens the likelyhood that household income will factor into a child's preference for residing with one parent over the other.

@zacharyradford5552 5 месяцев назад

And the system don’t care because that’s the retirement fund.

@hughgraham6587 4 месяца назад

Child support should be fixed per state, then applied 50/50. Example, It should not be more than 400 per month with each parent paying 200. Fathers should get primary custody since research shows better outcomes for children in father only homes vs mother only homes. As for paternity fraud women should be jailed and the children sent to grandparents, other relatives or given up for adoption.

@lexis8122 4 месяца назад

In our state it’s to make both homes as equal as possible. So if a mom has supported a dad through medical school and been there for him, if they divorce and he has all this money and a nice house and the mom is barely making ends meet.. the kids goes from one extreme to the next and it should be a balanced home life for the kids at both homes…

@33mdan 5 месяцев назад

His expenses are none of her business.

@irishwv3 5 месяцев назад

Actually, that’s not true when you are in a child support case, your expenses are the forefront of the case

@trekgirl65 5 месяцев назад

It is when it comes to Child Support.

@33mdan 5 месяцев назад

@irishwv3 I'm sure it's different in every state and I'm not a lawyer but looking at how child support is calculated, it's income and percentages, not personal expenses. If the guy in this case is paying the court ordered support, he doesn't have to itemize and justify his spending just like the woman didn't have to itemize and explain what the child support given was spent on. This is a money grab. He doesn't have to pay rent or a mortgage so she wants him to pay more. He isn't making any more money. If his daughter has extra expenses, he should step up as the dad but the mom doesn't have a claim on money he didn't have to spend.

@Mewse1203 5 месяцев назад

"He doesnt pay for anything for extra curricular activities. I mean they haven't started yet and he didn buy shoes and a leotard, but other than that, he doesn't do anything." She can't even keep her story straight in the same dang sentence

@freakklomp 5 месяцев назад

"i dont do anything for myself really" she says while having her hair freshly done, designer clothes on, nails done, the make-up aint no dollar store cheap stuff either, food stamps. the money for the clothes, hair, nails, make-up could be used for your kid. as another commenter pointed out (i'm sorry i cant find your comment anymore) She said she was up for a manager position, but had to decline it due to the hours and then a minute later said in order to get that management position you have to be available 24 hours a day. so shes saying she doenst want to get the manager position because she has to work more. the inheritance is not something for her to just dip in to when she feels like it. it shouldnt even been brought up to begin with.

@Ginge1164 5 месяцев назад

It's convenient how this child is just starting these extra curriculum activities. Just in time for court. If you lived together, you would discuss what is affordable when it comes to your child's extra curriculum. Why do women always sign their kids up for classes without asking if the Father can afford to pay. And this "i don't want to argue about money" and then "Whatever happens, we'll make it work" Is terrible acting

@sashamulligan2993 5 месяцев назад

I so agree. My husband paid a large weekly amount and then the ex would nickel and dime him for every extracurricular activity the kids were involved in without asking first. She definitely thought he was there to be at her beck-and-call.

@johnescobar7711 5 месяцев назад

My ex tried doing that to me. Luckily, I was able to articulate that I can't afford to pay for it and that if she had discussed it with me prior, that would've let her know that I disagreed

@Gloomfall 5 месяцев назад

You still have to pay for your house, even after it's paid off... Taxes and Insurance make up the majority of most mortgage payments. In a lot of places you'll still be paying well over $1,400/month for a $300,000 house even when you own it outright. Government just has to get their money. Lol

@perryrush6563 5 месяцев назад

Agreed.

@t-dog8528 5 месяцев назад

So USA has mortgage tax? That's a huge double dip as it's post income tax unless you can salary sacrifice.

@cjburn2758 5 месяцев назад

@t-dog8528 no its a tax on the properties value that is monies used at the city, county, and state levels for roads, schools, that kind of stuff

@williamhouseholder1558 5 месяцев назад

@@t-dog8528 if you really think about it your tax 10 to 15 times on every dollar you make. You tax for making money, taxed to spend money, tax to own a house or car, taxed to invest and sell, and so many more. Your taxed for breathing basically. They talk about other countries having like 50% tax but if you break it down we in the us pay alot more. We have a crumbling infrastructure but we can give 120 billion to ukraine. We are basically a welfare country and thats why people like this feel so entitled to another persons money.

@nunyabizness6662 5 месяцев назад

Not sure where they live but insurance is optional if you don’t have a mortgage, and is usually cheap. I have a $650k house and pay $1,100. A year n insurance. Property taxes are another thing entirely and again based on the state can be really high.

@roxannelapierre919 2 месяца назад

Daddy came with receipts!

@ericnewman6523 5 месяцев назад

Glad to see that dad only has one less day of custody than mom has.. hopefully we start seeing more equity in regards to parenting time.

@srwater1 5 месяцев назад

That was my and my exs agreement and no child support.

@xXreddeb57Xx 5 месяцев назад

She IS NOT intitled to his inheritance. Even the government doesn't tax inheritances. It is NOT considered income either. So she is concerned about money. His money.

@KatrinaRoseT 5 месяцев назад

Six states collect taxes on inheritance. It is sometimes called an Estate Tax. It is applied to assets such as a home or money inherited and vary as to the size of inheritance and relationship to the deceased. (Not sure why that matters) Usually due within a few months after receiving inheritance.

@Flat_Stanley 5 месяцев назад

Mom: “I did not go to him(dad)”…very next words “I asked him to help”.

@salaciousBastard 5 месяцев назад

Always some woman remarking on some man's lack of motivation, yet so often her whole motivation is *rooted* in squeezing as much money as possible out of that man. It's just a game. It's absolutely disgusting.

@101szniper 4 месяца назад

I lost it when she said dropping of the kids at his house would be a 2 hour commute because he lives 20 minutes away and work is 40 minutes.

@vincentb2175 20 дней назад

Girl math

@MDAdams72668 5 дней назад

@@vincentb2175 The math actually makes sense If she drives 20 minutes south (to drop off child) and then goes back north 40 minutes(to work) 2 hrs/day Granted only 1 hr 20 minutes are "extra"

@johnstachon9262 5 месяцев назад

Once again another women looking for the ex to take care of her after she left him. Can't believe judges let women get away with this shit. Laws need to change.

@catherinewilson9894 5 месяцев назад

Don’t worry, there are plenty of men who collect child support and/or alimony from women. It’s not uncommon at all. For every one of these men being forced to pay more support than they believe is fair, there are 3 more that will never pay a dime for their children.

@GetCraftyLemons 5 месяцев назад

@@catherinewilson9894Not all men get child support. My son hasn't for almost 12 years! Even if ordered, she doesn't work much so couldn't pay & was too busy taking drugs.

@jeromegarner7196 5 месяцев назад

@@catherinewilson9894can this be proven or is it only your conjecture?

@breedlofam 5 месяцев назад

@@catherinewilson9894 Men pay a medium of $3,600 annually to support their children, while women pay a medium of $2,400 each year and 80% of child support payers are men. Of the approx 400,000 people in the United States receiving post-divorce spousal maintenance (alimony), approx 3 percent are men and men average 50% less received. . Fathers are awarded custody less than 19% of the time that they fight for it. In many cases they are the more emotionally and financially secure parent, yet women are awarded custody in 80+%. Nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women. There's no equality in this. Once, just once it would be awesome to see feminist actually walk the walk when it comes to equality. Women like you are quick to throw in the "but men" yet never actually want equality. This isn't equality and you know it.

@nhitc6832 5 месяцев назад

@@catherinewilson9894 false! 90% of all alimony is paid by men to women. So, it's RARE that men get alimony.

@Metonymy1979 5 месяцев назад

So she wants him to do better because she's doing better but not good enough. She's also jealous that he doesn't have to pay for rent/mortgage or car bills so she wants him to pay more in child support? If she changes things outside of the order then she needs to change the order. The end. She can't complain about things she's use to. Everyone needs to take responsibility for actions and not the actions of others.

@VictheChick 5 месяцев назад

Why assume bad faith, unless you're transferring some personal greivance to their situation? A lot of these types of calculations _are_ based upon hypothetical earnings and whatnot; without a Family Law atty to work it out, you get what you get with the courts unfortunately.

@Metonymy1979 5 месяцев назад

@@VictheChick That is literally not how it works in court. Both parents submit their taxes and other financials to the court. There is no voodoo as to who makes what magic. After the judge decides what percentage each parent has with the child, who is main parent and what their financials are; the judge then renders a percentage as to what the secondary parent can afford in childcare. If there is any deviation that needs to happen, it has to go through the court so that it is properly followed. Also, if parents have a change income, they go back to court to change the childcare payments. Also, I didn't assume bad faith. I listened to her and she said because he doesn't pay for rent or car and she does, he should pay more

@VictheChick 5 месяцев назад

@@Metonymy1979 Maybe in your state? Google "Child Support Calculator" if you're curious to learn more.

@VictheChick 5 месяцев назад

And no, I'm not suggesting some sort of child support voodoo exists. (Lol, I like that phrase though!) Just that complications can arise when calculating this stuff, when adding in certain hypotheticals or inheritances, pensions, etc. -- and some states are more straightforward than others. But either way, both parents seem reasonable enough here, so why villify anyone?

@GetCraftyLemons 5 месяцев назад

@@VictheChickJoAnn likes her benefits of housing, medical & food stamps, but downing him for not working more & getting inheritance. She could work more too, even if another job. It needs to be fair. She can't have her cake & eat it too.

@haygood9 20 дней назад

Dad is on point, she wants more $$$ cuz she thinks he’s living rent free. GREEDY!!!

@domk2993 Месяц назад

This judge was definitely on the dads side😂😂😂😂 💯

@Flat_Stanley 5 месяцев назад

I love that mom said” the money is not just sitting in an account”, and in the list of things she says he is doing was buying things for his child! dad like a real monster😂

@adambaumeister2376 5 месяцев назад

Here’s an idea if you really cared about your kid you would have more than one job if you’re not even working full time. Extremely lazy and a drain on the system and she also says she’s working towards a management position then says she’s unable to take management positions when offered those thing’s directly contradict each other

@TedNahas 5 месяцев назад

I agree the mother should definitely get another job instead of trying to squeeze money out of the dad she doesn’t deserve. I’m 100% with you on this. Get a job lazy mothers!

@markc13579 5 месяцев назад

Bingo 💯

@kaelyngrey4584 3 месяца назад

Does she want the house too? I am am single mom with a non-paying other parent but her behavior is disgusting.

@thomasfox0629 Месяц назад

SHE DOESNT GET ACCESS TO ANYTHING HE HAS AFTER THERE SEPERATED.SHE DIDNT PUT IN ON IT

@californiadreamer2580 5 месяцев назад

Sounds like Dad got a $300,000. headache as his inheritance. Mom makes no mention of Dad now having to pay property taxes and fees , insurance on the house, or maintenance and repair costs on said house. Also, I'm sure someone could get daughter to Dad's place easily for care.

@Starnote16 5 месяцев назад

For sure. Just because it’s paid off doesn’t mean you don’t have expenses. Depending the state property tax can be outrageous.

@californiadreamer2580 5 месяцев назад

@@Starnote16 Yes, especially in California, who adds all sorts of "fees" for fire protection, college bonds, pest abatement ( mosquito, etc) on top of the actual taxes.

@Starnote16 5 месяцев назад

@@californiadreamer2580I seriously I can’t imagine. I live in Texas and complain about property tax. We don’t have income tax and I heard it is pretty high in California. I think if our house was paid off we would be paying about 900 a month in tax and insurance. So def not a “free” place. Luckily it won’t be paid off for another 25 years. 😂 really looking forward to that.

@californiadreamer2580 5 месяцев назад

@@Starnote16 to add insult to injury due to the various disasters (most of which could have been prevented with proper oversight by the people already paid by taxpayers to do it) here in California, insurance companies are cancelling/ non- renewing homeowner policies up and down the state, and have been for over a year now. Guessing you can imagine what that means.

@poodlegirl55 5 месяцев назад

It also said he has been paying on the house for 12 years so he did nit exactly have it given to him for free.

@Jesse-qo9oj 5 месяцев назад

Man, he really came prepared and was very professional/direct. I'm impressed!

@Im4GOD100 5 месяцев назад

A friend of mine is a doctor who worked insane hours in a trauma center. He also had a private practice. He made the decision to back way down on his career because he wanted less stress. He was capable of more than doubling his income, but he chose to make less so he could enjoy his life. I know of no law that dictates the type of job or minimum income you must earn.

@williamallen7836 5 месяцев назад

If you have a child to care for, then you have a responsibility to go out earn as much as you can to care for that child. Choosing to reduce your hours to reduce stress at the cost of your ability to feed & cloth your child, is the fault of the parent that choose to reduce their work hours or pay.

@aarone.5179 5 месяцев назад

@@williamallen7836the man is a doctor. I highly doubt the kids are missing meals have holes in the soles of their shoes and a threadbare potato sack as a winter coat. if you have a child your responsibility is to adequately feed and clothe your child. and to actually be present in their life to provide oversight and guidance as they grow. Working so many hours that home is basically a crashpad and subjecting oneself to high perpetual stress (which tends to follow you home even after you clock out - in more ways than one) when your income is sufficient and you don't have to is an irresponsible parent.

@williamallen7836 5 месяцев назад

@@aarone.5179 Yes, but your comment is on video ware the mother has chosen to work fewer hours, and turned down promotions that came with pay raises. Even though the father offered free child care if she need to work more hours. Yet the mother is complaining she can't afford some of the basics to take care of her child. The only impediment to her being able to provide is her personal choice to not work full time on a regular basis, or accept the promotions & offer of free child care. Which means failing in the very first responsibility to provide for the child. Even if this means working more hours to do so. When you choose to have a child you willing take on such responsibility.

@letsdothis9063 Месяц назад

I worked insane hours and it almost killed me. Turns out that I had a heart defect. Now I can barely work. You definitely can't be there for your kids if you are dead. My uncle has been a doctor for 42 yrs and he works INSANE hours. Even when he jas time off, he gets called in all of the time. I don't see how he does it. At my last job, a 55 hr work week was a slow one, and I was on call 24 hrs two weeks out of the month. I still don't see how some of those doctors stay sane. My GP only works 1pm-5pm, 5 days a week. I could handle that. Lol

@Tana93557 5 месяцев назад

Mom didn’t want to say minimum wage /also didn’t want to say food stamps. She said i get help with food.

@HollyOllyOxenfree- 5 месяцев назад

"....He's using it to take care of his daughter...." Ok, then why are you privy to it? If the inherent is using the inheritance to care for the child,isn't that the goal here? Nope..she's exposed herself..it's greed. Greed is always at the root of it. Bc why didn't she make better life choices and not be in a position to be homeless with a child,should something happen. SHE should be able to make 50k a year... Omg..this one ...🤬

@vincentb2175 20 дней назад

Yeah that statement really shows her intent. She wants his daddy’s money to supplement her quality of life.

@HollyOllyOxenfree- 20 дней назад

@@vincentb2175 exactly! What a crock! The entitlement is STROOOONG with this One.

@PatandDoopypoopy 5 месяцев назад

If mom was given hours reduced benefit, dad should of been given equal consideration. Seems the prior orders were not equal and fare.

@lostineggsaisle 5 месяцев назад

There is no way that she is staying at a job for more than 4 years or she only earned $1,700 a month. Also, she is saying she can't get into management because she has to be available from 11:00 to 7:00 and she doesn't want to do that to her daughter, but she's staying there for future management positions? She says she works at a resort so I'm assuming she makes tips of some sort which would greatly supplement her income without her having to claim them as income if they are mostly cash. That means that she probably makes a decent living, is trying to get more child support from Dad, and is receiving Medicaid, food stamps, and possibly rental assistance from the government. Mom's story just doesn't add upright.

@simmoneclark4363 5 месяцев назад

And the dad has said he will take the kid at any time to care for her if needed, so mum could be available for overnight shifts if they were to happen.